Do YOU Know How To Pass Her "Tests"?

Hey,   In case you missed my email on Wednesday, check this out - I just released the 3rd video in my amazing new series about attracting women… ... and it ROCKS. This is where it all comes together… how ANY guy can stop feeling his way through the dark when it comes to attracting women by learning just a FEW SIMPLE SKILLS. In this video, I don’t hold back on sharing those skills with you - including quick-and-easy steps to put them to work in the REAL WORLD. So don’t wait - watch this video (and get a very cool downloadable PDF report as a study guide):  Free Video: How To Pass Her Tests I go in-depth to share direct, specific advice and step-by-step instructions that ANY guy can use to turbocharge his success with women and dating, including: The #1 thing to change about your beliefs and behaviors TODAY to stop getting rejected by women... this one alone is worth taking a few minutes to watch this video NOW. How to pass a woman’s “tests”...  and instantly show her you’re worth a second look, a first date, even a relationship. A road-map for creating unstoppable sexual chemistry with a woman to the point that she’ll be all over you! How to use simple, subtle body language to turbocharge attraction (She won’t even know it’s happening...) Then, as a huge bonus… I ALSO tell you about my world-famous “Kiss Test” - the simple, effortless, “risk-free” way to tell if it’s time to make your move with a woman. Priceless. All of this and more is waiting for you -  just watch it now. Free Video: How To Pass Her Tests Basically, it all comes down to this: do you want to start meeting amazing women? Do you want to be able to walk up to a woman, start a conversation, get her info... all without any nervousness whatsoever? Do you want to be able to “close the deal” and take things to a physical level with her without fear of embarrassing screw-ups and missteps? We all know the answers to these questions. I just wish I had this information sooner.   You will, too. So really… watch this video.   David D.   If you no longer wish to receive our emails, click the link below: Unsubscribe Double Your Dating LLC 3960 Howard Hughes Parkway Suite 500 Las Vegas, Nevada 89169 United States (800) 749-1325

Dating Younger Women, How To Be Cocky & Funny

I received a ton of email from you guys recently. I want to give you some key answers IMMEDIATELY, so here we go... (Having trouble viewing this email? CLICK HERE) Q.***Success Story*** Davie D, I have had your book and newsletters for almost 2 years. Yesterday I sent away for your advanced series. Your material is quality and obviously the way to go (I'm ridiculously cheap and I wouldn't have spent the extra money on the advanced series if i knew it wouldn't work). My most recent story goes like this: I was working and met some female (9.0 on my scale) exactly the type of face i like. She had a hard- to-get personality. I teased her and had some good conversation for a few minutes. She had to go but returned a while later asking what time it was or some stupid question like that you can ask anyone and still look casual. (typical of girls i have busted on to come back and ask some stupid question) I continued to bust on her and maintain my uninterested/laid back mood. I told her to write her number down, she did and she told me she liked me or some pick up like that, i said yeah i like me too. She wanted to do something later, I said "like what" (just seeing where she was coming from). She smiled and didn't really answer, to which i followed up with "whatever, you couldn't handle this". I had a friend come by who i work with and she started talking to him acting interested (i assume to see how i would handle it). So ignored them and went on with my stuff, instead of cock blocking i bragged a little about him. she said she had to leave and was standing right in front of me for a couple seconds so i just moved in for a kiss and she did also (btw that was after less than a total of 15 minutes of talking). She left and I went back to my work, but not before a little 3-second Conan O'Brien dance behind my desk. earlier she told me to call her that night so i called her the next night. That night she wanted to get busy and I would keep backing up when she went in to kiss me and didn't act too thrilled about the whole occasion. She took her shirt off right after she got in my house and i told her to put it back on and that she could take it off later. That night she said "Your the only guy who I can't figure out" and "I'm so lucky to be here with you" and even "How come you picked me, you deserve so much better" This beautiful, hard-to-get girl's personality changed right in front of me. And i used the beautiful just say please line once again. I love you Dave (but not like that you sicko!) -D from CA A.Great story, D. You've mentioned a couple of my favorite types of comebacks to things women say. In one situation, she said, "I like you" and you replied, "I like me too." In another, she mentioned that she wanted to do something later with you, and you replied "Like what?"... and then said "Whatever, you couldn't handle this." You obviously understand the formula. How I Finally Succeeded With Women   As you can imagine, I get a lot of questions about how I learned to be successful with women and dating... so I took the time to write out my story, plus add some good tips and tricks (along with some great descriptions and FREE video clips of all my different video programs).   