Examples Of Approaching Women & Being Cocky & Funny
>NOTE: There's nothing quite as exciting as seeing
a beautiful woman that you'd like to meet, then
approaching her, starting a conversation, and
walking away with her number and email (or even
walking away with HER). If you're as fascinated
with this part of the "attraction game" as I am,
then you should take a minute and read THIS:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen/
I bought your book and study it very closely,
needless to say Like all your other customers I've
been experiencing far more then double my normal
dating. But now I've got serious problem that YOUR
BOOK DOES NOT TOUCH ON WHATSOEVER. What I need to
know is how do I turn then away after they start
getting obsessed. I'm now dating my boss' daughter
and cannot break her little heart and she (9.5) is
completely into me. With her I'm always
cocky\funny and she is obsessed with trying to
make me nice, always trying to get me to hug her
or make me say something nice. Don't get me wrong
I do say nice things but I make it tough for her
just like you said. Anyway, I feel that if I start
acting like a wuss now (which I cannot do
naturally anymore or I get disgusted with myself)
she still won't leave me. Is it possible to find
another way to shutdown her attraction response
without hurting her feelings and without me
looking like a complete wuss????
Your apprentice.
P.S I'm saving up for those CD's, I heard the
samples on the net that was some deep stuff.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, I feel your pain. You poor, poor dear.
You probably should have been thinking about
this before you put the Double Your Dating WHAMMY
on her, man.
If you want a girl to fall in love with you, do
all the things I teach, PLUS talk to her or see
her every day.
If you DON'T want her to fall in love with you,
but instead just want to keep things rather casual
and just have fun, and then only call her a couple
of times a week, and only see her once a week
(maybe twice on occasion).
Seeing a woman too much leads to the love
feelings, so remember that next time, Mr. Smooth.
Maybe I should write a book called "Halve Your
Dating" for guys like you. I'll think about it.
Dear Dave:
First and foremost I love the free news letter.
Very insightful to say the least. It has help me
regain some lost confidence after a recent break
up. The success stories give me hope. Like one
of your last subscribers I also have been addicted
to chivalry and being the nicest guy any woman has
ever meet. I have had much success with this
approach, but sooner or later I get cast into the
friendship zone. It happen once again to me and I
am done with it. No more Mr. Nice guy. C&F all
the way from this point out. With respect to my
break up she is still wallowing in and out of the
relationship. Started being C&F and she appears
to like it. No more wuss ass sh** for me!!!!! Get
a lot of laughs from her now. I am playing the
wait and see game. She even called me up and said
lets get back together. What do I do? please I
need help now. Thank you
>>>MY COMMENTS:
What do you do?
WHAT DO YOU DO?
You learn how to stop acting like a WUSSY, you
actually STOP acting like a Wuss, your girlfriend
starts to really dig you again and you ask me what
to do?
Do whatever you want to do, genius. You're back
in control now! Just don't turn back into a Wuss
Bag, OK?
If you really like this girl, then start dating
her again.
Just remember that if you start acting like a
girly-man again, things will probably get bad
again.
Gotta tell you that you're right on the mark.
I'm a straight female and I read some of your
other advice that was passed on to me by some
friends with a commentary that they thought you
were totally off-base.
Gotta tell ya that there is nothing more
impressive than a confident and funny man.
I swear I must have run into one of your trainees
- on e-mail he was cocky as can be - and funny!
Went out with him once - thought I might date him
again - until he called - every day - twice with
sort of pleading messages....not a chance!
Dave, you're the man! Can I have your number?
C.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Thanks for the validation.
And by the way, if that guy started calling you
twice a day, then he wasn't one of mine!
I'd verbally bitch slap him ten ways from
Sunday if he told me such a story! lol...
In any event, I'd give you my number, but I'm
VERY, VERY selective. Send over some pictures and
we'll talk about it.
Hey I just want to give Double your Dating 5 stars
for the excellent writing and research put into
it. I have read just as many books as David on
the same subjects but I have not put all into
practice. David you hit it right on the dot of
what one needs to do in order to reach the
ultimate outcome. 1 million thumbs up and now it
is time to implement. Hey put this in there for
future reference for everyone CARPE DIEM - JUST DO
IT TEMNET NOSCE - KNOW THY SELF Two maxims one
needs in order to accomplish the accomplishable or
mission impossible.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Thanks for the testimonial.
By the way, "Carpe Diem" translates into "Seize
The Day", and while you have the translation
correct on the second, it's actually spelled
"Temet Nosce". You just gotta love the Internet
for checking up on things like this
I'm not sure that it's polite to correct
someone who has just given you a compliment, but
hey, I'm not always polite.
