How To Not Be Seen As An Average Man

Hey Man, This week I want to talk about something painfully obvious... yet it's something that 99% of guys have no clue about. In fact, it took me a few years to really notice it myself. It's simply this: (Having trouble viewing this email? CLICK HERE) Women Are NOT Powerfully Attracted To Boring "Average" Guys In other words, women don't say, "Oh, he's a kind, honest, loyal guy from a good family and that really turns me on." What they DO say when they're feeling it for a man are things like: "He's hot," or, "There's chemistry between us," or, "I really feel something for him" when they're feeling it for a man. Your Personal "Fast Path" To Dating Success   There's no doubt about it: there are a lot of ways to meet and attract women -- but there's only ONE way that will work perfectly for *you*.   Thing is, it's up to you to find and learn that one way. That's why I've put together a killer set of learning tools designed to help you do it. Take a minute and look through them now right:       Even worse... if you are perceived as "average" early on, then a switch goes off in her mind, and the game is over before it's even begun. Harsh reality is, no amount of niceness (or gifts, favors, and fancy dinners) will make a woman feel attraction for you. At best, these things get you placed permanently in the "Friend Zone" where she'll tell you all about how hot she is for some other guy. The flip side is... if a woman DOES feel a strong attraction for you, then the rest of the equation isn't as important. She'll go out of her way to find good reasons to be with you... even if you're not her physical type. So then, if you see yourself as an average guy... but you realize that women don't like average guys... How Can *YOU* Make A Woman Feel INSTANT ATTRACTION? Thought you'd never ask. First, let's talk about the word "average" and what it really means. As far as women are concerned -- and especially the attractive ones -- men are everywhere. I mean, they're like cars or something... every once in awhile one stands out and makes you say, Oh, that one is nice. Now, a lot of guys take this concept too far and say, "Well, I'm not rich, and I'm not famous... so, no really hot woman is going to find me attractive." Well here's today's newsflash for you: You are wrong. Dead wrong. My experience and research has shown that women are FAR more attracted to things like attitude, confidence, body language, humor, etc. than looks or money. Sure... looks and money might initially get a woman's attention (and there are women that will only settle for a rich or unusually handsome guy) but this is the extreme minority. It's Easy To Stand Out... Once You Know What Women REALLY Want THE FACT IS THIS: It's incredibly easy to be seen as above average if you know what women are looking for... and you know how to deliver it. That in mind, let's do a little exercise to figure out a couple things: 1) What most guys do that make women perceive them as fatally average. And: 2) What you can do to instantly be seen as above average and - most importantly - attractive. First, let's talk about what most guys do wrong. Here's what I've seen... If the setting is a bar or a club, most guys will either say, "Can I buy you a drink?," "Wanna dance?", or "Hey baby, how you doin'?"..." or they do crass things like stare at women with wanting eyes or grab them as they walk by. If the setting is a public place, like maybe a woman working at a clothing store, a waitress, or some other similar high-traffic situation, most guys will ask a lame question like, "Do you have a boyfriend?" or, "Can I take you out sometime?" Somebody shoot me. These kinds of approaches can only result in you being seen as another lame, average guy. 2 Easy Ways To Instantly Stand Out From The "Average" Crowd EASY WAY #1: If you're in a bar or club setting, try asking a woman or a group of women their opinion on something. I personally like this one: "Hey, my friends and I were talking and we need a female perspective... What do you ladies think about this new trend of women being proud of paying their own way and buying their own things?" Women will usually enthusiastically join into a conversation like this one. It starts off by talking about women taking care of themselves in a positive light, which sets the stage for not having to pay for a lot of things right up front! *** A QUICK NOTE: Any conversation topic can be turned into flirting and there is a very special ART to this. If you want to learn how to really become a master of taking any conversation topic and turning it into attraction, then you really need to go and read this right now. EASY WAY #2: If you're out in a public place where a woman is working or some other high- traffic place, say, "Hey, are you single?" I love this question. It's such a shocker, and it says all the right things. Most guys say, "Do you have a boyfriend?" But "Are you single?" is much more forward, and most women have to do a double take to think for a moment. If she pauses, I say, "I'll take that as a YES...", which is pretty funny and usually gets a laugh. In either of these cases, you already know that I'm not a fan of standing around and trying to keep a conversation going for any longer than you have to - so it's now time to get the digits and get out. After two or three minutes of small talk and general conversation, just go into the 3-MINUTE PHONE NUMBER close from my eBook. Say, "It was nice talking to you, I'm going to get back to my friends... (or shopping, or whatever)" and as you turn away, turn back and say "Do you have email...?" etc. These two scenarios are obviously very simple, and also very easy. I've had guys say to me, Well, there's nothing really that different about those approaches. But there IS. The most important difference is that you're doing something completely different than the other 47 guys who have approached her that day...and you also know exactly what to do and say as the conversation progresses.   Of course, here's the biggest way you can instantly separate yourself from the rest of the lame "average" crowd... Put The Power Of "Cocky & Funny" To Work For You This unique approach has helped many of my thousands of readers to dramatically increase their success with women ... and to no longer be seen as lethally average by women. If you haven't learned how to use the almost magical formula of being Cocky & Funny then the best way to do it is to download yourself a copy of my online eBook and then watch my Cocky Comedy online training program. I'm talking ASAP, here. These two tools will dramatically increase your success with women and dating guaranteed. You can get my world-famous, success-proven online eBook here: And you can start watching my Cocky Comedy program instantly online, totally risk free, right here: Start using the stuff you learn in them tonight, and you'll never be seen as "average" by a woman again, I guarantee it. Until next time...      I'll talk to you again soon.      Your friend,               P.S. Do you find yourself trying all kinds of tricks and techniques with women, but none of them ever work? Even worse: are you too shy or nervous to try anything at all? If so... then I can promise you with 100% certainty that there's something MAJOR you're missing about what it REALLY takes to create attraction... and how to do it more quickly and easily than you ever dreamed possible. Find out what you're missing (and start CHANGING YOUR LIFE) right here     Double Your Dating LLC 3960 Howard Hughes Parkway Suite 500 Las Vegas, Nevada 89169 United States (800) 749-1325