If you want to see it all, then go check this out:       You Must Use Cocky Plus Funny In EXACTLY The Right Proportions In your first comeback, you've taken something nice that she was saying about you, and turned it into a perfect opportunity to dial up the tension in a funny way. "I like you"... "Yeah, I like me too." Classic. In your second comment, you really add one of the magic ingredients of attraction called being a challenge. Women Almost NEVER Hear A Guy Say, "You Couldn't Handle Me..." It's so surprising to a woman when she hears this kind of thing... and it's incredible when it's done in a funny way. But unless you understand the dynamics of how women become attracted to men, this stuff doesn't make any sense at all. Remember when you were a kid and you had those little cars that you could wind up by pulling them backwards on the floor... then when you let go they would spin out and fly forward? You could feel the tension building as you pulled the car backwards... winding it up. And when you let go, it would scream out of your hand. I always thought those were pretty cool. Well, there was another great lesson in those cool little cars: You need to dial up the tension before you can release the energy inside. Your story and comments do a GREAT JOB of this. Q.***Success Story*** Dave, Your material is great! I went to this library in town where this very beautiful woman works. There are about 6 women that work there (no men). This woman has had very wealthy men date her and policemen and a body builder etc. I'm 49 and bald and don't make a lot of money but she has fallen for me! Every time I'd go in there I'd get cocky and funny with all of them and this woman wants to date me! So we've been dating for a couple weeks now and she's really falling in love with me. Her birthday was about 5 days after we first met and I didn't buy her anything. She obviously finds this very attractive that I feel confident enough in myself that I would do that. Last night she said she loved me for the first time. I held my ground and refused to be intimidated into saying I love her too. She was flabbergasted when she asked: "Don't you love me?" I said I need to know her more. This morning she went to town and got me a pop and pop corn and wouldn't allow me to pay her back and she brought it to me. I've never been able to do this before. I was always the very nice and shy guy. Thanks! T.   A.Well, T., let me tell you this: it's okay to be a nice guy. Just do it in a way that doesn't make women use the word "nice" to describe you. The fact is that when you're being Cocky & Funny, you're actually being very nice... and women know it. They LOVE the fact that you're paying attention to them in a way that's interesting, entertaining, funny, and unpredictable. Good for you. Sounds like you've met a great gal. Q.Dave, I have emailed you before with a success story but this email is more of a reply to the guy who felt his age of 37 was an issue with girls in their 20's. My thought on this is age is only a barrier if you choose to make it one. Sure there are girls out there where they have a problem with an age difference. To me these girls are looking for someone to settle down with, bring to her parents for Sunday dinner and have the approval of her friends and not someone to date for sake of dating. I met this Latin girl at my gym who on a scale of 1 - 10 is about a 9. After an aerobic boxing class we went out for a cup of tea. We talked and I did a little C&F and she said to me before I leave remind me to give you my phone #. I didn't even get to ask for it but that's OK. The other day we were at a Wendy's for lunch when she told me I was incredible. She went on to say I don't crowd her I give her, her space. Keeping the C&F going I told her I agree I am incredible. I told her if it wasn't for the fact I like girls so much I would give myself a hug and kiss. Well, Dave, we have been dating a few months now and about the age thing she is 27 and I am 56. It was on our second date when she asked how old I was and without any hesitation I just said 56. Just being honest and straight with her. Now, granted I do not look nor act my age for she thought I was 36 or so, I am into Hip Hop & Techno music and started taking Salsa dance lessons, there are a number of Latin clubs here in Miami. So age is only a number to me and a lot of the girls I have gone out with. When a girl I date tells her girl friend how old I am the girl friend thinks her friend is dating this old man until I meet her and she doesn't see an age difference any more. N. Miami Beach   A.Great points, N. I know many men who date women that are 10 or even 20 years or more younger. In fact, I read an interesting statistic that men who get divorced wind up marrying women that are an average of 10 years younger the second time, and that one in five men marries a women 20 years younger the second time. Thanks for the email... oh, and check THIS out for a whole lot more on the subject of meeting and creating a life-changing relationship with your dream woman. Q.Dear Dave, So, the reason I haven't written you since my last message is because I've been too busy having the best sex ever. Seriously. I've got your last 20 newsletters sitting in my inbox because I haven't had time to read them. That's how powerful your interview series has been. It is invaluable. Just hearing you talk was a great educational tool. I mean, the level of confidence that you both exude about everything, not just dating, makes me feel respect for you even before I've actually tried what you suggest. Then I try incorporating your tips and guidance into my own relations with women, and Wow what a difference. Listening to Marie's insights (and God does she sound sexy!) helped me realize that women actually wanted me to be the type of person I was naturally, but I was afraid to be a man. And it's the fear that drives them away. What a turn around.   