How To Approach A Woman Anywhere

This week I would like to turn the tables and try something a bit different... something that might help you think about things in a new way and hopefully stir you up enough to... (Having trouble viewing this email? CLICK HERE) Take Action NOW... And Start Changing Your Life Let's get started like this: I want you to think about the last time you saw a really attractive woman... one you wanted to go over and talk to her, but for whatever reason you just didn't do it. I'm talking about a really hot woman. Take your time if you need it. I'm not going anywhere   A Secret Way To Drive Women Crazy   Did you know there's something you can do while just kissing a woman that instantly tells her you'll be an expert in the bedroom?   And get this: From there, it's ridiculously simple to discover all of her pleasure buttons, and use that power to blow her mind in bed like no man ever has before.   Ready for the POWER you need to get all the women you want? Get it right here:        Good. Now, let me ask you a few questions:     Did you ever stop a day or two after one of these situations happened to think about where that particular woman might be, and what she might be doing? Did you ever stop to think about what the rest of her day was like after she walked by you? About the ten or twenty other men that saw her that day who didn't have the nerve to talk to her... and the two or three that DID talk to her with the the same-old "Wow, you're beautiful lines"? Did you ever consider that it might be useful to take a little time out and consider what it might be like to be an attractive woman walking through life having almost every man you see light up with that "Whoa..." look? Hmm, what do you think we might be able to figure out if we just took a few minutes to explore what that attractive woman's private life is like? Well, here are a few things that I've come up with: Most attractive women are bored out of their minds by men. One of the reasons is that guys have no idea what to do when they run into an attractive woman, so they do the same default things: give dumb looks and compliment her. As I've said many, many, many times: You can't bore a woman into feeling ATTRACTED to you. She's most likely got a boring life like everyone else, so you need to do something that none of the other 499 guys she's going to walk by this month did, or won't attract any special attention. If you start with the idea of NOT doing what other guys do, you will be waaaayyyy ahead of those 499 boring, predictable, "nice" loser guys she encounters. Wow, this is fun, isn't it? Bet you never thought you'd be thinking like a woman, did ya? Now let's get to it... The One Thing You MUST Do To Get A Woman's Attention As you may have already predicted, I have a few ideas on this (including the most important thing a man MUST do to get noticed by a great woman... ) but don't let that stop you from thinking about this on your own as often as you get a chance. To start with, try approaching a woman in an interesting way that makes her feel like you might actually be someone to provide her with a pinch of spice in her life. Start by getting rid of the, "Wow, you're a beautiful woman, and I'm just an average guy admiring you" vibe. That's not helping. Next, take a moment and think about how a guy that she would feel attracted to might act... then choose that style. My experience is that if you take an attitude of "I guess fate has good taste putting us in the same place, now let's see if you have a personality to match your looks" then stir in a generous portion of Cocky & Funny, you're likely to do well. Here's A Real-Life Example That I've Used Myself... You say... "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?" (leaning back and playing it cool, talking cool and slow). She says: "Sure." You pause for suspense and say, "Are you single?" (with a stone-cold straight face). She says, "Well, um..." to which you say, "I'll take that as a yes..." (while nodding with a sly smile) She'll laugh. So you say, ""Well, I just happen to know someone that I think might really like you... if you're more than just a pretty face, that is... He's funny, has great taste, and I think you'd like him... I'd love to sit down and get your life story, but I'm on my way somewhere... do you have email?" At this point, she'll almost ALWAYS say "Yes." So you say, "Great... (take out pen)... write it down for me, and I'll have, uh (clear throat) HIM send you an email." Then wish her a good day and get out of there. Let's Talk About Why This Works... First off, did I give her any compliments? Did I act like the other 499 guys? Did I instantly communicate that "I'm not worthy?" Definitely NOT. I said, "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?" in a very laid back, almost too relaxed and mysterious tone of voice, to which any woman will respond with a "yes." (NOTE: your body language is a very important component of this approach... if you'd like to learn how to use body language to create massive attraction, then you should go and check this out... it will really help.) Next, I did something kind of fun: I asked her directly if she was single. I really love this one. It's so fun. Most guys will say, "Uh, I'll bet you have a boyfriend, huh?" or "So, do you have a man?" or some other lame thing. The question, "Are you single?", takes women off guard. It's great. And then being assumptive in a cocky & funny way when she hesitated with an answer... works like magic! Next, I followed up with a cocky, funny, semi-confusing little bit about knowing someone that might find her interesting. Now, she might think that it's really me, but she won't know for sure until she gets the email. Then you might play with her a bit... "So, what did you think of my friend? I think he might like you..." etc. The point is: This Kind Of Stuff Doesn't Happen To A Woman