Here are my recommended "RELATIONSHIP RESOLUTIONS" for Men and Women Both Single and in a Relationship:
As a relationship expert and wife, my New Year's Resolution is to give my husband LOTS of affection while telling him what a great job he does as many times as I can.
I call this, "WIN" with Affection.
Men do so much - fixing this and that, taking care of business, being "the rock." And where we women are fueled by their support and encouragement, they are motivated not just by appreciation, but by the combination of appreciation WITH affection.
Every time your guy does a good thing, no matter how small; make a fuss over him.
Give him hugs and kisses for every job well done.
Men love to win.
They crave respect.
And they appreciate affection.
My calling out his efforts with affection makes him so happy.
You really can't overdo this. And the affection will draw him closer to you. He will feel your support and do even better.
Of course this answer begs another question.
What if you're not married?
SINGLE WOMEN
My advice for single women for a Relationship Resolution for 2018 is called, "Cast a Wider Net."
Make sure you are on multiple online dating apps and sites. I can't tell you how many women bemoan being single yet have no skin in the online dating game. That's where love is happening in 2018. And based on solid research, couples who meet online have happier relationships and marriages!
Have your friends give you feedback on your profile. Upload new photos frequently.
Be open to meeting different prospective partners. Go on lots of quick meet-and-greets, not full-on dates (too emotionally tiring).
Increase your "deal flow." Have a lot of prospective partners in the pipeline. Too often women get fixated on one guy. If you have "deal flow," you create multiple options and feel hopeful instead of stuck.
There are amazing men out there. You just have to meet them and not get discouraged, because it's truly a numbers game.
MARRIED MEN
So what about the guys? For the married men, I have one word: Encouragement.
Ask your wife or girlfriend what they are trying to accomplish. And then push them to reach their goals with words of encouragement.
It could be a simple task, a goal, a new skill... pay attention to her goals throughout the year and what she's trying to achieve.
She loves your attention and encouragement. It makes her feel noticed, valued, special...
The beauty of this single goal is that it also sets up a polarity - a masculine-feminine balance that enhances intimacy.
Women are also more verbal - they like to HEAR words of encouragement as a way of feeling loved.
Plus when your woman's feeling good about herself, she's happier. Which means she'll be more successful in her endeavors.
SINGLE MEN
What about single guys? Same thing? Deal flow?
No, for single men, I recommend focusing on your "purpose." What are you in this world to do? How are you adding value?
If you hide out at home, you can turn that wasted time into giving back.
Philanthropy is the best place to meet a kind-hearted woman.
You'll be helping others while helping yourself.
Find your purpose and your passion. And make it happen. Because you don't need to be handsome or rich - women are most attracted to men who have purpose or are ambitious.
And if you don't have a purpose, choose a charity and make that your purpose.
Men with purpose are more attractive.
Find your purpose and you'll find your woman.
These are very empowering goals for relationships.
And finally, keep on learning.
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Let's face 2018 with the biggest smile, the most encouraging hug, and the warmest soul we've ever had.
How psyched are you? I know I am.
That's why, this week's articles are all about starting the year clear and strong.
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