Proven Techniques To Get "Back In The Game" With Women
If you've just gotten out of a relationship, and
you need to get your confidence and "game" back
with women, then you might want to start HERE:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/77Laws/
OK, before you read the email that's featured
in this newsletter, I have to WARN YOU.
This guy obviously likes my materials, and he
shamelessly promotes my Advanced Dating Techniques
Program about a bazillion times.
I actually debated about whether or not to use
this email, because I didn't want it to just come
across as cheezy... but the reality is that this
email contains some killer insights, and I want to
make some comments and use it to point out some
VERY important lessons.
So I'm going to leave in the over-selling of my
Advanced Series, and you enjoy this newsletter...
***SUCCESS STORY***
David,
I recently ordered & received the Advanced Series.
Wow, this is what I have been looking for. First
of all... THANK YOU. I think you have taken a
whole bunch of complex processes and teachings and
combined them into some very useful material that
is digestible and sets a path to gaining some real
skill.
I have been down since an ex-girlfriend thrashed
my heart three years ago.
I mean I had my ass handed to me, and I have been
in a serious rut with Women.
I just turned 40 and that hit hard. I was feeling
sorry for myself and thinking I was never going to
get laid again. I have been joking with my buddies
for a while about being in need of an operation to
have the needy teddy bear inside of me surgically
removed. I had been saying. "I need an operation,
I am a terminal nice guy". I have now re-framed
that and recognize that I am implementing my
"wuss-cure".
By Thursday I completed all of the CDs of the
Advanced Series. I have taken every opportunity to
go through the material when driving. Coming into
this past Friday night I began my second run.
I am lucky that I have already been building my
Mastermind Group, unfortunately that has not been
enough because I have not been getting it. I have
been failing and at the same time watching my
buddies score left and right. I got to the point
where I was meeting women but doing stupid clingy
stuff to repel them. You know, calling to soon,
showing too much interest and worst of all being
the polite, nice to girls, no conflict boy my
mamma raised me to be.
Friday night I went out with one of my boys who is
a Jedi Master. We started the night at a pub and
discussed strategy. Yes, I made it clear I was
seeking advice and wanted to learn. We reviewed a
recent failure where a girl I wanted and had a
brief cuddling experience with ended up wanting
him instead. She started calling him; he had just
been over to her house... I was not hung up on the
girl, I was focused on the idea that it was not
about the one, it was about the skill. I knew it
was not my friend's intention to win this girl;
she was simply attracted to him and not to me. So
anyway, we debriefed on the situation and it was
all-good. We then set out on the hunt.
I was pumped with the idea that this is my reality
and she (whoever she was, was a guest). Well, it
worked. We stopped at a new pub; my friend went to
the bar and ordered a couple of beers. When I
walked up to the bar he was waiting for our beers
and strategically wedged between a group of girls.
I asked him... hey, what did you order for me? A
cute little 23 year old next to him looked at me
and said "oh, he ordered you a Zima..." Hey, this
is Seattle and Men drink Beer. It was on; I
played, had fun and could have cared less about
the outcome. I have not had any real action for a
long time. My game was on; she drove me home and
did not leave until after sun was up. I got very
little sleep.
As she was leaving I casually said "hey, write
down your email address and phone number so I know
where to reach you". The closest thing I had to
write on was a coaster with another girls name and
number on it; I turned it over and had her write
on the back. Because I had been a good student, I
had been spanking her whenever she did something
good.
She wrote: name, email, home number and in big
bold letters at the bottom "NO SPANKING".
Game on.
Thanks,
L. -- Seattle
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Very nice.
I'd like to comment on a few of the things
you've said here, and point out some very
important points that you've brought up.
First, you said that you found yourself in a
situation where you had just broken up with a
long-term girlfriend, and you'd just turned 40.
You were feeling sorry for yourself and feeling
like you might wind up never succeeding with women
again.
I'm not 40, but I can certainly identify with
the situation you were in.
