Mental "Tricks" For Approaching Women

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You know, it's been too long since we talked about how to get a woman's email address and phone number quickly after meeting her.

I thought it might be time to have another conversation about it, and give you some more great ideas...

THE CHALLENGE...

I can still remember exactly what it was like before I learned some of the secrets of how to meet women.

I have very clear memories of women that I saw literally YEARS ago who I wanted to meet... but I just didn't know what to do or how to do it.

In some of the cases, I was actually talking to the girl, enjoying a conversation... and REALLY wanting to ask her for her number... but I just didn't do it.

But WHY?

Why didn't I just say, "Hey, give me your number?"

The fact is that I was AFRAID.

I was afraid that I'd say the wrong thing, or that the woman I was talking to would say "no," or that I'd offend her... or whatever.

At the time, I always assumed that this was some kind of strange curse that I had. I was afraid of women, and didn't know what to say to them, and I was ALONE.

In other words, I not only felt like I had a SERIOUS insecurity issue and fear, but even WORSE, I didn't feel like I could TELL anyone about it... or get help.

I felt like a dork if I even MENTIONED the topic to other guys... as if even talking about it made it clear that I was a loser who didn't even deserve an answer.

So here I was, over and over again, in situations where I would see women I wanted to meet... but I just didn't know what to do.

And I didn't know what would happen if I DID do something. I was afraid of the unknown.

Eventually, this led me to believe that there was probably something wrong with ME - that I should just accept and deal with it... and that I'd probably wind up either alone or having to settle for a relationship with a woman that I wasn't attracted to.

Ever been there?

THE REALITY OF THE SITUATION...

Well, when I finally made the decision to learn about how to meet women on MY terms, I made it my goal to learn how to get women's phone numbers.

I "naturally" assumed that if I was able to get a woman's number, that would be the key. That was the "hard part" to me. If I could approach women and get their numbers quickly, I thought I would be "The Man."

So I went to work.

Here's what I learned...

To begin with, I learned that most women will respond somewhere between "neutral" and "positive" to being "approached" by a man.

Explained differently, out of the hundreds and hundreds of times that I've started conversations with women and seen my friends start conversations with women, I have VERY, VERY rarely seen a woman respond by getting upset, saying something rude, or acting offended.

The typical worst case scenario is a woman not even stopping and just walking away, or responding coldly.

And like I said, this is a typical WORST case.

Another important lesson that I learned is that when a woman responds in a way that is something other than positive and receptive, it's usually about HER, not about ME. In other words, either she's not a nice person, she's not available, she's in a hurry, she's in a bad mood, or whatever... things that aren't within my control, and that aren't my fault (or problem).

I also realized that I was CAUSING a major problem for myself without even realizing it...

I used to have this idea that it would be better if a woman didn't think that I was "interested" in her. I thought that if I could figure out a way to start a conversation and make her like me because I was a "nice guy," then I could somehow get her to see me in a "more romantic" light later on.

HUGE MISTAKE.

Little did I know that women ASSUME that you're interested in MORE than friendship from the very beginning, no matter WHAT you do or say.

So when you try to act all innocent and friendly, like you just want to be friends, women usually assume that you're HIDING something, or that you're just another major Wuss Boy...

This is a bad thing.

I learned that it is FAR better to make no excuses at all and NEVER try to cover up the fact that you're approaching her.

Later on, as you're talking to her over tea or coffee, and you're teasing her, making fun of her, and busting on her, SHE'LL start to wonder on her own what the hell is going on... which is perfect.

In the beginning, just be damn good at what you're doing... and don't try to cover it up or pretend.

Pretending that you're a nice, friendly guy who's only starting an innocent conversation is a direct express route to an evening of self touching.

>>>Before I get to "the goods," I need to mention something. If you'd like to become a MASTER of approaching women and starting conversations, then make sure you check out my "Approaching Women" DVD/CD program. It's the ULTIMATE education on this topic. If you'd like to see some video clips of the program and get all the details, just go here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/

THE GOODS...

OK, so here are a few pointers when approaching:

1) It's OK To Ask Immediately...

It STILL amazes me that a woman will give her phone number and/or email address to a guy after only a minute or two of conversation... but it's true.

If you act cool about it, so will she.

Do this: After talking for a minute or two say, "I'm going to get back to my friends" (Or whatever you were doing), and then turn away from her and begin to leave.

If you're getting ready to actually LEAVE the place where you are (say you're at a bar, and you're getting ready to go home or go somewhere else), it's even BETTER.

In that case say, "We're going to leave... it was nice talking to you"... then turn away.

Now, just after you break eye contact and turn away, TURN BACK and say, "Hey!"

She'll look back up, and be surprised...

2) Start With Something "Low Risk"

...as she looks up ask, "Do you have email?" in a calm, normal tone of voice.

When she says "Yes" - you say, "Great, give it to me, I'd like to talk to you again."

Then pull out a pen, and hand it to her.

As she's writing down her email address, just as she writes the @ symbol (in other words, in the middle), say "...and write your number there too...."

Finally, tell her to write her name down as well.

Why do it this way?

Good question.

- At first you're asking, "Do you HAVE email?"

This is a no-brainer. If she does (and most women do), she'll say, "Yes." You're just treating the "yes" as if she said, "Yes, I'll give it to you..." It's a smooth, easy way to ask a "low risk" question, and have a woman be the one to MOST likely give you her information.

- Email is considered "safe."

I mean, what are you going to do, send her 100 emails a day? Ooooohhh, scary.

- You're waiting until she's actually in the MIDDLE of writing down her email for you to ask her to also write her number down.

This makes it FAR more likely that she'll give you her number. At this point she's already demonstrating to you and her that she's OK with you contacting her again... and since she's ALREADY writing, she's very likely to just KEEP writing... her number.

3) The "Do You Have A Card" Variation

You can also ask, "Do you have a card?" if you choose.

This is a classy, low risk way to ask a woman for her contact information.

Now, a lot of women DO NOT have cards, so you're going to need the follow-up for when she says, "No, I don't have one on me"... such as "Well, invent one for me!"

This is funny, charming, and smooth.

Just take out a pen, and hand it to her.

She'll know what to do.

4) Be Ready

Probably half to two thirds of the time, a woman will just write down her email for you.

It's AMAZING how easily women will give out their email addresses.

But sometimes you'll meet with resistance.

I can't go into all of the millions of possible scenarios, but I will talk about the most COMMON one.

Probably a quarter of the time, a woman will say something like, "I don't give out my email to people I don't know" or "I don't even know you" etc.

This one used to REALLY stump me... until I found a simple solution...

Here it is: Just point to the paper, and say "Write it down."

If she keeps resisting, make a joke.

Say, "It's OK, just write it down. I'll only email you every five minutes for the next month."

The SIMPLE "Write it down" works wonders.

