In the lulls, do this.
Every time I write to you it's about how to have more passionate lovemaking.
You might get the idea that I have an insatiable libido... that I'm always in the mood.
It might even make you feel "less than." Like if you're not always horny, there's something wrong with you.
So today I wanted to assure you that I'm a lot like you.
I have my ebbs and flows of desire... even beyond the monthly hormonal cycles that make women more or less interested in sex.
Sometimes life gets busy, yes.
Except when you're in a natural lull.
It happens... to all of us.
And here's what I do to get "back in the saddle."
Now this may or may not be the thing that works for you. People have different ways to get themselves turned on. Things like reading erotica, fantasizing, or planning a sexy date night.
But somebody HAS to take the initiative.
That is what's key. You have to decide you're going to take a lover, make a booty call, or set up a date night to kickstart your lust again.
If you wait for passionate sex to spontaneously happen, you'll be waiting forever.
People want to be wanted... want to be wooed... want to be pursued.
And if you feel like you are always the one who initiates, at the end of the day, does it matter?
Maybe you are the best one to initiate and your partner is better off responding. If they respond, can't that be enough?
Instead of holding out for "perfect," put a stake in the ground.
Stand for your sex life.
Stand for your partner's sex life.
Stand for your intimate connection.
Because as you're laying there in a post-orgasmic glow, who really cares how you got there?
Sex and sleep are what your body needs to restore balance to your nervous system.
Give your body what it craves: connection and pleasure.
Scheduled sex can be so much fun. It gives you something to look forward to.
FIND ways to squeeze in time for intimacy.
As I write this, Tim and I are headed to Tokyo. For the last three weeks we've been having business meetings and visiting with family. We haven't had time to focus on ourselves.
Now it's our time. And we are going to get romantic.
Our first order of rekindling our libido when we've had to focus outward is to have an Expanded Orgasm date. It's my go-to turn on sure thing. I need Expanded Orgasm genital stroking to fuel my desire... to awaken my sensation.
We're thinking about finding a "Love Hotel" in Japan to increase the novelty and build sexual excitement together. Novelty fans the flames of desire.
This is our 25th year of marriage. We need scheduled sex, in new surroundings, so we don't succumb to the familiar.
So if you thought I was some extraordinarily sexual creature, I'm not.
We simply keep our flame burning for each other through forethought and attention to what matters - each other.
And what matters to me is your sexual happiness and satisfaction.
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