The 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men

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Hey Man, most men HATE the idea of "rejection".

I'm not talking about "don't like the idea" or "wish it didn't happen"...I'm talking HATE here.

The idea of walking up to a woman and having her REJECT you causes most men to instantly feel sick in the pit of their stomachs and literally feel a horrible combination of nervousness and confusion.

A guy can psych himself up for an hour to go talk to a woman, but when the moment comes to actually DO IT, EVERYTHING changes.

The heart rate shoots up, breathing quickens, eyes dart back and forth, thoughts of rejection fill the mind, and eventually the pressure becomes too much to bare.

Most men find this state so scary that they end up deciding to forget about approaching the women... just to end the discomfort.

The temptation is great to just "walk away" because just as quickly as the intense nervousness is triggered by the moment one decides to ACT, it goes away when you decide to "forget about it and walk away".

The fact that "choosing to walk away" leads to the "instant gratification" of the nervous feeling going away makes it the most popular option.

Most of the time (and I'm talking about probably 99% of the time here) men just walk away. They give up before they've even started.

I find this topic fascinating.

If I just think about it, I can remember MANY times in my past where I wanted to talk to a woman, but I just didn't do it.

In fact, many of them are so vivid that I can remember the exact setting, what the girl looked like, who else was there, etc...and I'm talking about situations that happened YEARS ago.

These moments obviously made an impression.

I can also remember kicking myself for DAYS afterwards for not approaching and talking to these girls.

Can you relate?

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ACTUAL REJECTION AND THE FEAR OF REJECTION...

I think it's important to realize that there's a BIG difference between ACTUAL rejection (having a girl who is offended, upset, rude, etc. to you when you start talking to her) and the FEAR of rejection (how you feel when you imagine a woman rejecting you).

I've found that for me PERSONALLY, my FEAR of rejection is actually FAR, FAR more painful and difficult to deal with than ACTUAL rejection in the real world.

The main reason for this is that most of the time when a man starts talking to a woman, she is actually rather nice about the whole affair.

Men aren't "rejected" very often!

If a woman isn't interested, she usually just says "I have a boyfriend" or "No thank you"...or she'll just walk away without saying anything at all.

Out of the hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of times that I've approached women, I can't remember any time that a woman has yelled "Get away from me you loser! You are unattractive and the very thought of going on a date with you makes me sick to my stomach!"

I'm sure it's happened to SOMEONE, but it's never happened to ME.

The worst I've had is a woman making fun of the words I used (telling me that my pickup line was lame) or just walking away.

No slaps, no boyfriends beating me up, and no yelling.

But here's the kicker...

You can experience an intense FEAR of rejection EVERY time you consider approaching a woman.

Imagine, something you can predict with almost perfect accuracy.

You can be in any situation, anywhere, anytime, and still have FEAR of rejection...which will prevent you from approaching a woman.

Ah, the power of the human mind.

HOW TO DEAL WITH REJECTION...

A lot of guys ask me, "How do I deal with rejection?".

The answer: Don't worry about it.

If you get "rejected", you'll be fine.

Really.

It's no big deal, and it doesn't happen that often.

And when it does, you'll recover shortly thereafter.

You'll find yourself telling your friends about it, and laughing together. Rejection from a woman is about as painful as getting a "D" on a test.

It's basically insignificant.

The REAL question is "How do I deal with my FEAR of rejection?".

If you can overcome your imaginary FEAR of rejection, you'll be on your way. (Some guys have a type of fear that they might call "terror" when thinking of approaching women.) If you have this level of fear, then you might want to take a minute and check this out before reading on:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/OnBeingAMan/

WHY WOMEN REJECT MEN...

Now let's talk about those rare instances where a woman actually REJECTS a man.

For the sake of this discussion, I want to define "rejection" as a woman doing something that lets you know that she's upset and offended that you started talking to her, and she responds in a mean or vicious way to make you go away.

I do NOT consider a woman walking away without stopping to talk to you, her saying "No thank you", or any other time when a woman just simply doesn't engage to be "rejection".

If you DO consider these things to be rejection, please stop reading now, call your mom into your room, and tell her that it's time you grew up and moved out...and that she'll get over the fact that she can't choose your clothes for you and hug you when you have a boo-boo anymore.

I digress...

I've found that there are a few main reasons why women actually DO reject men (by the way, it's VERY rare that I actually get "rejected" anymore...it's probably happened to me once in the last 100 times I've started a conversation with a woman...because I don't do dumb-ass things anymore).

Here are the main ones:

1. The guy isn't paying attention, and he does something stupid to begin with.

Some guys think it's appropriate to walk up to a woman, put their arm around her, and say, "Hey baby, you sure do look hot tonight".

Some guys don't see anything wrong with following a woman around all night, staring at her constantly, then walking over with a nervous, sweaty-palmed, stalkerish look and saying, "You remind me of my sister".

These are bad ideas.

2. The guy doesn't stop when he should.

If two women are sitting alone at a table in the corner, and one of them is obviously upset, and you walk over to them and say, "Hi, can I buy you a drink?"...and the upset one looks at you and says, "No thanks, we're in the middle of a conversation" (then looks away from you back at her friend)...and you say, "Aw, come on, have a drink. You need to lighten up and have some fun"...and she looks back at you and says firmly, "We're busy"...and you say, "What, are you in a bad mood or something? I'm just trying to buy you a drink"...and she says, "We don't want a drink"...and you say, "Well maybe your friend does"...and the friend says, "No, I don't want one either"...

OK, hopefully you get it.

If you ever do something like this, you are a dumb ass, and you deserve to be slapped and have 47 drinks thrown in your lap.

3. Making a woman nervous with your body language.

If you start talking to a woman, but your posture is weak and slumped, your eyes are darting around but not meeting hers, and you're wearing an unbuttoned flannel shirt with one of the tails tucked in, you're probably not going to get a favorable response.

If you creep a woman out, things aren't going to work for you.

4. Not understanding a woman's body language and other communication.

When you start talking to a woman, she will let you know within a very short time if she's receptive to talking to you.

If you've been reading too many books that say "A woman will signal her availability and interest by flipping her hair, licking her lips, and cocking her head coyly at you", then get over it.

This stuff happens to Brat Pitt, not to YOU.

And if it DOES happen to you, then skip this part.

When you first start talking to a woman she's either going to keep talking to you in an open, comfortable way or she's not.

She's either going to act like things are cool or she's going to act like they're not.

This is an amazing thought, but women get nervous too. They will often stop talking just because they can't think of anything to say, etc.

But you need to pay attention.

Experience is the best teacher here.

My simple point is that MOST GUYS CAUSE REJECTION by what they're doing. They aren't paying attention, or they're doing things that are offensive.

If you just avoid a few major mistakes, learn how to start conversations with women, and do a few simple things RIGHT, you'll all but totally avoid "rejection" from the women you approach.

HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR OF REJECTION

The REAL obstacle here is the FEAR.