In the past, whenever I would break up with a
girlfriend, I ALWAYS felt a lonely, insecure,
NEEDY feeling in the pit of my stomach.
Nature has cursed many of us guys with an
instant and automatic DESPERATION mechanism that
kicks in the moment a woman leaves us... lol.
It really does suck. I can remember it all too
well, by the way. Thanks for reminding me, you
loser!
But really, I think that most of the men
walking around on this planet knows that feeling
of wanting to have the Wuss inside surgically
removed at that very moment.
GOOD JOB getting back on the road to success,
by the way.
The combination of getting some good education
(by way of my Advanced Series), and, VERY
IMPORTANTLY, your group of guy friends who you
went out with, was a good thing.
And if this guy didn't recommend it enough, if
you DON'T own a copy of my Advanced Dating
Techniques DVD/CD program, then you are missing
out on the most powerful education available for
learning to meet women successfully. I recommend
that you go and watch some of the video clips
of the program, and read all the details here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/
I'm proud of you for believing in yourself
enough to DO SOMETHING, and not just throwing in
the towel, and sitting in your desperation
alone... doing nothing.
As you well know, I highly recommend spending
time watching guys who know what's up as they
interact with women... which you've done.
One thing you mentioned REALLY caught my eye,
though...
You mentioned that a woman you had spent some
time with, and even CUDDLED with, wound up liking
one of your friends.
This is usually a tough thing for most guys to
handle.
But you REALLY did the right thing.
You didn't take it PERSONALLY.
In fact, you REALLY, REALLY did the right thing
when you TALKED to your buddy about it, and went
over what happened.
You took the perspective that it was more
important to LEARN THE SKILL than it was to GET
THE GIRL.
Bravo!
(By the way, I used to have a friend who would
always get upset if any guy ever talked to any of
the women he had talked to. Of course, he never
had any success with ANY of the women in the end.
On the other hand, I have a few friends who could
care less if you talk to ALL of the women they're
talking to... they just don't get jealous. Guess
what? They're all the most successful guys I know
when it comes to women and dating. Coincidence? I
think not...)
To put this whole thing differently, it's SO
important to always try to get the LESSON in a
particular situation instead of the GIRL in that
particular situation.
If you don't get the lesson, you'll keep
banging your head against the wall (or rubbing it
against your palm, whichever)... but if you GET
THE LESSON in a situation, it will help you for
the rest of your life. Get the lesson, and don't
worry about the particular girl. It's never worth
it to take things personally in these types of
situations.
On to the next topic...
You mentioned that later in the evening you
went to a pub, and got into a conversation with a
girl...
You only HINTED at the nature of the
conversation, but from experience, I know exactly
what the "vibe" was.
You asked your friend what he ordered you, and
a girl nearby teased you and said "A Zima."
And I'd be willing to bet you a dollar that you
DIDN'T answer her by acting like a WUSSY.
Nooooooo, no.
You knew what to do.
You now understand something that's KEY.
You now "get" how to have a conversation with a
woman that sparks ATTRACTION and actually CREATES
"chemistry" and sexual tension.
In the past when you were interacting with
women you probably did the same thing that most of
the guys on the planet do (and the same thing that
I did for YEARS of my own life)... You were an
EXTRA NICE GUY.
You never said anything "edgy", you always let
the WOMAN lead the conversation, you never said
anything controversial, and you always carefully
listened to what she said so you kept the
conversation "positive."
You know what I'm talking about... that
friendly, sterile, no-tension, artificially sugar-
coated nice-guy kind of conversation?
The kind that every one of us guys tries to
keep going when we meet a girl we like... or we
take a girl out on a date, etc....
The kind that attractive women HATE... and the
kind that bores women to TEARS!
What's interesting to me is how INSTANTLY women
respond to this kind of overly-confident, fun,
energy-charged banter... and how women RUN from
guys who use the "I'm such a nice guy, and I want
you to like me" kind of talk.
