8 Intimate Dating Ideas (*Shelter In Place)

Jmonty1945@gmail.com, come play with me. Here are some fun romantic games you and your partner can play while stuck indoors.

Susan Bratton Dr. Patti Taylor Sloane Fox Tallulah Sulis

"Dating In Captivity" Romantic Games Here are some games you can play with an intimate friend at home while we're SIP*. You can play these "sexy chat games" at home over video chat. These games are meant to be joyful and exciting. They support your mutual personal growth. If you're single, you can play all but the most sensual of these with a friend... (these games run over all the pylons in the friend zone). Did You Forget To Have Fun? My secret reason for creating this list of connected experiences was originally for singles to use on video chats. Because I've been encouraging all my single fans to get on eHarmony and Bumble and use their video chat feature. Practice at one or both of those dating websites while you're waiting for Facebook to launch their AI-driven dating recommendation engine to find you the best matches 35 years of Internet technology can get you. I realized whether you're looking for fun on a video chat for dating, or you're sheltering in place at your home with your partner... Everybody needs to play some sexy video games! My goodness it's been so stressful with this global pandemic. Now we know we're laying low as a species for a while... So instead of being perpetually freaked out, why not play sexy party games like it's 1999, not 2020! The Sexy Video Chat Games are listed below (you can also play them at home together in the same room), along with how to play them. I also show you how to set an exciting frame for a Sexy Video Chat Game date so you peak your participants' energy. Remember to scroll all the way to the bottom of this email to see all the titillating, tasty and terrific articles Sloane, Dr. Patti, Jim, Tallulah and I created for your pleasure. No Sexual Advice Please ⇐ Click here and you will only get Relationship Advice TURNS FRIENDS INTO LOVERS Here are the 8 Sexy Video Chat Games: 1. Top Ten Touch 2. King's/Queen's Choice 3. Mirror Movement Minute 4. Lion's Play 5. Animalistic Impersonation 6. Ecstatic Dance 7. Romantic Reveal 8. Circling I'll describe them here, but please don't miss below how to set up for these games so they are totally fun (and not awkward or weird). 1. Top Ten Touch In this game you agree to share back and forth with each other ten ways you enjoy being touched. Your friend will give you some ideas you never thought of for giving and receiving more pleasurable touch. It can be as simple as explaining how you love to get your face massaged. Show your partner how to do it. Movement is the idea behind this game. Describe a way you like to be touched by demonstrating it to your partner yourself. Imagine you're playing charades. Get your body involved in the explanations. 2. Mirror Movement Minute Set a timer on your phone for 1 minute. One person follows the other person's movements by mirroring exactly what they do as closely as possible. Discover which person prefers leading or following. Adjust to make your personal experience as fun as possible. Laugh as much as you can. Be lighthearted and playful. Play over again as many times as you like. 3. Romantic Reveal Take your partner on a tour of the most romantic locations in your home. Explain what it is about this room, the location, the memories... that makes this the place you envision a romantic interlude. Switch. 4. Lion's Play In this game, you're going to pretend you are two lions on the Serengeti separated by a magic glass wall. The sun is warm. The plains are quiet except for some birds twittering in the tree under which you're reclining. It's a glorious and relaxing day and there's a really cute lion looking at you. You go up to the glass. You sniff. You bat one paw at the screen. You roar. You meow. You flick your tail seductively. Flirt with your lion or lioness. How can you show your lion(ess) that you'd like to roll around with them in play? This game can easily morph into: 5. Animalistic Impersonation Now that you've explored your feline side, what other animals do you admire for their ability to play and to feel good? A dolphin cavorting the waves? A snake awakening your kundalini energy? A coyote howling at the moon? Show off your best impersonation of animals showing the joy of being alive. 6. Ecstatic Dance Put on some freeform dance music that you like. Electronic Dance Music, EDM, is good for this game. Both of you dance to it by surrendering yourself to the music. Dance like nobody's there. Practice surrendering to your pleasure under the gaze of an intimate friend. Dance long enough that you start feeling comfortable and having fun. Remember to enjoy how good your body feels when dancing with other kind beings. 