Monday, October 31, 2011

How To Arrange Your Life For *MAJOR* Dating Success

There's a secret "Law" for dating success that 99% of men have NO CLUE exists... yet it delivers 100% OF THE RESULTS to the few who actually know about it!

But here's the good news for YOU today:

ANY MAN can put this "Secret Law" to work for his success...once he knows about it, that is.

So discover it right here:

Hey Man,

Funny thing...I recently got an email from one of you guys asking me the best way to meet "lots and lots" of women.

And guess what:

This email immediately made me LAUGH.

But, unfortunately, not in a "funny ha-ha" way.

It was more like... "Damn, here's another poor guy who desperately needs a clue."

Hate it when that happens.

And tragically, this question sums up something that's going on WAY TOO MUCH out there...

99% of you guys are wasting WAY TOO MUCH precious time and money trying to meet "lots and lots" of women -- yet continuing to FAIL MISERABLY despite the cost, hassle, and hard work you put into it.

I mean... guys will basically try ANYTHING to meet more women, right?

They relentlessly email, text, or call women who don't "feel it" for them (and never will).

They blow their paychecks on clothes and colognes they think actually work to "seduce" women.

They get haircuts that look straight out of the "The Breakfast Club" thinking it will get a woman's attention.

They "invest" in gym memberships and home equipment that they'll never use.

And all of this gets them where, exactly?

Let me fill you in...

In the end, it gets them absolutely NOWHERE.

And like I said, this would all be pretty funny...

...if it weren't such a tragic WASTE of TIME AND MONEY.

That's why RIGHT NOW is the PERFECT time to share another one of my "Laws" for success with women and dating with you...one about what it REALLY takes to lay the groundwork for not just meeting "lots and lots" of women...

...but for meeting the *RIGHT* women.

This one's actually my "Law #55", and it goes like this:

YOU MUST *ARRANGE* YOUR LIFE TO GET GREAT RESULTS MEETING WOMEN...

...OR *RE-ARRANGE* IT IF WHAT YOU'VE ALREADY TRIED ISN'T WORKING.

In other words...

Instead of doing all that inconvenient, expensive stuff that NEVER WORKS to bring the right women into your life, try making the few small adjustments that won't cost a thing...

...but that make a HUGE difference when it comes to meeting women.

The key to the whole concept is this:

By rearranging your life in small ways...ways that NATURALLY lead to meeting interesting, available women... you're VASTLY more likely to CONNECT with a GOOD MATCH for you.

And get this:

Do it right (and stick to it), and it'll happen for you without even having to try!

But, of course...what will MOST of you do instead?

You'll keep going places you can't stand being (and that you can't wait to leave) in the hopes of "randomly" coming across a great woman.

You'll keep "chasing" women who aren't interested or available.

You'll keep sifting through personal ads and pinging women who will NEVER respond to you.

Worst of all...

You'll get so damned DISCOURAGED and DEPRESSED by how little success comes from all this, that you'll FINALLY GIVE UP.

Not good.

And definitely NOT what I'm all about.

So listen up...

Even if you could snap your fingers and have a new woman magically show up at your door every ten minutes, guess what:

You'd quickly get tired of it.

Why?

Because having a parade of "random" women flow through your life is NOT the right way to meet the ones you can really "connect" with.

By the same token, constantly aiming for that one-in-a-million "ideal girl" is also a waste of time and money.

She just doesn't exist.

So let's do the math...

If you make a few small "tweaks" to your life that MAXIMIZE the number of "qualified women" who come through it, you're bound to MEET THE RIGHT ONES.

Pretty basic, but let's run through it:

Visualize the difference it would make in YOUR life (and your outlook about dating) if you could meet just ONE *QUALITY* WOMAN a week from now on.

And by "Quality", I'm talking about the kind of woman who's not only attractive, but that you can also CONNECT with...having great conversations about things you have in common...enjoying similar activities...going the same places. Etc.

Make sense?

If not, there's a lot more about the "theory" behind this Law (and my 76 OTHER "Laws" of success with women and dating) right here...

But right now let's cut to the chase on Law #55:

I'm basically saying that rearranging your life just a little will cause the women who are your TRUE PROSPECTS to start flowing through it.

Here's a small homework assignment to get you started (don't worry, it's EASY)...

It involves 3 simple steps:

STEP 1:

I want you to dash off a quick list of the top characteristics you want in the women you meet in life.

Now make them REASONABLE...unless you're George Clooney, there's no way you can rearrange your life so that a supermodel breezes through every 20 minutes.

Now jot down those qualities...

We'll take "Attractive" as a given.

Maybe you'd also like her to be caring... intelligent...outgoing and generous...sensitive ...whatever.

Got them down?

Good. Now on to...

STEP 2:

Once you have these characteristics in hand, I want you to start thinking about your life as it is RIGHT NOW.

Really think about it.

In DETAIL.

In other words, start thinking about all the travel, tasks, errands, and recreation that are part of your day-to-day experience.

This could be the small stuff you do on a regular basis, like grocery shopping or walking Fido at the dog park.

It could be grabbing a kick-ass mocha at the corner cafe every morning, or jogging, or going to the gym.

Again...WHATEVER.

Make a list of these things.

Then make that list MUCH LONGER by adding places and activities you've always wanted to ADD to your life.

