The simple tool I'm talking about is "Feedback." Many couples don't know how to give (and receive) feedback in a constructive loverspace. (Loverspace is what I call a special place where you are intimate.) Now, ask yourself… How much fun, intimacy, and passion would you and your lover have if you regularly received feedback and welcomed it? You would be amazed if you thought about it. FEEDBACK IS A WONDERFUL GIFT It can be positive or negative. It can be about your relationship, intimacy, finances, communication… anything. The content of the feedback itself isn't as important as it is honest, open, vulnerable, and received positively. Think about it. We can't develop lover skills without practice. And we don't get practice because we don't know how to give each other feedback. We don't know if we're doing the right things… or NOT doing anything right at all. Is your communication good? Is intimacy exquisite? Is the passion still as fiery as before? Are your thoughts, opinions, and requests heard? Is your input respected? YOUR FEEDBACK LOOP Here's an easy way to practice giving and receiving feedback. Have fun giving each other massages and making requests during the massage. Tell your partner how to do it just how you want it. Then have them do you, and give them feedback this time around. And in the future, you can move on to things like how your partner looks, eats, sleeps, listens to you, and shows you how much they love you. The more open and welcoming your feedback loop is, the better your relationship will be. These are just a few simple ways to incorporate healthy feedback into your relationship. Another way is to receive advice and feedback from other people. People like older, more experienced couples. Close friends who you can trust. Even experts like Dr. Patti, Tallulah Sulis, Sloane Fox, and myself… You can email us anytime, and we'll help you as much as possible with our experience, expertise, and advice. Our articles are also a way of giving you feedback. That's why it would mean so much to me if you could read the ones you like again. | The Weight Loss Superfood Behind Amy's 46 Lbs Of Weight Loss Thankfully, Harvard recently discovered how you could "reprogram" this superfood to do what it's supposed to: help you enjoy the slender body of your youth again. | | | Easy Anti-Aging, Heart Health, Detox, Weight Loss, And More Sunlighten gives you the chance to get healthy exposure to all three with its range of infrared products. | | | "How poisonous are grocery store toothpaste brands?" You see, common mouthwash brands indiscriminately destroy the bacteria in your mouth — both good and bad. | | | Talkin' Sex Live Podcast With Chet and Diane Susan discusses penial and vaginal rejuvenation, multiple orgasms, increasing blood flow to genitals for better arousal, supplements, and love-making techniques to name a few! | | | TalkToMeGuy Podcast With Richard Susan's straight-talking, the fearless approach is rooted in her personal experience of watching her sex life wither while she and her husband pursued dynamic careers. When their relationship hit a crisis point, the couple made a fierce commitment to do whatever it took to keep their family together and revive the passion in their marriage. | | | 21st Century Natural Herpes Management We're going to talk about the truths and myths about the herpes virus, what it's like, and how people SHOULD be educated about how to treat it. | | | SAFE Contraceptives (NEW!) If you want to get off the pill but don't know other effective birth control options watch this video. We talk about many other non-hormonal birth control options for women in this video, as well as many other topics that involve your body and hormone health. | To Your Heart Connection, Susan Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions", is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She is the best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. You can find The Susan Bratton Show™ at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements DESIRE with Tribulus, Tongkat Ali and Fenugreek and her wildly successful blood flow booster, FLOW at The20store.com. |
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