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Intimacy Technique: "The Toggle"

20% increase in orgasmic pleasure.

Susan Bratton Dr. Patti Taylor Sloane Fox Tallulah Sulis

Hi Jmonty1945@gmail.com, I awoke this morning thinking about "The Toggles." Toggling back and forth is a key tenet of ever-increasing hot intimacy. Let me explain how this magic technique works to drive incredible arousal and turn-on. Switching between two poles with a rest in between is the best way to drive more pleasure overall. Here are examples of toggling: 1) Take a body into peak pleasure and give it a rest before you take it higher. Known in our parlance as Peaking and Intentional Downstrokes. 2) Give your partner equal verbal moments of adoration and then tell them how much you desire them physically and emotionally. 3) Catch and Release 4) Desire = Security + Novelty Toggling The Body We have a sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system. When we drive the sympathetic system too hard, we burn it out. Too much sensual stimulation makes us overly sensitive and we don't want more peak pleasure. Instead, techniques like what my mentor, Dr. Patti teaches leverage downstrokes (instead of constant upstrokes). This allows the body to stack more intense and longer moments of peak pleasure together, and ultimately to learn how to stay in the peak pleasure moment and stretch it out like time is pulled taffy. When you can ride pleasure waves higher, you begin to tickle the outer edges of human sensual potential. You can get the explainer here. When you can ride orgasmic waves higher, you begin to tickle the outer edges of human orgasmic potential. You can get an explainer ebook here on Orgasmic Peaking. PLEASURE PEAKING Adoration and Desire People feel most wanted when you appreciate the sweet things they do and tell them how sexy you find them. "I love how great your butt looks in those jeans." And then later, "your turkey meatloaf is one of my favorite things you cook." That's another form of toggling. This works as well when you're dating someone new as it does when you've been together for years. The most important thing is to remember to speak your gratitude. Catch and Release When your partner walks by, give them a quick hug or squeeze and let them go. Or walk up and kiss their cheek or lips, and then walk away. This leaves them wanting more. Toggles leave the body straining for more, which heightens desire and sensation. Desire = Security + Novelty If your intimate life is boring, chances are it's secure but there's no variety. If intimacy feels edgy, it's likely there is not enough time spent on feeling safe. Building desire takes bringing in fun new ideas to the platform of safety. Just trying this technique will be enough to improve your peak pleasure by 20% if not double how well you come. Now get on down there and see what other yummy tips we've cooked up for you. Peaking is part of a collection of books from my good friend and fellow intimacy expert, Dr. Patti. It's all about how lovers can escalate their intimate and sensual experiences. This is touted as one of the (if not THE) best kinds of peak pleasure a woman can experience. Click Here To Download The FREE Books ⇐ Step Into The World Of Expanded Orgasms Also, I'd love for you to check out the articles I sent over the week. Each one of them is written to help you peak your life, health, wellness, and intimacy.