These are things you've always wanted to do but have been putting off, like learning how to skydive or snowboard.

Maybe it's stuff you used to do and would like to start doing again, like taking classes or playing a sport.

Then, once you have your full list of "life activities" together, it's time to move on to:

STEP 3:

I now want you to "cross-reference" the 2 lists you just made.

Basically, see where they OVERLAP...where the places that you go in life (or would LIKE to start going) cross paths with the kind of women you'd like to meet.

By doing this, you'll immediately see how your life needs to **CHANGE** if you want to start meeting the kinds of women you'd like to connect with.

You just need to TAKE ACTION...and MAKE IT HAPPEN.

Meaning it's up to you to actually DO something...to start rearranging your life and your routine in ways that will AUTOMATICALLY start CHANGING THINGS for you.

Because, truth is, even making just a small "tweak" can have a HUGE impact on your love life.

And, if you're willing to go even further, the impact can then be even BIGGER... it's up to YOU how far you want to go to start living your dreams.

But no matter what you do, one fact remains:

If you're reading this now, what you're doing at the moment JUST ISN'T WORKING.

Am I right?

More on why that is (and what to do about it) right here:

But here's the bottom line:

When it comes to my famous Law #55 for success with women and dating, it's all about INCREASING the amount of time you spend in the "right" places...with the the women who are "right" for YOU.

Once you do, I guarantee it...you'll start feeling more IN-CONTROL, COMFORTABLE, and CONFIDENT around these women.

And then, conveniently enough, these very same feelings of new personal power and confidence will begin to TRIGGER ATTRACTION in those women you WANT!

And you know what?

Then you're IN.

Nice!

Now, if Law #55 makes sense to you, stay tuned...as I said above, there are actually 77 LAWS in all!

Now, some of them will be coming straight to you right here over the next few months.

But -- for those of you who can't wait -- I've also got that covered...

A little while back, I recorded a program where I personally delivered ALL 77 of my famous "LAWS OF SUCCESS WITH WOMEN AND DATING" to a live a audience...

And here's what happened:

The response was HUGE!

I instantly started hearing how these 77 simple "Laws" were making a SEISMIC DIFFERENCE in guys' love lives... from turbo charging their CONFIDENCE to just plain GETTING THEM MORE DATES THAN THEY COULD HANDLE.

I can't tell you how proud I was of these results...and if they sound good to YOU, too, here are more examples of what I shared that day:

--How to automatically become "The Man," oozing the confidence that make women know you're their ultimate "catch" within seconds of meeting you.

--My "MAGIC SECRET" for getting women to do all the work... and start chasing YOU! (NOTE: after the guys learned this one, some were SHOCKED how much time they'd wasted NOT getting women.)

--How to make a woman BEG for more... whether it's conversation...or IN BED! (Honestly, this was worth the price of admission alone). Then I went on to share 74 more of my "Laws Of Dating Success"...and it basically rocked the house.

Like I said, luckly we recorded the whole thing!

If you'd like to have a look at it, click here:

I hope you will.

Until then...

Your friend,

David D.

URGENT PS: Almost forgot to mention... There are basically 4 things that guys do that "tell" a woman INSTANTLY that he's not right for her.

If you've ever had a woman "blow you off" or suddenly lose interest in you... it's probably because you accidentally did one of these 4 things!

Wondering what they are?

You *should* be.

Click here to find out:



Thursday, October 27, 2011

Why Women "Run" From NICE Guys

LISTEN UP...

When it comes to getting AMAZING RESULTS with women at bars and clubs, there are just 2 MAKE-OR-BREAK MOMENTS you need to master to SUCCEED LIKE A ROCK STAR.

But here’s the kicker:

These moments actually occur *BEFORE* and *AFTER* you ever step into the room!

Click below to learn what these key moments are (and how to master them for MIND-BLOWING results every time you go out):

NOTE: One of the hidden keys to success with women is understanding the secret language I call "Sexual Communication." Learning it will give you the kind of success with women that most men only DREAM about. Go here to see what I mean:

I have a lot of guys write me to say, "I know this girl who's beautiful and smart and attractive. She and I are great friends, we have everything in common, and we get along perfectly...but she says that she's just not attracted to me..."

Have you ever noticed that:

1) The most attractive and interesting women seem to be attracted to men who don't treat them very well?

2) That the "nicer" you are to a woman the more she often seems to act like "just a friend" to you?

What's going on here? Didn't mom say to be "nice" to girls?

Here's the deal: Women aren't usually romantically attracted to "nice" guys. Women are attracted to men who are funny, confident, and mysterious. Good looks don't hurt, but if you're not 6'4" tall and model-handsome, then you have to learn how to attract women with your personality.

And being "nice" isn't going to do it for you.

A while back, I mentioned an interesting book that was written about the band "Motley Crue." Remember those guys?

Well, the book is called "The Dirt: Confessions of the Worlds Most Notorious Rock Band." As I read through that book, I realized that these guys have dated more of the world's most attractive women than anyone (except maybe Hugh Hefner).

In case you didn't know, the guys in Motley Crue are not very "nice." They're famous for taking every drug known to man, beating their women, fighting, and having a lot of people die around them.

Now, the first thing most guys say is, "Yeah, but they're rich and famous..."

