What Causes Women To Leave Men?

Hi Man, Okay, here's today's BIG QUESTION: Why Does A Woman Choose To Leave A Man? Interesting question, isn't it? We've all had women leave us... And we've all been in the situation, wondering why she was leaving... And willing to do literally anything to get her to stay. (Having trouble viewing this email? CLICK HERE) Read the following scenarios, and nod your head silently if you can identify with one of them: Scenario #1: You met an incredible woman, and you really hit it off at the beginning. But the more time you spent with her, the less interested she became... but the more interested you became. You could feel the balance of power shifting, but there was nothing you could do about it. Eventually SHE JUST STOPPED SEEING YOU, but she never explained why in a way that made any sense... Scenario #2: You were seeing a woman for several months, maybe even a year or so. Everything seemed fine. But then one day she came to you and said, "I don't know how I feel anymore, and I just need some time alone... some time to find myself... IT'S NOT YOU, IT'S ME"... but, her time alone turned into her seeing some other guy that didn't treat her half as well as you did... Scenario #3: You were in a serious long-term relationship with the woman you thought you'd spend the rest of your life with. Sure, you had your problems, but you thought she would stick by your side forever. Out of nowhere, she started acting strange... becoming more controlling and angry... no matter how hard you tried it only got worse. They she dropped the bomb that SHE DIDN'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE, and she was leaving.    Of course, there are a million variations of these basic situations, but I'll bet you can identify with one of them.   Stop Feeling Hopeless Feeling "hopeless" in life because of your failures with women? Then watch my Deep Inner Game program NOW. It's packed with success-proven techniques (straight from top experts) designed to eliminate EVERY fear, insecurity, and bad habit that's holding you back... and replace them with the unstoppable CONFIDENCE you need to change your whole life. Go "deep" NOW!     I Can Identify With ALL Of These Incredibly PAINFUL Scenarios, Too In fact, I've been through each of them... some more than once. And I'll tell you... I can remember the pain and the desperation I felt each time. I mean, it sucked. I hated it. Probably the worst part of it was the feeling of powerlessness that went along with each time. It's bad enough having the woman you like or love leave you... but to have to also deal with the fact that you don't know how to change things, and there's nothing you can do about it is just plain depressing. Again, if you've been there, nod silently with me as we jump into: How To Make Sure You NEVER Have A Woman Leave You Again I want to begin with a startling revelation: Most likely, in all of these scenarios, THE REAL PROBLEM ISN'T WHAT YOU THINK The first thing you must realize in this type of situation is that the problem you're dealing with isn't what you think it is. Most guys naturally assume that the woman is leaving them because he's not being nice enough, or he's not giving her what she wants, or he's not being a good boyfriend... etc. Or they assume that this is just one of those things that happens, that feelings change and that there's really nothing he could have done anyway. Well, these ideas, and almost all the others that most guys think, are DEAD WRONG. So step one is for you to realize that what you think you know is wrong. Throw it out. Start over, and open your mind to a new way of seeing things. I'll share more on this later. First I Want To Tell You What NOT To Do... Now I know that this is going to sound pretty obvious, but if what you're doing isn't working in a particular situation, you need to stop. Don't keep doing what's not working. In other words, if the woman you love is breaking up with you, and you've been being nice to her, doing whatever she wants, and telling her that you'll do anything to make it better... if only she'll stay... then stop. Stop doing that. Whatever it is you're doing that isn't working isn't working. So stop it immediately. More of the same is only going to get you more of what is happening. Next you need to know: Why ATTRACTION Is Everything One of the main reasons why I talk about and teach the concept of attraction is that when it comes to these types of situations, the real underlying reason for them is usually that the woman doesn't feel attraction anymore. When it all boils down, she just plain does not feel it. Now, a woman will say and do all kinds of things other than telling you that this is the problem. Women have all these ideas in their heads, like "I can't tell him how I really feel because I don't want to hurt his feelings" and "I can't tell him what's going on because I don't want to emasculate him" and "It's just easier if I just go away." Love it. But when you take away all of the B. S., and you get right to the core of what's going on, you'll usually find that it all boils down to attraction... or, more specifically, the lack of attraction. And with that I'm going to say something that's pretty bold right now... If you do not know how to make a woman feel the gut level physical and emotional response called attraction, then you are going to be out of control in relationships, and you will very likely have women leave you for the rest of your life. In other words, there is no security when you don't get it in the attraction department. Women know that they have the upper hand with most men. As a guy, you can feel it when a woman has you by the balls. And even if she's not evil or mean, a woman can still crush you emotionally when