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How To Approach A Woman Anywhere

This week I would like to turn the tables and try something a bit different... something that might help you think about things in a new way and hopefully stir you up enough to... (Having trouble viewing this email? CLICK HERE) Take Action NOW... And Start Changing Your Life Let's get started like this: I want you to think about the last time you saw a really attractive woman... one you wanted to go over and talk to her, but for whatever reason you just didn't do it. I'm talking about a really hot woman. Take your time if you need it. I'm not going anywhere   A Secret Way To Drive Women Crazy   Did you know there's something you can do while just kissing a woman that instantly tells her you'll be an expert in the bedroom?   And get this: From there, it's ridiculously simple to discover all of her pleasure buttons, and use that power to blow her mind in bed like no man ever has before.   Ready for the POWER you need to get all the women you want? Get it right here:        Good. Now, let me ask you a few questions:     Did you ever stop a day or two after one of these situations happened to think about where that particular woman might be, and what she might be doing? Did you ever stop to think about what the rest of her day was like after she walked by you? About the ten or twenty other men that saw her that day who didn't have the nerve to talk to her... and the two or three that DID talk to her with the the same-old "Wow, you're beautiful lines"? Did you ever consider that it might be useful to take a little time out and consider what it might be like to be an attractive woman walking through life having almost every man you see light up with that "Whoa..." look? Hmm, what do you think we might be able to figure out if we just took a few minutes to explore what that attractive woman's private life is like? Well, here are a few things that I've come up with: Most attractive women are bored out of their minds by men. One of the reasons is that guys have no idea what to do when they run into an attractive woman, so they do the same default things: give dumb looks and compliment her. As I've said many, many, many times: You can't bore a woman into feeling ATTRACTED to you. She's most likely got a boring life like everyone else, so you need to do something that none of the other 499 guys she's going to walk by this month did, or won't attract any special attention. If you start with the idea of NOT doing what other guys do, you will be waaaayyyy ahead of those 499 boring, predictable, "nice" loser guys she encounters. Wow, this is fun, isn't it? Bet you never thought you'd be thinking like a woman, did ya? Now let's get to it... The One Thing You MUST Do To Get A Woman's Attention As you may have already predicted, I have a few ideas on this (including the most important thing a man MUST do to get noticed by a great woman... ) but don't let that stop you from thinking about this on your own as often as you get a chance. To start with, try approaching a woman in an interesting way that makes her feel like you might actually be someone to provide her with a pinch of spice in her life. Start by getting rid of the, "Wow, you're a beautiful woman, and I'm just an average guy admiring you" vibe. That's not helping. Next, take a moment and think about how a guy that she would feel attracted to might act... then choose that style. My experience is that if you take an attitude of "I guess fate has good taste putting us in the same place, now let's see if you have a personality to match your looks" then stir in a generous portion of Cocky & Funny, you're likely to do well. Here's A Real-Life Example That I've Used Myself... You say... "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?" (leaning back and playing it cool, talking cool and slow). She says: "Sure." You pause for suspense and say, "Are you single?" (with a stone-cold straight face). She says, "Well, um..." to which you say, "I'll take that as a yes..." (while nodding with a sly smile) She'll laugh. So you say, ""Well, I just happen to know someone that I think might really like you... if you're more than just a pretty face, that is... He's funny, has great taste, and I think