Thanks again.
If it's possible to say this without sounding gay,
I LOVE YOU MAN!
I've been getting your letters for quite a while,
and I was always kinda skeptical about the stuff
you were suggesting because it sounded to good to
be true. So I decided to test it out for myself.
Being shy I tried some of the stuff from the
online personals e-mail you sent, and man does it
work! I sent out 5 messages, and less than 24
hours later I've received 3 replies, 2 of which
want to meet me already. This stuff is amazing!
I do have a question though about the one that
didn't want to meet right away. She said she's a
little nervous about meeting people off the net
until she really knows them well. How can I bust
her (and girls like her) balls about this? I know
that another C+F message would change her mind in
a hurry.
To everyone out there... BUY THIS MAN'S BOOK!!! HE
IS THE JEDI MACKING MASTER.!
J.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
First of all, NO it's not possible to tell me
"I LOVE YOU MAN" without sounding at least a
little... um... you know.
Second, congratulations on actually taking
action and getting some results.
Third, as for the girl who is a "little
nervous" about meeting people off the net until
she really knows them, just email her and say...
"OK, why don't we hook up in Vegas and get
married, this way we'll know each other well
enough for you to want to meet me.
Or, we could just get together in a public
place in the middle of the day in broad daylight
with a hundred people around and talk over a cup
of tea.
I personally like the Vegas idea..."
...or something equally funny. Then get her
phone number and call her up. This has a soothing
effect in these types of situations.
Make sure when you talk to her to say things
like "Let's meet for a cup of tea for 20
minutes... this way if you're really freaky I can
escape with minimal time wasted."
This kind of thing is funny, and puts the idea
in her head that YOU'RE the one who's picky and
selective.
Great job!
I had downloaded your e-book and had been for
months i start practicing what you had taught.
Phone numbers start rolling in by the dozen and
every day i got soo many girls calling me for
dates that my phone nearly explode of miss calls.
Now, i got to the stage where this girl got
physical with me and i use your bridge tactic and
got the kiss then went to the petting stage...
Then she ask me whether i am doing all this for
sex... I didn't answer her and played the lay back
tactic and say i wanted to sleep. She wake me up a
few times to force me to answer her and i say
nothing... and tell her that if she can't make up
her mind she can leave. In the end she left.
Now. the question is . What should i answer her?
if she ask the million dollar question (AM i doing
it all for sex)?
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Interesting question.
I'll tell you what... there's a lot of power in
delivering the truth in a brutal way.
I would probably answer something like:
"No, I was thinking that since we were kissing
passionately and feeling each other's bodies, that
this was probably going to lead to pure
friendship."
If she pushed the issue and asked something
like "Do you just want sex or do you want to have
a relationship?" I'd probably answer:
"You're right. Let's just go get married
tonight..."
The point is that by using a very direct,
sarcastic, Cocky & Funny attitude, you can address
the issue and basically say "Look, it's obvious
that we both want to have sex, and it's OK if we
do. It doesn't have to mean anything in
particular, and if things work out between us,
then they do."
As you know, I don't like the idea of being
dishonest or misleading people. But in this case
it might be a good idea to address the situation
and her comments from a different perspective...
...a Cocky & Funny one!
I am living proof that a guy cannot get girls
based on looks alone. A few weeks ago, my buddy
took me to a keg party when I knew absolutley no
one. I noticed a very attractive girl checking me
out, and later one of her friends introduced me to
her, and she was obviously nervous and interested.
So I decided to keep my sights on her for the
night. At first she would offer to go get me
another beer, she would sit on my lap, etc. and I
totally blew it. I acted who you would describe
"wussy". I complimented her way too much, thinking
that this would get me further. It didn't. By the
end of the night, she was not at all interested
in me. I had no idea what I did wrong until I
started getting your newsletters.
A few days ago, I had a blind date with a very
cute girl who had a boyfriend at the time, and
wanted something new. I decided to take your
advice and drop the wussy persona, and go with
something new...the cocky/funny gimmick. I kept it
up throughout the night, ribbed her, teased her, I
did slow movements, talked slowly, paused between
sentences, and acted like I owned the place (we
were at a restaurant). When I dropper her off at
her apartment, I walked her to the door, and she
invited me inside! I went in, and we started to
kiss. At first I teased her, not letting her have
any, and that drove her even more wild! She then
asked me to hold on a second, she went to the
phone, called her boyfriend, dumped him, hung up,
and then she came back over to me! I ended up
spending the night, and I'm seeing her again
tonight. Thank you Dave! My payment for your ebook
is in the mail right now!
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Ah, insight from the front lines.
This one insight that you've described will
literally change your success with women forever.