You'll probably overcome HALF of the "I don't give out my email/number" comments with this one simple answer. Use it.

5) Mentally Rehearse

One of the greatest investments you can make in yourself is MENTAL REHEARSAL.

Take some time to imagine exactly what it's going to be like when you ask a woman for her email/number.

Close your eyes, and picture a situation.

Imagine how you're going to be standing, what you're going to say, what she's going to say, how you're going to take out the pen and hand it to her, how you're going to answer any objections that she gives you.

Don't wait until you're in the situation to realize that you don't know how to handle something!

You'll realize all kinds of great stuff when you mentally rehearse.

You'll be vividly imagining a great conversation, then you'll get to the part where you ask, "Do you have email?" and she says, "Yes" and you say, "Great, give it to me, I'd like to talk to you again..." and as you mentally put your hand in your pocket you'll realize that you don't usually carry a pen with you!

Or you'll realize that you don't carry paper with you.

Or you'll realize that your pen is usually in your jacket, which is usually on the back of your chair, and not with you at the bar.

When you mentally rehearse, you program yourself for success. So just DO IT!

6) Don't Sell Too Far In Advance

This is SUCH an important concept. Maybe even the most important thing I'm going to say.

When you're getting a woman's email and number, DO NOT try to convince her to marry you on the spot!

Don't "ask her out."

Don't tell her that your mom is going to love her.

Don't ask typical stupid questions like, "Do you have a boyfriend"... and make it seem like you're qualifying her for marriage.

No, no, nooooo!

As a matter of fact, the ONLY thing you want to do is get her information.

Many guys make the mistake of talking about going out on a date, being interested, etc. or tipping the woman off in some way that he's VERY interested in her.

This creates pressure and resistance. There's ZERO mystery or tension created when you do this stuff.

All you have to say is, "I'd like to talk to you again." That's enough.

And by the way, when you DO talk to her again, make sure you avoid the same mistake! Don't talk future and relationship and marriage then either.

Just take things to the next step, which should be a simple thing like tea and stimulating conversation.

One small step at a time, and don't sell too far in advance... ever. It only creates resistance and nervousness on the part of the woman when you hint that you're "interested" in a big way.

So there you go... you've now learned how to get a woman's email and number within minutes of first meeting her.

Use this stuff, it's taken me YEARS to figure it all out...

And if you'd like to know what to do AFTER you get her email and number, I have some advice for you. Check out my Advanced Dating Techniques Series.

Remember at the beginning of this email when I mentioned that I originally thought to myself that if I could get a woman's number fast, I would be "the man"?

Well, I quickly learned that there is A LOT more to this than just being able to get numbers fast (although being able to get a woman's number in 2 or 3 minutes doesn't exactly suck)...

There are many steps between first meeting a woman and getting her to feel a POWERFUL GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for you... and between her feeling that attraction and the two of you "getting physical".

If you know all the steps, and how this all works it will likely go very smoothly and naturally. If you DON'T know all the steps, it will likely NOT go smoothly AT ALL, and you'll run into more problems than you can imagine.

That's where my Advanced Dating Techniques program comes in...

You will get nearly 18 hours of digital video and/or audio of me teaching everything from the ground up on how to take things all the way from beginning to end... from the first meeting through the first date...all the way to the bedroom, and beyond.

You'll learn how to overcome your limiting beliefs about women... how to eliminate your fears of talking to women... how to make women feel ATTRACTION for you, even if you don't have money or looks, etc.

In other words, it's a complete system.

You'll learn everything you need to know in order to start meeting and dating more women IMMEDIATELY.

The best part?

You have ZERO risk.

I'll send the program to you... and you can try it for a month. If you don't like it, just send it back and you don't have to pay anything.

Isn't that the way it SHOULD be?

All the details, and some great audio and video samples are here... check it out:

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...and if you STILL haven't downloaded your copy of my original eBook "Double Your Dating," then you need to do that now. It's jam packed with dozens and dozens of my personal techniques for meeting and dating women, and it comes with THREE great bonus booklets that aren't available anywhere else. Go download it here:

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I'll talk to you again in a couple of days.

Your Friend,

David D.

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Getting Women's Numbers And Getting Dates

NOTE: When most guys try to be `funny" with a woman
they end up coming across as goofy or dorky. Not
good. If you want to learn the right way to use humor to
make any woman feel attracted - or even ADDICTED -
to you, go here:

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***SUCCESS STORY***

Hi Dave,

After reading your book, I put many of your
tactics into action. I work in a casino, so I get
to meet a lot of beautiful young women. Once I got
over the initial reluctance to ask them for their
email/phone number, I started getting quite a few
numbers in a night.

The other night there was a woman who was so
gorgeous, it hurt. I walked over and chatted with
her for a few minutes, then asked if she had
email. She said "Sure, I do! Let me write it down
for you." Without asking she put down her phone
number as well. The younger guys who work for me
now call me a "God". They have no idea how I can
do it. Better looking guys are complaining that I
get more phone numbers and emails in one night
than they've got their whole lives. One of the
women was classic. She looked like Sheryl Crow
and Jennifer Aniston combined. She complained she
wasn't winning on the machine and asked me what
the secret was. I said, "I don't know the secret
today, but if I figure it out, I'll email it to
you. All I need now is your email address and
your phone number in case email is down." She was
taken aback, but asked for my pen and wrote it
down. Now instead of being alone on my days
off, I have a lot of options which are all great
ones. Thanks for your advice and changing me out
of wuss mode. I.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Options are great, aren't they?

And isn't it amazing how a woman will give out
her email and number if you just talk for a few
minutes and then ask for it?

I can remember when I first started learning
this stuff... it seemed to me that no woman in her
right mind would just give out her phone number to
a complete stranger...

But then I discovered that no woman is actually
IN her right mind! (Or at least this is my logical
deduction, because they all seem to give out their
phone numbers and email addresses so readily!)

But to get back to the concept of "options"...

When you, as a guy, have options, it changes
EVERYTHING.

When you have a date that evening plus three
women to email or call, things are TOTALLY
DIFFERENT than when you have nothing going on.

You feel different, you talk different, and you
communicate in a different way.

I believe that one of the reasons that
attractive women come across so powerfully is
because they KNOW that they have options.

And one of the benefits of learning how to be
more successful with women and dating is that you
learn to CREATE YOUR OWN OPTIONS. When you know
that you can walk out the door anytime you want
and meet women, it frees up a lot of mental energy
that was previously focused on other things.
Energy you can use to improve other areas of your
life...

Thanks for your email... it's inspiring.

***QUESTION***

Hey, David.