7. King's/Queen's Choice This is an advanced game best done after a few video chat dates or sexy date game nights at home. This game requires you to be vulnerable. Vulnerability lets you play outside your comfort zone. Vulnerability creates intimacy. Sharing how you actually feel or about something you really want is one way of achieving instant personal growth. In this game you take turns brainstorming ideas of things the two of you could do to have fun over video. If this is a date between lovers, or potential lovers, you are welcome to make this as sexy as you think the other person would like. Try and each come up with three, five or even ten ideas by going back and forth. Don't overthink it. Just get your head in the place of thinking about what you'd like to do with your King or Queen over a video that would excite, enthrall and energize you. Alternate between sharing something you'd really enjoy without any guilt or shame. You don't need to act on these ideas. These are just brainstorms. At the end you will each choose up to three things you heard your Queen or King say that sounded like fun to you. What most intrigued you from their list of ideas? Then they will tell you their favorite three ideas you thought up. You never have to act on any of them, or you can set up a date to do one next or a derivative of one of the seeds of an enticing play date that came out of this King's/Queen's Choice Game. 8. Circling Our final game is a technique used in personal growth groups in San Francisco. It's a technique called, "Circling." Invented by Guy Sengstock, Jerry Candelaria (RIP) and a band of merry group analysis aficionados. Basically you share your body sensations with your partner. After you go, they share the body sensations they were having as you spoke and what body sensations they feel at the moment. Here's an example: "Right now I'm feeling excited to video chat with you because I love every interaction we ever have. They are precious moments for me because I love your mind and body. My whole body is buzzing with the excitement I feel when I'm with you. I feel heady - my head is "floaty" and kind of dreamy. I find you dreamy. I have a little lump in my throat telling you this. It's still hard for me to give verbal compliments because of some past programming. My chest, right on my breastbone, feels flushed and warmer than normal. Overall my body is tired because I'm still getting over having coronavirus and being laid flat for so many weeks. There's a deep exhaustion at the base of all my other sensations. My jaw is a little tight... I'm not loosened up to talk yet. I haven't really been speaking much to anyone lately. I find it tiring. I've been more introverted lately. My breasts feel full. I want to take my top off for you on this call. You always say I have "legendary boobies." So I want you to get to see them. I have a sensation of heaviness, of weight in my breasts. They are longing to be picked up and admired. I'm noticing I'm sucking my stomach in right now. And I have butterflies in my Yoni. The feeling isn't lust. It's lightness." That's an example of how you might describe your sensations to your King. Your King might respond: "I immediately got a thrill hearing you say such nice things about me. I feel buzzy hanging on your every word. What you said was sexy and I started getting aroused listening to you. I find sensual talk very arousing. My chest expanded and I could feel my lungs taking deeper breaths to calm myself down a bit. When you talked about your breasts feeling heavy, my mouth watered." That's what Circling is. Expressions of vulnerability that you frame as physical sensations. Circling brings another dimension of connection so you can achieve a deeper intimate connection. As my friend Johnny T., with whom I consulted to brainstorm these Sexy Video Chat Games says, "Don't be afraid to drop into vulnerability or a feeling state." Johnny was the one who pointed out that the entire experience should have a beginning, middle and end. The set up is key to your pleasure. Foreplay • Start slow, create connection, create resonance. • Stay in your range, tease a little, flirt, get comfortable in the video format. Building to a peak • Listen to your body for clues. • Follow the sensation • Take a risk and be more vulnerable to increase sensation. • Speak your desire and tell your date something about him/her that turns you on. • Breathe and embrace silence/stillness when the energy gets high. • Let your date "see you" Backslope (Have the metaphorical cigarette, laugh) • Be soft, revel in the connection. • Exhale, show adoration. • Speak gratitude. • Bask in the afterglow of the Connection. • Say goodbye and set the intent for the next sexy date. The set up is key to the pleasure you get. You can check out his website here. How To Set Up For Sexy Video Chat Games Any good date has a peak moment. You want that in the middle of the date. There's a six-step order to follow to have the most fun: 1. Create Comfort 2. Check In With Each Other 3. Generate Connection Through Conversation 4. Share Vulnerabilities To Bring You Closer 5. Play A Game and Throw Yourself Fully Into It (Peak Moment) 6. End With Gratitude for Your Partner CREATING PEAK MOMENTS I'll get into more about these six steps in another article, if you let me know you want to hear more. Just reply to this email. I may not be able to answer every email, but I will read what you write to me. I also have another article coming up with specific topics you can use on a Sexy Video Chat Date. Johnny and I came up with at least twenty topics to discuss for a Sexy Video Chat Date. Set up a time with your partner to do one of the games above. Get on Bumble or eHarmony and start talking to people and setting up Meet and Greet Video Chat dates. You can't get to Sexy Video Chat Dates until you start doing some Meet and Greet Chat Dates. The way forward is to take the first step. Save this email. And now, scroll down and make sure you're not missing anything else really good. We send so much great stuff! Much Love To You Today, Susan