she's in this powerful position. Well, guess what? You're The One Who Gives Women The Power To Hurt You Now, if you choose, you can keep this power for yourself. Before I give you some tips on how to do this, I want to recommend something to you. If you know that you give your power away to women too often, and you'd like to get a serious mental overhaul in this area, then check this out before you read the next section: Now, on to... How To Solve This Problem BEFORE It Starts The best way to deal with this particular problem is to solve it before it even starts, and the absolute most important prevention method is an understanding of female psychology and attraction. Here are a few pointers to get you started: 1) Women are NEVER attracted to "wussies" To say it another way, women don't feel attraction for weak men. Sure, if you chase a woman for long enough, and buy her enough things, she may fall for you. But in that case it's not because she feels attraction for you. It's because she feels affection for you, and she confuses it with attraction. So if your inner wussy has been taking the wheel, evict it. Slap the wuss out of yourself right now. 2) Don't be predictable Predictability is a mortal sin when it comes to attraction. If a woman can guess what you're going to do or say, you're being predictable. If she can't guess what you're going to do or say, she'll always be wondering... Now, keep in mind that women are much better at predicting behavior than men. So if you're going to stop being predictable, then you're going to need to learn how. To begin with, pause before you do and say things. Think about what you'd normally do, then do something else. Throw in some crazy, off-the-wall stuff for good measure. 3) Don't be boring Boring is the bastard child of predictable. When you are so predictable that nothing is new or different, then you are officially boring. Boring is also the lack of adventure, passion, energy, humor, and attraction. Unfortunately, most men are really, really, really boring. I mean, like, shoot-yourself boring. Like, if there was a boring score that took into account everything from food to clothing to interests to conversation, most men would score a 99.75 on a 100 scale. It's a bad situation. I used to be pretty damn boring myself, so boring, in fact, that I could probably be certified as an expert on the topic. So take it from me, boring is bad. I don't care what you have to do to stop being boring, but do it. A quick idea is to take up a "real man" hobby. And no, I'm not talking about turning yourself into biker dude, or one of those fisherman on Deadliest Catch is that's not you. Here's what I'm saying: Try wine collecting, not comic book collecting Do mountain biking, not chemistry Talk fashion with a woman, not X-Box You feel me? There is a way to communicate with women about your life that prevents you from being boring. I suggest that you pay attention to the things you're learning from me so you get it. Okay, now I'm going to really stick my neck out... this one is going to make the little baby hairs stand up on the backs of necks of women all over the world... BREAK UP WITH HER FIRST! If you find yourself in one of these bad situations that I mentioned above, and you sense that the woman in your life is about to leave... just do it. Don't hesitate. Cut the line. HIT THE ROAD. As you've heard me say quite a few times, it's important to give a woman the gift of missing you. No matter what your emotions tell you to do, you have to end it first. If you want to have any chance of having things work out in the long run, then you need to take control of the situation, and break up with her. From this position, you will then be able to see things more clearly, and she will be about 100 times more likely to want to work things out with you. I know, this is a damn hard thing to do when you're in the heat of the moment... but if you don't do it, you'll probably wind up with her leaving... and you feeling that lame powerless feeling that I described earlier. Oh, and by the way... If you really want to increase your chances of having things work out, then you should also start dating other women as well. But let's not talk too much more about this one, because I'm already in the danger zone here. To wrap up, let me talk about one more thing... As I mentioned before, the real thing that causes women to leave comes down to the man in her life not understanding ATTRACTION and how to make her feel it for him. And, as I mentioned, no woman is ever going to tell this to you. Instead, she's just going to leave. When I first started learning all of this stuff about how to be successful with women and dating, I had no idea that I would wind up solving the mystery of why women leave men. I was only looking for the answer to how to get a woman in the first place... I never even thought about keeping one once I got her... But now I realize that this particular topic usually winds up being the most important one, because once you find that amazing woman, and get something good going, you certainly don't want to lose her. And when you find yourself in the situation, and you realize that the woman you have is about to leave... you would basically do anything to stop it. Of course, at that point it's usually too late to do anything... which sucks. So one of the most important things you can do right now in your life is: Learn What Makes Women Feel ATTRACTION... And Learn To Create It What's the best way, you ask? Oh, I just happen to have a couple of ideas... Basically, I'm the only person I know of in the history of the planet who has designed an entire program around how to make women feel attraction for you so you can save yourself several years of trial and error... not to mention thousands of hours of study and research. Yes, that's right. This is as close to a life-changing "miracle cure" as you're going to get. And where can you get all of this amazing insight and training... and get it without any risk whatsoever? And, if you'd like to get an introduction to my basic concepts and techniques, then you need to go download my online eBook Double Your Dating right now. You can download it right now and be reading it in just a few minutes. It's right here. Look, no one is going to do this FOR you. You need to do it for yourself. So get to it.      