I'm going to challenge you, Jmonty1945@gmail.com.
And it's going to be fun, intimate, and a whole lotta good for your relationship.
Regardless if you're just dating or if you've been together for years or decades.
Over the next few months, I'm going to drop one of my favorite Romance Tricks to add a dash of zing to your love life. If you're solo now, practice this tip on friends. They love to be loved by you too.
Here's Romance Trick #1: "Notice Your Partner"
There is nothing more romantic to a lover than when you notice something special about them. We call this "Erotic Vigilance" - one of the Four Keys to Seduction.
It's this simple to do:
"Is that a new top? It complements your shape, baby."
"I love when you cook this meal. It always tastes so good to me."
"You remembered to pick up milk. Thank you! You are so good at staying on top of a million details."
When you notice one unique thing about your partner every day, they will light up like the New York skyline.
IT'S TIME FOR ROMANCE
We humans thrive on a steady stream of approval and appreciation. We like to HEAR you compliment us. This is also a form of Intimate Communication.
When partners complement their lover, it makes them feel special. Loved. Admired.
When men compliment their woman, they are leading with their masculinity. When he compliments her on her feminine activities and womanly looks, he will automatically increase her polarity and encourage her feelings of trust and safety in his presence. This is essential to promote the safety/risk duality of romantic eroticism.
Women don't get enough pure appreciation about our looks out in the world, so we need to get that desire fulfilled in the safety of our homes.
When women compliment their male partner on achieving a challenge, doing a great job, providing security and appreciating his looks, men find these types of appreciation particularly satisfying.
These differences are the artifacts of hormone dominance (the difference between running on more testosterone vs estrogen), evolution, culture and other enduring themes of our humanity.
Just as we thrive on romance and touch, we thrill to different kinds of appreciation.
Ladies, gentlemen, and everyone across the spectrum. Noticing something unique about your partner each day and conveying it to them will change your relationship for the better. There's no doubt about it.
The challenge this week is to start incorporating verbal appreciation into your relationship. Whether you need to get up right now and go give your partner a compliment or you need to put a reminder on your calendar, just do it, baby! We need your love and affection.
And before you jump... cruise down below to see the goodies we have for you this beautiful week. Don't miss my Gay Pride Celebration Dress I got for our 28th Wedding Anniversary. Photo below.
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