And this is true, they are rich and famous. But, and it's a BIG ONE...all of the women that they have dated, married, and beaten up are ALSO RICH AND FAMOUS TOO!

These are supermodels and playmates of the year and such. These women can date whoever they want. Tommy Lee was MARRIED to both Heather Locklear AND Pamela Anderson...remember?

These women didn't need Tommy Lee for his money or his fame...they're dating these guys for some OTHER REASON!

Are you with me on this?

So what's going on here? And more importantly, how can you use this information to be more successful with women and dating?

First of all, don't go out and start taking drugs and beating up your dates. I mean, I know that an occasional woman will drive a man to drink, but I don't recommend going "Motley Crue" on a girl...lol.

The first chapter of my book "Double Your Dating" is called "Women Don't Make Sense." Here's what I mean...

*****Side Note*****

By the way, if you're just learning about how to be more successful with women and dating, you need to go and download a copy of my book NOW. You can download it here, and be reading it in just a few minutes:

Onward...

I believe:

1) Women make decisions very, very quickly about whether a man is going to be "just a friend" or if he has romantic potential, and once her decision is made, it's probably going to stay made.

2) These decisions are made "subconsciously," meaning that women make all of them quickly and at a "gut level."

3) If you know how, you make her feel attraction feelings rather than "friend" feelings.

4) The way to do it is to stop acting "nice" and start acting, well...something else...and I don't mean "not nice."

So what DOES attract women? And how do you do it exactly?

Good questions...

At the beginning, I mentioned three qualities: Funny, Confident, and Mysterious.

Before I talk about each, I first have to remind you that WOMEN DON'T USUALLY MAKE SENSE. Remember that.

Here's a good metaphor: Remember when you learned to drive? It all made sense...turn the wheel left and go left, turn it right and go right...

But do you remember when you learned to back up? Backing up was a whole new game. Everything that used to work now works in a different way. At first you feel disoriented. Turn the wheel left and go right...and you have to learn how to maneuver with the back wheels staying straight while the front wheels turn...all with your head turned around.

For most people, this takes some time and practice. But once you "get it" then you can do it anytime you want.

Well, women are very similar. At first it's very confusing. You have to try things that don't seem to make sense. But once you get the hang of it, then you see how it works and can make it work... just like backing up a car.

As much as many women would hate to admit it, there's something very attractive about a man who is just a little more confident than he should be. And if you combine this with the right amount of humor, you have a magic combination that will charm almost any woman.

Here are a few ways to use this idea:

1) When you first meet a woman, tease her about something. It doesn't matter what it is, as long as you do it early on. For instance, you might say: "So what's with the big purse? Are you carrying a gun in there?" or maybe "Those are some pretty tall shoes, what are you like 4' tall without them?" If you tease a woman, it shows that you're not intimidated by her, and that you have a fun sense of humor. KEY: Make sure you say something FUNNY. If you don't know how to be funny, get a book on it. The test: If she's not laughing, then it wasn't funny!

2) Look around at other things and seem kind of pre-occupied when you first start talking to her. Make your funny remarks with a carefree, detached tone. You want to sound like you're talking to your best friend. Attractive women are approached all the time. It's not attractive to a woman when you look like you've just met Madonna. This "just a little too confident" attitude is very attractive to women... especially when it's combined with humor.

3) Don't answer her questions directly. Women love to ask questions like: "What do you do?" and "Where do you live?" and "Tell me about your family." Answer with funny answers, and don't give her what she wants. Most guys say, "Oh, I'm an engineer" or "I'm a stock broker." BORING, BORING. If she asks what you do...say, "Oh, funny you should ask. I'm a Calvin Klein Underwear Model... What do you do?..." (This is especially funny if it's OBVIOUS that you are NOT a model) Do you get it? Keep it up and keep her laughing.

It's important to remember that I'm not telling you to be mean, or to be a jerk to women. I'm telling you to start being confident, funny, and mysterious.

If this is starting to make sense to you, and you'd like to learn more about the art of communicating with a woman on a "sexual" level, then you might want to go and check out my "Sexual Communication" video program.

This is an entire educational program that will teach you how to use your COMMUNICATION to trigger and build ATTRACTION with women. All the details, plus some great video clips are here:

Now, if you want to REALLY learn how to get away from being a "nice guy" who never gets anywhere with women, I recommend that after you read my eBook, you go watch my Advanced Dating Techniques program.

This program will give you an in-depth education on how to think and behave in such a way that will spark a woman's GUT-LEVEL ATTRACTION for you...no matter what your looks, height, income, age, etc.

You will learn literally HUNDREDS and HUNDREDS of killer ideas for getting over your fears, approaching women, getting dates, and taking things to a physical level.

The best part? I'll send it to you at MY RISK.

I'm not kidding around here. You can order it now, start watching the program in the next few minutes, and try all the techniques YOURSELF... and if you aren't THRILLED with this program, just let me know and I'll issue you a full refund. No questions, and no hassles. You have an entire month to decide!

