If you're a woman, show this to your partner. And even if you're single, you'll enjoy reading this.
If you're a guy, you may want to pay attention.
Here's a secret most guys don't know about women.
What she wants most from you is to feel both cherished and desired.
At first, this may sound like an exercise in semantics. You might wonder if I'm just splitting hairs, making what she wants more elusive and more mystifying rather than less mystifying.
Not so. My purpose in all that I teach and write is to guide you toward more love, more and deeper intimacy, and a more fulfilling romantic life than you ever thought possible.
I promise you, once I explain the difference between making her feeling cherished versus making her feel desired, you will no longer be mystified.
Even more important, you will have key information that is both practical and actionable. You will know precisely what to do to make her feel like the luckiest woman in the world.
So let's get down to it. What are these two feelings?
First, let's talk about making her feel cherished.
When you cherish a woman, you appreciate, admire, and honor her. In essence: you treasure her as a person. You hold her in high esteem. You naturally want to safeguard her well-being, to care for her and protect her, to cultivate the love between you.
In short, you adore her. I highly recommend you add these words to your repertoire of "sweet nothings" to whisper in her ear: I adore you. These three little words can cast a powerful love-spell so be prepared to watch her blossom.
Okay, so you've cast this potent spell over her mind and her heart. How do you fan it out to include her body - and her desire. Is it possible to express your passion, intimacy, and desire without breaking the spell you have put on her heart?
Absolutely. In essence: you have reverence for her body. Don't worry; I'm not going to ask you to prostrate yourself (unless, of course, that's your thing).
Right now, wherever you are, just take a moment and sense the difference. You adore her being; you worship her body.
When you adore a woman, there's a subtle stepping-back in awe.
She takes your breath away. Stops you in your tracks. Awestruck, you might say words such as, "You are gorgeous," or "What a knockout!" If you're in public, you can pull her toward you protectively and say, "You're quite the head-turner today, my love."
This lets her know that she's being admired by other men as well, which will make her feel all the more special, like she is your treasure, the one you absolutely cherish.
In contrast, when you worship a woman, you move toward her. You are literally attracted to her physically. She magnetizes you. Her yin pulls you toward her and amplifies your yang.
It's a directional thing. The magic words that make her feel desired might be: "I can't wait to get you alone," or, "I love the shape of your body." You might even say: "I can never get enough of you," or, "I want to devour you."
What's tricky is finding the balance between adoring her and expressing your lusty desire. You want her to feel both adored and desired, ideally at the same time and, ultimately, all the time. You want her to feel surrounded by your love and penetrated by your lust. It's a balancing act that you absolutely can perfect if you pay attention.
Listen up.
This is the important part and the thing you most need to understand. If you only focus on adoring her, she won't feel sexy. If you only focus on how sexy she is, she will feel like an object. So you have to focus on giving her a balanced ratio of compliments.
Of course, every woman is unique, and every woman has needs that change. But once you have this distinction, once you start to feel the difference between stepping back in awe and moving toward her with desire, the feedback loop will become obvious. You will be able to adjust your point of connection to match her mood and, in time, to influence her mood and uplift her with your love and desire.
And when that becomes true, your relationship turns into a love-drenched, erotic dance.
Each article I send you is all about enriching your relationship and enhancing the erotic dance in your life. Put your feet up and take some time to read these tonight:
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