You know the saying, when emotion is high, intelligence is low. If you've ever regretted saying something but you just hoped it would blow over. Here's a new way to communicate that works better than saying sorry. Today I will teach you one of my favorite conscious communication techniques. This will help you co-create a Sexual Soulmate relationship with your partner (or future partner.) You can also use this technique at work, with friends and family. It's called the "Do-Over" Communication technique. For context, a Do-Over is when you "rewind" the hands of time to reset a moment that may lead to tension with someone. It's easy to explain on the fly, but it works best when it's a skill you and your partner or friend both know about in advance. So when one of you requests a Do-Over, both will participate. For example: If your partner triggers you for whatever reason, just request a do-over. AVON: Where are the light bulbs? BRETT: The same place they were when you asked me yesterday. AVON: Ouch! Can I have a do-over? BRETT: Sure. They are in the hall closet. And by the way, you asked me that same question yesterday. AVON: Thank you. For best results, both of you should understand that it's not about covering up something they said when one requests a do-over. But it means they were aware they said (or did) something that may cause tension and are conscious enough to admit it, take ownership, and politely request a safe Do-Over to set things straight again. Here I am on the Sonoran Living Show explaining The Do-Over technique to Susan Casper and Terri Odette: Click Here To Watch The Video ⇐ The Do-Over Technique This skill will work if both are willing to observe the Do-Over rules. Talk about this with your partner tonight, and plan on using the Do-Over technique the next time one of you says (or does) something you regret. It will do wonders for your relationship. Trust me. Before you enjoy the rest of your Sunday, I'd love for you to check out the articles I sent over the weekend. Each is specifically written to help you achieve the most fulfilling and intimate relationships and sensual life you could want. To Conscious Soulmate Intimacy, Suz Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions", is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She's created hundreds of techniques that transform having sex into making love and is the world's most well-respected sexual biohacker. Susan is a best-selling author and publisher of 44 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Ravish Him, Dirty Talk, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. Susan is co-founder and CEO of two companies: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills and sexual regenerative therapies and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of DESIRE libido botanical multivitamin/mineral complex and blood FLOW Nitric Oxide Booster™️ supplements and her new DESIRE sexual energy bars. You can follow her personal shares @SusanBratton on Instagram and her VIP Perks on OnlyFans @SteamySexEducation. Susan frequently appears on ABC, CBS, The CW, and NBC as well as being the #1 downloaded sexpert on hundreds of podcasts and summits. |
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