Trust me, I don't get refund requests! But I DO get a lot of letters telling me about the success that guys are having meeting women after they've watched this program... and the complete transformation that this success leads to in other areas of life. Go check out the free video preview clips and read about it here:

I'll talk to you again in a couple of days.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Man, don't forget to go and look at all of the other programs I've created to help you learn how to meet women. You can see them all here:



Tuesday, October 25, 2011

3 Ways To Make A Great Woman Notice YOU

FACT: The #1 MOST IMPORTANT thing that a man can do to start SUCCEEDING with women is this:

Learn EXACTLY what to SAY and DO to come across as the rare "Mr. Right" that EVERY great woman is looking for!

To make it happen, I've developed a SPECIFIC, step-by-step, totally "can't fail" plan for literally *BECOMING* that mythical man called "Mr. Right."

LEARN ABOUT IT HERE:

Hey Man,

Know why 99% of men get INSTANTLY REJECTED when they approach a high-quality woman?

I know you *think* you know the answer... but I can almost guarantee that YOU DON'T.

Fact is, after watching so many men rely on their looks... their bank accounts... lame "pick up" lines and memorized "scripts"... all just to get the attention of high-quality women, here's what I realized:

The REAL reason these guys STILL get rejected has ZERO to do with these things.

The *REAL* reason most guys get rejected is simply this:

High-quality women come "pre-wired" with an idea of what they want in their personal "Mr. Right".

These are the qualities that get their attention in the first place.

These are the qualities that make them want to connect more deeply and emotionally with a particular man.

These are the qualities that make them want to GET PHYSICAL with a particular man.

All of which is why relying on looks, money, "lines" and "gimmicks" are a fool's errand when it comes to succeeding with great women!

IN REALITY, all of these gimmicks and mind-games usually have exactly the OPPOSITE effect...

They make a great woman experience that "Oh no, not this again..." feeling and instantly become disinterested.

They instantly send the lethal "signal" that a man is NOT coming from a place of personal confidence and strength.

In other words... a place where he could possibly be her ultimate "Mr. Right."

This is why, whenever I talk about approaching a great woman in the "right" way, I'm ACTUALLY talking about sending her the "right" signals, right from the start.

And this is something that YOU (or ANY man) can start doing TONIGHT by doing 3 things when you first meet a great woman:

Buckle in, here they come...

#1: USE PROPER BODY LANGUAGE

SHOCKER: body language is almost MORE important than words when you first meet a great woman!

This is why most guys INSTANTLY destroy any chance of success by acting nervous... submissive... even (gag) apologetic when they approach a woman.

This sends the INSTANT signal that they aren't ANY woman's "Mr. Right"...

... which INSTANTLY shuts down her receptiveness to being approached.

Sounds like a hopeless, vicious cycle, right?

Well, it is.

However:

Once a man can "pave the way" to connecting with a woman by losing the nervous tics and twitches...

Sustaining eye contact...

Speaking, strongly, slowly and clearly...

Then he's MORE than halfway to winning her FULL attention!

Learn more about a few, simple tweaks you can make to YOUR body language right here:

These will literally FORCE women to notice you... then project a primal dominance and trigger an animal magnetism that will MAKE women approach YOU!

all works like a MIRACLE, so check it out.

In the meantime, let's move on to the next way to make a great woman notice you:

#2: START A GREAT CONVERSATION

How many times do I have to say it...

When it comes to getting noticed by quality women, the best way to "flirt" is to know how to start (and carry on) a great conversation.

And to do it, I recommend that all grown men take a page out of the Boy Scout handbook...

... and BE PREPARED.

That means always continuing to EDUCATE yourself.

It means always having a few "hot" current topics in your back pocket and being well-versed on them.

It means mentally rehearsing them if you have to so that you can converse in a smooth, confident way.

Here's a great way to make all of that happen:

I recommend reading one major newspaper cover-to- cover every day... there's no better way to get a "crash course" on what's happening in the world and the ability to speak on it intelligently.

Now...

Mix in some intelligent HUMOR to the conversation (study comedy books if you have to) and you'll suddenly find TONS of great women opening the door to the possibility that you just might be their "Mr. Right".

For example:

Once you've started a conversation, if a woman says something like, "I usually don't go out with guys I haven't known for a long time," be ready with a cocky / funny observation...

... AND then make it highlight one of your personal qualities!

One of my favorite ways to do it is to say something like, "Gee, I hope you've already met your future husband then, and that he's half as (smart... tall... funny... wonderful... whatever) as me..."

See what's happening there?

I'm using the power of being Cocky & Funny... while ALSO signaling my "Mr. Right" qualities.

This works like MAGIC because CONFIDENCE and HUMOR are, by far, the top traits that women use to "size up" a man.

There ARE no close seconds.

That in mind...

If you're looking for a simple system for deploying the power of "Cocky & Funny" correctly EVERY TIME, in ANY situation, I've developed one that's become EXTREMELY famous for its HUGE RESULTS.

I'd love to share it with you. Have a look at the details here:

Meantime, on to the third way to make great women notice you...

#3: LOWER THE STAKES

No doubt about it: the biggest reason men have trouble with #1 and #2 is because they're so TENSE... so NERVOUS... even SO SCARED when they meet a great woman.

And it's all because they feel like there's so much AT STAKE.

In other words, most guys are so worried that they're going "blow it" and embarrass themselves...

Or they're so certain that, if they DO blow it, they're doomed to never have a chance with a great woman again...

... that they start sabotaging themselves right from the beginning.

