"You're the best, baby. Every little thing you do lights up a fire in me. I just can't get enough of you!"
Hi Jmonty1945@gmail.com,
When you wake up, while you're eating breakfast, when you're at work, when you're traveling, when you get home, when you're in bed, when you're making love, as you drift off to sleep, and even in your dreams...
Tell your special someone how much they mean to you.
If you're single, PRACTICE expressing your gratitude and appreciation for the people you meet in life. Practicing will hone this all-important skill so that when you do find your soulmate, you'll be great at giving love.
Speak up! Tell people how wonderful your life is because of them.
How handsome, or gorgeous or precious they are to you.
Tell your lover how much they turn you on.
How you have a throbbing hunger and drive for life in large part because of your relationship with them.
How smart, thoughtful, warm, and loving they are.
You can never really give your lover too many compliments in a single day. So go ahead and make them feel loved, wanted, desired, and appreciated.
Not to get them to do what you want. Not to kiss up to them.
But to keep the passion and romance alive.
Some people may think flattery is for sucking up to bosses at work.
Or a sneaky way of getting what you want.
And a few may even believe that it's useless in relationships.
However, a team of researchers have discovered that people DO perform better when they receive compliments.
Whether it's at work, in life, and of course, in love.
Being told nice things stimulates the brain the same way as being rewarded with cash. And for a lot of people, it works even better.
An area in our brain called the "striatum" is activated when we receive compliments or rewards. So there really is a physical and chemical reaction in your lover when you say these sweet nothings.
Imagine a car or a garden. Both need maintenance and constant TLC (tender loving care).
Without constant attention, care, patience, and love, a car's lifespan shortens dramatically, and a garden dies.
Just like in a relationship.
When you show your partner that they are loved, cherished, desired, and appreciated, they'll actually want to give that warm energy right back.
It's the cycle of love and warmth.
It's the pulse that keeps relationships intimate, passionate, energetic, and bursting with life and love.
These little things add up greatly.
This is essentially a part of the 5 pillars of passion: Mindfulness, Playful Connection, Playful Adventures, Erotic Communication, and Declarations Of Love.
With these in mind, you're nourishing your relationship and sex life the best way possible.
The articles I sent over the week are also great examples of using the 5 Pillars Of Passion in different ways.
So sit back, put your feet up, grab your favorite drink, snuggle up with your lover, and read these tonight.
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