Here it is: the BIGGEST CHALLENGE men face
when it comes to "closing the deal" with a
woman...
They usually have NO CLUE about the 1 THING
they *MUST* do to make it happen!
But guess what: learn just 1 SIMPLE,
FAIL-PROOF SECRET, and high-quality women
will practically BEG YOU to bring them home.
Click here to learn what it is:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/
Hey Man,
Recently I got to thinking about how
HORRIBLE I used to be when it came to
"closing the deal" a woman.
In a nutshell, things usually went like
this:
I would see an attractive girl in a coffee
shop or bar or even the supermarket... and
the moment I even started to even THINK
about actually approaching her...
I TOTALLY WUSSED OUT.
In other words, I felt NERVOUS and SCARED.
I started making EXCUSES to myself about why
she 'd NEVER go out with a guy like me.
And get this... sometimes I even started
BLAMING HER!
That's right -- without knowing anything
about her, I' d start imagining how "stuck
up" or "shallow" she was, because I knew
she 'd NEVER choose caring, sensitive me over
some rich, handsome JERK.
Which brings me to the big question I want
YOU to think about RIGHT NOW...
If you've ever felt this way too...
Why do you, me, and MOST guys destroy any
chance we have with a woman BEFORE we EVEN
TRY?
Having been there myself, I also have a
pretty good idea about the answer...
If you 're like I used to be, it's because,
at some level, you know you can't "close the
deal" with a woman... even if you somehow
get up the "nerve" to approach her in the
first place.
You know there's no way you can possibly say
and do everything right...
...from successfully starting a conversation
with her...
...to keeping it going without hemming and
hawing and getting tongue-tied...
... to sparking the feelings of ATTRACTION
in her...
...to turning that spark into SEXUAL TENSION
so she'll consider GETTING PHYSICAL with you.
I mean, forget about it... I could barely
get the first words out of my mouth to a
woman I didn't know, let alone get all of
this right.
And here's the kicker:
Even if I did "get lucky" and pull off all
this stuff, none of it MEANT A THING if I
couldn't "close the deal". (That is...
somehow convince her to actually go out with me.)
Or better yet, have her come HOME with me.
Sound familiar?
If so, here's what I'm here to tell you with
100% CERTAINTY:
You... me... ANY MAN AT ALL... can ditch the
self-destructive FEAR and EXCUSES...
...once he knows EXACTLY what to SAY and DO
when he approaches a woman.
Make sense?
Awesome. Because, in just a few moments, I'm
going to share one of MY MOST SIMPLE, POWERFUL,
SUCCESS-PROVEN WAYS to succeed when you approach
a woman.
But in the meantime, let's get into what must
you must understand before you can "close the
deal" with ANY woman...
Basically, it all comes down to this:
You must know what EVERY woman is REALLY
looking for in a man when he approaches her...
...and then GIVE IT TO HER before she even
has to think about it.
So... without further delay...
What does almost EVERY woman REALLY want in
a man?
The answer comes as no surprise after you've
spoken to as many women as I have about the
subject...
Woman want a man to ENGAGE THEIR EMOTIONS
right off the bat.
They want to FEEL SOMETHING the moment a man
approaches them.
Something OTHER than complete BOREDOM.
Well, after hearing this from so many women,
here's the message I received loud and clear
-- and that YOU should, too:
Approaching women using "pick-up lines" and
"logic" is a loser's game.
And "hitting on a woman" is a total road to
nowhere.
(By the way: ever wonder why they call it
"hitting" on a woman? It's because it's
usually a PAINFUL EXPERIENCE for her.)
Basically, there's NO WAY that lines,
wuss-like "begging", or Spock-like logic
will connect with a woman EMOTIONALLY.
Just won't happen.
More on the fascinating reason for that
right here...
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/
But for now, the bottom line is this:
DON 'T DO THESE THINGS, and you 're already
WAY ahead of the game.
Okay... so now you understand what *NOT*
to do.
So NOW WHAT?
How do you make an attractive woman feel
differently about YOU than about the constant
parade of losers, wusses and dorks who
constantly approach her?
Well, listen close...
Slide your chair closer to your computer
monitor if you have to...
I absolutely LOVE revealing this part to guys,
because it's so simple it usually
BLOWS THEIR MINDS...
It's the kind of "duh" moment that makes guys
realize the answer has always been right in
front of their faces... so simple and powerful
that when they finally "get it," they usually
feel like they've WASTED WAY TOO MUCH TIME not
understanding it...
Ready for your "duh" moment?
Then strap in, here it comes...
To "close the deal" with a woman almost every
time, here's what you need to do IMMEDIATELY
the moment you approach her:
PROVE THAT YOU 'RE A "FUN GUY".
Let me say that again:
To "close the deal" with ANY woman, almost
every time, all you need to do is INSTANTLY
SHOW HER THAT YOU'RE A "FUN GUY".
Whoa. Sounds a little *too* simple, right?
If so, I totally hear you.
In fact, I used to think the same thing.
That is... until I spent YEARS observing and
interviewing men who "closed the deal" with
beautiful women every night (while I went
home alone and watched Skin-A-Max.)
What I learned from these "naturals" -- men
whose success with women was absolutely
effortless -- totally blew my mind.
It made all my FEARS and PAST FAILURES seem
like a TRAGIC waste of time.
I learned that making the first moments
genuinely FUN for a woman is a THOUSAND
TIMES MORE POWERFUL than having money... or
good looks... or the "perfect pick-up line".
Still not convinced?
At first, I wasn't either. Then one of these
"naturals" told me to go online and look
through women's profiles.
And sure enough, there it was:
One word kept popping up, again and again,
when it came to what almost EVERY WOMAN was
looking for in a guy...