This is why I suggest that men look at EVERY first meeting with a woman as one of MANY to come...

... and then act accordingly!

Act like you're meeting with a good buddy or an old friend for a casual outing... and then BEHAVE that way.

Even better:

Imagine how you'd act on a first date if you were behaving like you KNEW with 100%-certainty that a woman already thought you were her Mr. Right...

What would you do?

Here's what....

You'd ask MEANINGFUL questions about her deeper interests and passions instead of making nervous "small talk."

You'd PAY ATTENTION to her answers and follow up in smart, appropriate ways.

You'd REMEMBER what was important to her, and focus on those subjects.

Okay, I know, I know...

"Imagining" all of this sounds like a big shift in the way most guys think...

And YOU'RE RIGHT.

It actually IS.

But -- once YOU can make this change to your so- called "inner game" -- it will result in a HUGE change in how easy it is for you to get the attention of great women.

In fact... it will start to happen AUTOMATICALLY!!!

If you'd like more details on how to "upgrade" your "inner game"... including PROVEN ways to turbocharge your confidence (while eliminating fear, anxiety, loneliness, anger, and frustration) then I suggest you take a look at this:

Once you do, I'm confident that EVERY part of your life will begin to run more smoothly.

You'll begin to feel like you're on "auto-pilot" as you make all of the right moves in life and with great women every time... just because it's all coming naturally (from DEEP inside you) to do it!

Bottom line:

When it comes to getting great women to notice YOU, it's the qualities that identify you as a potential "Mr. Right" that will peak their interest.

So focus on building THOSE traits inside yourself, and you'll NEVER have to rely on looks, money, canned "lines" or stale "scripts" again...

Great women will receive the signal loud and clear about who you REALLY are (and everything that you REALLY have to offer) and start paying major attention to YOU.

I guarantee it: once this starts happening, you'll wonder how you ever lived without it...

... and why you waited so long to get it!

Until next time...

Your friend,

David D.

PS: I just revealed the 3 most powerful ways to make a great woman notice you.

But once it happens... how can you tell if *SHE'S* the right woman for YOU?

Great question.

And, in fact, there are 2 SIMPLE QUESTIONS you can ask ANY woman to determine INSTANTLY whether she's a long-term match for you.

Learn what those questions are by clicking here:



Friday, October 21, 2011

Secrets To Attract A Quality Girlfriend

Hey Man,

Have you ever felt so attracted to a girl that you wanted to keep her for the LONG TERM... but after a while, she lost interest...and LEFT you?

The pain - and the MEMORY of it - can last a long time, and put your entire life on a "negative spin."

The fact is, keeping a great girl in your life doesn't usually happen by accident - and the dating techniques you used to attract her at the beginning can actually BACK-FIRE once you're in a long term relationship.

These situations require a NEW set of approaches and techniques...

And, let's face it, high quality women like these have options - and if you don't "get it", she'll leave you for some other guy who DOES.

We don't want that to happen, do we?

So here's the good news:

After years of research - and a bunch of "trial and error" relationships in my own life - I honestly believe I've identified the "secret keys" to attract and keep a high quality woman in your life.

I've organized these principles and tips... and put them all in a special program I call "Become Mr. Right."

Why did I choose this name?

Because when you meet a high quality girl, she has exactly ONE question on her mind...

... are you Mr. Right?

Find out how YOU can become Mr. Right, so you're ready when the next special woman comes into your life.

Go here now:

This program includes over 21 full hours of digitally recorded material that you can watch immediately online, and it comes with my 100% money-back guarantee... Start watching it RIGHT NOW and take an entire month to decide if you'd like to keep the program.

Here are some examples of what you'll start learning in the first HOURS of watching this program:

-- The mindset that prevents guys who didn't experience success with women early in life from experiencing MASSIVE success later on

-- The 3 things high quality women *demand* in a man that other women overlook

-- The things you must do if you want to be able to spark attraction in a top notch woman without having to rely on "techniques" (I'll show you my proven way to not just attract women like the "naturals", but actually become a natural yourself... and attract elite women without having to try or even think about it!)

-- How a woman can spot a "fraud"... and how she can spot a CATCH (Use this checklist to make sure she puts in you on her "wanted" list)

-- The deadly mistake that causes guys who are trying to become more successful with women to meet and date LESS women (If you've found that no matter how hard you study this stuff you still don't seem to get results, it's probably because you are making this hard to spot but easy to fix mistake)

And lots more. Try it out risk-free, right here:

Talk soon...

Your Friend,

David D.

PS: One day you WILL meet a woman who is everything you've been looking for and since she's in "high demand," you'll likely get just ONE shot. Want her to know that YOU are the Mr. Right she has been dying to meet? If so, get more info on my ground-breaking "Become Mr. Right" Video Program right here:



Wednesday, October 19, 2011

The Difference Between Being CONFIDENT And Acting Like A Jerk

NEWSFLASH:

If you're like MOST guys, there's something that happened in YOUR past that's responsible for all of your success -- OR ALL OF YOUR FAILURE -- with women.

Therefore, if you're having trouble attracting women... or making your move with them... or satisfying a woman in the bedroom... it's ALL connected to your *PAST*.

This is why I want to show you how to FIX... even outright ELIMINATE... all of your "past B.S." and REPLACE IT with the mature, masculine confidence that ALL "top quality" women look for.

