What do you really want? Truly. Deeply.
A lot of relationship problems are caused by one or both lovers not knowing exactly what they want out of their union, and from each other.
They believe that just by showing each other they "care for" each other, kissing, holding hands, and giving gifts and favors is enough.
Without a full understanding of each other's deepest needs and desires, there will always be a gaping hole yet to be filled.
And even just tiny cracks in a relationship slowly turn into earthquake-level disasters if left unchecked and uncared for.
That's why it's important to sit down with your lover, make a commitment to be completely honest, open, and vulnerable with each other...
And let each other know what your greatest, most important needs and desires are.
Things that, as long as they're being tended to and cared for, would hold your bond with your lover like intergalactic super glue even in the middle of the worst situations.
It could be a feeling or sensation in your body that can be satisfied through daily kissing, long hugs, and even some sweet lovemaking.
Or it could be the security of the man being able to protect his woman, provide for their family's needs, and have everything handled when chaos reigns - which it inevitably does!
Or it could even be a fulfillment of goals and ambitions in life.
When you make yourselves vulnerable and open to each other, you can be completely honest. You can let your lover peer through your soul and see what gaping space needs to be filled.
So you can be complete. So your lover can be complete.
And your bond will know no end.
Sit down and check in with each other. You both deserve it.
To Unbreakable Bonds,
Dr. Patti Taylor
Dr. Patti is an author, coach, and seminar leader. She has a PhD in Expanded Orgasms, and is the creator of the bestselling program Expand Her Orgasm Tonight and The Seduction Trilogy: Seduce Her Tonight, Seduction Accelerator and Sexual Trainer. She's been a practitioner and teacher of Expanded Orgasms for over 30 years.
P.S. This week's articles were written to help you and your lover satisfy each other's relationship and intimate desires. Take the time to read them and grow your love.
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