Erotic Playdates are when you and your partner set aside a specific time for passion play. You plan for (and look forward to) sensual "private" activities where you come together beginners to learn new things together.
Think of Erotic Playdates as fun "couples sexercises" that grow and enrich your intimacy - physical and emotional.
This is hot monogamy at its best and it's also great for singles who date intimately!
Can you believe I've given you FOURTEEN amazing bedroom experiences so far this year?
I want you to email me back and tell me which one(s) you've tried.
Because couples that stay together, PLAY together... especially in the bedroom.
We've come to the more advanced levels of Erotic Playdates, and this one (it's a favorite of mine) has to do with how you touch your partner.
To be more precise, it's called "Touching From Center to Center."
People often think of touching as something they only do with their hands, or one body part at a time. I call this type of touching "body part to body part."
I distinguish this type of touching from another type I call "Touching from Center to Center" or "Touching All Of You With All Of Me."
In this unique type of touching, because I am fully present and in the moment with my partner, all of me will be touching all of you.
My presence is touching your presence. My core is touching your core. My love is touching your love.
This is what you and your partner will be emulating in this Playdate.
How do you do this?
• Face each other, comfortably standing, seated, or lying down beside each other.
• One of you will start as the giver, the other the receiver.
• Begin with a "Centering Breath" or two.
• Imagine yourself as a whole being. Allow yourself to get the idea, then the image of feeling of your wholeness.
• When you have that sense of you as a whole being, take this visual or felt image of you in your wholeness, and reduce it down to the size of a heart, and place this image in your heart.
• Then imagine your wholeness as living in two levels - at the whole-body level, and duplicated in small at the level of your heart.
• Take the image of your heart and bring it into your hand, so that now you have one full "copy" at the whole-body level, one full "copy" at the heart level, and one full "copy" in your hand.
• Look at your partner, seeing them as having come to the place that you have - with the all-of-self fullness at the whole body, heart, and in-hand levels.
• The giver reaches out saturated with this awareness, to touch the receiver. When you touch them, imagine and feel that all of you is touching all of them - regardless of where and how your bodies connect.
• In this part of the Playdate, you're going to be in control. Try experimenting. You may want to play with moving your bodies and how you touch each other versus being still and absorbing each other's presence.
• Recall your experiences with a previous playdate, "Touching For Rapture" and apply this here.
• After 1-2 minutes, the giver brings the touching/feeling to a close and segue to switch roles. The giver becomes the receiver. The receiver becomes the giver.
You can have a lot of fun with comparing and contrasting how it feels to have all of you touched by all of your partner, as opposed to simply just touching with your skin, fingers, and body.
However, advanced as this Playdate may seem, it's all just about finding new and exciting ways to enhance the quality of your relationship and intimate life.
Same goes with the rest of the articles we sent you over the week.
There are a TON of incredible free techniques in this week's email. Take some time to relax and enjoy them fully.
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