Here's where to get started:

Hey Man

By now (if you're a student of mine) it should be no secret:

Women GO CRAZY for a genuinely confident, funny guy who knows how to make them laugh.

DUH, right? But now let's go for extra credit:

Did you know that MOST women will go out of their way... practically DO ALL THE WORK... to be with a guy who can mix "Cocky & Funny" in exactly the right proportions?

Well it's true... and MANY guys *try* to use this fact to their advantage.

After all, it's only natural:

When a man is Cocky PLUS Funny... in the RIGHT mixture... he triggers an UNSTOPPABLE EMOTIONAL RESPONSE in a woman.

These are feelings that she's almost HELPLESS to resist.

Once a woman feels these emotions, she can't stop herself from wanting to be with the man who made her feel them... even if she wanted to!

And, as I studied more and more men who were HUGELY successful with women and dating, I noticed that they ALL shared 2 traits in common:

1) They weren't afraid to "have fun" with women.

2) They always came across as cool, confident and assertive right out of the gate... but always in a smart, funny, sensitive way.

But, of course... whenever ONE guy stumbles on a good thing, a bunch of others will inevitably step in, take things too far and ruin it, right?

In the case of using humor and confidence with women, this means that WAY too many men are just plain coming off as obnoxious.

Or offensive.

Or arrogant.

Or worst of all... as ignorant and insensitive.

That in mind, here come the keys to acting confident and funny with women... while NEVER, EVER coming across like a "jerk"...

BE CONFIDENT... YET SENSITIVE

If you're a guy who likes to work with his hands, I don't have to tell you...

The most powerful tools always come with the most powerful, built-in safety mechanisms.

And when it comes to showing confidence with women (the #1 MOST powerful tool there is for creating feelings of ATTRACTION...) that safety mechanism boils down to one word:

SENSITIVITY.

In other words... the *RIGHT* kind of confidence NEVER makes a woman feel intimidated or uncomfortable in any way.

It's the kind of confidence that's about seeing your goal and pursuing it with passion and energy...

... while NEVER overstepping boundaries.

When it comes to creating ATTRACTION, that means connecting with a woman's emotions by being ASSERTIVE --

-- while ALWAYS remaining constantly AWARE of her *feelings*.

It also means paying CLOSE ATTENTION to her natural reactions... Is she the kind of woman whose natural tendency is to "put herself out there"... being the life of the party... trading jokes... rolling with the punches in life?

Or:

Is she the kind of woman who tends to stay more introverted... taking things very seriously... more likely to get her feelings hurt when jokes start to fly?

Once you know how to be SENSITIVE to this difference, your "safety mechanism" will always be "ON."

You'll always be aware of never "crossing the line" (also known as being accidentally insulting a woman, making her feel self-conscious, hurt, or insecure).

Basically, to come across as confident without being a jerk, all you need to do is focus on that "awareness" above all else.

Communicate that you're comfortable in your own skin.

That you can roll with any situation.

That you can have fun on a date or anywhere else.

That you can enjoy yourself without trying to impress her.

Take charge by asking to meet some of her friends before she ever suggests it.

Make all the arrangements for your next date.

All of this shows you have CONFIDENCE... while being SENSITIVE to the dangers of coming across like a JERK.

Another GREAT way to show confidence with sensitivity is to take the time to listen to a woman in a GENUINE, patient way when she's frustrated about something small...

... then make a gentle joke to lighten her mood.

For instance, if she breaks a heel, say something like, "That's why I always choose to wear flats."

Finally, the MOST powerful way to demonstrate CONFIDENCE *plus* SENSITIVITY is being there to help and support a woman in every way possible...

... ESPECIALLY during times of personal pain for her...

... while always being aware enough to never "talk too much" or say too little.

Get the mix right, and you'll show her the kind of calm, in-control confidence that's GUARANTEED to spark feelings of ATTRACTION.

All in all, it comes down to showing a woman in every way possible that you're confident in your own skin... in EVERY situation... REGARDLESS of how things turn out.

That in mind, if you'd like to discover the full, sure-fire "secret formula" for becoming the kind of man who's ALWAYS confident AND sensitive with women -- and therefore having them FIGHT EACH OTHER to have you -- I can show it to you here:

But for now, let's move on to the OTHER critical way that ANY man can come across as CONFIDENT without acting like a JERK...

IF YOU ACT "COCKY," MAKE DAMN-SURE YOU'RE ALSO FUNNY!

There's just no way around it...

The most powerful rule that I share with men about coming across as confident without being a jerk is this:

It's okay, even HUGELY ATTRACTIVE, to act cocky around a great woman...

... that is, IF you mix in EXACTLY the right amount of HUMOR.

Basically, "cocky" without "funny" equals pure ARROGANCE -- and there's no faster way to KILL ATTRACTION (and instantly come off like a jerk).

To make sure you totally "get" this, I'm going to give you a quick quiz:

Acting "cocky" WITHOUT being funny is a blaring warning sign to women that you are which of these things:

a) insecure b) unstable c) immature

Okay, you see where I'm going with this...

OBVIOUSLY, being "cocky" without being funny instantly tells a woman that you're ALL OF THE ABOVE.

This is why I say that being Cocky AND Funny in the right proportion is pure GOLD...

