A few years ago, I met a woman at a CEO event who referred to herself numerous times in a way that made her seem young, like a little girl. I looked at her and thought, you don't look young to me! Her self-image was "young." She talked about "someday" and "the future." She was 37 years old! When you're pushing forty, your someday is NOW. When Tim and I did Tony Robbins' "Date With Destiny" personal growth workshop, I got paired for an exercise with a guy who had an epiphany that he'd always looked at his life from the perspective that someday he'd be old enough to be successful. He was also nearly forty. Another time, Tim and I had burgers at a bar, and a guy came up to say hello. He was curious about us. He described himself as "a backwater guy from Buffalo, New York," but he turned out to be a guy who worked for Steve Jobs of Apple Computer. In each case, the way these people thought about themselves was a coping mechanism for them to protect themselves from their failures. They were sabotaging themselves by playing small and safe and not getting out of their comfort zones. There are all kinds of ways we avoid failure. One woman wrote asking how to get her husband back. She loved him so much… It turns out he'd ABANDONED her and his children! My advice was to let him go and find a man who would be a good husband and stepfather. She kept saying, but I love him so much. How can you love someone who walked away from you and your family? What makes it so hard for people to let go of situations that aren't working for them? I'll tell you. Certainty. Better the devil you know than the devil you don't. The problem with believing that is it keeps you stuck. You have less of a life. Taking risks is what keeps you alive. Momentum is vitality. Where are you caught in habits that hold you from achieving what you truly want? Is it related to income? To love? To life experience? You rely on us to expand your sexual universe. So scroll down and see what calls to you today in these articles. I recommend each and every one of them. | How To Avoid Crashing Into A Sexless Marriage Is there a process to revive your lover's libido? Here is how to bring back her sexual passion like a phoenix risen from the ashes, burning and hot with fervor. | | | Honesty Is The Path To Perpetual Passion This is a poignant excerpt from my Revive Her Drive Mastery Interview with Taber Shadburne about Soulful Communication in which he talks about how honesty changed his life… starting with forgiving his parents and creating more intimacy. | | | How to Revive His Sex Drive Here are the reasons men state they stopped having sex and the number in parenthesis is why women think their partner stopped having sex with them. | | | FREE Numerology Reading For You Would all the craziness be over? Would it get worse? Will we just mellow in the middle of it all and find our balance? . | | | NEW! 2022 Numerical Vibration Predictions My friends at Numerologist.com have created this Video Numerology Report based on nothing more than your name and date of birth.You will be speechless when you watch it. It's shockingly accurate and incisive. | | | Fast Without The Hunger Stem cell-based rejuvenation is only ONE of the reasons many people have adapted to doing a multi-day fast every once in a while. | | | All-Natural Aphrodisiac You rediscover your sexuality. Restore intense (and hot) intimacy between you and your partner. Save your marriage. | You Have One Life To Live, Susan Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions", is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She is the best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. You can find The Susan Bratton Show™ at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements DESIRE with Tribulus, Tongkat Ali and Fenugreek and her wildly successful blood flow booster, FLOW at The20store.com. |
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