As I mentioned, FEAR of rejection, or IMAGINING rejection when you should be imagining success, leads to walking away.

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Ironically, I've found that the best way to overcome my own fear of rejection was to see that it wasn't going to actually happen.

The more times I approached women and started conversations and the more I saw that women usually responded positively, the less I imagined things going wrong.

This led to a positive feedback loop of me wanting to approach more women and have more success.

Here are a few ideas for overcoming your own FEAR of rejection:

1) Go out to a bar, and watch men approaching women.

Take a Saturday night, and just go out alone. Find a seat at the bar where things are busy, and just watch.

Make sure you visit a place that is REALLY busy, so you can see a lot of people interacting.

Now, pay attention.

You'll begin to pick out the guys who are approaching a lot of women, asking them to dance, buying them drinks, etc. Watch what happens.

You'll be able to see for yourself that most of the time, even if the woman isn't interested, nothing bad happens.

You'll also see that when a guy tries to grab a woman who's walking by, makes a crude sexual comment, or just keeps talking when a woman isn't interested, that the woman's feelings might escalate and she'll respond negatively.

You can watch what works and what doesn't right in front of your own eyes.

This will start to reprogram your mind that women don't usually "reject" men, even in the most intense situations where they're being approached all night.

2) Start small.

If you have to, start by talking to women who are PAID to talk to you.

Go to a mall (one of my favorites).

Stores in malls hire attractive young women.

Walk into every store, and start conversations.

Practice making eye contact.

Come up with a few jokes that you can use in any situation ("So, do you own this store? Perfect, then you won't care if I just take some things...")

Ask the salesgirls to smell your new cologne (the one you sprayed on your wrist next door) and give you her opinion.

The more you do this, the more you'll get used to starting conversations with women you don't know, and having comfortable conversations.

3) Choose one default thing for each situation.

It amazes me that guys don't think ahead.

They don't plan what they're going to do.

As the old saying goes "By failing to plan, you plan to fail".

You really need to figure out a DEFAULT thing you can do to start a conversation with any woman, anywhere, anytime.

Once you come up with your idea, mentally rehearse it until you could do it in any situation.

Then get out and do it.

HOW TO AVOID REJECTION AND INCREASE SUCCESS

Human beings tend to want to "save face" when it comes to relationships.

We don't like the idea that another person has outright "rejected" us, and we ALSO tend to not want to "hurt other people's feelings" by rejecting them.

This is one of the reasons why women will often lie and say "I have a boyfriend" when they don't.

You must become aware of these "subconscious" processes and motivations, work with them, and eventually become the master of them.

Learn to recognize when a woman is "politely saying no thanks", and move on.

If a woman isn't interested in you, forget about it. It doesn't matter.

Go to the next one. There are plenty.

LEARN HOW AND WHY WOMAN FEEL ATTRACTION FOR MEN

Most men believe that if they could only overcome their own fear of rejection, and learn how to start talking to women, all their problems would be solved.

Not so!

Just because you can start conversations with women doesn't mean that they'll feel ATTRACTION for you.

It took me a LONG time to really "get" this.

It took me even LONGER to realize that there is actually a way to make women feel the emotion of ATTRACTION for you...just by the way you communicate with them.

I used to believe that it was a mysterious, lucky accident when a woman felt ATTRACTION.

Now I realize that it's only "lucky" for those guys who don't understand it (and very few do).

I've devoted a lot of time, effort, energy, testing, and development to design a system that any guy can use to start making women feel ATTRACTION for him.

And I'd like you to take advantage of that effort and time that I've invested by checking out my Advanced Dating Techniques program.

In this program, I break down the process of making women feel ATTRACTION for you into easy, step-by-step exercises and techniques that ANY guy can start using IMMEDIATELY.

You'll learn everything from specific exercises to increase your self esteem, to the exact words that I personally use when I approach women...to the specific steps to "getting physical" with women.

It's all in there.

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/

And if you'd like to get an introduction to the main concepts, then download a copy of my online eBook "Double Your Dating". This eBook is a complete intro to the mind set and techniques you need to understand to start being successful with women. It's here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/

I'll talk to you again in a couple of days.

Your Friend,

David D.

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The Secret To Making A Woman WANT You

Hey, Man,

Before I ever learned how to attract women, I used to watch how those guys we call "Players"... would walk into a room, leave with the woman of their choice...and make it look so damn EASY.

I used to think to myself that it would be SO fantastic if I could do that.

I figured that these guys must be "good looking" or charming...or have SOMETHING...

...something I didn't have.

Later, after I learned the SKILL of meeting women, I realized that the most important thing I had been missing was knowing HOW to ATTRACT women.

Here's the BOTTOM LINE:

ANYONE can learn to meet women.

But if you don't UNDERSTAND how to create ATTRACTION, then you will beat your head against the wall YOUR ENTIRE LIFE and still not have any success.

The BEST way for YOU to learn how to create MASSIVE attraction is to read my downloadable eBook called "Attraction Isn't A Choice".

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Talk soon,

David D.

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Hey Man,

Today's topic is THE BIG ONE... the #1 reason, bar none, that most men FAIL with women...

I'm talking about FEAR OF REJECTION.

It's simply the most "lethal" obstacle that ANY man faces when it comes to achieving the love life of his dreams...

...or NOT.

In fact, most guys will do ANYTHING to avoid being rejected by a woman -- including NEVER TRYING AT ALL!

Am I right?

Of course I am.

After all, I'm a GUY -- I've *been* there.

Which is why I want to deliver some emergency "First Aid" to EVERY guy who's struggling with a crippling FEAR OF REJECTION (and its devastating effects on his entire life) right now.

And, like any good doctor, I'll start with a basic question before I deliver "the cure"...

It's simply this:

Where do you think you got this "lethal" fear of rejection in the first place?

I mean, last I checked, getting "rejected" by a woman doesn't cause broken bones.

Not even a bloody nose.

So why all the hassle and worry about it?

I'll tell you why:

It's because, by the time a guy gets serious about women and dating, a lifetime of "embarrassments" and "humiliations" have already done their WORST to him.

They've inflicted emotional "injuries" LONG before he asks out a girl for the first time... injuries that cause so much LASTING DAMAGE that many men subconsciously vow to NEVER let it happen again. Sound about right?

Well. If this "diagnosis" rings true to YOU, here's what your "doctor" wants you to do...

I want you to take a look back at YOUR past.

How long does it take you to come up with an example of a moment that caused you to stop "putting yourself out there" with women?

I bet it doesn't take you very long to think of one...

In fact, when I ask this same question to my audience at my live events, virtually EVERY hand in the room goes up.

Plus, I personally struggled with a crippling fear of rejection for YEARS.

And when I finally ask myself this question... was there a moment in MY life that contributed to this crippling FEAR...an example IMMEDIATELY came to mind.

I remember it like it was yesterday...

I was just a kid, probably around 12 or 13, and I had a major crush on a girl who rode my bus.