you'd like him... I'd love to sit down and get your life story, but I'm on my way somewhere... do you have email?" At this point, she'll almost ALWAYS say "Yes." So you say, "Great... (take out pen)... write it down for me, and I'll have, uh (clear throat) HIM send you an email." Then wish her a good day and get out of there. Let's Talk About Why This Works... First off, did I give her any compliments? Did I act like the other 499 guys? Did I instantly communicate that "I'm not worthy?" Definitely NOT. I said, "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?" in a very laid back, almost too relaxed and mysterious tone of voice, to which any woman will respond with a "yes." (NOTE: your body language is a very important component of this approach... if you'd like to learn how to use body language to create massive attraction, then you should go and check this out... it will really help.) Next, I did something kind of fun: I asked her directly if she was single. I really love this one. It's so fun. Most guys will say, "Uh, I'll bet you have a boyfriend, huh?" or "So, do you have a man?" or some other lame thing. The question, "Are you single?", takes women off guard. It's great. And then being assumptive in a cocky & funny way when she hesitated with an answer... works like magic! Next, I followed up with a cocky, funny, semi-confusing little bit about knowing someone that might find her interesting. Now, she might think that it's really me, but she won't know for sure until she gets the email. Then you might play with her a bit... "So, what did you think of my friend? I think he might like you..." etc. The point is: This Kind Of Stuff Doesn't Happen To A Woman Very Often I can pretty much guarantee it... This kind of fun approach will be a welcome breath of fresh air. The whole time she's trying to overcome her sheer awe that you didn't ask, "Don't I know you from somewhere?" Now, I want you to do something. Go back and READ IT AGAIN... very carefully. Imagine it happening exactly like it's written. Try to imagine it in a few different settings. Work on it until you can clearly see it happening in your mind's eye. (The reason I can see it clearly is because I've done it so many times in real life!) You Know How To Approach A Woman... So What's Next? I can remember when I first learned how to start approaching women... I thought that if I could just start conversations easily, the rest of it would be a snap. Well, after meeting a lot of women, but not getting so many dates... and having the few dates I did get not go anywhere... I realized that there was a lot more to it.   The REALITY is that *success* with women comes down to understanding female psychology, knowing the entire mating game front to back, and then knowing all the specific techniques and steps you need to take at each moment with a woman. And there's only one place in the world I know of where you can learn all of this information quickly, easily, and thoroughly... That one place is my Advanced Dating Techniques program. In this program, I'll take you all the way through the things you need to know to be successful with women... from theory to practice... from nuts to bolts... from meeting to dating to getting physical. And, if you haven't read my online eBook yet, then you really need to go and do that right now. You can download it and literally be reading it within a few minutes from right now. Download it here. You'll be glad you did.          I'll talk to you again soon.      Your friend,                 P.S. If you really want to get good at meeting women, then you should also take a few minutes and look at the other programs I've created to help you do just that. You can see them all right here.       Power Sexuality     Get the confidence to meet, date, & powerfully satisfy any woman: Act like an expert in the bedroom Impress her with your technique Eliminate all fear and self-consciousness         Body Language   Make women notice you, want you, & chase you without saying a word: Learn to read women's minds Create instant attraction on sight Succeed with women effortlessly     Double Your Dating LLC 3960 Howard Hughes Parkway Suite 500 Las Vegas, Nevada 89169 United States (800) 749-1325

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