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When you and your lover dissolve into one being, lips locked, tongues entwined, bodies wrapped in rapture...
Time melts.
Passion flares.
And the more you kiss, the more turned on you both get...
This is some mighty fine kissing!
Are you having hot, passionate make outs with your woman?
Is she melting in your arms?
Is the way you kiss her turning her on to the point where she wants you with a hunger, an urgency that makes your lovemaking even more sublime?
Are you inside her with your manhood and your tongue, creating that circuit of electricity from genitals to mouth and back around again in one rapturous road trip?
It turns out that women and men kiss for different reasons. <=== How To Kiss Passionately
According To Dr. Helen Fisher, leading authority on love and attraction:
She kisses you to "collect information."
He kisses you to woo you into bed.
Both sexes kiss to become emotionally closer.
If you are not currently having erotic kissing sessions here are my:
PASSIONATE KISSING TIPS
- Brush your teeth. (If it's been longer than 6 months, schedule your dental hygienist appointment today.)
- Limit eating onions and garlic.
- Shave your face very close and smooth. (change your blade!)
- Rub organic olive oil onto your face after shaving to soften your skin and stubble then wipe it off with a dry towel.
- Approach her slowly for a kiss. Hold her in your arms first and let your heartbeats syncopate.
- Find a comfortable spot to make out. Check the temperature, lighting and music.
- Start on the "outside" periphery of her body, instead of zeroing in on her mouth first.
- Kiss her forehead, eyelids, neck, cheeks, décolletage before kissing her lips.
- When you kiss her lips, first start with a sweet series of small dry pecks. Make her want more before you give her more.
- Move from her lips back to her neck, cheeks, forehead, then back to her lips.
- Take it slowly and softly. Make your lips soft, full and lush so they feel sensual. Slide your lips across hers.
- Do not hurry. Be in the moment and feel every sensation.
- Take breaks. Breathe each other in deeply. Look into her eyes and connect with her.
- Tell her how sexy and beautiful she is. Let her talk. Let her get anything out she needs to say so that she can surrender to the hot make out with you.
- Be very expansive and joyful. Don't have any agenda for getting more than kisses. Don't kiss her to get sex. Kiss her for the sheer joy of all that sensation on your lips, tongue, mouth, face, hands, body...
- Warm her up slowly and luxuriously. If you need to set a timer if you have a hard stop, set it and forget it. Go under into unbounded pleasure until the dinger dings.
- Show her your desire for her. Growl, go, "Mmmmmmm...," make pleasure sounds.
- Reward her efforts with verbal appreciation. Women need to HEAR your approval. This will allow her to relax and get even more turned on.
- Lay her down and get above her. Hold her down lightly as you kiss. Hold her chin in your hands. Hold her hands against the mattress. Give her the feeling that you are dominating her while making it implicit that she is always in control and you will never hurt her.
(Notice how the man in this picture above is holding her very securely? Women LIKED to be secured while being kissed.)
- Move her body for her. Take control of everything and just reward her for letting go into rapture.
- Use a wide variety of kisses. Pecks, smooches.. Lick her. Suckle her. Probe her. Lap her. Delight in her.
- Mirror her actions too. Notice how she kisses you and kiss her back in the same ways and see if she responds.
Afterward, share "Favorite Frames" - a technique from Expand Her O Tonight that brings you even closer together and ramps your sexual experiences together faster.
Email me back and let me know if this checklist was helpful and if there's anything you could add to improve it.
Warmly,
Susan
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Susan Bratton
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