| Welcome to Part 6 of my Romance Challenge Series featuring techniques from my 5 Pillars of Passion. I'm dropping one of my road-tested Romance Tricks That Work Like Magic each week to add a dash of zing to your love life. If you're solo now, modify this tip for practice with friends. They love to be loved by you too. 
Here's Romance Trick #6: Set Up Your Loverspace How much time do you spend preparing the room for lovemaking? Do you run in, bounce on the bed and holler, "Yeah, baby, let's do it!" Well, you're probably doing a little better than that, but for someone to let go and surrender into bliss with you, I suggest you do what Dr. Patti Taylor calls "Setting the Loverspace." I can't wait to tell you about what this means for the future of your love life. Setting Loverspace profoundly impacts your ability to relax and surrender to your body's pleasures together. Setting up your Loverspace lets you enjoy delightful anticipation of the time you will spend together in physical intimacy. When you focus on creating a pleasant atmosphere for foreplay, the lovemaking that follows is much sweeter and more erotic. Every person is unique, so you must explore with them what kind of Loverspace setup they would find most luxurious. Find out the following things by asking them: "When we make love, if conditions were so perfect for you that you could relax and enjoy yourself, what would they be?" 1. Would it be lighter or darker?
2. What temperature would the room be to make you most comfortable?
3. Which room would you like to be in?
4. Would you enjoy music or silence?
5. What is your favorite kind of massage oil or cream? This is called "Running a Menu." Once you know what they prefer, make them so. Bring hand towels or washcloths folded in a neat pile. If they like it darker but not pitch dark, try a 30-Watt Orange CFL Light Bulb See if you can make it very comfortable for your lover in the room so they can just relax and be with you. Then start very slowly, just talking, hugging, holding, touching, and lightly stroking each other. Move into massaging and kissing, and let your romance evolve if you both feel inclined. Lately I've just enjoyed taking time to lie back in bed facing each other while Tim rubs pain cream on my knees (fixing some torn ACL's with new Exosome therapy I'll be telling you about soon) and we catch up. Then we move into Yoni massage. I find I need both these things to get in the mood even when I WANT to make love. Sometimes it's nice to romance each other and feel their body without hoping for sex. That takes the pressure off. Being less needy sometimes works in your favor. Other times, they long for you to tell them precisely what to do and take them on a sensual ride so they can enjoy your initiative and surrender to each other's masculine/feminine polarity. Before you try this tip out tonight, check out some of the articles I sent over the week. Each one will help you bring out more goodness in your relationship.  | The 3 Skin Care Products I'm Using To Look Luminous
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|  | Can Tongkat Ali Live Up To The Hype?
Have you ever heard of Tongkat Ali? No, it's not a delicious tropical cocktail or the distant relative of the greatest boxer ever. Instead, it's an herb traditionally used to support health, wellness, and intimacy. |
|  | "Sacred Container" Agreement
Here's a way to create an explicit agreement between all members that everything said or done during this experience will be kept completely private. It's called creating a sacred container. |
|  | Eliminate Metabolic Syndrome And Reactivate Dormant Sex Hormones
I'm so excited to tell you about my good friend Cody Bramlett, who just announced a BANGER of a deal for his Turmeric + Bioperine supplement. |
|  | Moringa Is A Plant-Based Powerhouse Of Health
Moringa leaves boast an impressive lineup of essential vitamins and minerals, such as vitamins A, C, and B-complex, calcium, potassium, iron, and zinc. |
|  | The "Malfunctioning Superfood" That Forces Your Body To Hoard Fat
Thankfully, Harvard recently discovered how you could "reprogram" this superfood to do what it's supposed to: help you enjoy the slender body of your youth again. |
|  | WARNING: Your Skin May Be Aging Faster Than You Think
Retinol is responsible for helping the body naturally produce more collagen, which can help to reduce the appearance of wrinkles and improve skin firmness and elasticity. |
|  | Why Your Hormone And Libido Levels Are Plummeting
I was so impressed with CytoDetox that I asked them to sponsor my Sexual Vitality Summit. They are offering you a special package. |
|  | Jade Egg For Vaginal Toning And Intense Pleasure
The Yoni Egg feminine empowerment practice has a tangible, body-based payoff like nothing else a woman can do to fully embody her sexuality. Watch this video to learn more. | To Your Romantic Jungle,
Suz  Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions", is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She is the best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. You can find The Susan Bratton Show™ at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements DESIRE with Tribulus, Tongkat Ali and Fenugreek and her wildly successful blood flow booster, FLOW at The20store.com.
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