She was a couple years older, and so BEAUTIFUL...not a girl who'd EVER notice a guy like me, even if I was a total middle-school stud. Which I wasn't.

I was just an awkward younger kid. And to me, she was a totally unattainable, totally hot "older woman."

Aaah, youth...

Anyway.

So one day on the bus, as usual I sat as close to this girl as possible...trying to get near the object of my school-boy fantasies...and guess what I did to make sure she'd notice me:

I threw up. Yep.

I hurled. Puked. Gave back breakfast. Insert your favorite here.

No matter what you call it, it was cataclysmically embarrassing. Smelly and Disgusting. All worse than it even sounds.

But, man, did I get her attention.

I watched my fantasy girl get up...walk to the front of the bus...grab some kleenex...

...then (with a disgusted LOOK on her face) she came BACK and handed the tissues to me.

And I thought I was going to DIE.

She was literally "looking down on me" as she handed me those tissues.

Then...she got as FAR away as she could, as fast as she could.

Needless to say, I never dared to come near this girl again, let alone try to speak to her.

But here's the thing...

After sharing this experience with literally THOUSANDS of guys, I learned 2 things beyond the shadow of a doubt:

#1: EVERY man has similar "embarrassing" and "humiliating" experiences in his past.

#2: Not ONE of us ever DIED from them. No one required emergency surgery. No one needed CPR on the spot.

And -- since you're reading this right now -- I'll assume you're *not* a zombie...that YOU survived as well.

More on the crippling psychic "injuries" at the root of ALL FEARS OF REJECTION (and how to escape them FOREVER!) right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ManTransformation/

But for now...back to why I wrote you today in the first place...

I want to make DAMN sure that YOU know rejection is not only survivable...but that, when properly handled and channeled, it can actually be a GOOD THING!

Don't believe it?

Let me put it another way...

Ever see that movie "APOCALYPSE NOW"?

If not, you should. It's a classic.

In the movie, Marlon Brando plays a bad-ass colonel who describes what it takes to defeat an enemy...ANY enemy...no matter how fierce and terrifying they may be.

Brando says to WIN, first you must "MAKE FRIEND OUT OF FEAR."

In other words, when confronted by something that makes you ANXIOUS, NERVOUS, and AFRAID, you have a choice:

You can RUN and HIDE from it...

...or you can HARNESS THE POWER OF YOUR FEAR and USE IT to your advantage.

It means that fear can be a powerful WEAPON when used in the right way...it can actually HELP us SUCCEED instead of making us fail.

Of course, we aren't talking about anything nearly as scary as war here (although approaching women FEELS that scary to a lot of guys).

We're just talking about being in a situation where you see a great woman you'd like to meet.

No big deal in comparison, right?

Yet... like clockwork... you always feel nervous. Even AFRAID in this situation. As if it WERE a war.

You feel like approaching a woman will lead to nothing but PAIN.

And this creates FEAR.

Well, here's how to "cure" that fear, once and for all, Brando-style...

It's called "THE LINE GAME", and it's a simple, fun game that can have a HUGE, IMMEDIATE IMPACT on overcoming your fear of rejection, so I recommend that you try it out ASAP.

Here's how it works:

Go to a bar or club with a few of your friends.

Once you're there, spot an attractive woman...

...then have one of your FRIENDS come up with a pick-up line to use on her.

Now here's the deal:

Whatever the line is, you MUST use it.

Assuming it's not offensive or threatening in any way, you *MUST* go over to the woman within 60 seconds and say it to her.

Doesn't matter how hot she is.

Doesn't matter how cheesy and lame the line is. (In fact, the cheesier and lamer the better.)

Why, you ask?

It's because you're going to walk over and use that line on the hottest woman in the room like you're on a military mission...

You're going to march over and say that lame, line, NO MATTER WHAT, WITHOUT EVEN THINKING ABOUT IT.

Here's the point:

It doesn't MATTER what happens next!

By doing this, you're the "007" of approaching women...You have a "license" to blow it.

You have ZERO RESPONSIBILITY for what happens, because it's all just a stupid dare from your friends.

This is AWESOME news for *you* because:

1) You'll probably just end up making the woman LAUGH...

...and as I've said a bazillion times, laughter is the ULTIMATE "ice-breaker." Use it right, and you're IN.

2) Since the whole thing is just a "dare"... just a show that you're putting on...

It has ZERO real-life "consequences" -- and ZERO reason for you to feel embarrassed no matter what happens.

3) There's positive "peer pressure" built into the situation -- and we all know what peer pressure can do...

For better or worse, it's the VERY BEST WAY to make a guy do something he might not otherwise!

4) Even if you DO feel embarrassed, your deep, inner psyche will finally get the message loud and clear:

YOU WILL SURVIVE making the lamest approach in the history of approaching women!

BEST OF ALL:

5) With this ONE experience under your belt, imagine how much more CONFIDENT you'll be NEXT TIME you approach a woman...

...ESPECIALLY if you're equipped with the *RIGHT* things to say and do to be SUCCESSFUL!

Oh, by the way...you can learn exactly what the "right" things to say and do are, right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/

But for now, your "doctor" wants you to go out and try "The Line Game".

I guarantee you'll feel an IMMEDIATE transformation in how you think and feel about "rejection." A transformation that, if you stick with it, will soon CURE YOUR FEAR OF REJECTION FOREVER.

And like I said, completing this "transformation" is the #1 challenge EVERY guy faces...

...even guys who are already successful with women!

Wait...WHAT? What did I just say?

It's hard to believe, I know...but it's 100% TRUE:

Even a man's who's done a lot of work to master "techniques" for getting dates often feels like there's still something missing INSIDE of him.

He may be successful at getting numbers... closing the deal...getting physical with women... etc...but he often still carries around HUGE fears and insecurities.

Even worse: Much of the time, he must work even HARDER to overcome the scared little "boy" he still feels INSIDE himself because of it...why do you think so many of these guys collect pick-up lines and "tricks" for getting dates in the first place?

It's because they still haven't "cured" the deep fears and insecurities that make it so hard (if not IMPOSSIBLE) to ATTRACT and KEEP a quality woman in their lives.

Accomplishing THAT, you see, requires leaving past "injuries" behind and replacing them with something else entirely...

Something called "REAL MAN" CONFIDENCE.

And take it from me...I've literally spent YEARS studying how to make this happen.

And I'm proud to say I finally cracked it.

I developed the biggest, most powerful program EVER CREATED for helping a man escape his past "damage" so that he can move on and start LIVING HIS DREAMS.

It's an epic program called (appropriately enough) "MAN TRANSFORMATION", and I could say all sorts of things about its mind-blowing track record of success...it"s global acclaim...yada yada yada...but in the end, here's all that matters:

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Simply put:

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Your Friend,

David D.

PS: BONUS POINTS for this one:

What's the first thing a woman uses to size you up...to tell if you're a "catch" or a "creep" the moment you walk up to her?