It's hard to "logically" get the concept of how
acting like a WUSSY will drive women away, while
acting like a "masculine man", busting on a woman,
teasing her, playing "hard to get" and other such
things can work so well.
But it does.
Thanks for the story.
For starters I just want to say your work is
amazing and I really give you a lot of credit for
really figuring this stuff out and not just trying
to sell a magic cure for losers. Anyway.......I've
listened to your Advanced series and read your
book and I'm actually starting to figure this
stuff out, slowly.
I went over to this girls house I met online
(cocky and funny all the way) and I can tell that
she totally likes me, I haven't closed the deal
yet, but this is not the point of my letter to
you. After I left the girls house, I met a friend
of mine for a drink and realized something about
him that has been elusive to me for many years. He
understands this deeper level of communication
that you talk about. I leaned back and observed
him over the course of the evening. All he did was
be himself, but he managed to ATTRACT two
different women in the same night by just being
totally cool and comfortable with himself and
treating them like his "bratty little sister". He
is one of my best friends and I never realized he
had this ability because it's not really what he
lives for. It's just a part of him and he knows
exactly when to bring it out. He dresses funny and
is in many respects, kind of "a dork". But that
doesn't matter, he has slept with many girls, many
of them very gorgeous. I could never figure out
what was so special about him that the girls were
attracted to. I brought it up to him later in the
night and he had no idea what I was talking about.
He said to me that he basically just treats women
(hot or not) the way he would anyone else. This
may seem simple, but it really struck me as
profound. As for my situation, I'm currently in a
slow learning curve. I seem to be making gains
all the time, but then it seems like I'm taking
one step forward and two steps back. I realized
after tonight that I need a lot of work and need
to constantly REFRAME my inner thoughts because of
some self-esteem issues. I'm on track though.
I've made a commitment to figure this out, no
matter what.
P.S. I know this was a bit long-winded but one
more question. Is there going to be a L.A. seminar
anytime soon? I really think it would be great to
meet you and some of the other amazing guys from
the CD series. I also need to try and meet some
other guys who are either better than me or at
least have the same interests and goals. I'm
really struggling with this issue. I don't know
how to handle this. I need someway to find other
guys studying or using your material.. Ever
thought of designing a section of your website for
guys to meet up on? Thanks for listening Dave.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Isn't it amazing when you watch someone who
you've known for years interacting with women...
and see things that you've never seen before?
In my Advanced CD Series (as you know), I spend
a lot of time talking about this deeper level of
communication... and when you know to look for it,
and what specifically to look for, you'll see so
many things that you've never even imagined were
there.
NOTE: You can watch some great sample video of my
Advanced Dating Techniques video program here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/
It's always mind-blowing to me to see a guy
interacting with a woman in front of a group of
people and seeing him tease, bust balls, and be
Cocky & Funny, etc. while all the others look on,
amazed. The woman is obviously very into the guy
who is doing this stuff, but the magical part is
that THE REST OF THE PEOPLE WATCHING HAVE NO IDEA
WHAT'S GOING ON. The other men in the group often
think that he's making all kinds of huge mistakes
and that he's being a jerk.
Now you're starting to get it.
Im using your stuff and it works excellent, im
40 i have a 23 year old who id rate as an 8.5
looks, 8.5 personality and a 9 in the sack. I
never call her, hint that i have other women and
treat her like a hooker in bed, thing is she calls
me every day, fuc** like a rabbit, say she loves
me and says she shouldn't feel this way as she
could have a nice guy who treats her well ;-] but
she loves ME.... Now thing is, im from the uk. in
the uk i had lots of action from women, since i
came here, not much at all....in the uk, i was the
quintessential bastard to the birds, when i came
here, i heard from women that they wanted a nice
man, ah..so i acted like one, got no where for 7
years, came across your stuff, put it to use and
got laid FAST, thing is, I did this stuff before
in England..thanks for bringing me back on
track...you the man buddy, you the man....
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I get a lot of emails from guys who say things
like "I used to do this stuff, but I forgot that
it worked... and thanks for reminding me."
In fact, when I ask a lot of guys who are
really successful with women how they learned,
they often remember stories of what they used to
do, and techniques that they used to use that they
forgot about.
Of course, when I ask them why they stopped
doing those things that used to work, they usually
shake their heads and say "I don't know. I guess I
just forgot about it".
lol...
I'm glad you're getting your game back.
Best to you.
