Online Dating Tips & Secrets: If You Do This Around Women, You Have Zero Chance Of Success. Here Is What To Do Instead

Hi,

Now listen... when I use the word "transformation," I mean something very specific... and yet hard to describe. And to understand it, you have to understand two shocking truths first. Without understanding these truths, you'll never know what I really mean by transformation.

Here they are:

Truth #1: Your mind has you by the balls
Truth #2: Your balls have you by the mind

Now, what do I mean by this?

I mean that your mind has you by the balls because YOU are not directing your own thinking.

You are out of CONTROL. Your MIND is in control... not YOU. You walk around in a dream, pretending you're awake, pretending you're in control of your life. But you're not.
What's driving your behavior is a system of mental programming you didn't install... and that you're not even aware of. And your balls have you by the mind because that primal part of you - those instinctual mating drives - they're actually directing most of your thinking.

They're pulling the strings behind the scenes - and most of the time we're NOT EVEN AWARE OF IT.

Sure, once in awhile we wake up for a moment and realize "Whoa, I'm out of control." Often it's too hard for us to face this fact, so we repress it.

TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE... AND START SUCCEEDING WITH WOMEN

Here's what it all comes down to:

If we want to transform into a naturally attractive guy... the kind of guy who can attract what I call a "Total 10" (a ten on the outside... beautiful, takes good care of herself... and a ten on the inside... emotionally mature, confident, etc.)... then WE HAVE TO admit this to ourselves.

We have no other choice.

Which brings us to the "THE 3 BRAIN THEORY" ...

After 7 years of teaching this stuff, I've learned to really respect the human mating process.

You may have heard me talk about the "triune brain theory" - the idea that inside our brain are actually 3 brains that developed over thousands of years of human development (the reptilian brain, the mammalian brain, and the logical brain).

When the reptile part of you - the part that's obsessed with power, survival, and sex - is trying to "get some," you are completely OUT OF CONTROL.

Of course, we try to rationalize it - we convince ourselves it's something we consciously choose to do - but I've come to believe it's completely on auto-pilot.

Now, I don't mean we're out of control like we're insane and we're going to kill someone, but I mean we have drives within us that have been around for thousands of years and that powerfully influence how we think, feel, and act.

If you can accept this fact, it can be one of the first steps to transforming yourself into the kind of man who can direct these deep instinctual drives in a way that attract women to you... and put you in the driver's seat of your life.

So let me ask you:

DO YOU THINK YOU'RE REALLY IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE?

I mean... really?

Well, here's a little test:

Think of something you should be doing every day to enrich your life, that you're not doing. Something that if you did it every day, would totally make your life better.

Got it? OK.

So, what I want you to do is write a check for one year of your current salary... get out an envelope... address it to a buddy... and stick the check in the mail. Then call up your buddy and tell him, "I'm going to tell you everyday when I do this thing that's going to improve my life....

And the very first day you don't hear from me, I want you to cash the check and immediately spend the money on something immediately so there's no way of getting the money back."

Go ahead. Do it. I'll wait.

You say you're not thrilled about this idea?

Exactly.

But you at least think that you're mostly in control of your life, right?

Well, here's what I think: I think we're NOT in control most of the time. I think what's in control is our habit patterns, our habitual emotions, our drives, etc. Sure, we can stop ourselves from doing something really stupid (most of the time)... but we're not really in control.

What is in control of you are your deep instinctual drives... and when they are in control, you GIVE YOUR POWER AWAY.

Ever hear of the saying "She's got his balls in her purse?" You don't want YOUR balls in there... believe me.

But when you learn how to control those drives and get them to work FOR YOU, that's when you'll attract a high quality woman - the type of woman you want to be with long term... what I call, a "Total 10."

But if you're out of control - and you try to give her control over the situation, and over you - she'll get turned off INSTANTLY. Before you even say a word, she'll have her "shield" up, she'll be cold and distant, and you'll have no clue how to handle it.

Now, the irony of it all is this kind of woman - a Total 10 - she doesn't want control over you in the first place. She doesn't want your balls in her purse.

In fact, it annoyed her when you gave them to her. Attractive, emotionally mature women don't like guys who aren't in control... and they don't like guys using techniques.

HOW TO STOP "GIVING AWAY YOUR POWER" AND START ATTRACTING WOMEN

The answer is (drum roll please...) you must begin to TRANSFORM.

This means looking inside ourselves and honestly trying to figure out why we do what we do, our patterns of belief that hold us back, and how to go to the next level of what it means to "be a man."

As you're guessing by now, the things that attract and keep a Total 10 aren't technique- based. So, if you want one of these women, you're going to need to change yourself... and that's exactly what my world-famous Become Mr. Right Program is designed to do for you.