Get the answer (and how to effortlessly send all the RIGHT signals when you approach a woman) HERE:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/

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How To Use Flirting To Make Her Want You

***BURNING QUESTION***

What if there were a way to ELIMINATE *all* of the HARD WORK, REJECTION, and FEAR that's involved with going out and trying to meet women?

>> ANSWER:

There IS. And now more than ever before, it's mind-blowingly EASY to do!

I want to show you how to set up your own "dating success machine"...

A FAIL-PROOF system that AUTOMATICALLY gets you those phone numbers... ensures the success of those crucial first phone calls and meetings... BUILDS ATTRACTION FAST on dates... basically, the whole nine yards!

Learn how to start succeeding with women *AUTOMATICALLY* right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/MeetingWomenOnline//p>

Hey Man,

I want to talk about the concept of "flirting", and why it's SO important that you understand exactly what it is and how to do it with women.

To begin with, women know what flirting is and they respond VERY differently to flirting communication than they do to typical social communication.

If you understand flirting and sexual tension, you can begin conversations with women and have them INSTANTLY feeling ATTRACTION for you.

If you DON'T understand how flirting and sexual tension work, then you're either going to have to become famous or make a LOT of money to be successful with women.

I'm going to suggest that you learn how to flirt well, then do it RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING in your interactions with women to SET THE RIGHT TONE.

Think of flirting like playing.

Remember when you were a kid and you used to "play fight" with your friends?

What's the difference between "play" wrestling and "real" wrestling?

And how do you know the difference when it's happening... when your friend runs up and pushes you down, then jumps on you and tries to pin you?

The answer is YOU JUST KNOW. It's obvious to humans (and other animals, by the way) when someone is "playing" and when they're serious.

Flirting is similar.

If you start talking to a woman and say, "Hi, you're very pretty. You probably have a boyfriend, right?" in a normal tone of voice, you're NOT flirting.

On the other hand, if you say, "Hi, I realize that you're probably shy because you get no attention from men... so I thought I'd come over here and pay attention to you..." it's OBVIOUS that you're not being serious. This is flirting.

By the way, flirting IS NOT simply telling jokes, or trying to be "cute".

One of the concepts that I teach is called "Cocky & Funny."

Cocky & Funny is simply a powerful, concentrated way of flirting and creating sexual tension with a specific kind of humor.

It's so funny to me how some guys write in because they "can't see themselves being Cocky & Funny around women" because they don't want to come across as jerks.

This really cracks me up... because it's obvious to me that these guys JUST DON'T GET IT.

So let me explain this whole thing a different way...

If you know how to communicate the right way, women will respond to you RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING with a HIGH LEVEL of sexual interest and ATTRACTION.

When you know how to incorporate flirting in a Cocky & Funny way, which is really a form of "adult verbal play", you tune in to a certain frequency in a woman's mind and cause her to go into a very special kind of emotional state.

One of the keys to effective flirting is to "get it".

In other words, you have to actually get out there and practice so you get a "feel" for how it works.

Problem is, a lot of guys give up when they try a cute line or technique and a woman responds by saying "You're a loser."

Instead of realizing that they just need more practice (or and education on what they SHOULD be saying), they take it personally and decide it means that they're a failure...

... when the REAL TRUTH is this:

IT'S A LAW OF NATURE:

Once you learn how to FLIRT correctly and communicate in the language of "adult play," you WILL SIMPLY NOT BELIEVE how women will respond to you!

They'll suddenly start smiling at you right off the bat, instead of being "stand-offish" and impatient, like they have somewhere else to be.

They'll start being "open" and "receptive" to what you have to say instead of blowing you off.

They'll want to talk to YOU instead of the hundred other guys competing for their attention in the room.

BEST OF ALL... they'll start doing most of the hard work to get to know YOU better...

... all because you've flirted with them the RIGHT way--also known as using COCKY and FUNNY in EXACTLY the right proportions!

If you'd like to learn more about how to get that magical "mix" just right to start flirting effectively (and leave your fears of getting REJECTED behind forever) here's the best place to get that "education" I was talking about:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/

You'll also be able to watch some FREE video clips of me actually TEACHING Cocky & Funny, so check it out now.

Meanwhile, here's an example of some of one of my favorite topics to "riff on" when flirting...

It's the topic of getting married and being in a relationship.

Here it is in the form of a sample dialogue... Keep in mind, I might have a conversation like this with a woman that I just met five minutes earlier...

Her: "I have a good job, and I make good money"

Me: "Nice. I like that in a woman. Want to get married? We could leave for Vegas right now and be married in about 4 or 5 hours. I need a woman with money."

Her: "OK, that sounds like a plan"

Me: "But wait a minute... do you think you can support the both of us on your income? I really want to be a stay at home husband... you know, keep an eye on the TV and such."

Her: "Oh, no... I won't support you."

Me: "Well, then I'm breaking up with you. It's over between us. I was going to marry you, then divorce you a week later and take half your money."

Her: "You can't break up with me! I'm not even your girlfriend."

Me: "That's all the more reason."

Do you see what's going on here?

I'm taking a normal conversation topic (her job and income) and redirecting the conversation in a flirtatious, Cocky & Funny way to create a fun mood and sexual tension (by suggesting marriage, divorce, and breaking up over her not supporting me, etc.).

If the above example doesn't make any sense to you, then take that as a sign that you need to get out and practice more. Try it on a waitress or two.

When you ask for something and she says, "I'm sorry, we don't have that", just say, "OK, this relationship isn't working out... I'm going to have to break up with you."

In fact, you can say this in just about ANY situation with ANY woman where she's saying something that you don't like, and it's funny.

When you communicate like this, you're FLIRTING, you're TEASING, and you're initiating a DIFFERENT KIND OF COMMUNICATION than what most men initiate.

And as soon as the woman you're talking to "engages" you in this kind of dialogue, THE GAME IS ON.

There are a LOT of ways you can flirt, and a lot of ways you can be Cocky & Funny that DON'T REQUIRE WORDS.

If a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow, look back at her and do the same... only exaggerate it.

If a woman puts her hand on your arm, look down at it, then look up at her in a surprised way, then raise your eyebrows as if you just had a major "ah ha!" realization... then start smiling and nodding your head as if you just realized that she wants you.

This is a powerful combination because it's funny, and it exaggerates the meaning in her touching you.

Fact is, there are a MILLION ways to flirt like this, but the point that I'm trying to make is this:

YOU NEED TO START DOING IT RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING OF YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN!

It will set off all of your conversations with women on the right foot, and start a dialogue that creates sexual tension and ATTRACTION.

If you DON'T learn how to communicate with women like this you'll have BORING, "NORMAL" conversations that NEVER lead to sexual tension and ATTRACTION.

Remember, women can tell INSTANTLY whether you're flirting with them or not.

If you are, and you're doing it in a subtle, charming way, you'll get amazing responses.

And the whole key is using your words, voice tone and body language to successfully project just 3 things about yourself:

1) Your powerful understanding about how male/female ATTRACTION works

2) Your iron-clad belief in yourself (also known as your CONFIDENCE)

3) Your ability to communicate these qualities throughout your interactions with women.

