Hi Jmonty1945@gmail.com,
I received a very nice email from Russ in California recently that I thought you'd like.
He said, "I worked with therapists who help couples restore their relationship from the darkest places - infidelity, abuse, filing for divorce, etc.
One of their "tools" for the *guys* was a 20/20/20/20 rule.
Give his lady 20 hugs, 20 kisses, 20 smiles and 20 compliments. Each day.
For guys who weren't used to it, giving even 10 of each a day seemed like a monumental goal.
The results I heard from their ladies were amazing.
Emotional healing, re-ignition of the spark in their relationship (outside the bedroom and eventually inside, too) and more. I've seen and experienced the power of this "rule" for myself and in others."
20/20/20/20 sounds like overkill for most, so why not start with 1/1/1/1 and see where that leads?
And if you need help understanding the BEST WAY to give compliments, here's my recommendation for the men:
Two Compliments Women Crave Most ⇐ Watch Now
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To give a man a compliment, focus on what you respect and admire about him. Notice actions he's taken and appreciate him for those actions. Tell him what you find attractive about him. Men like to know they are visually appealing too.
Most of us have a hard time taking in compliments. That's why using the most specific reason possible helps us "believe" the appreciation is real.
And here's one of Sloane's favorite games:
3 Things I Love About You Romantic Couples Game
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