I've read DYD, have been getting your
newsletters, totally understand what's going on.
I've seen it working, and know it's for real. But
I've got a BIG problem. I've got to recondition
myself from more years than I care to admit of
doing things the wrong way. I always idolized
superheroes like Batman & Superman who always
acted with the utmost respect and decorum. Like
musclebound male versions of Miss Manners. My
heroes were modest, reliable, helpful, well-
mannered, and strong (OK -- they're not *totally*
lame). Definitely not *cocky*. I always *hated*
mouthy guys who are all show and no go.

As for sex, in my younger years it was Catholic
training: everything sexual was *evil* (unless
you're a priest hitting on the altar boys), and I
was so naive and mixed up I really thought I was
going to *hell*.

After I wised up and dropped that it was
*sexual harassment* that I kept hearing about all
the time. The message I got then is that it's not
OK to be sexual until you're already going with
someone. Of course now I know that that only
applies to man who a woman is NOT ATTRACTED TO.
OK, so now I *understand*. But am still
reflexively *doing* the same wrong things. What's
the best way to actually go about reconditioning
my *behavior*? I can be a good smartass when I
have the right stimuli, but what's the best way to
practice loosening up with the sex talk? I don't
want to klutz things up with awkward, forced
attempts on women who *are* good prospects. I can
be cool enough to get dates, but want to take it
to the next level. The best thing I can think of
is either to practice on female *friends* I've
already written off or go to places I don't really
care to hang around regularly, like techno-disco
meat markets where I probably couldn't be as crude
and crass as the average ass-grabber if I slammed
a fifth of Daniels and *tried*.

This may apply to a lot of other guys who are
"struggling with the material." Any better ideas
how to get through the learning curve as quickly
as possible without poisoning one's reputation by
being tagged an uber-klutz? FB Michigan

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, you say that you've read my book, but you
need to go back through it... remember, it's a
reference manual, to be referred to again and
again... not a fictional book to be used as
entertainment.

If I were you, I'd get online and start
chatting with women with instant messenger
services and/or in chatrooms, as I describe in
Chapter 7.

Bust on them, tease them, talk about every
topic you can think of, including sex (make sure
you're talking to women who are of legal age, by
the way!).

You'll find that starting conversations with
women online and practicing your skills is a lot
more convenient when you can do it from the
comfort of your computer. And you'll see... it's
very easy to talk with women about any topic. Get
over your preconceived ideas, and just do it.

And get over this worshipping Batman, dude.
Didn't you see the Saturday Night Live skits where
they were mocking him and Robin as the
"Ambiguously Gay Duo?"

Not good role models, man.

***COMMENT***

Dave my man,

I've been reading your advice for a while now
and I have to laugh because I discovered several
years ago cocky and funny really work. I am
naturally cocky and a smartass to boot, so it
usually worked, but not always. Then, my buddy
told me something that drives 'em wild. The dude
is 6'3" and 300 lbs, and he always had a good
looking woman on his arm. His advice: Show a
little interest, then ignore them. Of course I
over simplified it, but you know what I mean. How
many men have said that you can't pick up women in
a topless bar? I did all the time, and rarely
spent any more money than on drinks for myself.
The other guys are feeding the girls dollar bills
and getting no where. I'm just an average looking
guy, but the honies went for it like mad. You are
on the mark and anyone that has problems meeting
women should heed your advice. PS: I love the way
you bust on the chicks that write to you and say
how wrong you are!

D.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

lol... thanks!

Yes, women really love it when you show some
interest, but then don't hang on them. Women, and
especially attractive women, LOVE a good
challenge. It's fun for them.

And yes, I do enjoy emails from women... both
positive and negative. I just wish more women
would write me! (And I wish that when they did
write that they'd send PICTURES! I have gotten a
few, but c'mon!)

***QUESTION***

Wasssup!! I just have to tell ya that i think your
a god to all guys out there who have trouble with
women! I've been reading your e-mails for about
two months now and i gotta tell ya, your a
genius!! I haven't even purchased the book yet but
everything you say makes perfect sense. So i have
decided to purchase Double Your Dating. I can't
wait to see how it works out. I have the hardest
time meeting women and the bad thing about it is
most girls think im good looking. But they think
im boring.

Here's my question to you. Im not sure about
the whole c&f thing, how do i be cocky yet not
come across as an a&*hole? And I've really never
been the funny type of guy i just don't know how
without saying or doing something that might make
me look like a wussy. Can you help a bro out
PLEASE?

DW-ks

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, here's the basic formula for Cocky & Funny:

Take an arrogant comment, then add humor.

It's a killer combination. The key is that it
HAS TO BE FUNNY. It actually has to make others
laugh.

You must make sure that you are Cocky enough,
because if you're only FUNNY, then you will come
across as GOOFY, which isn't what you want.

So, for instance, you might be at a bar, and
you're having a drink. Let's say your drink has
too much alcohol in it, and you're going to
comment on it.

An arrogant comment might be:

"This bartender sucks. There's too much booze
in my drink."

Add a touch of humor, and it turns into:

"Whoa, this bartender either loves me or is
trying to kill me. This drink is pure alcohol. Is
there an AA meeting nearby? Cuz I'm gonna need it
when I'm done with this one."

You feel me?

It's the COMBINATION that makes Cocky & Funny
work like magic. Too little or too much of either
and you will come off as an idiot.

And remember, have fun. Practice is what will
help you improve.

(If you're reading this right now, and you KNOW
that you need to brush up on your "Cocky & Funny,"
then go get yourself a copy of my "Cocky Comedy"
DVD/CD program. It's the ULTIMATE education on
Cocky & Funny, and you can only get it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/

***QUESTION***

Dave,

Man, life has changed over the last 4 months since
grabbing your book and applying C&F! My friends
are amazed at how many women I am dating and life
is great! One of the most important points I have
followed from you is breaking down the whole
pickup/dating/score routine and approaching each
part as a skill I must learn. Got past the
email/phone number part, past the first date and
first kiss part, and finally the step towards
intimacy. But alas, I'm down to the one skill
that I have problems with and that I've never seen
you really address: The graceful exit skill...
Let me explain...OK, I meet a girl, we go out,
maybe we end up in each other's arms, maybe not,
but there comes a point when I just want to end it
and move on to another girl. I always get nervous
with the "Well, it's been fun, but we this isn't
going to work out so have a good life..." Do I
call and leave a voice mail? Do I phone her? Do I
break it off face-to-face? What's the confident,
C&F way to leave a girl and not have PLAYER
stamped onto my forehead because of it? Loving
life, S.R. P.S. You should pay people for
referrals as I have got about 10 of my friends to
buy your book! HA HA

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You're a very, very, very bad man.

In the best way possible, of course.

I think the key to dating more than one woman,
or to not seeing a woman more than once or twice
is to NOT ACT LIKE YOU'RE HER BOYFRIEND FROM THE
BEGINNING.

Women will only resent you if you mislead them.
So don't. It's not necessary.

Just have fun, be straight up, and enjoy
yourself.