I am not sure what freakin' world that these guys
live on but some of these ludicrous stories that
they are making up are B.S. I do not care how much
game you have some of these stories are should be
in the B.S. hall of shame. Some of these stories I
buy, but the one about the gas station and how she
checks his oil; then waits for him to get done
paying for his gas and walks out with him arm and
arm. I have as much game as the next guy and most
of these techniques/tips I have used or have
considered, but in all honesty try and print
"real" stories. I have been "around the block"
and have been very successful with the ladies, but
the whole oil story is "greased".
>>>MY COMMENTS:
OK, here's the deal...
Every single one of the emails that I put in my
newsletters is real. I don't make any of this
stuff up.
I delete all the names and personal data from
all these emails to protect privacy, but I keep
every email that I get on file to prove that
they're all real, individual emails from real,
individual people.
And let me tell you, I've personally seen (as
in witnessed with my own two eyes) AND personally
experienced stories that make the oil checking
girl look like an after-school special, OK?
I just finished listening to the Audio program
from the recent seminar. Thank you for including
SO MUCH interesting and varied material in there!
I loved it, and its food for thought for both the
'inside game' and the 'outside game.' I want to
read some of the books you recommended and listen
to the whole thing again, and maybe again. You
were serious about tossing in everything you had,
plus the kitchen sink. So it's a great thing to
have in a format that one can listen to again and
again. I am going to try to distill it into 10 or
20 maxims or catch phrases (just cause that's how
I think best) and if I get that far I will share
it back with you. (Attraction is Not a Choice,
Women can't control attraction if they feel it and
you can't change it if they don't; Cocky and Funny
in equal proportions, Words are only 7%, etc.).
Clearly this 'stuff' is not really about 'getting'
women, but about each of our lives, learning,
maximizing, full(er) potential and becoming who
you want to become, and the women thing is part of
it, but the tools are broader. So I am writing
just to thank you for DELIVERING MORE than
promised in your 'ads' for the audio program.
Thanks for going 'full-out'!
(And your ass does look fat in those pants).
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You're welcome. I appreciate the feedback.
I've put so much time into making my CD and DVD
Programs as complete and understandable as
possible, and it's great to get emails like yours
from guys who are enjoying them and having
success.
Here I write once again. I spoke last time of the
incredible success I was having, and here I am
once again after an INCREDIBLE Friday Night. First
of all, TO THE READERS, if you haven't got the
ADVANCED SERIES yet, it's good for ME...and good
if YOU ARE interested in joining the priesthood.
About seven months ago, I bought the book... but
even then I had a few things I was struggling
with... and the CD Series has changed everything.
1.) You must go after the "definite major purpose"
that Dave talks about. This is NO quick fix. It
take a LOT of time with reframing, learning
techniques, etc. Don't be like Oprah and
"dedicate" yourself to something (in her case
fitness)...only to quit. If you throw in the
towel, you will not get women and will have to
settle with lonely, portly Oprah look-alikes.
WHOOOAHH.
2.) Change must come from within. NO technique
will get you where you want to get. You MUST HAVE
the self-image to make it happen. The best
analogy that I use is this: Take the funniest
comedian you know (Seinfeld, Rock, etc) and repeat
one of his jokes verbatim to your friends. Why is
it that he gets the amount of laughs that he does
and YOU don't? Something else is going on. This
applies to everything especially GIRLS. There's
more going on than just pick-up lines.
3.) Body language, voice tone, no nervous ticks,
and eye contact. POWERFUL.
4.) Have Dave father your children, but be
CAUTIOUS folks, he has this "thing" for Brad
Pitt...I'm still wondering about you Dave...lol.
If Dave isn't willing to donate his "seeds," then
find some friends who "get it" and HANG out with
them. Please though, offer no sexual favors.
**Success Story: This happened tonight at a
Chili's in the NY area*** My friend who "gets it"
told me tonight that he didn't agree with getting
a girl's e-mail rather than her number. I said
it's better to get BOTH, but he was still
disagreeing. I remembered the whole "I'd like a
female's opinion on something..." and decided I'd
give it a shot.
Setting: A crowded Bar with lots of people eyeing
this set of cute girls. I then, walked up, with
everyone watching me and approached who I thought
was the cutest.
Me: Hi, my friend and I were talking, and we
wanted a female's opinion on something.
Me: I think that when you first approach a girl
you should get her e-mail because it's so hard to
reach people these days. My friend, however,
thinks that phone numbers are better. My question
to you is what do you think?
Her: *Smiling* I like phone number better, it's
more personable (She obviously doesn't know about
the e-mail, phone number technique)
Me: How old are you? (Like I'm qualifying her)
Her: Older than you...
Her: 23 (I'm 21, so don't let age slow you down)
Me: Listen, nice chatting, but I gotta run. Write
down your phone number.