Susan Bratton, Intimacy Wellness Expert is a champion and advocate for all those who desire intimacy and passion their whole life long. Best-selling author and publisher of lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed®️ Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time as a small selection of her 34 books and program. You can find The Susan Bratton Show on YouTube at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements, Flow, Boost, Desire and Drive at The20.store.

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☶ Every Guy Is Waiting For This Text From A Woman

Jmonty1945@gmail.com, this is the kind of text he's waiting for you to send him right now. Hook his mind, his heart, and his devotion to you alone with simple texts.

Susan Bratton Dr. Patti Taylor Sloane Fox Tallulah Sulis This email is for women only. If you're a man, please click here so we won't send you email for women. ⇐ Men Click Here The text is called the "Attention" text. "Jam-packed with psychological "Attention Hooks" that guys can't resist. Draw him to you." Would you freak out if a young, "new intern" comes along and snatches your man's attention off you? Sarah sure did. The truth was, there was nothing going on between her boyfriend and his co-worker. But because she doubted him and made a big fuss about it, their relationship changed for the worse. Her boyfriend started pulling away. And he eventually broke up with her. Now, Sarah didn't give up. She remembered a weird, magical text message that her friend and dating expert Amy North shared with her. She sent her ex-boyfriend the weird, magical text... and BAM! Just like that... he's begging him to meet up ASAP. To get back together. And even ended up professing his undying love for her. Here's What She Texted Him (VIDEO) ⇐ How To Send Your Own Magical Text To Make Him Addicted To You Read About The Story Here ⇐ Magical Text Gets Him Obsessed With You GRAB HIS ATTENTION The text is called the "Attention" text. And the reason why it worked is because it is jam-packed with psychological "Attention Hooks" that dive deep into a man's mind and steals his attention and puts it all on you. When Sarah sent that text to her ex-boyfriend, it immediately reminded him of all the wonderful things about their relationship. Everything just kept rushing back to him like an emotional tidal wave. Overcome with warmth, devotion, and love... he just HAD to text Sarah and beg her to get back with him. That's what happens when you get a man's full and undivided attention. If you want to know more about how to send your own "Attention" text... Check Out This Video By Amy North ⇐ Create Text Chemistry Read About This Magical Text Here ⇐ Amy North's Weird But Effective "Attention" Text Spark Intense Text Chemistry, Tallulah Tallulah Sulis is the sexual woman's woman. She's helped ladies all over the globe experience the joy and ecstasy of G-Spot and female ejaculatory (squirting) orgasms. Have you had yours? As a certified somatic sexologist, counselor, sex educator and healer, her programs, Female Liquid Orgasm, Squirt Your Heart Out, and Keep Her Coming have set women's sex lives on the kind of fire they can douse themselves. ;) P.S. Ridiculously Stimulating Articles You Might Have Missed: How To Ask For What You Need In A Relationship Give this a try and make sure you don't miss the seven mistakes even smart people make to ruin their relationship. How To Bring His Passion Back To You Worried that being stuck together in quarantine will take a toll on your intimacy? Has it already? Here's how to enter into an "Evergreen Love Jungle." "What fruit makes my orgasms stronger?" (Mailbag) Tumescence usually refers to the normal engorgement with blood (vascular congestion) of the erectile tissues, marking sexual excitation, and possible readiness for sexual activity. Clitoral Erection And Anatomy (VIDEO) Dr. Charles Runels and I are back with a deep dive into the amazing anatomy of the female clitoris. We discuss clitoral erections, the clitoral structure, its parts and how they fit into your body. Sacred Container of Love Couples Exercise (VIDEO) I want to share with you two of my foundational books on creating the most amazing relationships you could ever want, Relationship Magic and Sexual Soulmates. Follow me on Twitter Like Me on Facebook Tallulah's Blog Personal Life Media, Inc. 35 Miller Ave., #153 Mill Valley, CA 94941 USA, (650) 948-0500 support@personallifemedia.com Note: We frequently partner with companies providing products and services featured in our emails in an affiliate relationship. We vet the products in advance to ensure they are trusted resources and recommend you do your own research before you purchase too. We welcome your feedback and recommendations. If you find something of value, let us know. If we recommend something that doesn't work for you, let us know why. We care! Help us send you more relevant content. Click below to update your Account: Married | Single | Male | Female Your EMAIL preference: Explicit | Non-Explicit Contact Us | Unsubscribe Copyright © 2020 - Personallifemedia.com