AND THAT'S IT!

PERIOD.

That in mind...

Once you MASTER the concepts of how to SUCCESSFULLY flirt with women, you'll THEN be able to convert that success into:

* Sparking unstoppable ATTRACTION

* Making your move and taking things to a PHYSICAL LEVEL

* Building kick-ass RELATIONSHIPS (if that's what you're looking for).

Make sense?

If so, and all this sounds good to you, then I can't urge you strongly enough to get your hands on a copy of my "Sexual Communication" program...

You see, during the time I spent learning directly from guys who were REALLY good with women, I noticed something that they were all doing...

... something that most men literally CAN'T SEE!

I discovered what I like to think of as a "secret language" that men and women use to communicate on a "sexual level"...

After discovering that this was going on right in front of me all my life... and then learning how to use it to attract women... I realized that I HAD to teach this to other guys.

And that's what my world-famous "Sexual Communication" program is all about...

Teaching YOU to speak THIS language.

After going through this program, I guarantee that you'll look at your interactions with women very differently (as in, TOTALLY *WITHOUT* FEAR OR ANXIETY).

Even BETTER:

You'll suddenly have ALL THE TOOLS YOU NEED to start creating INSTANT, IRRESISTIBLE SEXUAL ATTRACTION with women -- no matter how rich you are or what you look like.

Oh, and by the way... you'll finally know EVERYTHING you need to about how to FLIRT, too.

In fact, flirting will come to you so SUCCESSFULLY and AUTOMATICALLY, you won't even have to THINK about doing it... it'll just happen naturally!

So now the ball's in your court...

And let's face it... none of us are getting any younger...

It's a tragedy that so many guys WASTE THEIR WHOLE LIVES *not* getting women when this situation is actually SO EASY TO FIX!

That in mind -- you can check out the specifics (and watch some FREE video clips) of my "Sexual Communication" Program here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication/

But remember...

The NEXT program you need to get if you just want to learn how to FLIRT with women is my famous "Cocky Comedy" program.

One of the SPECIFIC things that I saw guys who were "naturals" with women doing... and one of the things that I later learned to do... is what I call "being Cocky & Funny".

You've probably read about the technique in these newsletters I send you.

This is essentially my FAVORITE "technique", and the reason why is because it's FUN... and it WORKS.

It's fun for you, it's fun for her, and it works like MAD to spark and build ATTRACTION.

If you've tried being Cocky & Funny with a woman and seen that SPARK in her eye... and the smile on her face... then you KNOW how powerful this is.

Well, this program will take your basic skills and SUPERCHARGE them. I'll teach you everything from the foundations of humor and laughter... all the way to specific word-by-word lines for the most common situations you find yourself in with women.

Go check it out (and watch some FREE video clips) here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend

David D.

P.S. Have you ever heard the story of how I personally went from being "lonely" and "hopeless"... to meeting TONS of women and getting more dates than I could handle?

I guarantee it, just HEARING this story will change your life... simply because you'll finally know that if a regular guy like me can do it, YOU CAN, TOO!

Go here to learn more about EVERYTHING that I teach:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/

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How To Approach A Woman & Take Her Home

If you want to learn how to successfully approach women, then you're going to need to learn both the "inner" game - which is all about overcoming fear and building confidence - and the "outer" game - which is all about having the SKILLS and "lines" for the different situations you'll find yourself in. And where's the best way to learn to MASTER both? Glad you asked, it's right HERE:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/

***QUESTION***

David,

Got your book a few weeks ago. It's brilliant. It's magic. It's a religion. I am impressed. At 30, I've doing better now than in college since I LET myself get wussified over the past few years. I can now, cold-turkey, walk up to just about any woman I want to, and bust her friggin' balls with a straight face and a slight smirk. Their defense shields melt before my eyes. But, alas, I have a question. It seems when I'm meeting women, within an hour or so, I usually end up making out with them or touching them all over...while they kiss and touch me back of course. Getting numbers isn't enough. I want to advance the meeting from the bar or the party straight to the bed-room without all the email and phone call. What is the best way of doing that? Also....after making out with this one lady I met, after meeting her in a parking lot at a liquor store (go figure), she emails me back a week later saying she wants to pursue friendship first and get to know me. It seems I am perhaps being too agressive. How can I be agressive yet sly about it? Any help would be great. I love this stuff!

RC

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, my book is magic? A RELIGION?

I accept the "brilliant" compliment, and I can even allow the "magic" concept... but let's stay away from the religion comments...

To answer your first question, about how to skip all the emails, calling, and "dating" and go straight to the bedroom...

Do two things:

1) Don't focus on "the bedroom." Focus on taking things to the next step...and the next... and the next.

2) As soon as you meet a woman, treat it like you're going on a date together.

Let me explain.

If you meet a girl you really like, spark some major chemistry, start kissing her, etc., you're probably going to get some resistance if you look at her and say "OK, let's leave your friends here and go back to my place so I can SHAG you."

That's just a hunch.

But, if you meet her, spark the attraction, start kissing, and then say..."Hey, come with me", and then take her hand and lead her to another part of the club or bar...or take her to the dance floor...or some combination...and then start kissing again...and then stop (two forward, one back)...and then say, "Hey, I'm going to this other bar, come along with me"...and then once you're there you continue, all the way until closing, when you say, "Hey, let's keep talking.. this is fun. Give me a ride home..."etc., etc., etc....

I think you can see where I'm going with this.

A woman wants to feel that things are developing naturally, not that you are just trying to get her into bed as fast as you can.

If the evening unfolds in a normal, natural way, and you can progress from one level to the next, you'll do very well and go very far.

Why do you lead her to another part of the club, and then take her somewhere else?

Physically leading a woman is VERY powerful, and leaving together/showing up somewhere else together changes things. When you arrive at the new place, even though you're the same two people who just met, you're now TOGETHER at the new place.

And when you suggest continuing to talk, and her giving you a ride home (or some variation), it's not like saying "Come shag me." You're making it clear that you want to spend time with her, and it leaves the possibility of ANYTHING happening open.

And as for the girl you met in the parking lot who emailed you a week later saying "Let's pursue a friendship first", what she was probably REALLY saying is:

"I can't believe that I made out with you after meeting you in a parking lot of a liquor store. I'm not like that. So let's get together sometime on a more casual basis, and if you DO EXACTLY WHAT YOU DID WHEN WE FIRST MET I'LL PROBABLY WIND UP MAKING OUT WITH YOU AGAIN."

Think about it.

