***BURNING QUESTION***
What if there were a way to ELIMINATE *all* of the HARD WORK, REJECTION, and FEAR that's involved with going out and trying to meet women?
>> ANSWER:
There IS. And now more than ever before, it's mind-blowingly EASY to do!
I want to show you how to set up your own "dating success machine"...
A FAIL-PROOF system that AUTOMATICALLY gets you those phone numbers... ensures the success of those crucial first phone calls and meetings... BUILDS ATTRACTION FAST on dates... basically, the whole nine yards!
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Hey Man,
I want to talk about the concept of "flirting", and why it's SO important that you understand exactly what it is and how to do it with women.
To begin with, women know what flirting is and they respond VERY differently to flirting communication than they do to typical social communication.
If you understand flirting and sexual tension, you can begin conversations with women and have them INSTANTLY feeling ATTRACTION for you.
If you DON'T understand how flirting and sexual tension work, then you're either going to have to become famous or make a LOT of money to be successful with women.
I'm going to suggest that you learn how to flirt well, then do it RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING in your interactions with women to SET THE RIGHT TONE.
Think of flirting like playing.
Remember when you were a kid and you used to "play fight" with your friends?
What's the difference between "play" wrestling and "real" wrestling?
And how do you know the difference when it's happening... when your friend runs up and pushes you down, then jumps on you and tries to pin you?
The answer is YOU JUST KNOW. It's obvious to humans (and other animals, by the way) when someone is "playing" and when they're serious.
Flirting is similar.
If you start talking to a woman and say, "Hi, you're very pretty. You probably have a boyfriend, right?" in a normal tone of voice, you're NOT flirting.
On the other hand, if you say, "Hi, I realize that you're probably shy because you get no attention from men... so I thought I'd come over here and pay attention to you..." it's OBVIOUS that you're not being serious. This is flirting.
By the way, flirting IS NOT simply telling jokes, or trying to be "cute".
One of the concepts that I teach is called "Cocky & Funny."
Cocky & Funny is simply a powerful, concentrated way of flirting and creating sexual tension with a specific kind of humor.
It's so funny to me how some guys write in because they "can't see themselves being Cocky & Funny around women" because they don't want to come across as jerks.
This really cracks me up... because it's obvious to me that these guys JUST DON'T GET IT.
So let me explain this whole thing a different way...
If you know how to communicate the right way, women will respond to you RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING with a HIGH LEVEL of sexual interest and ATTRACTION.
When you know how to incorporate flirting in a Cocky & Funny way, which is really a form of "adult verbal play", you tune in to a certain frequency in a woman's mind and cause her to go into a very special kind of emotional state.
One of the keys to effective flirting is to "get it".
In other words, you have to actually get out there and practice so you get a "feel" for how it works.
Problem is, a lot of guys give up when they try a cute line or technique and a woman responds by saying "You're a loser."
Instead of realizing that they just need more practice (or and education on what they SHOULD be saying), they take it personally and decide it means that they're a failure...
... when the REAL TRUTH is this:
IT'S A LAW OF NATURE:
Once you learn how to FLIRT correctly and communicate in the language of "adult play," you WILL SIMPLY NOT BELIEVE how women will respond to you!
They'll suddenly start smiling at you right off the bat, instead of being "stand-offish" and impatient, like they have somewhere else to be.
They'll start being "open" and "receptive" to what you have to say instead of blowing you off.
They'll want to talk to YOU instead of the hundred other guys competing for their attention in the room.
BEST OF ALL... they'll start doing most of the hard work to get to know YOU better...
... all because you've flirted with them the RIGHT way--also known as using COCKY and FUNNY in EXACTLY the right proportions!
If you'd like to learn more about how to get that magical "mix" just right to start flirting effectively (and leave your fears of getting REJECTED behind forever) here's the best place to get that "education" I was talking about:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/
You'll also be able to watch some FREE video clips of me actually TEACHING Cocky & Funny, so check it out now.
Meanwhile, here's an example of some of one of my favorite topics to "riff on" when flirting...
It's the topic of getting married and being in a relationship.
Here it is in the form of a sample dialogue... Keep in mind, I might have a conversation like this with a woman that I just met five minutes earlier...
Her: "I have a good job, and I make good money"
Me: "Nice. I like that in a woman. Want to get married? We could leave for Vegas right now and be married in about 4 or 5 hours. I need a woman with money."
Her:
Me: "But wait a minute... do you think you can support the both of us on your income? I really want to be a stay at home husband... you know, keep an eye on the TV and such."
Her: "Oh, no... I won't support you."
Me: "Well, then I'm breaking up with you. It's over between us. I was going to marry you, then divorce you a week later and take half your money."
Her:
Me: "That's all the more reason."
Do you see what's going on here?
I'm taking a normal conversation topic (her job and income) and redirecting the conversation in a flirtatious, Cocky & Funny way to create a fun mood and sexual tension (by suggesting marriage, divorce, and breaking up over her not supporting me, etc.).
