You know the saying, when emotion is high, intelligence is low.
If you've ever regretted saying something, but you just hoped it would blow over. Here's a new way to communicate that works better than saying sorry.
Today I'm going to teach you one of my favorite conscious communication techniques.
This will help you co-create a Sexual Soulmate relationship with your partner (or future partner.) You can also use this technique at work, with friends and family.
It's called the "Do-Over" Communication technique.
For a bit of context, a Do-Over is when you "rewind" the hands of time itself to reset a moment that you feel may lead to some tension with someone.
It's easy to explain on the fly, but it works best when it's a skill you and your partner or friend both know about in advance.
So when one of you requests a Do-Over, both will participate.
For example:
If your partner triggers you, for whatever reason, just request a do-over.
AVON: Where are the light bulbs?
BRETT: The same place they were when you asked me yesterday.
AVON: Ouch! May I have a do-over, please?
BRETT: Sure. They are in the hall closet. And by the way, you asked me that same question yesterday.
AVON: Thank you.
For best results, both of you should understand that it's not about covering up something they said when one requests a do-over.
But it means they were aware they said (or did) something that may cause tension, and are conscious enough to admit it, take ownership, and politely request a safe Do-Over to set things straight again.
Here I am on the Sonoran Living Show explaining The Do-Over technique to Susan Casper and Terri Odette:
Click Here To Watch The Video ⇐ The Do-Over Technique
This skill will work in any situation, as long as both are willing to observe the Do-Over rules.
Talk about this with your partner tonight, and plan on using the Do-Over technique the next time one of you says (or does) something you regret.
It will do wonders for your relationship. Trust me.
Now, before you enjoy the rest of your Sunday, I'd love for you to check out the articles I sent over the weekend. Each one is specifically written to help you achieve the most fulfilling and intimate relationships and sensual life you could want.
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