***QUESTION***

Dave, I just recently read your e-book so I am still working on techniques but I can say I am a 30 something, short, spare tire, receding hair line guy (I think girls would say I'm cute though) who, until a few weeks ago (when I read your book), was still falling into the `just friends' category way too many times. Since then, I've cut off 3 `friends' and started working on myself, i.e. joined a gym, cleaned up my apartment, and am working on my wardrobe. 2 weekends ago, I was making out with a cute 22 yr. old, with a catwalk model body in my apartment using the 2 step forward, 1 back technique (my roommate came in or it may have gone further). It was actually pretty easy because I didn't really care one way or the other if it happened. My problem is I have another girl that I don't think I've crossed into the `friend' realm just yet, but I can't seem to advance to the next level. We run with the same set of friends and I took her out for her birthday once so we're somewhere between bridge #2 and #5. We email and talk on the phone quite a bit and I can keep the conversations short and reasonably C&F (our friends tell me she thinks I'm mysterious), but I can't get it to go anywhere physically. I hinted at going out on a date one time last week in an email and she responded to everything in the email but that. My response has been to stop answering her emails and calls, she sent an email today that just said `where are you?'. (she is actually calling my cell phone now as I write this).

My question is this, do I run like hell (in which case I hope I could get some suggestions on making an easy break since we have the same friends), or work on my seduction techniques with her. If the latter, I would greatly appreciate some tips on crossing the next bridge. M

P.S. I've read some of the other stuff out there and yours is one of the few that shows guys how to get the upper hand in a respectful manner. Thanks.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Try this...

Don't talk to her for a few days.

Then, call her up and say "What are you doing RIGHT NOW?...I think you should come over and hang out with me."

Call on a Saturday or Sunday around noon.

If she comes over, immediately LEAVE after she arrives.

Go have a cup of tea, do some window shopping, and DON'T cling to her, look at her too much, or act like you are feeling attracted to her. Lean back. Tease her a lot. Tell her how she's screwing up her chances with you, etc.

Finally, once you get back to your place, proceed with The Kiss Test...and you'll be fine from there.

You need to relax. Don't run like hell, and don't get so hung up on this one girl.

We guys always want the one we can't have... and it's a problem. Stay on track improving yourself, meeting other women, etc. That's the way.

***QUESTION***

One question, how would you change your self- image?

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Sure, go here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/DeepInnerGame/

...a short question deserves a short, direct answer.

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave,

You are the man!! I'll try to make this short and sweet. I work at club/bar here in FL so I meet plenty of beautiful women. I have to tell you that the cocky and funny routine works wonders for me. I have been doing it for years but never knew exactly what I was doing right until I read your newsletter. My situation goes like this: after work the bartenders and a couple managers always stay after for drinks. We usually just share stories about drunk customers or talk about how the night was. Since I work the front door at this club, I always have a story or two about girls willing do just about anything to get in there or girls wanting to take me home after. Now there is this bartender that I work with that I like and been pouring extra c&f her way, and she eats it up. We went out to breakfast after work this past saturday, and one thing that bothered me was that when we were talking over breakfast, she said "before this, I thought you were a player and a little bit of a whore." I was in a bit of shock but reacted nicely by saying "of course YOU would think that, and that is exactly why I dont date bartenders, you guys are too judgmental" she hit me in the arm, but had the biggest smile on her face. When I took her back to her car, we ended up kissing for a bit. This is all great and everything, but my question to you is, am I being too cocky and funny here or was she just testing me with that comment she made??? G, in sunny Florida

>>>MY COMMENTS:

AHHHH!

You're doing EXACTLY the right thing.

Don't doubt yourself.

The fact that she hit you, and had the big smile tells the whole story.

You (and many other guys) must get over the idea that just because a woman knows you date a lot of other women doesn't mean that she won't like you.

This doesn't make a lot of sense, but women are often MOST attracted to PLAYERS.

It makes you MORE attractive when you have a lot of women that want you...not less.

You're fine. Keep it up!

***QUESTION***

I thought these letters of success were promotional B.S. But.....

A few months ago I was introduced to this really hot lady and I said all the "nice to meet you" stuff to and she seemed to be annoyed at my existence. Well I crawled away in disgrace and was told she had no interest in me. Read some of your stuff and ran into her a few weeks later and started talking your language to her. I mentioned to her that I might have taken an interest if she exercised once and a while and picked up some fashion tips. Well, that worked especially well because she is a health and beauty pro to boot. I kept it up and no kidding, SHE asked me out!

And by the way, I kept it up on our date and she couldn't leave me alone, Amazing.

R.D. in CA.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Oh, ye of little faith.

You thought these newsletters full of success stories were just "promotional B.S."?

Well, they're promotional, that's the damn truth.

But they're not B.S.

Every letter I print in these newsletters is real...every single one of them... from day one.

And probably 99% of them are unedited as well (sometimes a letter is just too long, or unclear, or the writer doesn't speak English well, so I'll edit for clarity, but this is very rare).

By the way, I realize that the things I teach sound a little bit bizarre. Believe me, it took me a couple of years of hard work just to figure this stuff out...and a lot of it doesn't exactly make "logical" sense.

But, all you have to do is start using it to see that it works. Good job...you're doing the right thing!

***SUCCESS STORY***

Just a quick story. Once again you were right on with advice!! I changed my online profile with a popular dating service and have gotten four emails after the new profile was up only 1 hour!! What did I change? I made it short and funny. Here is the typical response I got: "Your profile really made me laugh. You have a great sense of humor. That's refreshing. I have a hard time finding guys who are truly funny. There's not shortage of guys who THINK they're funny, but it's nice to see some of you are still out there. I'm attaching my profile. I'm 37, never married (yeah I know... means there must be something wrong) and like to laugh and have a good time. If you don't respond, I'll just have to go back to collecting cats and being the neighborhood spinster. ha ha. I hope to hear from you." As you would say Dave, "Love it"! You are the man!!! E. Chicago

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Nice!

Yes, this stuff works online just as well as in person...sometimes even better.

You might remember the one newsletter several months ago where the guy took some of the stuff from my Advanced Series and copied it word-for- word to create an online personal ad, and then wound up getting all kinds of emails from women saying "Come over to my house and have sex with me...you're turning me on." LOL...

When you're Cocky & Funny online, it really triggers a FUN, witty, sassy part of women...and they love it.

By the way, if you're reading this right now and you want results like this online, check out my "Meeting Women Online" video program.

Inside this program, I teach:

-- A simple tip to get your profile to the VERY TOP of the search results... so you are the FIRST guy every woman sees when they do a search!

-- 6 things you must AVOID in an online chat... if you want to ever talk to her again, that is...

-- A few simple sentences to add to your profile that increase the amount of women that email you FIRST by 50%

-- "Tension With Text" - How to build intense sexual tension in an online chat or email conversation... and have her picturing the two of you being intimate before you ever even meet...

-- How to use Cocky Comedy to create emails that are impossible to NOT respond to... along with specific phrases to weave into your profile that almost FORCE a woman to write...