By the way, nice touch turning over a coaster
from a bar that already had a girl's number on it
and having her write her info on the back.
You certainly are starting to get it, my man.
Well, I could go on and on... and there are
some more great gems of wisdom in your email.
Let's just say, if you were closer I'd give you
a strong, manly slap on the back and tell you that
you're almost not a Wussbag anymore.
If you're reading this right now, and you're at
that point in your life where you've turned an age
that's getting you down... or you've just broken
up with a woman that you've been together with for
a long time... or something else has you feeling
like you're never going to be able to "get your
groove back" when it comes to women, then LISTEN
UP.
It does NOT have to be that way.
I honestly believe that you can improve your
success with women DRAMATICALLY if you CHOOSE to
do it... and you LEARN HOW to do it.
Stop sitting there wishing for things to
change and hoping that a supermodel jumps off
the T.V. screen and MAKE IT HAPPEN for yourself.
I've spent a lot of time now figuring out the
things you need to do to increase your success
with women... and I honestly believe that any man
can do it, IF he TAKES ACTION.
You heard the things that this particular guy
learned from my Advanced Dating Techniques
program. If you've been reading these newsletters
for awhile, then you've heard tons of other great
stories just like this one... from guys who have
taken the information they have learned from me
and used it to start meeting and dating the kinds
of women they've always wanted.
I want you to be next. Really.
If you're ready for an IN-DEPTH education on
everything from overcoming fear and approaching
women... to getting numbers and dates... and
taking things to a "physical level", then you MUST
get your hands on a copy of my Advanced Dating
Techniques CD/DVD program.
It's literally jam-packed with around 18 full
hours of digitally recorded concepts, strategies,
and specific techniques to DOUBLE YOUR DATING...
and more.
I get emails all the time from guys who are
listening to the program two, three, and even five
or MORE times because there's just so much
information packed into it. You'll not only hear
me teaching my personal techniques and secrets,
but you'll also hear me interviewing several of my
friends who are some of the best in the world with
women... and getting them to reveal THEIR secrets
as well.
Go watch the latest preview video clips here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/
And if you haven't read my eBook "Double Your
Dating", then you need to do that NOW. It's my
original manual for success with women and dating,
and it's the place to get started if you want to
take your success with women to the next level.
You can download here right now:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
I'll talk to you again soon!
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. Don't forget to look through all of the
different video and audio programs I've created
to help you learn how to meet the kinds of women
you've always wanted. You can look at them, watch
video clips of them, and get all the details here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
--------------------------------------------------
Copyright 2010 David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. David
DeAngelo and Double Your Dating are trademarks. By
reading and accepting this newsletter you agree to
all of the following: You understand that this is
simply a set of opinions (and not advice). This is
to be used for entertainment, and not considered
as "professional advice". You are responsible for
any use of the information in this email, and hold
David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. and all members and
affiliates harmless in any claim or event. If you
are under 18 years old, please click the
link at the end, and remove yourself, or to take
yourself off of our list, you can send mail to
"DDMI" 3960 Howard Hughes Pkwy, 5th Floor Las
Vegas, NV 89109.
__________________________________________________
To ensure that you get my Dating Tips Newsletters each week,
add me to your address book. Instructions are here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/support/whitelist/
__________________________________________________
If you are under 18 years old, please follow the
link below to unsubscribe yourself, or you can send
mail to "DDMI" 3960 Howard Hughes Pkwy, 5th Floor,
Las Vegas, NV 89109.
To safely REMOVE your name and email address from
our newsletter mailing list go to:
Unsubscribe Here
______________________________________________________________
Questions? Comments? Click Here for customer support.
You'll find answers, be able to chat with a live
support person or be able to send us an email directly
with any of your questions.
