The 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men

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   Hey Man, most men HATE the idea of
"rejection".

   I'm not talking about "don't like the idea" or
"wish it didn't happen"... I'm talking HATE here.

   The idea of walking up to a woman and having
her REJECT you causes most men to instantly feel
sick in the pit of their stomachs and literally
feel a horrible combination of nervousness and
confusion.

   A guy can psych himself up for an hour to go
talk to a woman, but when the moment comes to
actually DO IT, EVERYTHING changes.

   The heart rate shoots up, breathing quickens,
eyes dart back and forth, thoughts of rejection
fill the mind, and eventually the pressure becomes
too much to bare.

   Most men find this state so scary that they end
up deciding to forget about approaching the
women... just to end the discomfort.

   The temptation is great to just "walk away"
because just as quickly as the intense nervousness
is triggered by the moment one decides to ACT, it
goes away when you decide to "forget about it and
walk away".

   The fact that "choosing to walk away" leads to
the "instant gratification" of the nervous feeling
going away makes it the most popular option.

   Most of the time (and I'm talking about
probably 99% of the time here) men just walk away.
They give up before they've even started.

   I find this topic fascinating.

   If I just think about it, I can remember MANY
times in my past where I wanted to talk to a
woman, but I just didn't do it.

   In fact, many of them are so vivid that I can
remember the exact setting, what the girl looked
like, who else was there, etc... and I'm talking
about situations that happened YEARS ago.

   These moments obviously made an impression.

   I can also remember kicking myself for DAYS
afterwards for not approaching and talking to
these girls.

   Can you relate?

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ACTUAL REJECTION AND THE
FEAR OF REJECTION...

   I think it's important to realize that there's
a BIG difference between ACTUAL rejection (having
a girl who is offended, upset, rude, etc. to you
when you start talking to her) and the FEAR of
rejection (how you feel when you imagine a woman
rejecting you).

   I've found that for me PERSONALLY, my FEAR of
rejection is actually FAR, FAR more painful and
difficult to deal with than ACTUAL rejection in
the real world.

   The main reason for this is that most of the
time when a man starts talking to a woman, she is
actually rather nice about the whole affair.

   Men aren't "rejected" very often!

   If a woman isn't interested, she usually just
says "I have a boyfriend" or "No thank you"... or
she'll just walk away without saying anything at
all.

   Out of the hundreds and hundreds and hundreds
of times that I've approached women, I can't
remember any time that a woman has yelled "Get
away from me you loser! You are unattractive and
the very thought of going on a date with you makes
me sick to my stomach!"

   I'm sure it's happened to SOMEONE, but it's
never happened to ME.

   The worst I've had is a woman making fun of the
words I used (telling me that my pickup line was
lame) or just walking away.

   No slaps, no boyfriends beating me up, and no
yelling.

   But here's the kicker...

   You can experience an intense FEAR of rejection
EVERY time you consider approaching a woman.

   Imagine, something you can predict with almost
perfect accuracy.

   You can be in any situation, anywhere, anytime,
and still have FEAR of rejection... which will
prevent you from approaching a woman.

   Ah, the power of the human mind.

HOW TO DEAL WITH REJECTION...

   A lot of guys ask me, "How do I deal with
rejection?".

   The answer: Don't worry about it.

   If you get "rejected", you'll be fine.

   Really.

   It's no big deal, and it doesn't happen that
often.

   And when it does, you'll recover shortly
thereafter.

   You'll find yourself telling your friends about
it, and laughing together. Rejection from a woman
is about as painful as getting a "D" on a test.

   It's basically insignificant.

   The REAL question is "How do I deal with my
FEAR of rejection?".

   If you can overcome your imaginary FEAR of
rejection, you'll be on your way. (Some guys have
a type of fear that they might call "terror" when
thinking of approaching women.) If you have this
level of fear, then you might want to take a
minute and check this out before reading on:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/OnBeingAMan/

WHY WOMEN REJECT MEN...

   Now let's talk about those rare instances where
a woman actually REJECTS a man.

   For the sake of this discussion, I want to
define "rejection" as a woman doing something that
lets you know that she's upset and offended that
you started talking to her, and she responds in a
mean or vicious way to make you go away.

   I do NOT consider a woman walking away without
stopping to talk to you, her saying "No thank
you", or any other time when a woman just simply
doesn't engage to be "rejection".

   If you DO consider these things to be
rejection, please stop reading now, call your mom
into your room, and tell her that it's time you
grew up and moved out... and that she'll get over
the fact that she can't choose your clothes for
you and hug you when you have a boo-boo anymore.

   I digress...

   I've found that there are a few main reasons
why women actually DO reject men (by the way, it's
VERY rare that I actually get "rejected"
anymore... it's probably happened to me once in
the last 100 times I've started a conversation
with a woman... because I don't do dumb-ass things
anymore).

   Here are the main ones:

1. The guy isn't paying attention, and he does
something stupid to begin with.

   Some guys think it's appropriate to walk up to
a woman, put their arm around her, and say, "Hey
baby, you sure do look hot tonight".

   Some guys don't see anything wrong with
following a woman around all night, staring at her
constantly, then walking over with a nervous,
sweaty-palmed, stalkerish look and saying, "You
remind me of my sister".

   These are bad ideas.

2. The guy doesn't stop when he should.

   If two women are sitting alone at a table in
the corner, and one of them is obviously upset,
and you walk over to them and say, "Hi, can I buy
you a drink?"... and the upset one looks at you
and says, "No thanks, we're in the middle of a
conversation" (then looks away from you back at
her friend)... and you say, "Aw, cummon, have a
drink. You need to lighten up and have some
fun"... and she looks back at you and says firmly,
"We're busy"... and you say, "What, are you in a
bad mood or something? I'm just trying to buy you
a drink"... and she says, "We don't want a
drink"... and you say, "Well maybe your friend
does"... and the friend says, "No, I don't want
one either"...