Very Often I can pretty much guarantee it... This kind of fun approach will be a welcome breath of fresh air. The whole time she's trying to overcome her sheer awe that you didn't ask, "Don't I know you from somewhere?" Now, I want you to do something. Go back and READ IT AGAIN... very carefully. Imagine it happening exactly like it's written. Try to imagine it in a few different settings. Work on it until you can clearly see it happening in your mind's eye. (The reason I can see it clearly is because I've done it so many times in real life!) You Know How To Approach A Woman... So What's Next? I can remember when I first learned how to start approaching women... I thought that if I could just start conversations easily, the rest of it would be a snap. Well, after meeting a lot of women, but not getting so many dates... and having the few dates I did get not go anywhere... I realized that there was a lot more to it.   The REALITY is that *success* with women comes down to understanding female psychology, knowing the entire mating game front to back, and then knowing all the specific techniques and steps you need to take at each moment with a woman. And there's only one place in the world I know of where you can learn all of this information quickly, easily, and thoroughly... That one place is my Advanced Dating Techniques program. In this program, I'll take you all the way through the things you need to know to be successful with women... from theory to practice... from nuts to bolts... from meeting to dating to getting physical. And, if you haven't read my online eBook yet, then you really need to go and do that right now. You can download it and literally be reading it within a few minutes from right now. Download it here. You'll be glad you did.          I'll talk to you again soon.      Your friend,                 P.S. If you really want to get good at meeting women, then you should also take a few minutes and look at the other programs I've created to help you do just that. You can see them all right here.       Power Sexuality     Get the confidence to meet, date, & powerfully satisfy any woman: Act like an expert in the bedroom Impress her with your technique Eliminate all fear and self-consciousness         Body Language   Make women notice you, want you, & chase you without saying a word: Learn to read women's minds Create instant attraction on sight Succeed with women effortlessly     Double Your Dating LLC 3960 Howard Hughes Parkway Suite 500 Las Vegas, Nevada 89169 United States (800) 749-1325

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Why Women Aren't Attracted To Nice Guys

If you are a nice guy who never seems to be able to attract hot women... or you have attractive female friends who always seem to say, "He's really wonderful, but I just like him as a friend"... (Having trouble viewing this email? CLICK HERE) ...then this could possibly be the single most important thing you ever read in your entire life. I'm not kidding... If I had to sum up the biggest mistake that I see men making with women (and the big mistake that I've made myself too many times to count), it's this: Most Men Act Like Total WUSSIES With Women And KILL Attraction In case you didn't know it, being wussy comes in two main flavors: Acting like a wussy with a woman right from the start Turning into a wussy as you get to know her Now, I would venture to guess that most men either act like wussies with women they're attracted to all the time, or they turn into wussies within a few weeks or months of meeting a woman that they really like. I know, this sounds a little strange, right? What the heck should being a Wuss have to do with attracting women? The answer: EVERYTHING. And in case you haven't gotten this concept by now, let's review a few of the most important concepts to remember when it comes to attracting women: Get Your "Secret Advantage" With Women   Newsflash: Right now, most single women are feeling frustrated and unsatisfied with the men they're meeting. This in mind, I have to ask you...why aren't YOU taking advantage of this situation? If you're still sitting on the bench, there can only be 2 possible reasons for it. You have so many women chasing you that you don't even need to try. You're dealing with obstacles like anxiety, fear, or lack of self-esteem that destroy your chances of success before you even get started. If #2 sounds like you, I'm here to tell you that you can change everything right now... and it's easier than you think. Learn why right here:       Attraction Isn't A Choice As humans, we don't consciously choose who we feel attracted to. It just happens to us... bang! And you can't convince someone to feel this powerful emotion. Attraction Doesn't Make Logical Sense When you think about the concept of being emotionally attracted to another person, it only makes sense that you should feel attracted to good qualities like niceness and honesty and loyalty, right? Well guess what... attraction doesn't play by those rules. The things that we are attracted to don't make logical sense when you look at them. We all know that attractive women seem to date a lot of abusive jerks... and that men often stay in relationships with unsatisfied women who just "use them." For attraction to make logical sense, you must learn how it works, and get a deeper understanding of what triggers it. Status Is Key When It Comes To Attraction Women are almost never attracted to men of lower status than themselves. This is why certain stereotypes exist, such as women not liking shorter men, and women who make a lot of money being intimidating to men. Attractive Women Have A Lot Of Choices Most men have never even taken a minute of their lives to consider what it must be like to be an attractive woman. Attractive women are approached in one way or another all the time by men who are interested in them. For an attractive woman, every