| This email is for women only... if you are a man, please click here so we won't send you email for women. ⇐ Men Click Here "He had an affair. Now what?" I received an email from a woman who recently discovered her husband was fooling around. According to her, it may have just been an accident. And she wants to know what to do next. There may be other women going through the same ordeal right now, so this email is for each one of you. Whether it was truly unintentional or not, this is my advice. Click Here For Relationship Magic ⇐ Why Treating Your Partner How YOU Want To Be Treated May Be Ruining Your Relationship (And What To Do Instead) 
No Sexual Advice Please ⇐ Click here and you will only get Relationship Advice SPARK MAGICAL ROMANCE AGAIN Infidelity doesn't have to be a deal-breaker. We all make mistakes. Before going nuts and doing something you will later regret, take a deep breath and read this ten times: As far as his affair, keep in mind that he's going through a tremendous loss right now too. If he did have a heart connection and it's now been broken, he is going through loss, grief, disillusionment, guilt, and many more emotions that are painful in addition to letting you down. His infidelity feels like a mortal wound to you… and in this case, he feels like part of him has been ripped away because he made a mistake. The part of him that was your loyal husband… And he knows his actions permanently altered the commitment he had with you for so long. You're hurting. He's hurting. And you're in this together. So here's what I want you to do. Bring your compassionate heart to your life partner. It happens, honey. It happens all the time. Nurture him through it. And nurture yourself through the heartbreak. Together you can get through this cheating and betrayal too. Listen, he didn't do it TO YOU. It had little to nothing to do WITH you. He fell in love with someone else. It's ok. His heart will heal. Continue to love him through the healing, baby. It is what we do for our life partners. Now, of course, you have to establish new rules. The affair should stop and they should cease communication. And you should make sure he's fully committed to rebuilding your relationship. However, aside from simply laying down new rules, you should also build new channels of communication between you two. Most affairs happen because one person's desires aren't met. And that usually happens when lovers don't talk about their needs and desires as openly as they should. My Relationship Magic couples exercise will help you both put into words what you want out of your relationship together going forward. Use the workbook to embark on a new open, free, radically honest, and guilt-free communication agreement. You should be able to share what you're thinking and feeling with your partner without any worry of negative feedback, friction, or judgment. And your partner must also have that freedom with you. Every time your bitterness comes up, just forgive both your husband and his paramour and let it go. Move your mind to where you're going together as a reunited, recommitted couple. You control your mind. Don't let it control you. This too shall pass. You will start a new life together. You're just in the early steps of a new level of love and appreciation for each other. And in the initial steps of falling in love all over again. The Best Place To Start Is Here ⇐ Spark Relationship Magic Starting Tonight To Healing and Growth,
Susan  Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions", is a champion and advocate for all those who desire lifelong intimacy and passion. She is the best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs on lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills such as Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Hormone Balancing, The Pump Guide and Thrust In Time. You can find The Susan Bratton Show™ at BetterLover.com, her more personal posts @susanbratton on Instagram, and her new sexual vitality supplements DESIRE with Tribulus, Tongkat Ali and Fenugreek and her wildly successful blood flow booster, FLOW at The20store.com.
P.S. Tim and I have made it through an affair situation. I promise this too shall pass and make you stronger together if you allow that as an option. | 
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