... while getting that "mixture" even slightly wrong is pure POISON.

Example:

Sometimes a woman that you're getting to know might say something like, "I don't give out my phone number to guys I just met."

When it happens, be ready with a joke that gets the Cocky / Funny mixture just right...

One of my favorites is to say something like: "Come on, just write it down. I'll only call you, like, every five minutes for the next month."

Comments like this have "the balance" just right...

You're letting a woman know that you're interested in her -- but you're coming from a place of CONFIDENCE.

Meanwhile, you're ALSO making fun of typical "creep" behavior, letting her know that you have an iron-clad grip on the concepts of respect and personal boundaries.

But of course, like I said...

WAY too guys don't get this and end up taking things WAY too far.

They say and do obnoxious or outright offensive things, all because they desperately want to come across as cool and confident (or they fear rejection so much).

This is the definition of being a jerk...

... and jerks ALWAYS fail with women in the end.

But okay, I think you get the point.

Let me leave it at this...

The true "magic secret" of acting Cocky & Funny is creating what the experts call "personality triggered attraction."

It's basically the key to EVERYTHING that I teach... and the whole reason that it JUST DOESN'T MATTER how "good looking" you are, or how much money you have...

These have NOTHING to do with your long-term success with women!

It's REALLY about developing your communication skills so that you can -- on-demand and at will -- trigger intense biological responses in any woman that you want...

... JUST THROUGH WHAT YOU SAY AND DO.

That in mind:

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I can't wait to hear how it goes, so drop me a line and let me know.

Meantime, we'll talk again VERY soon...

Your friend,

David D.

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... and about a zillion that ALWAYS FAIL?

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Saturday, October 15, 2011

How "Regular-Looking" Guys Attract Hot Women

Hey Man,

Have you ever wondered how some "regular looking" guys manage to date so many attractive women... without spending tons of money or pursuing them?

I KNOW that you know what I'm talking about.

We've all had one or two friends that were just ordinary guys...but they had a "magic touch" with the ladies.

And even though they were just AVERAGE-looking guys, women always found them SEXY...and wanted to be with them "in that way".

Well, I honestly believe that I've unlocked one of the SECRET KEYS that these guys use.

I call it "Power Sexuality", and I want to share it with you.

If you're interested, go here to read about the details, and to watch some video clips of me talking about it...

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

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Thursday, October 13, 2011

URGENT VIDEO TIP: How To Make A Woman OBSESS Over You

Listen...

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Hey Man,

Has this ever happened to you...

You've just met, or gone out, with a great woman, and things seem to have gone well...

... but then you start getting "flakiness", the "blow-offs" and "runarounds" from her?

In other words:

You *thought* you made a great first impression but now you can't seem to get her on the phone again... let alone get a second date.

Man, I've been there.

THIS SITUATION SUCKS.

But when it happens, you need to understand this:

THERE'S *ALWAYS* A REASON FOR IT.

When a woman doesn't want to see you again, it's ALWAYS all about:

1) Something stupid you did WRONG

Or:

2) Something you FAILED to do *RIGHT*.

That in mind, I've arranged for you to watch a must-see FREE video segment from my world-famous "77 Laws Of Success With Women And Dating" Program...

This is where I reveal what a man *MUST* DO to keep a great woman thinking about him... even OBSESSING over him... so that she wants MORE OF HIM after a first meeting or date.

HINT: It has NOTHING to do with trying to impress her with your bank account... kissing up to her... buying her flowers and gifts... or taking her out to expensive restaurants.

In fact... these are all LETHAL MISTAKES!

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Your friend,

David D.



Monday, October 3, 2011

The Quickest Way To The Bedroom With Her

Man, if you'd like to hear the story of how I went from not even being able to start a conversation with women... to the point where I can meet any woman in any situation... then take a minute and check this out:

***DATING QUESTION FROM READER***

Dave,

WOW!!!! That's all I can say. I've been getting your emails for several months and have since downloaded your book. I've committed myself to improving my "skills" with women and the results have been amazing. The "Crash and Burn" that most guys are sooo fearful of NEVER happens and very rarely does a girl give you anything but a smile even if she isn't interested. My latest success was so easy it was almost scary. I met a woman (an 8.5 at least) in a local bar and used the c/f to get her number and set up a date. Went out on the date and it was almost like it was scripted. Pushed the c/f to the extreme all night, teased her, drove her completely crazy and left her house at 5:00 am the next morning. Here's the thing, using this material, you will very often hear, "Oh... I can't believe I'm doing this.. I never do this kind of thing." Usually I laugh hysterically inside, and respond with the heart felt, "Oh I know, don't worry about it." The problem is with this girl it was different. First, even using your vast knowledge, I didn't expect to be able to get this far with this girl on the first date. She had that intangible "it" that really attracted me to her and I actually don't think that under normal circumstances she would have taken a guy home but.... most guys don't have the benefit of the "David DeAngelo Jedi Mind Tricks" either (lol). Anyway this was Saturday and I called her Monday just to say hi. She was soooo nervous and uncomfortable she could barely complete a sentence. Obviously with everything that happened, I think she was a bit embarrassed and, that's to be expected, but now I'm not sure how to handle this situation. I'm afraid now that if I'm not REALLY careful that I'll screw up a chance with a great woman. I get the feeling that she needs a little reassurance that this wasn't just a one night stand, but I'm not sure if that's the right thing to do or if it is, how to do it without coming off like a WUSS BAG! I think this girl could be worth some effort......... PLEASE HELP!!!