So, back to this incredible sex :D!. I ran into this sexy girl I knew 2 years ago when I was in college. I always had a thing for her, but I was so shy and awkward, there was no chance it was gonna go anywhere. But now I've been reading the newsletters, I read the eBook and pamphlets, and I've listened to the Interview series thus far (3 times) and I just get it. So I run into her after not having seen her in 2 years, turn on the charm DD style and her first response is, "God, you seem so...mature." I knew it was on then. Dave, every time I get a test, I just think "WWDDD: What would Dave DeAngelo do?" For instance, the other day, after giving her a considerable hard time, she said, "You know, being too cocky is just not sexy." So I turn to her, flash a confident smile and say, But you don't think I'm too cocky," She starts laughing and throws her arms around my neck and says, "I hate that you're always right." She says things to me I never thought I'd hear a girl say, like "How did you get to be so cute?" and "Why is it you always know exactly the right thing to say?"And, on top of that, she's always begging me for sex. Begging. And what's more, she's okay that I'm dating other women, as long as I still see her once a week. Do you realize what I'm telling you? This incredible sexy women, who I could hardly look in the eyes 2 years ago, is begging me for sex (and doing crazy things in bed), bragging to her friends about me, and allowing me to do anything I want with anyone I want. It's the type of story I wouldn't believe if I weren't living it. Thank you, Dave. And keep those interview CD's coming! CK Los Angeles. A.Yeah, CK, it's amazing when you finally start getting how it all fits together, and seeing these types of responses from women. By the way, thanks for the plug for my Interview Series. I'm getting killer feedback on it. As a reminder, DETAILS ARE HERE:               Q.Hi Dave, Love your stuff and these e-mails. Really informative. I've a couple of points about the last set. 1) NLP can work in some cases but usually as a back- up to your stuff. Women love it at the right time but use it too much and you sound wussy. Don't give up the cocky-funny approach ever in a relationship. Keep the woman guessing, unsure and bust other women while she's around you. You don't have to be trying to pick up women while she's there, just teasing shop assistants, waitresses, her friends, etc. shows her you're in control and attractive to other women; they won't want rid of you then....... ever. They love it and it keeps them on their toes. It makes you unpredictable, confident, assertive (in a positive way) and not needy and wussy. 2) One 37 year old guy in a previous e-mail said he felt he couldn't approach younger women. He didn't want to be thought of as a creepy old guy. Well, I'm 48, split 3 years ago (I've 3 kids!), thought my world had ended and I'd no future. I could've retreated to a lonely cocoon- like existence but decided, "What the hell it's my turn now!" This really pissed off my ex-wife who wanted to split! I began to study everything I could find on women, how they thought (or didn't think), what made them tick (or didn't), why - to us guys - they were so irrational, the "let's just be friends" thing, etc. The only thing I've found that really works is your stuff (I've had the book for ages). I have had loads of success with younger women (20s and 30s). My current girl is 34, attractive and I feel like a million dollars when I walk into a club or bar with my piece of arm candy (other women never stop looking and you know they're attracted to a guy who can pull younger women, they're curious, it's amazing). She says this is the best relationship she's ever had. So, my advice to older men is ignore everyone, go have some fun, approach who the hell you like, just use the cocky and funny routine and you WILL succeed more than you'll fail. Life's too short so get out there and enjoy. I wouldn't have believed it could be like this. Thanks for everything and helping me get a life back. J. Edinburgh, Scotland A.You've made some great points here, J. Since you took the time to write me all the way from Scotland, let me comment on one or two of them. One thing you mentioned is demonstrating how you can control a situation so that the woman you're with knows it. Which bring me to a few facts that I want every guy reading this to get a grip on right now: FACT #1: Women Are COMPETITIVE In other words, there's nothing quite as powerful as having a woman know that her man can meet other women whenever he wants. In fact, a large percentage of women who stay in bad situations with men are only there because they know that their man can go meet other women anytime he wants, and they just can't deal with the jealousy that it triggers... so they stay. I know this doesn't make much logical sense, but hey, it's reality. Now, as you know, I really don't like the idea of manipulating women by lying and playing with their