7 Powerful Ways to Increase Your Sexual Self-Confidence

Jmonty1945@gmail.com, you're in for a treat. Here are 7 sizzling sexual confidence boosters that work for both men and women in any relationship dynamic.

Susan Bratton Dr. Patti Taylor Sloane Fox Tallulah Sulis Isn't NOW a perfect time to learn a new sexual skill like having an Expanded Orgasm practice together? 3 Free Pleasure Reports ⇐ Expanded Orgasm Free Gift From Suz and Dr. Patti Over the years, I've been fortunate to have thousands of intimate conversations with men and women about their sex lives. Sometimes, we talk about wives and girlfriends, their behaviors and motivations. At other times, I offer education about sexual anatomy and specific techniques to increase a woman's desire. Sometimes the conversation centers on specific types of relationships: one-night stands, younger men dating "cougars," non-monogamous or "monogamish" relationships. I often talk to men who married their first and only love 50 years ago but haven't had sex in a decade. People consistently want to know everything about their genitalia as well as their partners. I feel blessed when people confide in me their most personal thoughts and feelings, their challenges and fears. Over the years, I've heard intimate stories from hundreds of men and women who poured their hearts out and asked me questions they were too embarrassed or ashamed to ask anyone else. It is satisfying beyond measure to feel their trust when they only know me through our online programs, articles, and videos. Again and again, I am touched by the intimate love a man feels for his woman - how deeply he wants to please her, how thrilled he is when his woman shares her body and surrenders to pleasure. SEXUAL JOY I am equally repeatedly saddened by men's lack of sexual confidence in their ability to satisfy their partners. For many men, fear and shame destroy their ability to connect deeply with their lover and reach the heights of passion they sense is possible. The causes of fear and shame are varied: poor modeling from parents, societal oppression, religious guilt, or outright inaccurate information about sex. I applaud authors and bloggers who have created an open dialog by sharing their experiences and getting real about human sexuality. For the most part, individuals who are truly curious and interested in receiving accurate information, who long for loving connection and erotic fulfillment, have quite a bit stacked against them. But those who are called to develop sexual intelligence, who cannot rest until they become skillful lovers, find their way to sex-positive teachers like me, and like Jim Benson, Jaiya Ma, Sheri Winston, and Emily Nagoski, all of whom are dedicated to guiding people to fully embrace and express their sexual power. If you are reading this article, you are among a small percentage of people who actively educate themselves in the interest of having a fulfilling sex life. I celebrate the eager learners who commit to a path of personal growth, especially the kind of growth that can only happen in the crucible of relationship. These are the relationships that bring out the best in you and transform you into the loving, heart-centered, compassionate person you were born to be. In addition to the intimate conversations I have with men, I read every new book on sex, keep up on the latest studies, conduct my own research, and interview a wide range of authors and sex educators. Their specialties range from female anatomy and arousal to passionate marriage and succulent sex craft. In so many conversations with both individuals and professionals, a common theme emerges for both men and women who struggle with unmet desire: not enough sexual self-confidence. In fact, I would go so far as to say that a lack of self-confidence is at the root of nearly every sexual issue. So how do you work through and resolve this problem? Here are the 7 most powerful ways I have found that increase your sexual self-confidence. 1. Awareness Become aware of insecure feelings, look for the underlying reason for your lack of confidence, and address your fears head-on. It is highly likely they stem from shame or a simple lack of knowledge. Then find a work-around or a way to remove your limiting beliefs by educating yourself. 2. Education It is easy to resolve a lack of knowledge by studying human sexuality. Learn how it works physically, emotionally and spiritually. Learn the ins and outs of sexual anatomy and technique. Learn communication skills that will allow you to connect with your lover. These will increase your confidence and lay a strong foundation for passion and rapture. 