| Last week, as part of our seven-step intimacy checklist, we talked about expanding our love vocabulary with non-verbal communication. However, some people don't believe they can expand their love vocabulary. They feel their partner cannot use new, creative ways to show their love, passion, and warmth. If we are with only one person for a very long time, we only have a sample size of one. So our library of experiences stays narrow, prone to making assumptions rather than revisiting them. Ask yourself this question: What if everyone was someone new every time we were with them? We are unique each time because we change and grow… so wouldn't it be logical to think about our partner as a new lover each time we come together? Think of movies like "The Notebook" or even "50 First Dates." The couples had to communicate their stories, experiences, and sensuality repeatedly. How would this change your communication strategies? Imagine it's the first time you and your lover have been together. What if you treat them like a completely different person? See your lover with fresh eyes. Bring back the newness with a simple tweak in perspective. Instead of being lazy and falling into a rut, can you bring excitement to your intimacy? What would you do to communicate your sensuality to a brand new lover? Here are two of my suggestions. 1. Discover new techniques through heart-connected intimacy videos to improve your lovemaking. 2. Use your powers of observation, fantasy, and imagination to continue growing and expanding your sensual vocabulary. You and your partner are much deeper, more complex, and more interesting than you think you are. Revisit your attitudes and mindset. Add zing, zest, and sizzle to make your physical pleasure more steamy. And speaking of steamy… This week's articles were written to help you enhance and expand your sensual relationship with your lover. Take the time to read the ones that interest you tonight.  | She can't feel me inside her. Help! (Mailbag)
She has indicated that she does not enjoy sex, and therefore does not even like sex or want sex because she does not feel anything during intercourse. All she feels is thrusting but no pleasure. |
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I received an email from a reader who says her sex life with her husband would have been legendary by now if only their bodies allowed it. |
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This all-natural pain reliever is probably the best thing ever for those experiencing joint pain, swelling, inflammation, nerve pain, and even back pain. |
|  | Playboy Mag Interviews Susan Bratton
Playboy Mag: Does COVID Lead To "Shrinkage" Our whole world has been rocked by the pandemic and we're just now slowly trying to get back into form. Word has it that COVID has severe "performance-limiting" effects. |
|  | Vaginal Rejuvenation Treatment Options
Cheryl gave me my first O Shot and FemiWave treatments. She made me a believer in the power of vaginal restoration. Tim and I went to Scottsdale and shot a video series with Cheryl about all the latest tools and techniques she likes most. | Expand Your Life,
Suz  Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions", is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She is the best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. You can find The Susan Bratton Show™ at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements DESIRE with Tribulus, Tongkat Ali and Fenugreek and her wildly successful blood flow booster, FLOW at The20store.com.
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