I'm writing a chapter for my urologist friend, Dr. Judson Brandeis' new book on Men's Health. He asked me to do the chapter on, "How To Have Great Sex." Judd and I are great friends, having done many GAINSWave men's treatment webinars together.
I thought a lot about what I'd tell men in a single chapter that might make a profound impact on their pleasure and connection. I boiled it down to six essentials.
This reminds me of my book, Sexual Soulmates: 6 Essentials for Connected Sex. If you want a copy of Sexual Soulmates, you can get it here in .pdf form for free. Or you can buy it on Amazon in softcover for $10. This is written for singles and couples of all gender orientations. You can have it as my gift for being a newsletter reader.
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So, men (women can learn a lot from this advice too).
As amazing lovers...
What are the six essentials that men often don't know - but need to know - to have the passionate intimacy they crave?
1. Understanding their own body's pleasure systems.
2. Understanding her body's pleasure systems.
3. Masculine sexual leadership.
4. Seduction skills.
5. How to turn a woman back on who's gone cold.
6. How to provide erotic adventure.
The first two essentials have a lot to do with anatomy and the body. The foundation skills for him are, knowing how to fully soak your partner in wonderful, intimate, heart-connected pleasure.
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Number three... Masculine leadership is about creating the masculine feminine polarity - the magnetism of attraction. There are very specific ways a man can lead a woman in the bedroom to open her to her pleasure. Understanding what she needs from him to blossom like a flower is essential knowledge of the masterful lover. Here is a good audio I did on how to create more polarity. And this free video delves deeply into masculine sexual leadership as well.
The fourth... "Sensual and Intimate communication" means moving your partner toward more pleasure. Women appreciate being led to pleasure and this is the way to initiate sex that thrills the ladies. In our program called, Seduction Trilogy. Dr. Patti created a 4-step system that creates more frequent lovemaking sessions. Written for men, women can use this exact same system to learn how to make small offers that get a reluctant partner to say YES more often. The Trilogy is a 3 ebook program that also includes audiobook versions seductively spoken by our dear Sloane Fox. The four keys to seduction work as a synergistic system to make any man an incredible lover.
Sometimes, even with the best intimate communication, a guy might have trouble getting his woman to want him for intimacy. Knowing seduction skills, having excellent stamina and knowing your way around your bodies isn't enough... There are those cases where the woman really just doesn't want to be physical anymore. For THAT, I recommend a man know the four elements of reviving her sex drive. For many reasons, it's easier for women to give up sex than it is for men. When this is the case, Revive Her Drive shows guys the path to turn their intimate life back on. It includes the four steps which are needed when the river of lust has run cold.
I've helped thousands of men restart a white-hot intimate life again... as long as it USED to be good. What I can't fix are those relationships where she's never liked physical intimacy. For that you need therapy. But if you used to be great together, I can show men what they don't understand about how women need things to want them for sex again. Hint: It often starts with the right kind of romance... the kind that she needs to feel desire for her man.
Romance is key to keeping your intimate life on what I like to call, The Upward Pleasure Spiral. This is where sex keeps getting better the longer you're together... instead of getting worse and swirling down the old toilet like a lot of sex lives do. Romance is fun. And sometimes guys, to achieve their goal of intercourse, get so focused on the destination that they forget the journey is half the fun.
Which leads me to the sixth essential, Erotic Adventures!
EROTIC ADVENTURES
Women want to be transported to a place of fun and pleasure. Scheduling playdates is the cure for the monotony of monogamy. And it makes new girlfriends fight to keep him in their lives.
To recap, here are the six essential areas you can expand upon to become an even better lover:
1. Your Body
2. Her Body
3. Leadership
4. Seduction
5. Reviving Her Drive
6. Erotic Adventure
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