You don't have to break something off if it
never was "something" to begin with. Are you with
me?

The big mistake is to call twice a day, see her
five times a week, act like her long-lost love,
and then drop her without explanation.

I think you get what I'm saying.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

I have been subscribing to the newsletter for
about 6 or 8 months and have purchased your ebook
a couple after subscribing. Your information has
been invaluable and well worth the price. It has
completely changed the way I look at women, I
never pine over them anymore and wonder "what's
wrong with me". Now I know what was wrong with me,
I was a wuss! But that's all changed now and have
become the Jedi Master. I've even come up with
some Jedi Techniques of my own.

At any rate, I met this one girl at a party one
night who I knew came with a few acquaintances of
mine who I told about the party. I got to talking
to her and we talked for a few minutes and poured
on the C&F, but I never got her info. I know, I
know, the 3 minute technique, but I knew I could
obtain it from her friends, and the way she
interacted with me, I knew she wouldn't have
minded at all (Important Note: this is my success
story, I wouldn't recommend doing things like this
unless you have developed the confidence that your
book helps teach). Well, I never had to even asked
her friends because two days later, she ended up
looking me up in the University's online student
directory and then she looked up my IM name and
IMed me with a "mysterious person" message. I
immediately figured out it was her and then
accused her of stalking me and told her that's
pretty illegal. She almost thought I was mad at
her! It was great! Anyways, she is a real quality
girl (not to mention about a 9, not perfect, but
gorgeous nonetheless) and we set something up to
go play pool at a local bar where I again poured
it on thick. Now mind you, I hadn't made any big
advances or anything but as she dropped me off
back home, she came in to use the bathroom. After
she came out, she wrapped her arms around me and
let me have a little taste. I said goodnight to
her and that was that night. A few nights later, I
told her I was going to be cooking and that she
should come over which leads me to...

***Tip 1***
One of the best techniques is to invite a girl
over for dinner at your place, especially if you
know how to cook. I find that many women don't
know how to cook or only "cook" stuff like Mac and
Cheese and other junk. The best part about this is
they get to see your skill, which is pretty
attractive to women when you can make a good meal,
and you have the most control because it is your
own place. The other part, is make sure you don't
start making dinner until she is already at your
place, she's not getting an entirely free meal!
Make her help. If she refuses, use the C&F
techniques and have her do something. Put her on a
task that's not too difficult so she can't mess it
up. For example, if you're making lasagna, make
her grate cheese or something (making her wash
dishes is rather insulting unless you're doing
most of them and she wants to help, which she just
might). And when you're all done with dinner,
take it to the couch and turn on the TV or watch a
movie or something. Which brings me to...

***Tip 2*** If you're sitting down next to a
girl that you're talking to in a private setting
and you get a little of that silence, not the
awkward kind, but the kind where you just kind of
look at each other. If you're thinking to yourself
"should I be kissing her?". The answer is a
screaming "YES". This can be preceded by the
"kiss Test" as well, but I know a lot of guys will
still have insecurities about this kind of thing.
Think about it this way. If you don't kiss her,
then she'll probably think you're a wuss because
you don't have the balls to do something she
probably wants you to anyways. After talking with
a number of my girl-friends, I've found out that
if a guy tries to kiss a girl, unless there is an
obvious unattraction, she will most likely go with
the kiss. At any rate, in this day and age, she's
not going to slap you and walk out the door. It's
not like you grabbed her crotch or something.

***Tip 3*** MC from the Mediterranean asked a
question about calling the next day. I just wanted
to point out you have already answered this
question in some form and you know what to do! You
can generally sense if a girl is sensitive about
something like that. If not, send her some sort of
message that next day, preferably email, but if
you're on the phone, have something you're on the
way to or busy with. Call, say "hi" and that you
had a great time, don't ask how she's doing or
what she thinks about what or if she had a good
time, but find some way to use C&F to make a light
conversation that will keep her wondering and even
thinking about you. Don't bring up the sex unless
she does so in a favorable manner.

***Tip 4***
Not so much a getting girls technique, but rather
something you need to do alone. In your spare
time or even when doing mindless tasks, go over
your past failed attempts when you have a clear
head about them and think about what happened.
You'd be surprised at how easy it is to find the
things that went wrong. You'll also be surprised
to find out that these are probably mistakes you
make all the time! This is the best way to
recognize the problem and rectify it so that its
not repeated. Your techniques are nearly
priceless and have stroked the confidence of guys
everywhere. I've even recommended it to friends
that have some serious wuss problems. I have yet
to see if they've taken it to heart or even
subscribed, but I'll help them yet! Things are
going great with that girl and I know it wouldn't
have happened if it weren't for your book. Its now
become second nature, and you get all the credit.
Thanks again Dave Your once Jedi Apprentice, now
Master, D.M.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Great ideas... great.

Nothing else needs to be said...

Except that you stole those ideas from me,
loser.

Nice!

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

I'd just like to say your book helped in my
confidence level and my cocky/funny routine. I
have always been funny and was always successful
at making women laugh. I had the problem of, well,
closing the deal. I would strike the conversation,
make them laugh, and just joke with em, but could
never get their #. And I would never ask at the
right times, being shot down was a large part of
my night.

After reading your book, I met and talked to
this girl online. At this point I didnt care about
relationships or anything. I just wanted to have
fun. So we talk about 3 days online, and I called
her maybe 1 time and asked her to lunch. The whole
lunch I am making her laugh and break out a little
of the cocky routine. She's laughing and we both
having a good time. Later this month it will be 6
months that we've been together and I just
recently was told, that she tried everything she
knew the first 2 weeks to turn me on. Shes easily
a "8-9" and any other man would have given in and
been the "proverbial" wussy. Let me tell you
cocky/funny/un-clingy = ATTRACTION. It works, it
really does! Thanks for the confidence boost. I
just have to give you kudos to what you have
discovered here. I think you have solved the "8th"
wonder of the world: Women and dating.

You da man K.N. Ohio

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You're welcome...

And you're right: Most attractive women DON'T
KNOW WHAT THE HELL TO DO when they meet a guy that
is charming, funny, "un-clingy" and in control of
himself and the situation.

They get turned on, they think about you all
the time, and they generally feel a level of
ATTRACTION that they can't control (and don't want
to control, because they love it!).

Good job, and I'm glad to hear that you've
found a nice girl for yourself. MAKE SURE YOU
DON'T TURN INTO A WUSS-BAG and screw it up!

