This email is for married people only. If you're single, please click here so we won't send you email for married people. ⇐ Single People Click Here Where is that spouse who used to love you and want you like crazy? Is she a workaholic? Is he holed up in his man cave? Are you experiencing "attention-deficit marriage?" We're so much more busy today than ever that we come home tired and stressed and forget to put attention on our partner in the way they want it most from us. Many partners, unable to deal with their frustrations at work or home, retreat from their relationship. If you've been feeling ignored, lonely, neglected, or unappreciated, I have a solution that will work wonders for your relationship. I call it the "The LUV Formula." L. U. V. Today I'll show you three steps to get your partner's affection back. But first, you might want to know why you may be going through these relationship ordeals. According to research by Arizona State University, the longer you're married, the more chance you have of becoming dissatisfied. Their study involved "subjective well-being" – meaning how positive the spouse felt – and found a correlation between marriage and well-being. However, that feeling was more potent in younger married folks than older and more robust in earlier studies than more recent ones. THE LUV FORMULA Step #1: Layout A Plan To Re-Engage Explicitly commit to re-engagement. Break the cycle of emotional disconnection. Intentionally focus on each other. Schedule time to connect both physically and passionately with each other. Set dates on your calendar… Reminder alerts on your phone for check-ins during the day… Plan a romantic vacation… And when you're together, focus on listening and staying present. And when your attention wanders, bring yourself back and be willing to ask your partner to repeat what you missed. Attention is a muscle that takes practice and awareness. Step #2: Use Physical Touchpoints • Look each other in the eyes more often. • At a minimum, kiss hello, goodbye, good morning, good night. And when your partner arrives or departs, get up to greet them or hug them goodbye. • Take turns giving daily foot, neck, or face massages to each other. A great time to massage is in the evening if you're watching TV. • Cuddle each other to sleep. Hug when you arise. • Plan romantic outings that include moving your bodies together. A walk, a hike, a bike ride, dancing, yoga, a swim in the ocean. Moving your bodies together moves your emotions, which keeps you more connected. • Breathing deeply together lowers your stress and deepens your connection. • Hold hands whenever possible. If you're driving the car, put a hand on your partner's knee. A great way to incorporate heart-connected physical contact is something I call the Soulmate Embrace. I talk about the massive benefits and how to do it properly in my NEW book. Click Here To Download The Soulmate Embrace For FREE ⇐ Heart-Connected Embrace That Spark Intimacy And Closeness Step #3: Verbally Give Attention Put emotional focus into your relationship. There are five types of verbal attention that partners appreciate most: 1. Reassurance 2. Respect 3. Gratitude 4. Appreciation 5. Encouragement People love to be acknowledged for their contributions and efforts. When your partner does something good, make a fuss over them. Look for opportunities to make your partner feel like a winner. Just by looking for ways to appreciate your partner, you'll feel more satisfied and happy in your marriage. Relationships require work for them to bloom. However, it doesn't have to be confusing if you know what to do. That's why I created the Revive Her Drive program to make it much more manageable. No more confusion. Couples no longer have to do it in the dark or on their own. This advanced stuff has saved my fans' and followers' relationships in the 15 years I've been talking about this. When you're ready to level up your relationship intimacy, check out Revive Her Drive. The techniques are for guys to fix their relationships with their partners. However, the fundamentals work for all genders and identities across the spectrum. Click Here To Discover How To Revive Her Drive ⇐ Bring Back Passion Into Your Relationship Click Here To Download The Soulmate Embrace For FREE ⇐ Heart-Connected Embrace That Spark Intimacy And Closeness Keep Love Blooming, Susan Bratton Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions", is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She is the best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. You can find The Susan Bratton Show™ at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements DESIRE with Tribulus, Tongkat Ali and Fenugreek and her wildly successful blood flow booster, FLOW at The20store.com. |