If the above example doesn't make any sense to you, then take that as a sign that you need to get out and practice more. Try it on a waitress or two.
When you ask for something and she says, "I'm sorry, we don't have that", just say, "OK, this relationship isn't working out... I'm going to have to break up with you."
In fact, you can say this in just about ANY situation with ANY woman where she's saying something that you don't like, and it's funny.
When you communicate like this, you're FLIRTING, you're TEASING, and you're initiating a DIFFERENT KIND OF COMMUNICATION than what most men initiate.
And as soon as the woman you're talking to "engages" you in this kind of dialogue, THE GAME IS ON.
There are a LOT of ways you can flirt, and a lot of ways you can be Cocky & Funny that DON'T REQUIRE WORDS.
If a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow, look back at her and do the same... only exaggerate it.
If a woman puts her hand on your arm, look down at it, then look up at her in a surprised way, then raise your eyebrows as if you just had a major "ah ha!" realization... then start smiling and nodding your head as if you just realized that she wants you.
This is a powerful combination because it's funny, and it exaggerates the meaning in her touching you.
Fact is, there are a MILLION ways to flirt like this, but the point that I'm trying to make is this:
YOU NEED TO START DOING IT RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING OF YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN!
It will set off all of your conversations with women on the right foot, and start a dialogue that creates sexual tension and ATTRACTION.
If you DON'T learn how to communicate with women like this you'll have BORING, "NORMAL" conversations that NEVER lead to sexual tension and ATTRACTION.
Remember, women can tell INSTANTLY whether you're flirting with them or not.
If you are, and you're doing it in a subtle, charming way, you'll get amazing responses.
And the whole key is using your words, voice tone and body language to successfully project just 3 things about yourself:
1) Your powerful understanding about how male/female ATTRACTION works
2) Your iron-clad belief in yourself (also known as your CONFIDENCE)
3) Your ability to communicate these qualities throughout your interactions with women.
AND THAT'S IT!
PERIOD.
That in mind...
Once you MASTER the concepts of how to SUCCESSFULLY flirt with women, you'll THEN be able to convert that success into:
* Sparking unstoppable ATTRACTION
* Making your move and taking things to a PHYSICAL LEVEL
* Building kick-ass RELATIONSHIPS (if that's what you're looking for).
Make sense?
If so, and all this sounds good to you, then I can't urge you strongly enough to get your hands on a copy of my "Sexual Communication" program...
You see, during the time I spent learning directly from guys who were REALLY good with women, I noticed something that they were all doing...
... something that most men literally CAN'T SEE!
I discovered what I like to think of as a "secret language" that men and women use to communicate on a "sexual level"...
After discovering that this was going on right in front of me all my life... and then learning how to use it to attract women... I realized that I HAD to teach this to other guys.
And that's what my world-famous "Sexual Communication" program is all about...
Teaching YOU to speak THIS language.
After going through this program, I guarantee that you'll look at your interactions with women very differently (as in, TOTALLY *WITHOUT* FEAR OR ANXIETY).
Even BETTER:
You'll suddenly have ALL THE TOOLS YOU NEED to start creating INSTANT, IRRESISTIBLE SEXUAL ATTRACTION with women -- no matter how rich you are or what you look like.
Oh, and by the way... you'll finally know EVERYTHING you need to about how to FLIRT, too.
In fact, flirting will come to you so SUCCESSFULLY and AUTOMATICALLY, you won't even have to THINK about doing it... it'll just happen naturally!
So now the ball's in your court...
And let's face it... none of us are getting any younger...
It's a tragedy that so many guys WASTE THEIR WHOLE LIVES *not* getting women when this situation is actually SO EASY TO FIX!
That in mind -- you can check out the specifics (and watch some FREE video clips) of my "Sexual Communication" Program here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication/
But remember...
The NEXT program you need to get if you just want to learn how to FLIRT with women is my famous "Cocky Comedy" program.
One of the SPECIFIC things that I saw guys who were "naturals" with women doing... and one of the things that I later learned to do... is what I call "being Cocky & Funny".
You've probably read about the technique in these newsletters I send you.
This is essentially my FAVORITE "technique", and the reason why is because it's FUN... and it WORKS.
It's fun for you, it's fun for her, and it works like MAD to spark and build ATTRACTION.
If you've tried being Cocky & Funny with a woman and seen that SPARK in her eye... and the smile on her face... then you KNOW how powerful this is.
Well, this program will take your basic skills and SUPERCHARGE them. I'll teach you everything from the foundations of humor and laughter... all the way to specific word-by-word lines for the most common situations you find yourself in with women.
Go check it out (and watch some FREE video clips) here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend
David D.
P.S. Have you ever heard the story of how I personally went from being "lonely" and "hopeless"... to meeting TONS of women and getting more dates than I could handle?
I guarantee it, just HEARING this story will change your life... simply because you'll finally know that if a regular guy like me can do it, YOU CAN, TOO!
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