smile, every kind gesture, and every favor is in one way or another viewed as interest. An attractive woman is approached in one way or another many times a day. It would be impossible for an attractive woman to give even a small fraction of her time to each of the men who shows interest in her. Most Men Are Boring, Predictable, And Unoriginal Just as most men have never given a thought to how it must feel and what it must be like to be an attractive woman, most men have never given a thought to the fact that men are predictable beyond belief...from an attractive woman's point of view. The comment or compliment that you think is so original, or the invitation to a date... or the question about her having a boyfriend... or the comment that "her boyfriend is a lucky man"... is so unoriginal, predictable... and worst of all, boring to an attractive woman. She gets this stuff 100 times a day! And men who are unoriginal do not stand out from the crowd. All Women Have "Wuss-Dar" There are a few simple, unmistakable signals that men give off that say, "Hey, I'm just another wuss, so don't pay attention to anything else I do, because I'll always be one"... which, of course, makes women run. (As a side note, attractive women also have non-wuss-dar as well. In other words, from a few simple clues, an attractive woman can quickly know if she is dealing with a man who is not a Wuss, and who, therefore, will be one of the few who are allowed the time and consideration for romantic interactions.) So, what is it about being a WUSS that is the big problem here? And why is it that of all things in the world, this is the WORST MISTAKE when it comes to attracting women? It's taken me several years now to really figure this out, and it's not exactly simple to explain (A detailed explanation is available in my Advanced Dating Techniques Program...) But, I'll sum it up and say this: Women come PRE-PROGRAMMED with a mental image of the kind of man that they should feel attraction for. This programming is both genetic and cultural, but I personally believe that most of this programming is genetic. In other words, women are born with it. This is why... Once A Woman Feels ATTRACTION, Your Success Is AUTOMATIC Attraction isn't like other things that seem like they should be similar. If you want to make friends with someone, you should be nice, do them favors, be courteous, and generally act like you're making an effort. But, when you try to take this kind of thinking and apply it to attraction (which almost all men do), then you find yourself doing things that should work... but they don't. ATTRACTION is very counter-intuitive, which means that it doesn't work the way you think. This is why, until you finally get how it works in REALITY, you'll just keep beating your head up against the wall doing things that don't work... trying harder when these things fail... and actually making things worse as a result of not understanding it. For example: Have you ever met a woman and given her a compliment, only to have her walk away and show no interest? Have you ever pursued a woman with gifts, favors, and dinners, only to have her be confused and need time alone... which eventually led to her wanting to just be friends? Have you ever had an attractive female friend who liked to date abusive jerks... and then tell YOU about the abuse she was putting up with... all the while you would have done anything for a chance to be with her? Yeah, me too. That's what I mean it when I say that you can actually make things worse by trying harder when you don't get how attraction works. Note: If you want to learn the secret language of ATTRACTION... and how to trigger this response in women with your communication alone... then read this NOW. Summing Up The BIGGEST Mistake Men Make With Women The one huge mistake that men make with women... the one that causes the most pain and prevents the most success is being a wussy (or turning into one later). For a lot of reasons, a Wussy just doesn't make for an interesting, romantic counterpart. Women will settle for a wuss, or even settle down with one (usually after the Wuss has demonstrated his total lack of self-respect, and his complete willingness to put aside all of his own needs for a woman). Unfortunately, this often ends with the woman cheating on the Wuss, leaving him for someone else, taking everything from him (including his self esteem) etc. The point is, a wussy doesn't trigger attraction. Wussies are boring. They're needy. They lack energy, act clingy, and make women feel trapped and repulsed. Everything About A Wuss Says, "Don't Choose Me!" Now, the first thing most guys say when they hear this news is, "But I don't want to be a jerk to women," or "I like the idea of being nice," or "I'm just being myself with women... what's wrong with that?." I can identify. I get it. In fact, I spent many years of my life thinking these kinds of things. And what YOU need to get is that you don't need to be a jerk or treat women badly to attract them. You just need to:   Abandon your Wussy Ways. Learn how attraction works. Change how you look at relationships. Learn the specific things that you need to do in each situation to meet women and make them feel that wonderful, powerful, magical, elusive emotion called attraction. Never slip, or allow yourself to start behaving like a wussy as you get to know a woman. Doesn't sound too hard, right? Good... then I'd like to get you started with some homework. You have an assignment for the week. Here it is: 1) Stop being nice to attractive women. This means no asking women out, no giving them lots of compliments, no putting your needs aside, no accepting manipulative behavior to please women, and no giving women special treatment or privileges just because they're attractive. Note: I did not say to treat women badly. I'm just telling you to stop doing all the fake things you're doing just to make women like you. 2) Stop handing women your...umm... testosterone-making devices on a silver platter. In other words, stop giving away your power to women. Do not communicate in any way, shape, or form that you will put aside your own self respect in order to get a woman's approval. 