emotions for your enjoyment. But if you naturally like to have fun with other people, and your girl just happens to be there when you're joking around with the girl behind the counter at the coffee shop, then you'll probably get some HUGE benefits from it. You also mentioned that when you decided to start learning about how to be more successful with women it pissed off your ex. That's pretty typical. I mean, let's face it... just between us guys... you probably allowed yourself to become a pretty boring, predictable husband... So now that you're getting your game together she's thinking to herself, "That jackass! Why didn't he act like this before?! Now other women get to enjoy the part of my man that I always wanted more of!" Now, onto the next fact that I want to comment on... FACT #2: There's Only One Way To "Get A Woman Back" If a woman left you, it's almost always because YOU HAD NO GAME. You were basically about as physically interesting to her as Homer Simpson. So, if you want to get her back, go learn how to make women feel ATTRACTION, and then date other women. If it's possible to fix your relationship, that combination usually does the trick pretty nicely. Finally, I agree with you about this fact: FACT #3: You CAN Take Control Of Your Life... And Start Getting Women Look, no one is going to live your life for you. No one is going to go meet attractive women for you. You need to take control of your own life, and meet the kinds of women you want to meet. Thanks for the reminder of that, J. Now... if you're reading this right now and you're thinking "Yeah, that's what I need... to take control of my life and my success with women", then guess what? YOU'RE RIGHT. You do. And if you'd prefer to save yourself a few years of trial and error (or more), and a lot of money and time, then I suggest you check out my Advanced Dating Techniques program to do it. It will definitely help you take your success with women to a whole new level, whether you're just starting out or you already have some success with women. All the details are right here: And if you haven't grabbed your copy of my online eBook Double Your Dating, then I'd like to remind you to DOWNLOAD IT NOW... and also remind you of the something that I mentioned to the guy earlier in this newsletter... Here's My World-Famous 100% Money-Back Guarantee Download my eBook and watch my programs INSTANTLY ONLINE. If you like them (and I know that you will) you'll automatically be billed. If you don't, just cancel your order. You get your money back... no questions asked... no hassles... no problem at all. But here's what I've discovered after YEARS of helping men become more successful with women: You're going to love my eBooks and programs... especially how FAST they work FAST to completely CHANGE YOUR LIFE. End of story. So stop wasting time and TAKE ACTION NOW.            I'll talk to you again soon.      Your friend,                P.S. Want to learn about all the different programs I've created to help you learn how to meet and attract women (100% RISK FREE and SUCCESS GUARANTEED)? Then go here and take a look.     Body Language     Make women notice you, want you, & chase you without saying a word: Learn to read women's minds Create instant attraction on sight Succeed with women effortlessly         Man Transformation   Proven training to transform into a man who can get a Total 10:   Fixing your inner & outer game Exterminating all your fears Developing "Real Man" Confidence     Double Your Dating LLC 3960 Howard Hughes Parkway Suite 500 Las Vegas, Nevada 89169 United States (800) 749-1325

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Hey Man,   A couple days ago, I wrote with some pretty exciting news: Because you recently made the GREAT decision to trust ME to give you some serious dating advice, I wanted to do something very BIG for you... I wanted to make sure that you have absolutely EVERYTHING you’ll EVER need to succeed with women, dating, and relationships, no matter what stage you’re at along the way right now... Above all, I wanted to massively ACCELERATE that success for you, making your dreams come true more quickly than you ever imagined possible. To make it happen, here’s the “big move” that I told you about: I offered to UNLOCK my world-famous “Dating Mega Vault” for YOU, giving you instant, total access to EVERY PROGRAM that I’ve ever created... all at astonishing 80%-OFF SAVINGS. That’s 13 full programs (including OVER 15O HOURS of “live” training and 600+ PAGES of printed support materials) instantly at your fingertips… all for an incredible $3000 OFF the cost of purchasing them separately. The moment you gain access to this “end-to-end” learning system for dating success, I’m proud to guarantee that YOU will: Feel CONFIDENT in absolutely EVERY situation with a woman. From now on, no matter what challenges you’re facing, you’ll have your own team of proven experts on the subject in your corner, ready to deliver the PERFECT piece of advice,  tool, or technique right when you need it. Stop wondering what to do NEXT. No matter what stage you’re at when it comes to women, dating and relationships, you’ll immediately possess a clear, step-by-step “roadmap” tailored to YOUR specific needs and showing you EXACTLY what to do next… and how to do it RIGHT. Enjoy guaranteed peace of mind. No more internet searches for sketchy answers. No more expensive “self-help” materials that never really help anyone. Now, EVERY proven resource you’ll ever need to succeed with women is right here for you - all in one place  and 100% GUARANTEED to work for YOU. In a nutshell… Getting access to my Dating “Mega Vault” means the permanent end to making painful mistakes and embarrassing missteps with women. It means no more wasting time and money trying to figure out what’s going wrong... and wondering what you need to do next. But, above all, it means taking action NOW...  