When it comes to the BASICS of succeeding with women, there are 2 questions that I get asked more often than any others.
The FIRST question is:
"When a guy is first getting to know a great woman, how can he tell whether or not he has any 'chance' with her?"
Which is almost ALWAYS followed by the SECOND question:
"If he feels like he DOES have a chance, what should he do next?"
Well, stay tuned... I think the *REAL* answers to these critical questions just might SHOCK you.
And I'm going to answer them both, extremely SUCCINCTLY and DIRECTLY, in just a short moment.
But, right off the bat, I want you to understand 1 CRITICAL FACT:
All the "uncertainty" and "confusion" you may feel surrounding whether a woman "likes" you or not is usually because, once you get the slightest whiff of a woman who might be interested in you...
... you start doing almost everything WRONG.
Your mind starts to play tricks on you.
You start misinterpreting clues and cues.
You start jumping to conclusions.
Any of this SOUND FAMILIAR?
If so, here's what I STRONGLY recommend:
I recommend that EVERY guy reading this right now make the decision to take 1 SIMPLE STEP toward new dating success... and that they take this step right NOW.
Don't worry... it's a step you can take without lifting a finger.
Or paying a dime.
Simply choose to make 1 EASY CHOICE for YOURSELF...
... the choice to leave behind all the self- doubt and guessing games you play with yourself every time you think a woman might be interested in you.
Easier said than done, though, right?
Believe me, I know.
I used to have deeply buried insecurities, anxieties, and fears about whether I was "good- looking enough"... or "cool enough"... or "rich enough" to get a woman interested in me.
Even more tragically...
If a women WAS interested in me, I was too insecure, anxious, and fearful to even RECOGNIZE it.
In this state, my mind could not help but jump into "guessing game" mode every time I thought a woman might be interested in me.
SIDE NOTE: The story of how I left all that doubt and insecurity behind for good is actually fascinating ... if you'd like to hear all about it (and dive into the "deep end" of ELIMINATING insecurity, anxiety, and fear from your life forever) then you can go here to learn more.
But that's not why I'm writing you today.
Without further delay, let's get to that reason...
HOW TO RECOGNIZE THE #1 SIGN THAT YOU "HAVE A CHANCE" WITH A WOMAN.
Simply put, here's what you need to do:
After an hour (or so) of face-to-face conversation with a woman, ask yourself just one question:
"Is she still behaving in a genuinely receptive, 'friendly' manner toward me?"
I know... sounds deceptively obvious.
But guess what... like MOST issues revolving around dating and the "courtship ritual," it's what most guys THINK they know that kills their chances of success.
You see, most guys still believe that women exhibit certain physical behaviors... like tilting their heads to the side... smiling as they speak with you... licking their lips and twirling their hair... to show that they're "interested" in a guy.
To which I say:
When it comes to determining whether or not you have a REAL CHANCE with a woman, you need to THINK AGAIN.
You see, the problem is that all of these behaviors can ALSO be attributed to OTHER causes in a woman.
A woman will tilt her head at you... smile... lick her lips and twirl her hair... for reasons ranging from the meaningless to the ridiculous...
... NONE of which may have anything to do with your TRUE chances of taking things to the next level with her.
Even worse:
These behaviors can often be chalked up to "flirting"... meaning that they can be easily "faked" by a woman who just likes to "play games" with men.
Or even by a woman who's actually just nice and just wants to be polite.
(Now you know why so many insecure, inexperienced guys often end up feeling "led on" by a woman...)
Either way, the bottom line is that you need to look further than these physical behaviors to determine your ACTUAL chances of longer-term, more meaningful success with a woman.
Instead, you need to focus on the much BIGGER picture.
What I'm saying here is, you need to do something that can be EXTREMELY difficult for most guys:
You need to withhold all judgment and conclusions about "how things are going" until AT LEAST an hour of uninterrupted conversation with a woman.
Then (and only then) there are SPECIFIC signs to watch for to determine if she's behaving in a genuinely "friendly," receptive way towards you.
Those signs include:
1) DOES SHE "TAKE INITIATIVE" IN THE CONVERSATION?
Also known as helping to keep the conversation going... versus letting you to do all the heavy lifting until things finally devolve into awkward silence.
If a woman just sits back and lets you do all the talking, it's a sure sign that she's just not that into you.
Or she's totally lazy.
Or she's totally selfish and self-involved.
Either way, YOU need to see the signs and move
on.
2) DOES SHE INTERRUPT YOU?
When a woman won't let you finish a sentence, it's almost ALWAYS a sure sign that she's either "bored" with you, or too rude and self-absorbed to become genuine "girlfriend" material.
If a woman can't be polite and "generous" with a conversation on a first date (when MOST women are TRYING to be on their best behavior) then you don't want to know how she's going to behave once she "stops being polite and starts getting REAL."
3) DOES SHE MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT WHILE *YOU* TALK?
Okay... this one IS about a physical cue.
If, instead of maintaining eye contact with you, she's constantly looking around the room or fiddling with her phone, it's probably time to get a clue:
There's somewhere else she'd rather be.
And that somewhere clearly doesn't include YOU.
So it's time to STOP WASTING TIME and politely say goodnight.