I'll talk to you again soon.      Your friend,                   P.S. If you still haven't seen all the different programs I've created to help you learn how to meet and attract women, you really need to do that right now. You'll learn some of my personal secrets to success just by going here.     Deep Inner Game   Replace crippling fears & insecurity with massive success:     Turbocharge your confidence Change your whole life Say & do the right thing in any situation       Advanced Dating Techniques Guaranteed to take your dating success to the next level:   Techniques to overcome fear Making moves on dates & more Tools for approaching women & getting numbers     Double Your Dating LLC 3960 Howard Hughes Parkway Suite 500 Las Vegas, Nevada 89169 United States (800) 749-1325

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What If A Woman Doesn't Call Back?

Hi Man, There's one particular email question that I constantly get from TONS of guys... To save time -- and to make sure that YOU have the answer to this critical question when you need it -- I want to get this one handled for you right now. Here we go... (Having trouble viewing this email? CLICK HERE) Q. Dave: I'm sure there are a lot of guys out there that would like your input on this question. There is something that I haven't seen addressed in your mailbag or your e-book and that is what to do when the woman you've have e-mailed or called didn't reply to the e-mail or phone call and you see them again. Two personal examples:   Example one: I meet this girl at my job. Start doing C&F routine on her: "Why do you look so serious, are you trying to scare people away. I know inside of you there's a nice girl that's just dying to come out." She laughs and I say "That's more like it, now you don't look so scary." To make a long story short I ask this girl Friday to give me her phone number so that we can get together the next day. She gave me her number and I called, left a message on her voice mail and she never got back to me. Saw her the following Monday (she sits right across from me) and she didn't say anything. No reason why she didn't call me back. Nothing. I ended not talking to her. I thought that if I asked her about why she flaked she would've given me a lame excuse anyway. I haven't been giving her too much attention since. Example two: I go to this club on a regular basis. I saw this one girl and started dancing with her. Did some C&F routine like "Don't get too close", "I don't even know you that well". She was enjoying it. I asked her for her number before I left. Found out after I called the number that she gave me a wrong number. I saw her two weeks afterwards in the same club and just ignored her. Now for my question. What should I do when I come across situations like these again? Act like it never happened and ignore them or call them on it. Sometimes I think women flake as a test to see what the men are going to do if they happen to come across them again. I know some guys will just tell them off? What have you done in these situations? RF NYC A. First, thanks for this question. Like I said, I have had this question many, many times, and I'm glad you asked. One of the things I've talked about before is how once a person believes something to be "true" or believes that they understand how something works, that they tend to make other information or new things that they learn, fit that older model, rather than being open to change. For instance, people who become part of a cult will tend to take the advice from others, evidence that they're not doing the right thing etc. to help convince them that they ARE doing the right thing.     Speak The "Secret Language" Of Attraction   If you have trouble getting women to call you back or "commit" to a date, then the problem is probably something very DIFFERENT from what you might think... 99% of the time, it's NOT because you're not cool enough, rich enough, or handsome enough. If you can't get a woman to call you back, chances are that it's because you FAILED to "communicate" with her in a way that made her feel like she wanted to get to know you better... let alone take things to the "next level" with you. Here's how to "communicate" with a woman in the RIGHT WAY to make her want to call you back (and a whole lot more...):       When It Comes To Women "Flaking", You Must PREVENT It In The First Place That's why I'm going to talk about how to prevent this problem first, then tell you a few things you can do when you run into it again in the future as well. Here are two things to keep in mind: Women give out their numbers to guys a lot (on average). A woman can have all kinds of reasons for giving out her number. She might like the attention, or it might even be just to get rid of a guy. Women expect men to call *them*. And if a man doesn't reach them when he calls, a woman expects the man to TRY AGAIN. (In the book "The Rules" - the book for women about how to get a man to marry you - the authors tell women not to call men and rarely return a man's call, because it makes him think about you and want you more). This in mind, if I were you, I'd start thinking about two approaches: Approach #1: Figure out how to make it so that women want to give you their real number and make them want to call you back based on the first meeting. Approach #2: If you got a number instead of email, call her 3 or 4 times before you give up. Let's Get Specific... To figure out how to make women want to call you back, you might have to work on improving your humor, your personality, your appearance, or whatever. In short, you need to learn how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you when you first meet her. If you don't, she's not likely to call you back. Don't go too overboard on this one because a lot of this issue is just the fact that women don't return calls as often as men do... but think it through. And if you need to learn more about how to trigger this response called ATTRACTION in women, then you should probably take a minute and READ THIS before we go any further. Okay... now, from what I can tell from your email, there are also probably a few things you're doing that make women feel a little strange at first (this is just a guess, as most guys have things they could improve). Here are a few of the things you should look at: Are you acting a little too nervous? Are you acting too "nice" or like you're "awed" by women? Are you failing to make eye contact directly? Are you giving off a not-very-confident vibe? Think about all of these possibilities... but for now, the best thing you can do is: Be Persistent, Keep It Cool And Stay Low-Key Call a woman on the phone only 3 or 4 times before you give up. Women expect men to keep trying, so they just don't call back. Remember... she's the WOMAN. She's the one who's getting approached by interested guys, and who probably sees you as just another guy calling her. NOTE: If a woman gives you a fake number, it means that she wanted to get rid of you. You need to think about how the interaction went, and take responsibility for the behavior and communication that made her want to give you a fake number. Again, think about it and make improvements. And to answer your question directly of "What do I do if I see her again afterwards," I'd say that it all depends. If you would consider going out with a woman who has the ethical standard of giving out fake numbers, then I'd say you might want to reconsider your choice of women... And if you would like to talk to a woman who didn't call you back (maybe you left her a message, etc.), then I'd come up with something funny. Cocky & Funny, that is. Walk over and make fun of her because it's obvious that she didn't have enough money to pay her phone bill and when she tried to call you back she found that her phone was disconnected but that it's nothing to be ashamed of and you'll take pity on her and buy her some ramen noodle soup while she's broke and hungry. Just make sure you're lighthearted about it, and you communicate that you could really care less that she didn't call you back... but that you're going to take the opportunity to bust on her because she's in your presence. That brings me to one more thing I need to talk about... The CRITICAL Importance Of Body Language I just can't say it enough... Your body language says sooooo much about you, and women use body language to decide many, many things about you. If your body language and communications aren't working together to create attraction, then you're going to get a lot more fake numbers and a lot fewer calls back from women. And if you're reading this right now and you'd like to be learning how to read subtle body language and how to make women feel the magical emotion called SEXUAL ATTRACTION for you by communicating with them in ways that other men don't... ...then I highly recommend that you check out my Body Language For Success With Women And Dating program. This is the first program of its kind, and it will TRANSFORM your understanding of how to use your body language and voice tone to attract women, so go watch some of the preview video clips for yourself and you'll get ideas you can start using right now.         And... if you're ready for an in-depth education on everything from overcoming fear and approaching women... to getting numbers and dates... and taking things to a physical level... start watching my Advanced Dating Techniques program instantly online. It's literally jam packed with over 12 full hours of digitally recorded concepts, strategies, and specific techniques to DOUBLE YOUR DATING... and a whole lot more. You'll not only hear me teaching my personal techniques and secrets, but you'll also hear me interviewing several of my friends who are some of the best in the world with women... and getting them to reveal THEIR secrets as well. Go watch the latest preview video clips here: One Last Thing... I get emails all the time from guys who are listening to my programs two, three, and even five or more times because there's just so much information packed into them. But if you haven't read my top-selling eBook that started it all, then you need to do that now. It's called Double Your Dating, and it's my original manual for success with women and dating, and it's the place to get started if you want to take your success with women to the next level.        I'll talk to you again soon.      Your friend,                   P.S. Have you ever wished that you could build your very own "Dating Success Machine"... an automatic, effortless system for getting women? Well guess what... THERE IS. I want to show you how to create a system for starting conversations, getting numbers, and getting actual, real-world dates right on your computer... I'm talking about having literally HUNDREDS of women begging to be with you... and you never have to leave home to do it! 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