***QUESTION***

hey dave,

you are really the man! i started reading your
material and realized what i wuss i had been with
the one girl i dated. before we were dating i was
textbook cocky and funny, but after we were dating
i became super-wuss man and i became "just a
friend". well every girl since then has been
absoultely begging for my attention (even girls i
meet online that live hundreds of miles away that
i practice on). i have two or three girls call
everyday but i'm always too "busy" to talk for
very long (hey i have to watch my sportscenter) i
was on an airplane to NYC when this hott girl sits
down in the seat next to me (i was window and she
was aisle) i had my laptop out and when she sat
down i acted like i didnt notice. well a few
minutes later i had to put away my laptop so i
pulled out a book and began reading it. she then
pulls out makeup (yes makeup) and starts putting
it on in the plane. i gave her a funny look and
said "didnt you have time to do that at home?"

Her: "(laughing) i did have time, but i didnt want
to. all i'm doing today is flying." Me: "oh i
see...(pause) you're lazy." Her: "no i'm not" Me:
"sure you are. but then you saw me and decided you
want to look good right? Her: (just laughs) Me:
"hey, dont worry about it... nothing new to me."
Her: "(laughs) well i mean..." Me: "(interruping
her) it's fine! dont be embarrassed. you're not
the first woman to try and pick me up this
morning." Her: "(still giggling) how can you be so
mean to a complete stranger?"

now i'm stuck... i didnt have anything left to
say... so i just said "i dont know" and (luckily)
she continued the conversation and i eventually
got her email and number and everything. but if
you could tell me something cocky and funny that i
could have used to respond to that it would be
much appreciated. thanks!

J. from OK

>>>MY COMMENTS:

lol... you get it all, and you're trying to
tell me that you didn't know what to say in this
situation?

How about this:

After she said, "How can you be so mean to a
complete stranger?" you could have said:

"I'm not being mean at all, I'm just trying to
let you know that it hurts my feelings when you
treat me like a sex object... like a piece of meat
to be used for your entertainment... can't you
just get to know me for who I am? And then later
use all the makeup tricks to seduce me?"

There are all kinds of directions you could go
with this... you were doing great.

Just make sure you always end by turning it
around, playing hard to get, and getting the
email/number.

Try this:

"OK, look. You're nice and everything, but
you're moving a little too fast for me. Here...
here's a pen. Write down your email address and
number, and maybe we can talk on the phone
later... then we'll see."

Or if you want to get together right after you
get off the plane, say:

"Hey, I'll tell you what. I see that you only
want to use me for my charm... but why don't we
have a drink tonight so I can find out if there's
more to you than just the makeup and cheap lines."

You're doing great.

***COMMENT***

hi david,

i don't know if my story fits in with your
success story, but here it is for what it's worth.
as a 50 year old dutchman, never been
married.....great.. and having lived in holland,
the us, mexico, australia, most parts of asia and
now the ast 6 months in china, i can say one
thing, i totally agree with your c&f concept and
also that it is a proven international concept.
even though i don't have your e-book i have been
practising your c&f concept all my life in
countries where the chicks have different cultures
and don't speak english. funny is'nt, yes, the
answer is simple, don't be a WUSSY, girls are the
same everywhere it's just the more you do c&f the
easier it gets! there is not a day or every
couple of days that go by without a number to
contact some of these pretty things 18-25 year
olds. sometimes i don't even have to ask, they
give me their numbers to me, why because i am c&f,
rude, unpredictable, then smile, then rude again
and say hey babe just because you give me your
number does not mean we are getting layed tonight,
i am too busy anyway, just give me your number and
maybe i will call you in the next couple of days
when i have time. in china it works slightly
differently because of the language barrier, so i
use body and sign language, think about that one
and tend to pick the babes from the shops or
hotels where they work(as it is easier to get them
after work for some fun) same c&f thing i tell
them i'll be back in 2-3 days, very busy etc. then
i drop in the nexy day or so for a quick hello and
tell them again that i'll be back in 2-3 days,
this keeps them curious and hungry. when i get
back i pick them up near closing time, so i know i
am set for the night. the only drawback!! is that
as i travel so much is that i stay mainly in
hotels and so they are knocking on my door for
more, often whilst i am busy with another chick,
this creates great c&f scenarios and the funny
thing is they want me even more after that! so i
am having great fun and i still don't know how
manage to get some of my work done. so great work,
david keep it up! cheers, s.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

A 50 year old Dutchman that dates 18-25 year
olds all over the world by being naturally Cocky &
Funny, huh?

Nice.

Well thanks for your email, I love stories like
yours. Stay in touch and share some of your
techniques with us!

...and if you're reading this right now and
thinking to yourself, "You know, I need to learn
this stuff about how to meet and attract women so
I can get rid of that insecure and fearful feeling
I have"... then YOU'RE RIGHT!

I think that every man should invest in
himself, and learn this skill.

Unfortunately, most guys never take the time
and invest in themselves... and they wind up going
their whole lives WISHING that they could attract
the kinds of women that they want.

Well, I used to be one of the guys who didn't
know what he was doing with women. Now I'm one of
the guys who can go out anytime, in any situation
and attract women.

What's the difference?

I TOOK THE TIME TO LEARN.

And if you'd like to learn, then I recommend
you learn the things that I learned FIRST.

It's taken me a long time to figure all this
stuff out, and it's also taken a lot of time,
effort, and energy on my part to put it all down
on paper and on audio and video... so that any guy
can learn from the things I've discovered.

I'd like to personally invite you to check out
my materials. In a matter of hours you can learn
things that it took me YEARS to figure out... all
from the comfort and privacy of your own home.

My Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD Program
has nearly 18 hours of me teaching live... all
recorded and edited in high-quality digital video
and audio. It contains literally HUNDREDS of great
ideas for meeting and dating women... and it's
probably the single best investment you can make
in your dating life.

You can check out some free audio and video
samples here:

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And if you haven't downloaded my online eBook
"Double Your Dating", then you need to go and do
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I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. DO NOT forget to check out my entire list of
programs... all in one place online. You can read
about them, watch sample video clips, and get all
the details here:

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LAST CHANCE! Transform Yourself In 2011 / 25% OFF!

Hey Man,

    Okay, things are really getting down to the
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    Meantime, Happy New Year's once again, and may
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Escape The "Friend Zone" (For Good!) This Year

NEWSFLASH:

Did you know there's a scientifically proven way
to approach a woman that INSTANTLY tells her
you're a "catch"... that she'd be damn lucky to
have you?

In fact, do just this 1 thing, and she'll KNOW
RIGHT AWAY that you're a one-in-a-million "great
guy".

And guess what happens next...

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Then discover the "magic secret" of making women
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Hey Man,

    It's a brand new year, so I want to kick things
off with something BIG... something I get more
questions about than almost anything else.

    And that is...

    How to escape the "Friend Zone."

    In other words, if there's a woman you're dying
to be with, but she only thinks of you as "a
friend", this simple technique will CHANGE
EVERYTHING for you.

    I'd even go so far as to say it will work like
MAGIC.

    So let's jump right in...

    To start things off, tell me if this rings a
bell with you:

    An attractive woman in your life needs a ride
somewhere. So you DROP EVERYTHING to drive her.

