"Being deliberate about improving our relationships can help most of us, especially because left to our own devices, most relationships become less fulfilling over time." — Eli J. Finkel, author of "The All-or-Nothing Marriage." Are you present with your partner? Or are you just "kinda" together? Every Sunday, my friends Mike and Rose get together for their "Lover's Summit." This is their second marriage. They have blended families with teenage kids, busy careers, dogs, cats, a mortgage… They are engaged and determined to do a great job parenting and being lovers of each other. Each week they sit down and go through their checklist: * They check in with each other on their coming week's schedule. * They discuss where they want to take their next trip. * They plan their weekly date night and lunch together. * They check in on their finances. * They resolve issues they were too busy to discuss during the hectic week. * And they get feedback on the one thing they are working to improve in their relationship from each other. Mike is working on not looking at his phone while he's with Rose. She wants more of his presence and attention. Rose is working on improving their relationship by giving Mike more physical affection. It's funny that giving her more attention and affection are priorities in their relationship. My advice to women is to shower affection as much as possible when recognizing their partner for doing something good. And my recommendation for men is to encourage their women to accomplish something she's focused on as necessary (a signal of attention). Affection for men and attention for women are pretty core desires, so much so that Rose and Mike naturally found that this was where they needed to put their effort to increase their marital happiness over time. That's why Presence is such an essential factor for the success of your relationship. It is one of the core principles of what I teach to singles and couples. No technique or skill in the world is as vital to strengthening, prolonging, nourishing, and even reviving relationships as presence. Click Here To Create A Magical Relationship ⇐ Start Your Journey Of Relationship "Presence" Here Check out this week's articles I sent over. Each of them is equally written to help you build a better, more wonderful relationship. | Learn About The Mighty Voltamin! (FUNNY PIC) You know a daily vitamin is the MOST important thing you can do to boost immunity. | | | DESIRE With Fenugreek for Blood Sugar Balance Fenugreek contains a specialized type of soluble fiber called galactomannan. It slows the absorption of glucose in the bloodstream. It's rich in steroid-like saponins that help bile flow and stabilize blood sugar levels | | | This Plant Improves Sex DESIRE is part of a 90-day libido vitamin trio that can be cycled each quarter for maximum health and intimate vitality. Made for mid-life couples to take together. | | | Supplements For Your Sex DRIVE DRIVE is the final trifecta of a 90-day libido vitamin trio that can be cycled each quarter for maximum health and intimate vitality. Made for mid-life couples to take together. | | | "My Wife Won't Get Pregnant" (Mailbag) Sex position for making babies? One of my readers who sent me an email a few weeks ago. Click here to read his email and my reply. | | | Super-Weirdly-Accurate-Yet-100 Percent-Fun Numerology Reading Crystal balls may be fiction, but there's a science behind the power of numbers. That's why so many people are wowed by the super-weirdly-accurate-yet-100%-fun numerology readings you can find here. | | | Hidden Info About Your License Plate Number Did you know your car's license plate, your date of birth, your street address, and even your phone number has a secret meaning for you? | | | Too Fat for Sex She was a confident, tough, gorgeous police woman until she gained "a little weight" and discovered she was on the verge of type 2 diabetes. That's when her self-esteem was crushed, and along with it their intimacy and sex life. | | | Expressing Feminine Power And Grace (Video) We also talk about how a Shakti Queen can ensure she's not draining her energy, warmth, and life force from giving out too much of her love to others. | Expand Your Relationship, Susan Bratton Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions", is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She is the best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. You can find The Susan Bratton Show™ at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements DESIRE with Tribulus, Tongkat Ali and Fenugreek and her wildly successful blood flow booster, FLOW at The20store.com. |
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