I can’t afford to keep this incredible offer going forever. The clock really is ticking. Click here now to add 12 MORE POWERHOUSE PROGRAMS to the product you just purchased and complete your A-to-Z “dating success system”… all for jaw-dropping 80%-OFF savings! Don’t let this offer slip away…   Everything you need to know is right here: Save 80% On The Dating Mega Vault! Your friend, David D. P.S.  Still not sure EXACTLY what you’re getting in the Dating “Mega Vault”? I hear you. There’s a LOT to it. The Dating “Mega Vault” contains over 150 HOURS of “live” training laser-focused on EVERY STAGE of succeeding with women, dating, and relationships -  all of it delivered through my 13 world-famous, results-guaranteed video programs (plus printed support materials) including: Advanced Dating Techniques Deep Inner Game On Being a Man Become Mr. Right Man Transformation Cocky Comedy Body Language Meeting Women Online Power Sexuality Approaching Women 77 Laws Of Success With Women And Dating Meeting Women In bars & Clubs Sexual Communication Still have questions? Get answers and check out the Mega Vault here: Explore The Dating Mega Vault! If you no longer wish to receive our emails, click the link below: Unsubscribe Double Your Dating LLC 3960 Howard Hughes Parkway Suite 500 Las Vegas, Nevada 89169 United States (800) 749-1325

Do THIS And She'll Be All Over You

Hey,   The third video in my amazing new series about attracting women is now up! You can watch it FREE (and get a very cool, downloadable PDF report as a study guide) right here: Free Video: Do THIS And She’ll Be All Over You I go in-depth to share direct, specific advice and step-by-step instructions that ANY guy can use to turbocharge his success with women and dating, including: The #1 thing to change about your beliefs and behaviors TODAY to stop getting rejected by women... this one alone is worth taking a few minutes to watch this video NOW. How to pass a woman’s “tests”...  and instantly show her you’re worth a second look, a first date, even a relationship. A road-map for creating unstoppable sexual chemistry with a woman to the point that she’ll be all over you! How to use simple, subtle body language to turbocharge attraction (She won’t even know it’s happening...) Then, as a huge bonus… I ALSO tell you about my world-famous “Kiss Test” - the simple, effortless, “risk-free” way to tell if it’s time to make your move with a woman. Priceless. All of this and more is waiting for you - watch it now. Free Video: Do THIS And She’ll Be All Over You And make sure you watch to the end... I also get into the “inner beliefs” that you can create for yourself and carry with you to make all of this work even faster… we’re talking practically like magic. Plus, it’s all so simple to do that you’ll be kicking yourself for not trying sooner to make you dreams with women come true. So watch the video! David D.   If you no longer wish to receive our emails, click the link below: Unsubscribe Double Your Dating LLC 3960 Howard Hughes Parkway Suite 500 Las Vegas, Nevada 89169 United States (800) 749-1325

10 Reasons Intelligent Men Fail With Women

Hi Man, Listen. I've been teaching men how to become more successful with women and dating for several years now... and one problem scenario just keeps coming up over and over... (Having trouble viewing this email? CLICK HERE) ... and over and over and over again that really amazes me. I call it: The Genius Failure Paradox The "Genius Failure Paradox" is simply the tendency for unusually intelligent men to have very LOW levels of success with women and dating. After contemplating this particular paradox, discussing it, and working on it for an awesome amount of time, I'd like to share my thoughts about it with you. Create ATTRACTION With Humor Reality check: When most guys try to be funny with a woman, they just end up coming across as goofy or dorky because they have NO CLUE how to be funny in the right way. This is not good. If you want to learn the RIGHT way to use humor to make any woman you want begin to feel attracted - maybe even feel addicted to being around you - just go here:       I assume that if you've read this far, then you probably see yourself as smarter than the average guy. You know that you're a little different than other guys. You probably realized at a young age that you saw things differently and thought differently than others in school... And you've probably realized that your smart mind gives you an advantage over others in many areas of life... Your smart mind gives you a particular type of advantage that can be very, very powerful in life: you're usually right. Smart people get used to being right because they usually ARE right. And when you're right more often than others, you can get ahead in many situations. But unfortunately... this smart mind of yours can actually be worse than useless when it comes to a key area of life... Why A Smart Mind Is Your WORST ENEMY When It Comes To Women It can actually be like having a hammer when you need to