    Or how about this one:

    A cute girl is low on cash, so you give her a
couple dollars as a loan -- even though you have a
hundred other things you need to do with the
money.

    Or this one. It's CLASSIC:

    A beautiful woman that you know -- and would
do ANYTHING to be with -- is upset about something
in her life (usually some *other* guy...) and
wants someone she can "trust" to talk about it
with.

    So you, of course, promise to "be there for
her."

    No matter which of these things may have
happened to YOU in 2010, I don't have to be
psychic to tell you how things probably turned
out:

    In the end, no matter how much you "helped" and
did favors for women like this... they didn't end
up spending time with you...

    ...until they "needed" something from you, that
is.

    Or, if they did hang out with you, it was only
as "just friends".

    Damn. Stings just typing those words.

    Well, if all this sounds too familiar to you,
ask yourself just ONE QUESTION to start off the
New Year:

    In all these situations, why are women
constantly "being your friend" and asking YOU for
"favors"...

    ...then going off to "get some" from some other
guy?

    If this scenario keeps playing out again and
again in your life, I can almost GUARANTEE it
(again, without using my psychic abilities at
all)...

    You're walking around in the world with a
billboard on your forehead that says:

    "HI. I'M A TOTAL PUSHOVER."

    And in fine print beneath:

    "If you're an attractive woman, and you ask me
nicely, I'll give in like a Wuss and do whatever
you want, so ABUSE ME."

    Now, of course, this "Wuss billboard" of yours
isn't made out of paint and plywood...

    It's made out of your outer and inner
    demeanor...

    How you carry yourself...

    The voice tones you use...

    Your body language...

    And most of all:

    YOUR LETHAL LACK OF CONFIDENCE.

    All of this, broadcasting 24/7 to every woman
you meet (and the entire world for that matter):

    I'M A WEAK GUY. PLEASE TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME.

    So, onto the big question...

    What's the antidote to all this?

    How do you begin broadcasting to women (and
everyone else in the world) that you're POWERFUL
instead of a PUSHOVER?

    How do you start getting what YOU want out of
life, instead of giving everything to everyone
ELSE and getting NOTHING in return?

    Well.

    Before I answer that with a KILLER EXAMPLE you
can start using right away, I need to make a
couple CRITICAL points:

    #1: NONE OF THIS IS ANYONE ELSE'S FAULT

    Truth is, attractive women react the same way
to "pushovers" that ANYONE else does. It happens
AUTOMATICALLY.

    Whether we're talking about getting a date with
a "Total 10" woman... or getting a killer job...
or just getting the neighbor to be quiet at
night... the fact is this:

    Once you broadcast "Wussy" signals to the
world, you're DOOMED to being taken advantage
of...

    ...followed quickly by REJECTION and FAILURE.

    It's just simple human nature... When you
INVITE someone to walk all over you, it's
INSTINCTIVE that they accept the invitation.

    And here's the kicker:

    They often do it without even realizing it!

    Bottom line: the FIRST thing you have to do is
stop blaming other people for the life of failure
and rejection you may be suffering through right
now...

    ...and decide to TAKE ACTION to change it.

    Okay... now the GOOD news...

    #2) YOUR CONDITION ISN'T FATAL

    And even better news: Being a "Wuss" and a
"Pushover" DEFINITELY doesn't have to be
PERMANENT.

    YOU could CHANGE EVERYTHING starting
tomorrow...

    ...if, like I said, you only made a decision
TODAY to TAKE ACTION and do it.

    Truth is, making just ONE MAJOR CHANGE in
yourself can cause a virtual chain reaction in
your life...

    AUTOMATICALLY making every "signal" you send to
the world show that you're "POWERFUL" and a
"WINNER" instead of a "Wuss" and a "pushover".

    So then. What's this "MAGIC" CHANGE you need to
make in yourself that will CHANGE EVERYTHING ELSE
in your life as well?

    In short, it's MASTERING YOUR "INNER GAME".

    You can explore the scientific facts about how
critical your "Inner Game" is for success in life
(and how to put it to work for YOU right NOW) by
clicking here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/mantransformation/index.html

    But for now, in short, SUCCESS with women (and
in EVERY area of life) is all about one thing:

    It's about becoming the kind of man who has the
CONFIDENCE and SELF-CONTROL he needs to SUCCEED no
matter what life throws at him -- from
interactions with women to SUCCESS in life in
general.

    That in mind... here it comes without further
delay:

    A FAIL-PROOF, "MAGIC" EXAMPLE OF HOW TO ESCAPE
THE "FRIEND ZONE" FOR GOOD...

    It's simply this:

    The next time a woman you really want tries to
take advantage of you as a "friend", here's what I
want you to do in response:

    Use it as a golden OPPORTUNITY to do the ONLY
thing that really matters if you want to escape
the "friend zone":

    Create irresistible feelings of ATTRACTION in
her.

    If you can do just this 1 thing, it's
guaranteed...

    She won't be able to help herself.

    She won't be able to look at you as "just a
friend" ever again, whether she wants to or not.

    So, the next time she asks you for a favor,
here's what I want you to say without missing a
beat:

    Tell her: "Sure, I'd love to help you out. But
we're going to TRADE."

    Now, first of all, get your mind out of the
gutter... It's not "that" kind of trade.

    If it was, you'd end up getting nothing but a
slap in the face -- and guess what: you'd totally
DESERVE IT.

    What I'm saying here is, you need to think of
some specific ERRAND that you want HER to do for
you, and ask her to do it in RETURN for your help.

    If she wants you to drive her somewhere today,
tell her you need a ride somewhere next week.

    If she asks for a loan, tell her that there's a
quick errand she can help you with to earn it.

    If she wants to spill her guts about some other
guy, tell her you won't listen to her go on about
some LOSER without getting HER advice on something
in return.

    Then, when the time comes for YOUR favor, use
it as an opportunity to SURPRISE her.

    To CHALLENGE her.

    To show her that you're ADVENTUROUS and
UNPREDICTABLE.

    To broadcast your CONFIDENCE.

    In other words, do the things that CREATE
ATTRACTION.

    One great way that I always recommend is to say
that you need advice on a dinner you're planning
to cook... for SOME OTHER WOMAN.

    Then, as her favor to you, ask her to come to
the supermarket with you.

    Have her help you pick out ingredients.

    Along the way, remember to be COCKY AND
FUNNY... busting on the ingredients she chooses...
on other customers... on the celebrities on the
tabloid magazines...

    Whatever.

    Then, when it comes time to check out... Tell
her that SHE'S the one you're cooking dinner for.

    Guess what:

    She'll be floored.

    But the REAL NEWS here is: she'll INSTANTLY see
you in a whole new way.

    And it will INSTANTLY CHANGE EVERYTHING about
your situation with her.