View our permission marketing policy:
http://cdn.rsys1.net/ig.rsys1.net/responsysimages/ddm/__RS_CP__/permission_policy.htm
If you've just gotten out of a relationship, and
you need to get your confidence and "game" back
with women, then you might want to start HERE:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/77Laws/
OK, before you read the email that's featured
in this newsletter, I have to WARN YOU.
This guy obviously likes my materials, and he
shamelessly promotes my Advanced Dating Techniques
Program about a bazillion times.
I actually debated about whether or not to use
this email, because I didn't want it to just come
across as cheezy... but the reality is that this
email contains some killer insights, and I want to
make some comments and use it to point out some
VERY important lessons.
So I'm going to leave in the over-selling of my
Advanced Series, and you enjoy this newsletter...
***SUCCESS STORY***
David,
I recently ordered & received the Advanced Series.
Wow, this is what I have been looking for. First
of all... THANK YOU. I think you have taken a
whole bunch of complex processes and teachings and
combined them into some very useful material that
is digestible and sets a path to gaining some real
skill.
I have been down since an ex-girlfriend thrashed
my heart three years ago.
I mean I had my ass handed to me, and I have been
in a serious rut with Women.
I just turned 40 and that hit hard. I was feeling
sorry for myself and thinking I was never going to
get laid again. I have been joking with my buddies
for a while about being in need of an operation to
have the needy teddy bear inside of me surgically
removed. I had been saying. "I need an operation,
I am a terminal nice guy". I have now re-framed
that and recognize that I am implementing my
"wuss-cure".
By Thursday I completed all of the CDs of the
Advanced Series. I have taken every opportunity to
go through the material when driving. Coming into
this past Friday night I began my second run.
I am lucky that I have already been building my
Mastermind Group, unfortunately that has not been
enough because I have not been getting it. I have
been failing and at the same time watching my
buddies score left and right. I got to the point
where I was meeting women but doing stupid clingy
stuff to repel them. You know, calling to soon,
showing too much interest and worst of all being
the polite, nice to girls, no conflict boy my
mamma raised me to be.
Friday night I went out with one of my boys who is
a Jedi Master. We started the night at a pub and
discussed strategy. Yes, I made it clear I was
seeking advice and wanted to learn. We reviewed a
recent failure where a girl I wanted and had a
brief cuddling experience with ended up wanting
him instead. She started calling him; he had just
been over to her house... I was not hung up on the
girl, I was focused on the idea that it was not
about the one, it was about the skill. I knew it
was not my friend's intention to win this girl;
she was simply attracted to him and not to me. So
anyway, we debriefed on the situation and it was
all-good. We then set out on the hunt.
I was pumped with the idea that this is my reality
and she (whoever she was, was a guest). Well, it
worked. We stopped at a new pub; my friend went to
the bar and ordered a couple of beers. When I
walked up to the bar he was waiting for our beers
and strategically wedged between a group of girls.
I asked him... hey, what did you order for me? A
cute little 23 year old next to him looked at me
and said "oh, he ordered you a Zima..." Hey, this
is Seattle and Men drink Beer. It was on; I
played, had fun and could have cared less about
the outcome. I have not had any real action for a
long time. My game was on; she drove me home and
did not leave until after sun was up. I got very
little sleep.
As she was leaving I casually said "hey, write
down your email address and phone number so I know
where to reach you". The closest thing I had to
write on was a coaster with another girls name and
number on it; I turned it over and had her write
on the back. Because I had been a good student, I
had been spanking her whenever she did something
good.
She wrote: name, email, home number and in big
bold letters at the bottom "NO SPANKING".
Game on.
Thanks,
L. -- Seattle
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Very nice.
I'd like to comment on a few of the things
you've said here, and point out some very
important points that you've brought up.
First, you said that you found yourself in a
situation where you had just broken up with a
long-term girlfriend, and you'd just turned 40.
You were feeling sorry for yourself and feeling
like you might wind up never succeeding with women
again.
I'm not 40, but I can certainly identify with
the situation you were in.