tighten a bolt. If you use the tool you have for the job, you'll most likely make the situation worse. Of course, it's hard for a smart guy to even imagine a situation where his smart mind could hurt his chances for success... but trust me, this is one of those situations. So relax, open your smart mind, and let me share with you: 10 Reasons Smart Guys Fail With Women (And What To Do About It) Are you buckled in? Is your mind open? Awesome. Then let's get to them: REASON #1: You're Wrong But Won't Admit It I mentioned that smart guys are used to being right in most situations. And what do most smart guys do when they come across a situation where they're wrong? They find a new situation... one that fits their strength. They know they'll be right next time, so they just walk away... knowing that it won't be long before they're right again. (OR they let the problem situation destroy them... more on that later.) Well, the problem about being wrong when it comes to women and dating is there's nowhere to run and hide. There's no quick "I'm right" around the next corner to make you feel better. It only takes failing with a few women in a row for a smart guy to see the pattern... and realize that something isn't working. Solution? Think harder. A smart guy just assumes that his logic must be good... so he just keeps thinking harder.But when no success comes, it really starts to become mentally difficult. Accepting that you're wrong is a very hard thing for a smart guy to do. Accepting that you're not only wrong, but you have no clue where to even start is even more difficult. Ultimately, many smart guys come up with the following logical conclusion: I am a smart guy, therefore if I can't figure out how to be successful with women and dating, then the problem must not be solvable or worth solving. Try that on for a self-defeating idea. REASON #2: You're Blinded By Arrogance In short, many smart guys refuse to accept that a good, solid, workable answer could come from someone dumber than them, so they discount any idea that comes from an obviously less intelligent person before trying it. Let me ask you a question: If you were going to be walking across Africa on foot, would you rather have your guide be the guy on this planet with the highest I.Q., or a caveman who lived a million years ago that had an I.Q. of about 50... but who grew up being chased by lions and all kinds of animals that wanted to eat him all his life? It's an interesting question. Now, hopefully you'd like to have the guide who isn't the smartest guy around... but who has escaped from many, many dangerous situations with deadly animals... But now let me ask you: If you'd like to learn how to be more successful with women and dating, would you take advice from a guy who isn't very intelligent, but who knows how to attract women? There's something about being smart that makes some guys unwilling to accept input, ideas, or instruction from anyone who isn't either as smart or smarter than them. Well, any smart guy can see the folly in this particular approach... once it's examined closely. If you've been making this mistake, then you need to stop it. Stop being an arrogant bastard, and open your eyes. Look around. Learn from some dumb guys... and let them teach you how to get what you really want. REASON #3: Poor Social Skills It blows my mind how many smart guys I meet that just don't get it when it comes to basic social skills. It's as if they have logically reasoned that social skills are for lower beings who need to play games... and not worth the time it would take to learn them. In fact, I believe that there are a lot of smart guys running around this planet who don't even have social skills and be a cool guy that people like in their mental model of what it could possibly take to be successful with women and dating. Social skills are just that... skills. They're not social information. They're not social theories. They're social SKILLS. And you don't get them by thinking about them. You get them by getting them. Excellent social skills are the foundation for good communication with other humans... and if you don't have good social skills, you dramatically lower your chances for success with women. REASON #4: You Psyche Yourself Out Smart guys do something that fascinates the hell out of me... They come up with all the reasons why everything won't work when it comes to women and dating. They actually figure out why what it is that they would like to do will probably fail... They use their amazing creative imaginations to imagine all kinds of horrible pictures and scenes... and then they use those imaginary outcomes to create negative emotions... which ultimately stop them from having success with women and dating.They don't even try. Now, if you've thought something through and come up with a good reason why it would fail, it makes sense to not do it, right? I mean, why would you want to do things that are going to fail? It is sound logic, but horrible thinking when it comes to the real world... and success with women. Because smart guys don't understand women, and they don't understand what it takes to be successful with women, they are working with bad figures. They're wrong before they even start figuring! Using your mind to come up with all the reasons why things won't work in this area of your life leads to ultimate failure. You must learn to overcome this habit if you have it. REASON #5: You Seek Only "Informational" Solutions