    She'll go from being a woman who used to "walk
all over you" in the Friend Zone to being one
who's INTRIGUED by you.

    One who's EXCITED by you.

    One who needs to learn more about you.

    Once who wants to SPEND A WHOLE LOT MORE TIME
with you to do it.

    Make sense?

    If so, let me assure you it's just the tip of
the iceberg -- there are literally DOZENS of FAST
AND EASY WAYS to start the trip from "pushover" to
"dating powerhouse" in 2011.

    In fact, I have MORE GREAT NEWS for YOU
specifically about that...

    I know it's only January, but I've already
heard from WAY TOO MANY guys that last year was a
TOTAL DISASTER when it came to being treated like
a "friend" by women.

    That's why I've decided to take DRASTIC
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    But for the moment I want to be completely
clear:

    If you're living that painful "pushover"
existence right now...

    ...WISHING you had the CONFIDENCE you needed to
approach women...

    ...WANTING to escape the "Friend Zone"
forever...

    ...HOPING you can finally learn how to CONTROL
your mind and emotions so you don't "blow it" with
a woman every time you try...

    ...WAITING to feel PREPARED ENOUGH to take
ACTION instead of trying to avoid humiliation and
rejection...

    ...then here's what I want you to know:

    NOW IS THE TIME to stop wishing, wanting,
hoping, and waiting!

    Once you have the CONFIDENCE and SELF-CONTROL
you need (in other words, once you've mastered
your "Inner Game") then EVERYTHING will CHANGE for
you.

    And I mean EVERYTHING.

    I'm talking about getting amazing women...

    I'm talking about achieving financial
success...

    I'm talking about living your dreams instead of
just "talking" about them...

    You see, once a man takes back the power in his
life, ALL OF THIS HAPPENS EFFORTLESSLY.

    That in mind... I want you to know I'm all over
this. BIG TIME.

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A SIMPLE WAY to "Close The Deal" Every Time

Here it is: the BIGGEST CHALLENGE men face
when it comes to "closing the deal" with a
woman...

They usually have NO CLUE about the 1 THING
they *MUST* do to make it happen!

But guess what: learn just 1 SIMPLE,
FAIL-PROOF SECRET, and high-quality women
will practically BEG YOU to bring them home.

Click here to learn what it is:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/

Hey Man,

   Recently I got to thinking about how
HORRIBLE I used to be when it came to
"closing the deal" a woman.

   In a nutshell, things usually went like
this:

   I would see an attractive girl in a coffee
shop or bar or even the supermarket... and
the moment I even started to even THINK
about actually approaching her...

   I TOTALLY WUSSED OUT.

   In other words, I felt NERVOUS and SCARED.

   I started making EXCUSES to myself about why
she 'd NEVER go out with a guy like me.

   And get this... sometimes I even started
BLAMING HER!

   That's right -- without knowing anything
about her, I' d start imagining how "stuck
up" or "shallow" she was, because I knew
she 'd NEVER choose caring, sensitive me over
some rich, handsome JERK.

   Which brings me to the big question I want
YOU to think about RIGHT NOW...

   If you've ever felt this way too...

   Why do you, me, and MOST guys destroy any
chance we have with a woman BEFORE we EVEN
TRY?

   Having been there myself, I also have a
pretty good idea about the answer...

   If you 're like I used to be, it's because,
at some level, you know you can't "close the
deal" with a woman... even if you somehow
get up the "nerve" to approach her in the
first place.

   You know there's no way you can possibly say
and do everything right...

   ...from successfully starting a conversation
with her...

   ...to keeping it going without hemming and
hawing and getting tongue-tied...

   ... to sparking the feelings of ATTRACTION
in her...

   ...to turning that spark into SEXUAL TENSION
so she'll consider GETTING PHYSICAL with you.

   I mean, forget about it... I could barely
get the first words out of my mouth to a
woman I didn't know, let alone get all of
this right.

   And here's the kicker:

   Even if I did "get lucky" and pull off all
this stuff, none of it MEANT A THING if I
couldn't "close the deal". (That is...
somehow convince her to actually go out with me.)

   Or better yet, have her come HOME with me.

   Sound familiar?

   If so, here's what I'm here to tell you with
100% CERTAINTY:

   You... me... ANY MAN AT ALL... can ditch the
self-destructive FEAR and EXCUSES...

   ...once he knows EXACTLY what to SAY and DO
when he approaches a woman.

   Make sense?

   Awesome. Because, in just a few moments, I'm
going to share one of MY MOST SIMPLE, POWERFUL,
SUCCESS-PROVEN WAYS to succeed when you approach
a woman.

   But in the meantime, let's get into what must
you must understand before you can "close the
deal" with ANY woman...

   Basically, it all comes down to this:

   You must know what EVERY woman is REALLY
looking for in a man when he approaches her...

   ...and then GIVE IT TO HER before she even
has to think about it.

   So... without further delay...

   What does almost EVERY woman REALLY want in
a man?

   The answer comes as no surprise after you've
spoken to as many women as I have about the
subject...

   Woman want a man to ENGAGE THEIR EMOTIONS
right off the bat.

   They want to FEEL SOMETHING the moment a man
approaches them.

   Something OTHER than complete BOREDOM.

   Well, after hearing this from so many women,
here's the message I received loud and clear
-- and that YOU should, too:

   Approaching women using "pick-up lines" and
"logic" is a loser's game.

   And "hitting on a woman" is a total road to
nowhere.

   (By the way: ever wonder why they call it
"hitting" on a woman? It's because it's
usually a PAINFUL EXPERIENCE for her.)

   Basically, there's NO WAY that lines,
wuss-like "begging", or Spock-like logic
will connect with a woman EMOTIONALLY.

   Just won't happen.

   More on the fascinating reason for that
right here...

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/

   But for now, the bottom line is this:

   DON 'T DO THESE THINGS, and you 're already
WAY ahead of the game.

   Okay... so now you understand what *NOT*
to do.

   So NOW WHAT?

   How do you make an attractive woman feel
differently about YOU than about the constant
parade of losers, wusses and dorks who
constantly approach her?

   Well, listen close...

   Slide your chair closer to your computer
monitor if you have to...

   I absolutely LOVE revealing this part to guys,
because it's so simple it usually
BLOWS THEIR MINDS...

   It's the kind of "duh" moment that makes guys
realize the answer has always been right in
front of their faces... so simple and powerful
that when they finally "get it," they usually
feel like they've WASTED WAY TOO MUCH TIME not
understanding it...

   Ready for your "duh" moment?

   Then strap in, here it comes...

   To "close the deal" with a woman almost every
time, here's what you need to do IMMEDIATELY
the moment you approach her:

   PROVE THAT YOU 'RE A "FUN GUY".