-- The exact amount of time you should wait to respond to a text or an email from a woman

And lots more of tips and tricks you can use RIGHT AWAY. Watch some free samples here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/MeetingWomenOnline/

***QUESTION***

David,

Even though you claim not to be an expert when it comes to relationships, I'd appreciate if you would give me some input on my little situation. I've been seeing this girl for for about a month now but I don't seem to be able to get to the next level. There is no question that she likes me since she keeps calling and suggesting to do things together. However, she insists on bringing up that she's gotten hurt in the past which apparently makes it hard for her to trust guys. According to me that is pretty damn dumb; we've all been hurt, haven't we. GET OVER IT! Anyway, my question to you is, how do I earn her trust? Are there any shortcuts? Help me out here palsky... J, PA,

>>>MY COMMENTS:

My guess: You're probably acting like a WUSSY with her, and she doesn't feel any ATTRACTION for you.

She's probably hanging in there, hoping that SOME kind of feelings will develop for you...but it's not working.

Look, when a woman says:

"I only like you as a friend"

...or...

"I've been hurt, so I want to take this slow"

...or...

"I like you so much, I don't want to lose you as a friend"

...or any of the million variations of these things, it USUALLY means that you're not doing the things it takes to create ATTRACTION.

She doesn't FEEL IT for you.

And if she doesn't FEEL IT, then there ARE NO shortcuts, my man.

Stop being such a "nice" guy, and start doing the things you're learning from me to spark some CHEMISTRY!

Oh, and don't call me "palsky."

And no, "palmeister" isn't any better.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Hey Dave,

Just wanted you to know how your program changed my life. I'm 45, 5'8" and weigh 179 lbs. I met this beautiful 29 yr. old 6'2" 9.5 model. It's amazing how just using your "let's be friends, if nothing else" technique worked like a charm on this very beautiful girl. After I invited her to see me at a local Starbucks Cafe I immediately started busting on her over her height. We were sitting down drinking some coffee when I grabbed her had gently and told her to kneel down on the floor so I could have eye contact and tell her something important. She went along my C&F attitude. Then I told her "who know, you might make a good friend but please get off up the floor and stop proposing to me". "Your making me feel really uncomfortable in front of all these people and besides that I'm not an easy catch". That did it from there, it just blew her mind out. She just started laughing and couldn't stop. We been dating ever since. I left a lot of details out because this story would be too long. Your cost for your program is like a dime in a bucket, when you realize that you get so much more in return.

Thanks Dave, J.C. Puerto Rico

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yeah, well, if you've now attracted a 6'2" model, then maybe you should send me more money. I'm open to the idea.

Seriously, great job. You really get it.

It's so amazing when you take something like a woman's natural height (which she usually gets compliments on) and turn it around on her...and use it to tease her.

If you're talking to a supermodel and you say "You know, just because you're beautiful and are used to being treated like a sex object doesn't mean that you can treat ME like one"...it's magic. (Not quite a religion, but it is magic.)

It's great to hear that the material is working in Puerto Rico. You have some major hot babes there (and if J Lo is any indication, they've got some serious BACK down there as well).

Nice!

***QUESTION***

Hi Dave,

I would not like to sound like the other 1 million (+,- 100,000) of your followers but your stuff really is excellent. I got your eBook few months ago and keep reading newsletters. What I have realized, for me the problem is not that I don't know what to do, but I rather can't do it. Some serious self-esteem issues which don't let me to get the maximum out of c&f. I know exactly what I need to do - practise!!!! but I just can't get my nerv up. I do keep improving but slowly. Can't just walk to any girl I like and ask for the info. Not right now. It's simple only when I'm drunk and clubbing. Then I really don't care what happens, just have fun and surprisingly the girls are very friendly. Of course only when I haven't got too drunk:)

Anyway I've got a question. Sometimes I set up a date online with a girl I just started to talk and propose to meet in 2 hours. Well, this has happened and turned out pretty well. Then we get to some pub. And what I really don't like is to buy her a drink. Its ok to buy tea her but I wouldn't like to have tea lets say friday or saturday night at 9. I can afford buying her tea but not drinks. I mean I'm a poor-ass student. It's kind of wierd to order drinks and take care of the bill and then tell her e.g. "everybody pays for his/hers drink", "you owe me 3.75." I do this all the time with my friends. But feel wierd to do it with a girl. Afterall it was me who invited her, I ordered the booz. Any c&f solutions to solve the situation?

A, from Estonia where women are gorgeous, there are lots of them and the only sheep is the president

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, no comments on the political humor...but I like the way you think.

After I'm finished checking out the 6'2" models in Puerto Rico, I'll have to stop by your neck of the woods...

I have a few brainstorms for you...to help you avoid buying drinks at the pub:

1) Keep your Friday and Saturday nights free. Go out with your friends on those nights, and just avoid dates. I have many friends that follow this rule, and it works very well for them.

2) Make a lot of friends at the pubs, bars, etc that are in your area. Invite the bar tenders, doormen, etc. to parties that you hear about... bring them gifts...and just generally figure out how to get in their good graces. In other words, become the guy that NEVER pays for drinks in the first place, because they're GIVEN to you.

3) Lead. Don't do things you don't want to do. Only go to places YOU want to go to. Women will respect you and what you want if you just lead.

***QUESTION***

Hi David!

It's incredible, your stuff works universally, worldwide. Yes, it does. I stumbled across your website when I was searching the internet some months ago. First off, there is nothing like this available in German. I thought it would be a good idea to deal with your material since I study American English among other subjects. Learning two things at the same time ;-). Hell, I was such a shy, desperate, depressed 'wussy' (didn't find that word in 3 dictionaries). I really needed to get this thing handled...Last night I went to a dance club with one of my best friends who is very good with women. I was having a great time and all of a sudden, there was a girl who asked me if I would go frequently to this club. She said she would have noticed me if I had been there before. That's when the game started. I was saying and doing things I NEVER would have said or done before. I was making fun of her and teasing all night. I made up a story that I was a Swiss guy who evaluates the girls and the premises for a snobbish swiss scene-magazine. It was obvious that I was making fun but later she said she almost believed me. We had a lot of fun when we were describing how our dreamgirl/dreamboy would be like. I teased her about her 'exorbitant expectations' and guessed her age about 38 (she's 22). After some close dancing, she said she needed to sit down for a while because her feet were aching. I said I don't massage sweaty feet and she would need to find somebody else for that job. She called me a jerk and pinched me more than once ;). Then she kissed me. The kissing and touching became hotter and hotter during the night. She seemed to know everybody in the club. All the time there were people coming giving comments and grinning. She made me acquaint with a VERY beautiful waitress at the bar who is her best friend. I asked her to write down her email-address and she said I was the first guy ever who asked her about her email and not her phone-number ;-). She gave me her two numbers and her email of course. More than that, she was actually BEGGING ME to call her!! At 5 they began to shut the club, she pulled me in a corner and I heard people saying 'they bite each other'. Then, she invited me to her apartment, added that the waitress from the bar would sleep there as well and asked me if I would mind. And she said she was so tired she could only play the passive part...It was CRYSTAL CLEAR what she wanted from me. I said I would call her and after ten more minutes she eventually let me go.