What does a smart guy do when he runs into a problem... or he needs to figure something out? He looks for information to help him solve the problem. More information is always the answer. Information is the friend of a smart guy. Got a strange virus on your computer? Just hop on the Internet and search for how to eliminate it. Don't know how to change the alternator on your car? No prob. Just buy the manual and turn to page 147. Don't know the definition of a word? Open up your dictionary. More information solves the problem. So what do smart guys do when it comes to overcoming a problem with women? They want more information. They think the answer lies in learning just ONE more technique... or one more magic concept. Well what if there were a situation in life where the get more information strategy actually made things worse? How would you even know that it was making things worse? Now, I don't want to suggest that learning more about how to be successful with women is a bad thing. It's not. But if you have a problem that is emotional or physical in nature, then reading five million theories on it probably isn't going to help you very much. You need to get out in the real world and try some stuff! You need to look at the real problem... the root of the problem. When it comes to women and dating, there's a very good chance that you have more than enough information. Smart guys often use more information to distract them from taking action. I've heard this referred to as Creative Avoidance. Nod silently if you've ever figured out a creative way to avoid facing something in your life. Good, thank you. REASON #6: You Focus On Logic Instead Of Emotions News just in: Women don't feel attraction for men who make them think. Women feel attraction for men who make them FEEL. So what do most smart guys do when they first meet a woman? Exactly! They get into a logical conversation. Smart men try to engage women in logical conversations and interactions because that's where they feel comfortable... not knowing that they're shooting themselves in the foot by doing it! Get this: A monkey sitting at a typewriter will type the collected works of Shakespeare before you will make a woman feel attraction for you by engaging her in logical conversation. When you start a logical conversation with a woman you've just met, you are basically taking out a neon sign that says, "I don't get it when it comes to women" and putting it on your head. Typical logical conversations include talking about work, family, school, and jobs... discussing politics, religion, weather... and anything that has to do with math, science, or intelligence. On the other hand, if you start talking to a woman and you say, "Ok, so tell me something... Why is it that all women say that they want sweet, nice guys... but they all date sexy, selfish, bad boys?" (and then make fun of any answer she gives) Now you're having an emotional conversation. If you don't know what I'm talking about, KEEP READING. You need more help than I thought. Important note: If you just read this section, and you can identify with what I'm talking about, then I highly recommend that you read this right now. REASON #7: You're Not Used To The Challenge Of The Moment Smart people usually have time to think about things. If you're taking a test, you can sit there and work out the answers. If you have a math problem, you can work on it until you've figured it out. If you're trying to fix something, you can keep working on it until it's fixed. Smart guys are used to being able to take at least a little bit of time to prepare and show off their good sides in most situations. Not so with women... If you don't know what to do at every step along the way, you'll be shut down very quickly. Women have an amazing "He doesn't get it" radar system. Women have all kinds of subtle and ingenious tests that they throw at men to separate the get its from the don't get its. And if you don't get it, then you're going to fail one of these tests very quickly. But the worst part is that you won't ever know that you were being tested... or that you failed. Smart guys aren't used to dealing with complex emotional and communication challenges in the moment... and especially the women and dating kind. One of the keys to becoming more successful with women and dating is learning to handle all of the tests that women throw at you effortlessly. But before you can learn how to deal with the tests, you must first learn how to communicate on an emotional level, how to demonstrate that you have fundamental social skills, and how to keep your cool in the moment. REASON #8: You Think That Doing "Nice Things" Is The Smart Way OK, let me ask you a trick question: If I told you that you were going to have a date with the super model of your choice, which of the following would you choose as a smart way of preparing: Find out what her favorite type of flowers are, and show up with a dozen of them so she would be wowed. Learn about her favorite travel destination so you could discuss it with her. Find out what her favorite type of food is so you could take her to dinner... and she could see that you cared enough to choose something that she enjoyed. OK, time's up. Which did you choose? Now, I already mentioned that this was a trick question. The answer is none of the above. But WHY? These three options all seemed logical, right? I mean, why wouldn't you want to show up with her favorite flowers? Why wouldn't you