Her: Ok....**This completely threw me. Her FRIEND
then grabbed a pen out of her purse, handed it to
her, and looked for a napkin to write the number
Me: How cute...you brought a secretary (referring
to her friend)..does she pay you well? Ohh...I
see... she buys you drinks.
**At this point, they were both laughing, she
handed me the phone number, and I of course had to
drill her.
Me: Is this the number you actually answer..
Her: Yeah...and then she started to hand it to me.
Her FRIEND: Let me make sure this is the number I
call...umm...yeah this is it
*************************** I'm currently
"talking" to five girls, and LIFE is great. If you
don't believe the above story happened, then you
don't get it. Well, Dave, give the whole
fathering children idea a spin, I see it right
now... "Double Your Son's Dating." I think the
url is available.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
1. You are a freak.
2. I kind of like it.
3. This is some great stuff. It should be read
again by all of those reading this right now.
I've just finished listening to the Advanced
Series CDs. For the first time in my life (33), I
"get it". I really had no idea how comprehensive
it would be. You've changed my thinking entirely.
It's like all these years I've been living a lie
and wondering why things haven't been working out
with women. It becomes so clear when you see it.
I emailed you about a year ago and you called me a
"wuss". That was a shock for me. No-one has ever
said anything like that to me before. It's hard to
admit now but I was a "wuss" with women. I really
hate that word - but it's perfect for "wusses".
What you've produced is more than a dating
program, it's a system for men on how to live.
Thanks.
S. NZ.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Sometimes we all need a little "tough love".
When I called you a Wuss, that's what I was
dealing out to you.
I'm glad you're finally "getting it" after "all
these years"... I know it took me awhile to figure
out all this stuff for myself.
Now, what I'm about to say might sound a little
weird, but go with me here...
One of the problems I think we guys are facing
is that we don't have good "role models" or good
"mature guy friends" to help us learn how to be
better MEN.
I think that most of us grow up, but never
learn how to be MATURE.
One of the qualities that women are intensely
attracted to is MATURITY in men.
If you ask a beautiful young woman what her
biggest frustration is with men her age, she'll
almost always respond with something like "Guys my
age are so IMMATURE" or "Guys my age are just
STUPID".
Attractive young women who can have any guy
they want are attracted to a particular set of
QUALITIES that are usually present in MATURE men.
Here's the challenge:
What if you're a regular guy who never had a
dad who was a good role model... who taught you
how to be a strong, confident, attractive man?
What if you've made it to "adulthood", but you
still have tons of baggage from childhood, a bunch
of insecurities, and massive FEAR around women?
What if you want to overcome your "past" and
build a new future for yourself? One that involves
success attracting women in your life?
And I'll tell you something, it's a HUGE
challenge.
It might be the BIGGEST challenge single adult
men face today.
I know that I had to face it.
And I know that it sucked, because I couldn't
find an "easy answer" to this stuff.
For me, it took literally YEARS of research,
trial-and-error (mostly error - from which I
learned a lot)... and learning.
And now that I "get it", and understand how to
attract women, I want to help YOU get it.
The best and fastest way I can help YOU to "get
it" in the area of "becoming a man that women are
NATURALLY attracted to" is my On Being A Man...
Who Naturally Attracts Women DVD/CD program.
This program will help you shed that "old you"
that is limiting your success with women... and
put on a "new you" that KNOWS how to confidently
approach, meet, and date the women you want.
Oh, and I'd like to extend a very special offer
to you that's literally BETTER than zero-risk.
I'll send it to you to try out, and you don't
have to pay a DIME to get it.
Try it for a MONTH, and if you don't like it
you can just send it back to me and pay nothing.
I'm very serious about this. I'll even pay the
shipping to send it to you... that's how confident
I am that you're going to get RESULTS.
All the details, plus some great video clips of
the program are right here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/OnBeingAMan/
If you'd like to get an IN-DEPTH education on
how to use the magical teachnique that I call
"Cocky & Funny" to trigger attraction in women,
then you MUST check out my Cocky Comedy DVD/CD
program.
Cocky Comedy is one of the most powerful
techniques for creating ATTRACTION... and the best
part is that it's EASY, and it doesn't require you
to buy gifts, flowers, or dinner!
Go watch the video clips and get the details
here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy/
And, of course, if you haven't yet read my
eBook "Double Your Dating" and the three bonus
booklets that come with it, then you need to start
there. It's the basic foundation of everything
you'll read in these newsletters, and it's the
place to start. You can download it right now and
be reading it within a few minutes. It's here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
I'll talk to you again in a couple of days.
David D.
P.S. You can see all of the other great video and
audio programs I've put together, plus watch
samples of them online... right here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
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