Online Dating Tips & Secrets: LET'S PLAY!

Wake your inner child up from it's nap.

Susan Bratton

Dr. Patti Taylor

Sloane Fox

Tallulah Sulis


	Hi Jmonty1945@gmail.com, Remember when you played on your Slip N' Slide? Remember those fun teen Twister games? Today, I want to wake your inner child up from its nap and get you to start living life like it's play... not work. Playful adventure. Spontaneous joy. Being silly. Learning by making mistakes. Sharing awe. Seize the day! Every second of your life is ticking away. You're never going to be any younger, better, stronger, healthier, or more ready for something than you are right now. So if you want to do something to change or improve your life, whether it's finding a partner, leaving a dead-end job, travelling the world, or starting a family, do it NOW. One of my girlfriends, Nadine, is seeing a guy who travels for work. A lot. Basically he flies in once a month, takes her to dinner, they have sex and then the rest of the month it's just texting. She's lonely, so she tries to be available without him feeling like she's waiting around for him. He seems like he could be a really stable, good husband, so she doesn't want to screw anything up. She loves the idea of being married and wants to find a life partner. But she can't achieve climax when she's with him. You know what I said to her? You're putting so much emotional hope on this one guy. And he's not good enough company for you. Go out and date many, many guys. Experience the dating game. Make love with any of the men who are willing to get fresh STD tests to have sex with you. Take your time to warm up to sex with any guy. But nurture your opportunities. See if you can line up some clean, safe sex... with respectful guys who you are good in bed with. They don't need to be "the perfect guy." If you have good chemistry, enjoy each other for as long as it lasts. Lonely women are less enticing. So go out and live your life. Get your current boyfriend to get a fresh set of STD tests. Let him know you are going to be dating around but you'd still like your once-a-month "thing." Have the Sexual History Talk. He will take notice and value you more. For Nadine, seizing the day means having lots of safe sexual adventure and enjoying the company of men. When you're having fun, you're so much more attractive. And when you're going out and seizing life, you're simply irresistible. Just like one of my readers, Eric, emailed me to ask how he can practice the "Expanded Orgasm" Technique on women when he doesn't have a girlfriend. I dug a little deeper into his situation and he said he's a massage therapist and energy worker. (Yum! Women love a man with a slow hand!) I told him to stop waiting for a girlfriend to come into his life, put up a dating profile online, state that he was a massage therapist and energy worker and that he wanted to meet women for the purpose of practicing his "Expanded Orgasm" skills. Because every woman likes something different every moment of every day, the more women he practices with, the more he hones his skills. He's desirable and he has a good reason to "meet up" with women. It's a total win-win situation. Here's my point: Life is constantly on the move. The world turns even as we stand still. And time continues to tick even when we're stuck. Don't wait for the perfect moment, the perfect boyfriend or girlfriend, the perfect partner, or the perfect opportunity. If you want to be happy, find love, have the career of your dreams, travel the world, live an exciting life, or all of the above... The best time to start focusing on it is NOW. So what if you get hurt along the way? You'll learn, heal and grow. So what if you make mistakes? Everybody makes mistakes. Hell, the more mistakes you make, the faster you learn! If you don't do SOMETHING, if you don't make a decision for yourself and for your happiness... Nothing good is going to happen. Don't wait for the perfect moment. The perfect life is boring. Perfect is a beach with no waves and no breeze. Perfect is a cartoon picture on a cardboard cereal box. Real life, with all its little quirks, bumps, and scratches is exciting, vivid, and full of life. That's what I want YOU to experience starting today. You don't deserve to live a life with no waves and breeze. You don't deserve a life printed on a boring old postcard. Today, I want you to wake your inner child up from its nap and start living life like it's play... not work. Playful adventure. Spontaneous joy. Being silly. Learning by making mistakes. Sharing awe. Seize the day! Susan P.S. Here are this week's articles, all written for your enjoyment, growth and sensual pleasure in mind.

☄ The 5 Pillars of Passion (VIDEO)

Do you want to have the most rocking relationship possible? Watch this video where I explain the 5 Pillars of Passion.

Self-Image Inventory Quiz (For Women)

This exercise will indicate your level of self-esteem and satisfaction with your role in life as well as how you perceive yourself in relation to others.

A walking powder keg of unhealed sexual trauma.

Let the wounded feel their feelings. Let them use social media as a group space to grieve, rage, and explore the realities of repression, oppression, and shame. And once some of that initial charge has blown off, let's talk about sexual healing.

Salad Dressing, Green Drink, And A Smoothie (For Better Sex)

Sex is, in large part, about circulation. That's why a good diet combined with burst exercise will keep you the most healthy. Read more.

My Hot Mama Diet Routine (5 Veggies To Blast Stomach Fat)

These 5 veggies make it easy to destroy belly fat and keep women healthy and sexy...

☄ Behind the scenes.

I dressed up in a sexy nurse's outfit! There's my editor Lloyd and there's me getting ready for the hormone test kit demo...

He was scared of initiating sex because...

There were times when Dave wanted to initiate sex, but feared he couldn't "perform". So he would refrain from any form of physical intimacy... even though the desire was there.

Give Her Orgasms On Command

Here's how you can make a woman have a full-body orgasm without even laying a finger on her. That may sound bogus, but it's completely realistic. That is, if you know how.

See the hairs on her body stand on end as she strips for you. (NEW Video)

The videos are so hot you can see the hairs on her body stand on end as she strips for you. Makes you feel all tingly inside, doesn't it?

A fine troupe of titillating teachers ready to shed all their clothing. (NEW VIDEO)

If you're not a master at knowing how her body works and how she receives pleasure, she might not have as much fun as you. Learn more here.


	If you're looking to attract a lover, these emails are for you.

☸ Set His "Love Radar" On Full Alert Mode

Former-heartbroken-single-woman-turned-dating-and-love-maven Evie Jasper discovered a weird but fascinating method to entice a man into surrendering his heart to one person... and that's you.

♥♥♥ How Women Can Use Curiosity To Lure Men Into Falling In Love (He Won't Notice!)

He will do everything in his power to "make it work" with you. You see, until you trigger his "Infatuation Instinct," though he won't admit it, he secretly suspects there might be someone out there better for him.

Erotic Pillow Talk

If you want to inspire your man to give you a passionate, romantic, amazing love life and have him stare deep into your eyes and whisper how much he LOVES you and NEEDS you, you need to go watch this video right now.