In the past, whenever I would break up with a
girlfriend, I ALWAYS felt a lonely, insecure,
NEEDY feeling in the pit of my stomach.
Nature has cursed many of us guys with an
instant and automatic DESPERATION mechanism that
kicks in the moment a woman leaves us... lol.
It really does suck. I can remember it all too
well, by the way. Thanks for reminding me, you
loser!
But really, I think that most of the men
walking around on this planet knows that feeling
of wanting to have the Wuss inside surgically
removed at that very moment.
GOOD JOB getting back on the road to success,
by the way.
The combination of getting some good education
(by way of my Advanced Series), and, VERY
IMPORTANTLY, your group of guy friends who you
went out with, was a good thing.
And if this guy didn't recommend it enough, if
you DON'T own a copy of my Advanced Dating
Techniques DVD/CD program, then you are missing
out on the most powerful education available for
learning to meet women successfully. I recommend
that you go and watch some of the video clips
of the program, and read all the details here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/
I'm proud of you for believing in yourself
enough to DO SOMETHING, and not just throwing in
the towel, and sitting in your desperation
alone... doing nothing.
As you well know, I highly recommend spending
time watching guys who know what's up as they
interact with women... which you've done.
One thing you mentioned REALLY caught my eye,
though...
You mentioned that a woman you had spent some
time with, and even CUDDLED with, wound up liking
one of your friends.
This is usually a tough thing for most guys to
handle.
But you REALLY did the right thing.
You didn't take it PERSONALLY.
In fact, you REALLY, REALLY did the right thing
when you TALKED to your buddy about it, and went
over what happened.
You took the perspective that it was more
important to LEARN THE SKILL than it was to GET
THE GIRL.
Bravo!
(By the way, I used to have a friend who would
always get upset if any guy ever talked to any of
the women he had talked to. Of course, he never
had any success with ANY of the women in the end.
On the other hand, I have a few friends who could
care less if you talk to ALL of the women they're
talking to... they just don't get jealous. Guess
what? They're all the most successful guys I know
when it comes to women and dating. Coincidence? I
think not...)
To put this whole thing differently, it's SO
important to always try to get the LESSON in a
particular situation instead of the GIRL in that
particular situation.
If you don't get the lesson, you'll keep
banging your head against the wall (or rubbing it
against your palm, whichever)... but if you GET
THE LESSON in a situation, it will help you for
the rest of your life. Get the lesson, and don't
worry about the particular girl. It's never worth
it to take things personally in these types of
situations.
On to the next topic...
You mentioned that later in the evening you
went to a pub, and got into a conversation with a
girl...
You only HINTED at the nature of the
conversation, but from experience, I know exactly
what the "vibe" was.
You asked your friend what he ordered you, and
a girl nearby teased you and said "A Zima."
And I'd be willing to bet you a dollar that you
DIDN'T answer her by acting like a WUSSY.
Nooooooo, no.
You knew what to do.
You now understand something that's KEY.
You now "get" how to have a conversation with a
woman that sparks ATTRACTION and actually CREATES
"chemistry" and sexual tension.
In the past when you were interacting with
women you probably did the same thing that most of
the guys on the planet do (and the same thing that
I did for YEARS of my own life)... You were an
EXTRA NICE GUY.
You never said anything "edgy", you always let
the WOMAN lead the conversation, you never said
anything controversial, and you always carefully
listened to what she said so you kept the
conversation "positive."
You know what I'm talking about... that
friendly, sterile, no-tension, artificially sugar-
coated nice-guy kind of conversation?
The kind that every one of us guys tries to
keep going when we meet a girl we like... or we
take a girl out on a date, etc....
The kind that attractive women HATE... and the
kind that bores women to TEARS!
What's interesting to me is how INSTANTLY women
respond to this kind of overly-confident, fun,
energy-charged banter... and how women RUN from
guys who use the "I'm such a nice guy, and I want
you to like me" kind of talk.