Finally (and above all) you need to keep in mind one of the most important signs that a woman is behaving in a genuinely "friendly," receptive way towards you:
4) DOES SHE TRY TO "DIG DEEPER" DURING THE CONVERSATION?
Basically, if a woman's asking you insightful, appropriate questions and making meaningful comments about things that you've said, you're golden.
It means she's not just hearing what you're telling her... she's actually LISTENING.
It's practically a LAW OF NATURE that a woman who's listening and involved in an interaction with a man after an hour of conversation is genuinely INTERESTED.
I mean, this one's so obvious you hardly need to be paying attention: If a woman asks you questions and digs deeper into what you're telling her, you're IN.
Basically, no woman can "fake" real interest for very long.
So remember:
It doesn't matter if she smiles and twirls her hair... if a woman doesn't interact in the above MEANINGFUL ways with you, it's safe to say you have almost no chance of taking things to the "next level" with her...
... and you shouldn't even WANT to.
You need to MOVE ON.
But okay... let's say that she HAS passed the checklist with flying colors...
What's next?
As in... what can a guy do to advance his cause at that point?
The key is to avoid coming across as needy, overeager, or desperate at this critical moment -- while ALWAYS keeping things moving smoothly and naturally toward the next step.
And, like I always say, the very best way to accomplish that is using humor with just the right amount off CONFIDENCE mixed in.
Specifically, if you've been having great, funny conversations with a woman for a while, don't be afraid of coming off as a bit "cocky."
(A whole lot more on how to do that right here)
If you've already had a great first date (where you were funny... engaging... everything except BORING) then MAKE SURE to get that second date nailed down (confidently and WITHOUT begging).
If you're already dating, make sure to show PHYSICAL interest before too long.
You get it.
All you have to keep in mind is that the "green light" for forward progress begins with 1 signal:
A woman behaving in a genuinely friendly way towards you (for more than just a "flirty" minute or two).
Once you see it happening, it's time to MAKE YOUR MOVE and do what it takes to take things to the NEXT LEVEL.
Because, harsh reality is... even if a woman shows signs that she's interested in you, it means NOTHING if you can't convert that interest into ATTRACTION.
All of which is a subject that I'm going to talk with you much more about SOON, in an upcoming newsletter, so keep your eye on your inbox.
That in mind, here's something else that I want you to take away from all of this today:
After wasting YEARS of my life "blowing it" with women that I might have had a chance with (because I had NO CLUE how to "read" the signs and signals that women were CONSTANTLY sending me) I realized that I needed to get this skill down, or I was going to end up DYING ALONE.
That's why I then spent MANY MORE YEARS studying, researching, and learning directly from men who were "naturals" with women on how to acquire this "magic skill"... how to decipher the hidden secrets of using Body Language to "read"... and then create ATTRACTION with great women.
Long story short:
I eventually collected so much knowledge...
...and became so EXPERT and FAIL-PROOF at using it...
...that I wanted to gather all of this information in one place so that OTHER men could use it, too (without wasting precious years of THEIR lives trying to reinvent the wheel... usually just to end up FAILING MISERABLY).
That's why I created the legendary home-study program called BODY LANGUAGE... the one-stop online learning program that delivers it ALL, including:
* The SCIENTIFIC WAY to read a woman's body language so that you'll ALWAYS know how she's feeling... and then react PERFECTLY to her.
* How to literally "read a woman's mind" to know EXACTLY what she wants from you... then do everything RIGHT to spark ATTRACTION.
* How to determine -- with SCARY accuracy -- whether or not a woman is interested in YOU (or if she'll ever be) so you can stop playing "guessing games" and wasting your time.
* EXACTLY what you need to say and do once you KNOW you have a chance with a woman... in ANY situation... to take things to the next level with her.
And a whole lot more... HOURS and HOURS of expert training material that there's not nearly enough time or space to go into here.
For full details go here.
Meantime, all I'm going to say in closing is this:
If you want to stop wasting your life playing the useless "mind-games" most guys play with themselves to figure out if they have a chance with a great woman...
... then watch BODY LANGUAGE.
It's simply the FASTEST and EASIEST way to learn how to do it -- including how to keep things moving FORWARD with the women you really want.
Make sense?
If so -- EXCELLENT.
That means you're already WAY ahead of the game because you "get" it... you're a prime candidate to SUCCEED BIG-TIME using the "Body Language" program.
Just click above to start watching the program instantly online -- and, in just a few short hours, you will know more than 99% of men will EVER know about this subject...
... and then USE that knowledge to massively improve your success with women IMMEDIATELY, like most men can only dream of.
In fact, I 100% GUARANTEE IT.
Until next time...
Your friend,
P.S. I recently heard something...
I heard that some of you still don't know that my "BODY LANGUAGE" program ALSO includes a scientifically proven, "A-Player" body language process designed specifically to attract SUPER-HOT women...
... also known as the kind of women most of us "regular guys" believe we have no chance of getting.
That's why I wanted to let you know that BODY LANGUAGE *does* include my world-famous, 100%- GUARANTEED, step-by-step methodology for making THE HOTTEST WOMEN want *you* (from clear across the room... without YOU having to say a word).
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