And here comes my big problem. It sounds unbelievable but I'm, ahem...I am still a virgin. Yes, it's true. You wouldn't believe it if you see me. I'm 21 years old and pretty good looking, I have to say. I did and do a lot of sports and I think nobody in my environment would assume that I'm a virgin. I don't know how this could happen. Well, I did a little research in some German internet newsgroups and forums. It seems that for most women, this condition is not very pleasant, to put it mildly. It's a big turn-off. They must think you're a bloody loser and something can't be right with you if you haven't managed to do it at that age. And that's unlikely that you can give pleasure if you are that inexperienced. It means more work with you than fun. In the best case, they judge it neutrally. And to come back to the first part of the message, I don't know what to do when we come together the next time. Tell her, not tell her? I believe she wouldn't believe me or think I'm dishonest if I tell her right off. At least she would notice at some point...I don't know what to do. Have you an answer? Please include this in your next newsletter. Help is greatly appreciated.

D from Germany

>>>MY COMMENTS:

First, you're doing GREAT. Nice job.

You probably read the newsletter that I sent out a while back... where I addressed this.

To summarize:

Don't worry about it.

The FEELINGS that you're giving her will FAR MORE than make up for any lack of experience on your part.

If you're with her, making out, and you stop to say "You know, I don't have any experience in this area" you're probably just going to kill the vibe.

Don't worry about it!

Just keep going...you're going to be fine.

By the way, I love your "I'm a Swiss guy who evaluates the girls and the premises for a snobbish swiss scene-magazine" line. Brilliant.

Also, love the guessing that she was 38 when she was obviously in her early 20s. Great stuff.

***SUCCESS STORY***

What's up dave? I've emailed ya before so I won't get into the "How Great Thou Art" speech..lol Got your series, and of course it's Da Bomb! I just wanna share a success story. Well right now I have 3 "project" women, so to speak. They all say they "want" me, in more ways than one..hehe thanks to your teachings I have the confidence to get any woman I want, I can be choosey. I love it, it's like a cool Jedi Mind Trick. Anyways on the the story, I was talkin to a girl I'm considering meeting (met her on the internet, she contacted me first cause of my C+F personality). She brought up the topic of goin out and she said, "so when are you taking me out?", and I said (your gonna love this), "I think the real question is when are you taking ME out?". She said "I could do that". Then I go on to bustin on her about how she better not take me to McDonalds and the dollar theater, cause you hafta wine and dine me a little..lol Later on into the convo she said sometime about how the conversation was making her so hot and bothered. So I go on busting on her about tryin to have phone sex with me and that I'm not that easy..wow, she was lovin it. She begged me to come over and well..finish her..hehe. Of course I turned her down and told her, we would pick up where she left off sometime later in the week..cause you gotta give them the gift of missing you. Your stuff rocks!!! I have more women who want me than I have time for. I play in 3 bands so my time is limited and gives me an excuse to not call or not be available all the time. BUY DAVE'S SERIES, IT ROCKS!!!!

-jedi in training in ohio

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You know, I love the shameless marketing you're doing for me here... nice.

By the way, you mentioned something here that is just great... when a woman brings up sex on the telephone, it's GREAT to make fun of her and tell her to stop trying to have phone sex with you. It says all the right things.

And turning it around when a woman says "So when are you taking me out"... and asking her in return is also a wonderful comeback.

Thanks again for the comments... when a guy who plays in 3 bands says that my stuff ROCKS, it must be true.

***SUCCESS STORY***

dave,

Great stuff...after slipping a bit in my late 20's with the ladies, your e-book and programs have helped me recapture what had made me successful - c+f... even though I didn't know what it was called or the science behind it, my past success was always based on this attitude, as I am naturally funny. Quick success from the other night: I am with a few friends at a hot place on the sunset strip and we see two hotties. One is a 9, the other an 8.5. I see they are getting their dinner check and tell the waitress to give them a message - "You've been checking us out all night (not true, incidentally) and you should probably buy us a round before you leave." They look totally confused when they get the message. The waitress returns and says the hotties think we should pick up their dinner tab. So, I pull out a business card and write "If you think we're the type of guys who go for gold-digging, you're sadly mistaken. I think you owe us an apology and a round of drinks." Well they get this, nearly keel over laughing, and within minutes were seated at our table. I never let up, busting her balls the whole time before announcing in the middle of the laugh fest that I needed to leave. They were shocked and asked me to stay. I declined, saying that I wasn't going to put out on the "first date" and their begging was making me uncomfortable. I left, digits from the 9 in hand. This stuff works and I recommend it to everyone one of my guy friends.

thanks, C in hollywood

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is one of my FAVORITES!

One of the best Cocky & Funny themes is "reverse gender stereotypes."

If a woman says, "Give me your number" and you say, "Look, I'm not that easy...don't think that just because I give you my number that I'm going to go out with you or sleep with you"...

Or if you're talking to a woman at a bar, and the conversation is going well, you say "OK, let's just cut to the chase...are you going to offer to buy me a drink or what?"...

Attractive women INSTANTLY connect with the humor because you're turning around situations that they have happen ALL THE TIME...and making something funny out of them.

Of course, you're also adding a Cocky element... the element of "You want me, it's obvious."

Incidentally, if you'd like to get a TON of great Cocky & Funny themes and lines for specific situations, then you really should check out my "Cocky Comedy" program. There are many different "roles" you can play with women that REALLY spike up the ATTRACTION...and I'll teach you all about them in this program.

In fact, on chapter 5 of this program, I go over some fun ideas for "cute names" to call her, that will at the same time tease and intrigue her... creating immediate attraction.

And on chapter 7, I go over some "quick Cocky Comedy tools" that you can use at anytime, with a girl you just met, or if you're already dating her...

Then on chapter 8, I go over some jokes from movies... and tons of other ideas. So you'll never feel like you don't have anything funny and clever to say.

I could go on and on telling you what you'll find in this 6 hour video program... but to save you some time, go check it out here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/

Back to my point:

I'm glad you mentioned that the Advanced series have helped you recapture what made you successful in the past.

I think a lot of guys have had times in their lives when they were successful with women...but for whatever reason they have lost their old "mojo." Maybe it was a marriage that went bad... maybe a girlfriend that eventually turned them into a Wuss Bag... whatever.

I get a lot of emails from guys who USED to be good with women, but have been out of practice for so long that they might as well be starting over.

If you fit in this category, or you're just getting started and you want to get off on the right foot, then I recommend you check out my eBook "Double Your Dating", and then my Advanced Dating Techniques program.

No kidding, this stuff has taken me several years to learn, test, refine, and explain clearly. If you want the best material available for meeting and dating women, this is it.

The Advanced program includes over 12 full hours of digitally recorded and edited footage of me teaching LIVE.

Go watch some great video clips of the program here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/

My downloadable online eBook comes with three free bonus booklets, and it's the foundation for everything I teach in these newsletters. Get it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Take a few minutes and look through all of the programs I've created to help you learn how to approach and meet women...and get dates. You can see them all, plus watch great video clips right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/

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