want to talk about to her about her favorite places to travel? Why wouldn't you want to take her to eat her favorite foods so she enjoyed herself? Go with me here... Smart guys think that they're being clever when they do things like buying a woman her favorite flowers... and bringing them to the first date. Right? In their minds they're thinking, "I'm going to be the guy who is thinking ahead... and I'm going to show up with the flowers that I know she loves... and she's going to see them and like me more because of it." Makes sense... good math, right? Well the one teensy-weensy mistake that these smart guys make is not realizing that it doesn't actually take a smart person to think like this! In fact, any jackass can figure out how to kiss a woman's ass. And guess what? Women know this! And guess what else? Every WUSSBAG does this stuff. An intelligent guy, in his proud arrogance, will think he's being such the charmer by using this thoughtful approach ...and the woman he is chasing will interpret it as just another wussy who's trying to manipulate her. Ouch. Another blow to intelligence. REASON #9: You Always Need To Be The Expert Have you ever met someone who always needed to be right? Someone who would actually argue with you about something they knew nothing about... and make a fool of themselves because they just couldn't shut their smart mouths? Over my years of helping guys improve their success with women, I see this one pattern over and over again... Smart guys don't like to be beginners at anything. They don't like the idea of screwing up... especially if others are watching. They want to maintain this smart guy image of themselves... so they try to always be The Expert at whatever they do. Instead of saying, "Hey, you know what? I'm a beginner at this... how do I do it? What should I do first? What next?"... and instead of being totally ok with screwing up, making mistakes, and making a fool of themselves in front of others in order to learn. They won't risk embarrassment, failure, or others thinking that they're beginners... so they wind up ultimately failing. But it's OKAY to be a beginner. REASON #10: You Can't Deal With Fear And Other Emotions A smart guy's strength is his mind. His weakness is often his emotions. Smart guys are often immobilized by fear. Totally stopped. Frozen. And since many smart guys aren't comfortable dealing with things they're not good at, they just repress or run away from fear. Many men would rather die in lonely isolation than admit that they don't know how to deal with their emotions ... or, God forbid, ask for help! I went for years like this. I know what it's like. But the reality is that any guy can learn to handle and even master his emotions (even fear)... if he just takes the time and effort to learn HOW to do it. If this is you, then do yourself a big favor... take the time. Take the effort. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks of you... it doesn't matter. What matters is you doing the things that YOU need to do for you. I think the reason why I'm so fascinated with The Genius Failure Paradox is because I have had to struggle with all of these issues for a lot of years of my life. Now, I'm not saying that I'm the smartest guy on the planet... but it always bothered the hell out of me that even though I was so good at figuring things out, I couldn't figure women out. Something Tells Me YOU Know Exactly What I'm Talking About After beating my head against the wall for a few years... trying all kinds of crazy logical stuff... I finally got the bright idea to start studying guys who were naturally good with women. Of course, I found out that you could be both not smart and very successful with women at the same time. I also learned that you can be smart and very successful with women too. By carefully studying what the naturals did with women... and learning how they thought about the topic, I began to realize that success with women wasn't entirely logical. Much of what I learned was very tough for me to accept... because my logical brain just didn't want to buy into it. One thing I saw was guys pushing women away from them... and having the women then chase them in response. Made no sense at all. I saw guys tease beautiful women and make jokes about them to their faces... and then watched those women become little girls in response... unable to maintain their composure and therefore unable to maintain their manipulative power... It took me quite a long time, but I continued to learn, test, and refine what I was learning until I personally figured out how to approach women in any situation... get any woman's number I wanted anytime I wanted... date any type of woman I wanted... ... and most importantly, get rid of that empty feeling that I carried around my whole life because I didn't know how to attract women. Once I Got This Handled, I Wanted To Help Others, Too And the first major result of all this time, effort, and energy was my Advanced Dating Techniques program. It's OVER 12 FULL HOURS of me personally teaching all of my very best concepts, secrets, and step-by-step techniques... recorded at a special 3-day live program I did just for this purpose. You not only get to learn directly from me, but you also get to see and/or hear from many of the guys that I learned from... because they're guests on the program. As a matter of fact, the guest interviews alone are priceless. 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