3) Say NO to a request from an attractive woman at least once every single day. Do not do this in an angry, mean, or abusive way. Just simply say, no. (By the way, it's okay to say no in a serious tone, then do the thing she requested after making her sweat a little. This is using sarcasm and humor, and if once you learn how to do it in EXACTLY the right way, it will earn you big points). 4) Pay close attention as you do these things. You'll notice how attractive women will seem more comfortable being around you, and want to spend more time with you... all because you're not acting needy, clingy, and wuss-like. 5) If you own a copy of my Advanced Dating Techniques program, WATCH IT AGAIN. In fact, I'd specifically like you to watch or listen to the five live interviews on that program again. This time, I want you to only pay attention to one thing: Do any of these guys, including myself, say anything that would lead you to believe that we act like wussies around women? Now, if you don't own a copy of my Advanced Dating Techniques program yet, then you really need to get it. This program has the most complete and detailed explanation of how to stop being a wussy available. Of course, it also contains several hundred of the best ideas and specific step-by-step techniques for approaching, meeting, dating, kissing, and getting physical with women... The interviews that I mentioned above are worth the price of the entire program alone. You'll actually get to watch or listen to me interview my friends who are amazing with women...and get them to describe their personal secrets. Priceless! All the details are all here: And if you haven't had a chance to download your copy of my legendary, life-changing online eBook Double Your Dating, then you really need to do that immediately. It's the foundation of absolutely EVERYTHING that I teach, and you can download it and be reading it in just a few minutes from right now.    That's all for now. Until next time... STOP BEING NICE. And I'll talk to you again soon.        Your friend,                 P.S. Have you seen all the different programs I've created to help you meet more women? You can see all of them right here.       Body Language     Make women notice you, want you, & chase you without saying a word: Learn to read women's minds Create instant attraction on sight Succeed with women effortlessly         Approaching Women   Never get nervous around women again:   Talk to any woman, anywhere Close the deal every time Eliminate fear and shyness forever   Double Your Dating LLC 3960 Howard Hughes Parkway Suite 500 Las Vegas, Nevada 89169 United States (800) 749-1325

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Are You Afraid Of Women? Read This…

Hey Man, Let me ask you something... it's a pretty big question and the whole reason you're probably reading this right now... (Having trouble viewing this email? CLICK HERE) What's Preventing YOU From Being Successful With Women? Well, for most guys, the list of reasons goes on and on, but the one element that tops the list is always just one thing: FEAR. I'd like to talk about some of the most common situations that make men feel fear... and what to do about them   How I Finally Learned To Get Women Get this... If you want to read the story of how I went from not even being able to talk to a woman I didn't know... to the point where I can approach ANY woman in any situation and get as many dates as I want... it's all RIGHT HERE:       First of all, I'd like you to be honest for a moment about this topic and tell me this... Do YOU ever feel fear when it comes to women and dating? More specifically: Have you ever seen a woman that you'd really like to meet, but you started to feel fear and didn't do anything about it? Have you been on a date and you wanted to kiss a woman... but you felt too afraid because you didn't want to make a mistake and screw up your chances? Have you gotten a woman's phone number, but you were too afraid to call back because you didn't know how to start off the conversation or ask her out? Have you ever been sitting there with the phone in your hand, dialing a woman's number, but you had to hang up because you were just too nervous to even talk to her? Have you been out on a date with a woman, and you wanted to kiss her, but you got so nervous you decided it would be better to forget the whole idea and hope for the best? Well, here's what I'm here to tell you today... ALL This Has Happened To Me (More Times Than I'd Like To Admit) That's why I understand that it's not exactly fun to admit that you're afraid of things. In fact, I'm sure you know that most guys would rather admit in public that they were unsure about their sexual orientation than that they were afraid of women. This unwillingness to admit that you have a problem in the first place only makes matters worse... If you don't admit that you have the problem, then it's hard to get help and answers to it. But the good news is: You Are NOT Alone Almost every guy I've known (including myself) has dealt with the issue of fear and nervousness with women many times, and here's what we've all learned (usually after wasting WAY too much time) are the steps necessary to get over it: Step 1: Stop denying that you're afraid. Just admit that you're afraid, and come to grips with the fact that you're human. Step 2: Admit that you'd like to get this particular area of your life handled. Step 3: Take action and do something about it. Bottom line: Once you realize that it's not that big of a deal, then the improvement can start. On the other hand, if you just stay in