Thanks for everything, JH Monroe LA

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a great story, and your story illustrates all kinds of interesting things. I'd like to comment on a few of them before I actually answer your question.

The first thing I'd like to comment on is this illogical progression of how you went from meeting this girl to being intimate so fast.

To begin with, you acted Cocky & Funny, and teased her... "to the extreme", which somehow resulted in her spending the night with you.

Now, at first glance, this makes absolutely no sense at all... I mean, why would a woman who is obviously very attractive and "in demand" want to get physical with a guy that isn't buying her things, giving her compliments, and generally kissing her ass all night long?

The answer, of course, is that ATTRACTIVE WOMEN DON'T ACTUALLY WANT A GUY TO DO THESE WUSSY THINGS IN THE FIRST PLACE!

Unfortunately for most guys, our cultures, religions, and mothers have programmed us to be "nice guys" when we're around women we feel attracted to.

This does two things:

1. Hands all of your power over to the woman.

2. DESTROYS any ATTRACTION that might be present.

Again, I know it's illogical, but attractive women have AMAZING gut level emotional ATTRACTION responses to men who CHALLENGE them and who act UNPREDICTABLE in a particular way.

Part of creating this illogical and desirable response is knowing how to use arrogance and humor together in a formula I call "Cocky & Funny" (which you obviously get).

Of course, there's a lot more to it, but the key is that you have to STOP DOING WHAT ISN'T WORKING... namely, being a NICE WUSSY BOY.

If you're reading this right now, and you're one of those guys who thinks that women are attracted to "nice guys", then think again, and read THIS:

The second thing I'd like to comment on is when she said:

"Oh... I can't believe I'm doing this... I never do this kind of thing."

I've talked to a lot of guys who are VERY successful with women about this particular phenomenon, and they all say similar things.

It seems that whenever a woman is going to get "physical" quickly, they have to rationalize it "out loud" first.

Sometimes a woman will say "I'm not like this" or something similar to slow things down and try to explain away what's happening.

Don't let it bother you.

Of course, if a woman says, "stop" or she actually tries to stop you from kissing her (or anything else), then you need to STOP immediately. I'm not suggesting at all that you don't respect a woman's wishes.

But, you also need to understand that just because a woman is SAYING that "she doesn't usually do things like this", that it doesn't mean she doesn't WANT to.

The final point I'd like to comment on before answering your question, is this response that she had when you called her back. You mentioned that she was so nervous and uncomfortable that she couldn't complete a sentence.

I have seen this exact same thing, and I have several friends who have told me stories just like this.

It seems to me that when an attractive woman who is used to being the one in control meets a guy who is super confident, Cocky & Funny, unpredictable, and NOT EASILY CONTROLLED, it freaks her out.

Sometimes she literally doesn't know what to do, and she doesn't know how to act. Often, she will be self-conscious about the fact that she "got physical" so soon, or about some other thing... but it really comes down to the fact that she just doesn't know how to deal with you.

This is a great place to be, and don't let it bother you when it happens.

And now, to answer your question... of how to handle this situation.

First of all, don't start acting TOO DIFFERENTLY.

If you start acting all nice and lovey, you'll come across in a way that will be confusing... and it will probably make her run.

If you want this to turn into something more, then you need to be cool and calm about EVERYTHING that happens.

If she seems nervous, just relax and make a joke about it.

With attractive women, it's always a good idea to "lean back" and give her space.

As a rule of thumb, call her half as much as you would normally call a woman, and see her half as much... at least for the first few weeks.

GIVE HER THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU.

And if you're going to be "nice", then BE VERY CAREFUL AND DON'T DO TOO MUCH TOO SOON!

When the average guy meets a really attractive woman that is "different" from the others... one that he wants to have a relationship with... he usually starts doing too much. He buys gifts, calls all the time, and gives lots of compliments.

As you know, this is SUPER SIZE WUSS BOY behavior, and it usually results in the woman running away.

In other words, you must not let her nervous state affect YOUR state or YOUR behavior.

KEEP DOING WHAT WORKS.

...and if you're reading this right now and thinking to yourself "You know, I need to learn this stuff about how to meet and attract women... and how to take things to a physical level fast", then YOU'RE RIGHT!

I think that every man should invest in himself, and learn this skill.

Unfortunately, most guys never take the time and invest in themselves... and they wind up going their whole lives WISHING that they could attract the kinds of women that they want.

Well, I used to be one of the guys who didn't know what he was doing with women. Now I'm one of the guys who can go out anytime, in any situation and attract women.

What's the difference?

I TOOK THE TIME TO LEARN.

And if you'd like to learn, then I recommend you learn the things that I learned FIRST.

It's taken me a long time to figure all this stuff out, and it's also taken a lot of time, effort, and energy on my part to put it all down on paper and on video... so that any guy can learn from the things I've discovered.

I'd like to personally invite you to check out my materials. In a matter of hours, you can learn things that it took me YEARS to figure out... all from the comfort and privacy of your own home.

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I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

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