F.L.Y. (First Love Yourself)
This simple step is one of the things that fix decade-long cracks in relationships.
Hi Jmonty1945@gmail.com,
Sometimes I wonder why people willingly live in pain.
Not just physical, but also emotional and psychological pain.
So many men and women know they're not living the life they want and deserve.
Yet they don't have the courage to speak up and stand up for themselves.
They suffer through unhappy relationships, romances, marriages and sex lives.
A man can think to himself that he works all day, comes home at night, and is ignored and even ridiculed by his woman for not being "man enough" for her.
A woman can struggle with caring for her family each day, while her man isn't even talking sweetly to her. He doesn't romance her. He doesn't give her the emotional healing she needs.
This is all because we've been taught to "be strong and suck it up."
That's sound advice, of course, but if you just keep sucking it up and not doing anything to change our situation, you've practically given up on your happiness.
It's your role to say you're unhappy, and seek happiness.
And the thing that blows my mind is this.
When you look at the whole situation you're in, you're needlessly living in hurt while the other party has no idea it's affecting you so much.
In fact, many times the people who hurt you DON'T WANT to hurt you. They have no idea they've said something offensive. They have no idea they've stepped over the line.
They assume everything is cool when you're living in hell.
Accept that you feel a certain way. Cherish yourself enough to give yourself happiness.
Then tell yourself, "I am lovable. I am good enough."
Then stand up and say, "Honey, did you know that what you're doing is affecting me this way?"
"Babe, when you say those things you're hurting me."
You don't have to WIN the argument.
You just have to let them know damage was done.
So you can fix things.
This simple step is one of the things that fix decade-long cracks in relationships.
It's the gift you owe yourself.
This week's articles are my gifts to you, to help you live the life you've always wanted.
Your relationships. Your health. Your social life. And of course, your sex life.
If you're seeking love, here are the articles for you.
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