denial about it, you'll probably just look for new tricks and techniques to use on women... which, of course, won't lead to any real improvement. By the way, if you've got more than the average amount of fear around meeting women, you might want to take a minute and look at this before you read on. But I personally think that one of the biggest causes of fear when it comes to situations with women is simply this: putting too much importance on what the woman thinks of you and what happens in that particular situation. To put it in different words, most guys don't take action because they're afraid that they'll screw up, or that the woman or others around will judge them... when in reality: Most Women Are Flattered By Your Attention. If Not... WHO CARES? The real problem though is that this whole process has become AUTOMATIC, and it happens INSTANTLY the moment most guys see a woman that they'd like to meet. Before they even have a chance to think about the situation rationally, they've become nervous, insecure, and upset. I'm sure you know exactly what I'm talking about... As humans, we have these incredible minds and bodies, but sometimes they get wired up in ways that aren't exactly useful for the situations that we find ourselves in. Worse, sometimes our cultures, families, or peer groups teach us ways of thinking that just aren't useful at all for what we'd like to accomplish. Here's something that I realized a few years ago when I was learning for myself how to be successful with women... I thought about this idea that I was having this instant, automatic fear in different situations with women, and that what I was really thinking was "I don't want to screw this up" and "I don't want her to think that I'm a dork"... And all of a sudden something dawned on me: What Anyone Else Thinks DOESN'T MATTER, And Here's Why: I realized that the fears I was experiencing were more from programming than from reality. Obviously, the fear wasn't happening because there was any kind of real danger. More important... my objective in a particular situation shouldn't be to have things turn out perfectly anyway, so why even care? I learned that my objective should be just one thing: to learn and get better. Think about the difference between doing something because it's important vs. doing something in order to learn. For instance, if I saw a woman that I wanted to meet... instead of thinking, "OK, I have to say something charming and original so she'll like me... and if I screw up I'm going to be embarrassed"... ... instead I began to think things like, "I'm going to learn how to get a woman's phone number within a few minutes of meeting her... and part of learning this is going to be trying a lot of different things that probably aren't going to work... but in the end, it's all going to even out because I'm going to have the skill that I want." See the difference? Well, let me tell you... This Simple Attitude Change Had A HUGE Impact On My Success I was willing to do and try things that I never would have tried in the past for fear of screwing up... All because I had the attitude of "I'm going to learn something from this and improve my skills... and it doesn't matter what happens in this particular situation," I was able to improve very rapidly. And the more I began to apply this idea, the more SUCCESS I had in all areas with women... from the first meeting, to getting them to go out with me, to taking things to a physical level. A Simple "Trick" To Reduce Your Fear Around Women So here's what I want you to do... Go out right now and start a conversation with a woman. I don't care if she's attractive or not. But instead of having the objective of getting a date, have the objective of learning something. In fact, if you really want to improve fast, go spend a day starting conversations with women, but make the commitment to NOT get any phone numbers or dates all day. In other words, no matter what happens, you can't date any of the women that you meet that day. See if you can just learn how to do a few simple things like say, "Hi" to every woman that walks by... how to maintain eye contact with women until they look away... and how to end a conversation too soon so she feels a natural vacuum and tries to keep it going herself... This Is Just One Idea For Overcoming Your Fear. Want A Bunch More? If you'd like to read more of my personal secrets for overcoming fear, including specific mental exercises and physical drills, then I'd recommend that you download a copy of my world-famous online eBook called Double Your Dating. It's full of all my very best thinking on this and many other subjects about success with women.  And if you're ready to really get your issues handled with women, then I recommend that you get your hands on a copy of my Advanced Dating Techniques program. This is where you'll get to hear me and several of my friends who are amazing with women talk about how we learned to overcome our issues, deal with our fears, and meet more women as a result. There's nothing like hearing it live, and this program will blow your mind. Go here for all the details:  Until next time...     I'll talk to you again soon.       Your friend,                 P.S. Don't forget to take a minute and look at the entire list of programs I've created to help you become more successful with women.       Man Transformation     Proven training to transform into a man who can get a Total 10: Fixing your inner & outer game Exterminating all your fears Developing "Real Man" Confidence         Attraction eBook   Learn exactly how women think to trigger massive attraction:   Get inside the mind of a woman Learn how to make her want you Avoid common mistakes men make to try & attract women     Double Your Dating LLC 3960 Howard Hughes Parkway Suite 500 Las Vegas, Nevada 89169 United States (800) 749-1325

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