That word was "FUN".
And that's when the light bulb finally went
off for me.
If I couldn't make my first few moments with
a woman FUN, I've DESTROYED any chance for
success with her.
And now women tell me ALL THE TIME that they
usually spend the minutes after a man approaches
them waiting for him to finally "give up" and
"go away".
They tell me most men BORE them.
Worse, most act awkward and nervous...
unsure of what to say... using body language
that projects fear and uncertainty...
hemming and hawing and using those lame,
stale pick-up lines.
So, getting back to our "duh" moment...
I realized this can -- and SHOULD -- be an
AMAZING OPPORTUNITY for *ME*.
I realized all I had to do was make the
experience of "being approached" FUN for a
woman, and I'd move to the head of the line.
I'd have an almost MAGICAL ADVANTAGE over
99% of other guys, and move closer to
closing the deal with her (more quickly and
easily) than I ever imagined possible.
And guess what...
I WAS RIGHT.
Big time.
Once I perfected how to make it FUN for a
woman when I approached her, the results
spoke for themselves.
Even better... once I had an arsenal of
fool-proof ways to IMMEDIATELY capture a
woman's heart and mind... suddenly I COULD
CLOSE THE DEAL almost every time!
If you'd like IMMEDIATE ACCESS to my
"arsenal" (as well as the opportunity to put
it to work for YOU, 100%-RISK FREE) just
click here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/
In the meantime, here's the SPECIFIC EXAMPLE
I was talking about... how to show a woman
you're FUN instead of a PAINFUL BORE....
Let's say you're close to a supermarket when
you see a woman you'd like to meet...
Walk up to her and say: "Excuse me... I was on
my way to grab a few groceries to cook a
special dinner, and I need a woman's advice.
Would you mind helping me?"
Yeah, I know... to most men this sounds
unthinkable.
I mean... why would you do something like
asking a woman to accompany you on an errand
to the supermarket... possibly to prepare
for a date with ANOTHER woman.
Well, let's analyze what's happening here
for the answer...
#1: You're asking for her HELP while
showing no signs of the usual "pick-up mode"
anxiety, twitchy gestures, laughs and ticks,
etc. This broadcasts CONFIDENCE to a woman
every time.
#2: You're INSTANTLY letting her know
you're "no threat" and "in demand" because
you're possibly preparing for a big date --
with ANOTHER woman!
#3: Best of all, you're showing her that
you're FUN and SPONTANEOUS.
So... what's going to happen next?
9 times out of 10, she'll be so intrigued
that "blowing you off" will be the furthest
thing from her mind.
Assuming she's not in a rush, she'll probably
say something like: "What? You want me to
come grocery shopping with you?"
She'll be wonderfully confused. She'll be
emotionally engaged. You'll have her full
attention.
Communicate all of this to a woman, and
she'll immediately be HOOKED.
She'll instantly respect you and want to
know more about you.
In other words, she'll feel the first tiny
sparks of that magic feeling called
ATTRACTION.
And, as you know, that's what *EVERYTHING* I
teach is all about.
Okay. So now you have her attention.
What's next?
Easy...
MAKE THINGS FUN.
Early in the supermarket visit, I usually
make a pass by the MAGAZINE RACK.
It's literally a bottomless pit of fun
conversation.
Sometimes I'll pick up a tabloid and make
fun of some handsome movie star's picture
("How does George Clooney get so many women
with a nose like that?")
When we're in the aisles, I'll pick up some
odd product. A jar of "Clamato" juice or
something. Show it to her with a baffled
look and bust on her "What's in this stuff?
Who drinks it? You definitely look like the
`Clamato' type..."
If the woman picks up anything for herself,
I'll bust on that, too... "Wow, that's
fattening..."
If she gets nothing at all, I'll ask her if
she's fasting.
Whatever. There are a million possibilities
for Cocky & Funny at this point.
If you'd like to learn more about mastering
the endless possibilities to be "Cocky & Funny"
with a woman, click here to learn more:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/
But here's the point...
Once you have her suggestions about what SHE
would like cooked for her on a date, it's
time to "close the deal"...
At check-out, let her know you're shopping
to make dinner for HER.
At this point, it's almost GUARANTEED she
won't reject you because:
1) By now, you've engaged her EMOTIONS.
She's feeling fun and adventure --
separating you from all the other guys who
just make her feel BORED and UNCOMFORTABLE.
2) Because all this was NON-THREATENING to
her, she's TEN times more likely to give you
the "benefit of the doubt" and go along for
the ride a little further.
3) You've proven you're a "FUN GUY" -- and
she didn't even realize it was happening!
Basically, whether it's grocery shopping or
jumping out of an airplane, when you approach
a woman with a sense of "Hey, let's have an
adventure, let's go have some FUN..."
it's 100% contagious.
A woman will start attributing all those
positive feelings to you... and you're IN.
You'll not only end up with her number at
the end of the day... she'll probably end up
BEGGING YOU to bring her home.
Gotta love it.
Okay... as I said, this just one simple way to
successfully approach a woman and "close
the deal."
If YOU want to learn a lot more ways to leave
behind the FEAR that's DESTROYED your success
with women up until now, I'm ready to help.
Just click here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/
Meantime... forget the "pick up lines" and
focus on learning how to BE FUN, and you'll
have success with women like you never
thought possible.
I personally guarantee it.
Until then...
Your friend,
David D.
PS: Did you know there are 5 LETHAL THINGS
you must NEVER SAY when you approach a woman?
These are the INSTANT DEAL KILLERS that make
99% of guys go down in flames before they
ever have a chance.
If nothing else, I want to make sure YOU
don't make the same mistakes, so go here to
find out what these lethal mistakes are:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/
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