By the way, nice touch turning over a coaster
from a bar that already had a girl's number on it
and having her write her info on the back.
You certainly are starting to get it, my man.
Well, I could go on and on... and there are
some more great gems of wisdom in your email.
Let's just say, if you were closer I'd give you
a strong, manly slap on the back and tell you that
you're almost not a Wussbag anymore.
If you're reading this right now, and you're at
that point in your life where you've turned an age
that's getting you down... or you've just broken
up with a woman that you've been together with for
a long time... or something else has you feeling
like you're never going to be able to "get your
groove back" when it comes to women, then LISTEN
UP.
It does NOT have to be that way.
I honestly believe that you can improve your
success with women DRAMATICALLY if you CHOOSE to
do it... and you LEARN HOW to do it.
Stop sitting there wishing for things to
change and hoping that a supermodel jumps off
the T.V. screen and MAKE IT HAPPEN for yourself.
I've spent a lot of time now figuring out the
things you need to do to increase your success
with women... and I honestly believe that any man
can do it, IF he TAKES ACTION.
You heard the things that this particular guy
learned from my Advanced Dating Techniques
program. If you've been reading these newsletters
for awhile, then you've heard tons of other great
stories just like this one... from guys who have
taken the information they have learned from me
and used it to start meeting and dating the kinds
of women they've always wanted.
I want you to be next. Really.
If you're ready for an IN-DEPTH education on
everything from overcoming fear and approaching
women... to getting numbers and dates... and
taking things to a "physical level", then you MUST
get your hands on a copy of my Advanced Dating
Techniques CD/DVD program.
It's literally jam-packed with around 18 full
hours of digitally recorded concepts, strategies,
and specific techniques to DOUBLE YOUR DATING...
and more.
I get emails all the time from guys who are
listening to the program two, three, and even five
or MORE times because there's just so much
information packed into it. You'll not only hear
me teaching my personal techniques and secrets,
but you'll also hear me interviewing several of my
friends who are some of the best in the world with
women... and getting them to reveal THEIR secrets
as well.
Go watch the latest preview video clips here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/
And if you haven't read my eBook "Double Your
Dating", then you need to do that NOW. It's my
original manual for success with women and dating,
and it's the place to get started if you want to
take your success with women to the next level.
You can download here right now:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/
I'll talk to you again soon!
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. Don't forget to look through all of the
different video and audio programs I've created
to help you learn how to meet the kinds of women
you've always wanted. You can look at them, watch
video clips of them, and get all the details here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
--------------------------------------------------
Copyright 2010 David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. David
DeAngelo and Double Your Dating are trademarks. By
reading and accepting this newsletter you agree to
all of the following: You understand that this is
simply a set of opinions (and not advice). This is
to be used for entertainment, and not considered
as "professional advice". You are responsible for
any use of the information in this email, and hold
David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. and all members and
affiliates harmless in any claim or event. If you
are under 18 years old, please click the
link at the end, and remove yourself, or to take
yourself off of our list, you can send mail to
"DDMI" 3960 Howard Hughes Pkwy, 5th Floor Las
Vegas, NV 89109.
__________________________________________________
To ensure that you get my Dating Tips Newsletters each week,
add me to your address book. Instructions are here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/support/whitelist/
__________________________________________________
If you are under 18 years old, please follow the
link below to unsubscribe yourself, or you can send
mail to "DDMI" 3960 Howard Hughes Pkwy, 5th Floor,
Las Vegas, NV 89109.
To safely REMOVE your name and email address from
our newsletter mailing list go to:
Unsubscribe Here
______________________________________________________________
Questions? Comments? Click Here for customer support.
You'll find answers, be able to chat with a live
support person or be able to send us an email directly
with any of your questions.
View our permission marketing policy:
http://cdn.rsys1.net/ig.rsys1.net/responsysimages/ddm/__RS_CP__/permission_policy.htm
No comments:
Post a Comment