3. See a sex therapist or tantra teacher who can help you overcome shame For some people, shame is a powerful block that freezes their sexuality and makes it all but impossible to enjoy their erotic side. Although it is possible to work through shame with a loving partner, professional help can make partnering up less challenging. 4. Evoke your Masculinity or Femininity When you cultivate your masculine energy as a man or your feminine energy as a woman, you naturally feel more sensually connected to yourself and more appealing to others. Become the man who can protect and provide for your woman. Let go into your feminine nature and share your womanliness with your man. Polarity will feed on itself and naturally grow your confidence as a man or as a woman. 5. Practice Have more sex. Get experienced. If you're single, have SAFE sex, making sure you are completely upfront with each lover about your sexual history, your current, and recent partners. Get tested regularly and use the best practices for safe sex. If you're in a monogamous relationship, experiment with a variety of techniques and positions. Learn new activities with each other. For example, schedule Erotic Playdates together. There are 21 sexy ideas for Erotic Playdates in Expand Her Orgasm Tonight that teach you the fundamentals of orgasmic expansion and peaking, as well as touching for rapture. The foundations of sexual knowledge contained in this program will dramatically increase your sexual self-confidence. Isn't NOW a perfect time to learn a new sexual skill like having an Expanded Orgasm practice together? 6. Beginner's Mind Most important is the way you approach developing self-confidence in the bedroom. The key is to let go of performance and, instead, learn to simply be present. Practice the "beginner's mind" and give yourself and your partner permission to live in the question instead of having all the answers. Open yourselves to trial and error. Remember: there is no such thing as failure, only feedback. Practice, practice, practice - it is the path to mastery. And I promise you will have a lot of fun along the way. 7. Positive Self-Talk and Sexual Leadership Identify negative self-talk and shift your thoughts to focus on what feels good in the moment. Be sweet, forgiving and loving to yourself as you stumble and learn and increase your skills. Nobody knows how to have great sex until they try. Why do you think you should already KNOW? Experiment and make a pact with your partner to be gentle, honest, and encouraging. Men, leading your woman will help both of you develop more sexual confidence. This is so important that I asked my mentor and friend, Dr. Patti to write a book on her approach, The 4 Keys to Seduction. Once you gain experience and improve your sexual confidence, you will drive up your win rate and start to experience a truly fulfilling sex life. 3 Free Pleasure Reports ⇐ Expanded Orgasm Free Gift From Suz and Dr. Patti Fulfilled, Satisfied and Satiated, Susan Susan Bratton, Intimacy Wellness Expert is a champion and advocate for all those who desire intimacy and passion their whole life long. Best-selling author and publisher of lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed®️ Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time as a small selection of her 34 books and program. You can find The Susan Bratton Show on YouTube at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements, Flow, Boost, Desire and Drive at The20.store. P.S. Ridiculously Stimulating Articles You Might Have Missed: How To Ask For What You Need In A Relationship Give this a try and make sure you don't miss the seven mistakes even smart people make to ruin their relationship. "What fruit makes my orgasms stronger?" (Mailbag) Tumescence usually refers to the normal engorgement with blood (vascular congestion) of the erectile tissues, marking sexual excitation, and possible readiness for sexual activity. Clitoral Erection And Anatomy (VIDEO) Dr. Charles Runels and I are back with a deep dive into the amazing anatomy of the female clitoris. We discuss clitoral erections, the clitoral structure, its parts and how they fit into your body. Sacred Container of Love Couples Exercise (VIDEO) I want to share with you two of my foundational books on creating the most amazing relationships you could ever want, Relationship Magic and Sexual Soulmates. Susan Bratton "Trusted Hot Sex Advisor To Millions" susan@personallifemedia.com CEO, Personal Life Media, Inc. My Youtube "Better Lover" Channel Instagram @SusanBratton Personal Life Media, Inc. 35 Miller Ave, #153 Mill Valley, CA 94941 USA, (650) 948-0500 support@personallifemedia.com Help us send you more relevant content. Click below to update your Account: Married | Single | Male | Female Your EMAIL preference: Explicit | Non-Explicit Contact Us | Unsubscribe Copyright © 2020 - Personallifemedia.com