   Let me say that again:

   To "close the deal" with ANY woman, almost
every time, all you need to do is INSTANTLY
SHOW HER THAT YOU'RE A "FUN GUY".

   Whoa. Sounds a little *too* simple, right?

   If so, I totally hear you.

   In fact, I used to think the same thing.

   That is... until I spent YEARS observing and
interviewing men who "closed the deal" with
beautiful women every night (while I went
home alone and watched Skin-A-Max.)

   What I learned from these "naturals" -- men
whose success with women was absolutely
effortless -- totally blew my mind.

   It made all my FEARS and PAST FAILURES seem
like a TRAGIC waste of time.

   I learned that making the first moments
genuinely FUN for a woman is a THOUSAND
TIMES MORE POWERFUL than having money... or
good looks... or the "perfect pick-up line".

   Still not convinced?

   At first, I wasn't either. Then one of these
"naturals" told me to go online and look
through women's profiles.

   And sure enough, there it was:

   One word kept popping up, again and again,
when it came to what almost EVERY WOMAN was
looking for in a guy...

   That word was "FUN".

   And that's when the light bulb finally went
off for me.

   If I couldn't make my first few moments with
a woman FUN, I've DESTROYED any chance for
success with her.

   And now women tell me ALL THE TIME that they
usually spend the minutes after a man approaches
them waiting for him to finally "give up" and
"go away".

   They tell me most men BORE them.

   Worse, most act awkward and nervous...
unsure of what to say... using body language
that projects fear and uncertainty...
hemming and hawing and using those lame,
stale pick-up lines.

   So, getting back to our "duh" moment...

   I realized this can -- and SHOULD -- be an
AMAZING OPPORTUNITY for *ME*.

   I realized all I had to do was make the
experience of "being approached" FUN for a
woman, and I'd move to the head of the line.

   I'd have an almost MAGICAL ADVANTAGE over
99% of other guys, and move closer to
closing the deal with her (more quickly and
easily) than I ever imagined possible.

   And guess what...

   I WAS RIGHT.

   Big time.

   Once I perfected how to make it FUN for a
woman when I approached her, the results
spoke for themselves.

   Even better... once I had an arsenal of
fool-proof ways to IMMEDIATELY capture a
woman's heart and mind... suddenly I COULD
CLOSE THE DEAL almost every time!

   If you'd like IMMEDIATE ACCESS to my
"arsenal" (as well as the opportunity to put
it to work for YOU, 100%-RISK FREE) just
click here:

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   In the meantime, here's the SPECIFIC EXAMPLE
I was talking about... how to show a woman
you're FUN instead of a PAINFUL BORE....

   Let's say you're close to a supermarket when
you see a woman you'd like to meet...

   Walk up to her and say: "Excuse me... I was on
my way to grab a few groceries to cook a
special dinner, and I need a woman's advice.
Would you mind helping me?"

   Yeah, I know... to most men this sounds
unthinkable.

   I mean... why would you do something like
asking a woman to accompany you on an errand
to the supermarket... possibly to prepare
for a date with ANOTHER woman.

   Well, let's analyze what's happening here
for the answer...

   #1: You're asking for her HELP while
showing no signs of the usual "pick-up mode"
anxiety, twitchy gestures, laughs and ticks,
etc. This broadcasts CONFIDENCE to a woman
every time.

   #2: You're INSTANTLY letting her know
you're "no threat" and "in demand" because
you're possibly preparing for a big date --
with ANOTHER woman!

   #3: Best of all, you're showing her that
you're FUN and SPONTANEOUS.

   So... what's going to happen next?

   9 times out of 10, she'll be so intrigued
that "blowing you off" will be the furthest
thing from her mind.

   Assuming she's not in a rush, she'll probably
say something like: "What? You want me to
come grocery shopping with you?"

   She'll be wonderfully confused. She'll be
emotionally engaged. You'll have her full
attention.

   Communicate all of this to a woman, and
she'll immediately be HOOKED.

   She'll instantly respect you and want to
know more about you.

   In other words, she'll feel the first tiny
sparks of that magic feeling called
ATTRACTION.

   And, as you know, that's what *EVERYTHING* I
teach is all about.

   Okay. So now you have her attention.

   What's next?

   Easy...

   MAKE THINGS FUN.

   Early in the supermarket visit, I usually
make a pass by the MAGAZINE RACK.

   It's literally a bottomless pit of fun
conversation.

   Sometimes I'll pick up a tabloid and make
fun of some handsome movie star's picture
("How does George Clooney get so many women
with a nose like that?")

   When we're in the aisles, I'll pick up some
odd product. A jar of "Clamato" juice or
something. Show it to her with a baffled
look and bust on her "What's in this stuff?
Who drinks it? You definitely look like the
`Clamato' type..."

   If the woman picks up anything for herself,
I'll bust on that, too... "Wow, that's
fattening..."

   If she gets nothing at all, I'll ask her if
she's fasting.

   Whatever. There are a million possibilities
for Cocky & Funny at this point.

   If you'd like to learn more about mastering
the endless possibilities to be "Cocky & Funny"
with a woman, click here to learn more:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/

   But here's the point...

   Once you have her suggestions about what SHE
would like cooked for her on a date, it's
time to "close the deal"...

   At check-out, let her know you're shopping
to make dinner for HER.

   At this point, it's almost GUARANTEED she
won't reject you because:

   1) By now, you've engaged her EMOTIONS.
She's feeling fun and adventure --
separating you from all the other guys who
just make her feel BORED and UNCOMFORTABLE.

   2) Because all this was NON-THREATENING to
her, she's TEN times more likely to give you
the "benefit of the doubt" and go along for
the ride a little further.

   3) You've proven you're a "FUN GUY" -- and
she didn't even realize it was happening!

   Basically, whether it's grocery shopping or
jumping out of an airplane, when you approach
a woman with a sense of "Hey, let's have an
adventure, let's go have some FUN..."
it's 100% contagious.

   A woman will start attributing all those
positive feelings to you... and you're IN.

   You'll not only end up with her number at
the end of the day... she'll probably end up
BEGGING YOU to bring her home.

   Gotta love it.

   Okay... as I said, this just one simple way to
successfully approach a woman and "close
the deal."

   If YOU want to learn a lot more ways to leave
behind the FEAR that's DESTROYED your success
with women up until now, I'm ready to help.

   Just click here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/

   Meantime... forget the "pick up lines" and
focus on learning how to BE FUN, and you'll
have success with women like you never
thought possible.

   I personally guarantee it.

   Until then...

      Your friend,

      David D.

PS: Did you know there are 5 LETHAL THINGS
you must NEVER SAY when you approach a woman?

These are the INSTANT DEAL KILLERS that make
99% of guys go down in flames before they
ever have a chance.

If nothing else, I want to make sure YOU
don't make the same mistakes, so go here to
find out what these lethal mistakes are:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/

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