Even worse... if you are perceived as "average" early on, then a switch goes off in her mind, and the game is over before it's even begun.
Harsh reality is, no amount of niceness (or gifts, favors, and fancy dinners) will make a woman feel attraction for you. At best, these things get you placed permanently in the "Friend Zone" where she'll tell you all about how hot she is for some other guy.
The flip side is... if a woman DOES feel a strong attraction for you, then the rest of the equation isn't as important. She'll go out of her way to find good reasons to be with you... even if you're not her physical type.
So then, if you see yourself as an average guy... but you realize that women don't like average guys...
How Can *YOU* Make A Woman Feel INSTANT ATTRACTION?
Thought you'd never ask.
First, let's talk about the word "average" and what it really means. As far as women are concerned -- and especially the attractive ones -- men are everywhere. I mean, they're like cars or something... every once in awhile one stands out and makes you say, Oh, that one is nice.
Now, a lot of guys take this concept too far and say, "Well, I'm not rich, and I'm not famous... so, no really hot woman is going to find me attractive." Well here's today's newsflash for you:
You are wrong. Dead wrong. My experience and research has shown that women are FAR more attracted to things like attitude, confidence, body language, humor, etc. than looks or money.
Sure... looks and money might initially get a woman's attention (and there are women that will only settle for a rich or unusually handsome guy) but this is the extreme minority.
It's Easy To Stand Out... Once You Know What Women REALLY Want
THE FACT IS THIS: It's incredibly easy to be seen as above average if you know what women are looking for... and you know how to deliver it. That in mind, let's do a little exercise to figure out a couple things:
1) What most guys do that make women perceive them as fatally average.
And:
2) What you can do to instantly be seen as above average and - most importantly - attractive.
First, let's talk about what most guys do wrong. Here's what I've seen...
If the setting is a bar or a club, most guys will either say, "Can I buy you a drink?," "Wanna dance?", or "Hey baby, how you doin'?"..." or they do crass things like stare at women with wanting eyes or grab them as they walk by.
If the setting is a public place, like maybe a woman working at a clothing store, a waitress, or some other similar high-traffic situation, most guys will ask a lame question like, "Do you have a boyfriend?" or, "Can I take you out sometime?"
Somebody shoot me. These kinds of approaches can only result in you being seen as another lame, average guy.
2 Easy Ways To Instantly Stand Out From The "Average" Crowd
EASY WAY #1: If you're in a bar or club setting, try asking a woman or a group of women their opinion on something.
I personally like this one: "Hey, my friends and I were talking and we need a female perspective... What do you ladies think about this new trend of women being proud of paying their own way and buying their own things?"
Women will usually enthusiastically join into a conversation like this one. It starts off by talking about women taking care of themselves in a positive light, which sets the stage for not having to pay for a lot of things right up front!
*** A QUICK NOTE: Any conversation topic can be turned into flirting and there is a very special ART to this. If you want to learn how to really become a master of taking any conversation topic and turning it into attraction, then you really need to go and read this right now.
EASY WAY #2: If you're out in a public place where a woman is working or some other high- traffic place, say, "Hey, are you single?"
I love this question. It's such a shocker, and it says all the right things.
Most guys say, "Do you have a boyfriend?" But "Are you single?" is much more forward, and most women have to do a double take to think for a moment. If she pauses, I say, "I'll take that as a YES...", which is pretty funny and usually gets a laugh.
In either of these cases, you already know that I'm not a fan of standing around and trying to keep a conversation going for any longer than you have to - so it's now time to get the digits and get out.
After two or three minutes of small talk and general conversation, just go into the 3-MINUTE PHONE NUMBER close from my eBook. Say, "It was nice talking to you, I'm going to get back to my friends... (or shopping, or whatever)" and as you turn away, turn back and say "Do you have email...?" etc.
These two scenarios are obviously very simple, and also very easy. I've had guys say to me, Well, there's nothing really that different about those approaches. But there IS.
The most important difference is that you're doing something completely different than the other 47 guys who have approached her that day...and you also know exactly what to do and say as the conversation progresses.
Of course, here's the biggest way you can instantly separate yourself from the rest of the lame "average" crowd...
Put The Power Of "Cocky & Funny" To Work For You
This unique approach has helped many of my thousands of readers to dramatically increase their success with women ... and to no longer be seen as lethally average by women.
If you haven't learned how to use the almost magical formula of being Cocky & Funny then the best way to do it is to download yourself a copy of my online eBook and then watch my Cocky Comedy online training program. I'm talking ASAP, here.
These two tools will dramatically increase your success with women and dating guaranteed.
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Start using the stuff you learn in them tonight, and you'll never be seen as "average" by a woman again, I guarantee it.
Until next time...
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your friend,
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