   OK, hopefully you get it.

   If you ever do something like this, you are a
dumb ass, and you deserve to be slapped and have
47 drinks thrown in your lap.

3. Making a woman nervous with your body
language.

   If you start talking to a woman, but your
posture is weak and slumped, your eyes are darting
around but not meeting hers, and you're wearing an
unbuttoned flannel shirt with one of the tails
tucked in, you're probably not going to get a
favorable response.

   If you creep a woman out, things aren't going
to work for you.

4. Not understanding a woman's body language and
other communication.

   When you start talking to a woman, she will let
you know within a very short time if she's
receptive to talking to you.

   If you've been reading too many books that say
"A woman will signal her availability and interest
by flipping her hair, licking her lips, and
cocking her head coyly at you", then get over it.

   This stuff happens to Brat Pitt, not to YOU.

   And if it DOES happen to you, then skip this
part.

   When you first start talking to a woman she's
either going to keep talking to you in an open,
comfortable way or she's not.

   She's either going to act like things are cool
or she's going to act like they're not.

   This is an amazing thought, but women get
nervous too. They will often stop talking just
because they can't think of anything to say, etc.

   But you need to pay attention.

   Experience is the best teacher here.

   My simple point is that MOST GUYS CAUSE
REJECTION by what they're doing. They aren't
paying attention, or they're doing things that are
offensive.

   If you just avoid a few major mistakes, learn
how to start conversations with women, and do a
few simple things RIGHT, you'll all but totally
avoid "rejection" from the women you approach.

HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR OF REJECTION

   The REAL obstacle here is the FEAR.

   As I mentioned, FEAR of rejection, or IMAGINING
rejection when you should be imagining success,
leads to walking away.

   You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

   Ironically, I've found that the best way to
overcome my own fear of rejection was to see that
it wasn't going to actually happen.

   The more times I approached women and started
conversations and the more I saw that women
usually responded positively, the less I imagined
things going wrong.

   This led to a positive feedback loop of me
wanting to approach more women and have more
success.

   Here are a few ideas for overcoming your own
FEAR of rejection:

1) Go out to a bar, and watch men approaching
women.

   Take a Saturday night, and just go out alone.
Find a seat at the bar where things are busy, and
just watch.

   Make sure you visit a place that is REALLY
busy, so you can see a lot of people interacting.

   Now, pay attention.

   You'll begin to pick out the guys who are
approaching a lot of women, asking them to dance,
buying them drinks, etc. Watch what happens.

   You'll be able to see for yourself that most of
the time, even if the woman isn't interested,
nothing bad happens.

   You'll also see that when a guy tries to grab a
woman who's walking by, makes a crude sexual
comment, or just keeps talking when a woman isn't
interested, that the woman's feelings might
escalate and she'll respond negatively.

   You can watch what works and what doesn't right
in front of your own eyes.

   This will start to reprogram your mind that
women don't usually "reject" men, even in the most
intense situations where they're being approached
all night.

2) Start small.

   If you have to, start by talking to women who
are PAID to talk to you.

   Go to a mall (one of my favorites).

   Stores in malls hire attractive young women.

   Walk into every store, and start conversations.

   Practice making eye contact.

   Come up with a few jokes that you can use in
any situation ("So, do you own this store?
Perfect, then you won't care if I just take some
things...")

   Ask the salesgirls to smell your new cologne
(the one you sprayed on your wrist next door) and
give you her opinion.

   The more you do this, the more you'll get used
to starting conversations with women you don't
know, and having comfortable conversations.

3) Choose one default thing for each situation.

   It amazes me that guys don't think ahead.

   They don't plan what they're going to do.

   As the old saying goes "By failing to plan, you
plan to fail".

   You really need to figure out a DEFAULT thing
you can do to start a conversation with any woman,
anywhere, anytime.

   Once you come up with your idea, mentally
rehearse it until you could do it in any
situation.

   Then get out and do it.

HOW TO AVOID REJECTION AND INCREASE SUCCESS

   Human beings tend to want to "save face" when
it comes to relationships.

   We don't like the idea that another person has
outright "rejected" us, and we ALSO tend to not
want to "hurt other people's feelings" by
rejecting them.

   This is one of the reasons why women will often
lie and say "I have a boyfriend" when they don't.

   You must become aware of these "subconscious"
processes and motivations, work with them, and
eventually become the master of them.

   Learn to recognize when a woman is "politely
saying no thanks", and move on.

   If a woman isn't interested in you, forget
about it. It doesn't matter.

   Go to the next one. There are plenty.

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   Most men believe that if they could only
overcome their own fear of rejection, and learn
how to start talking to women, all their problems
would be solved.

   Not so!

   Just because you can start conversations with
women doesn't mean that they'll feel ATTRACTION
for you.

   It took me a LONG time to really "get" this.

   It took me even LONGER to realize that there is
actually a way to make women feel the emotion of
ATTRACTION for you... just by the way you
communicate with them.

   I used to believe that it was a mysterious,
lucky accident when a woman felt ATTRACTION.

   Now I realize that it's only "lucky" for those
guys who don't understand it (and very few do).

   I've devoted a lot of time, effort, energy,
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   I'll talk to you again in a couple of days.

      Your Friend,

      David D.
      

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   The subject of this newsletter is:

   "The MAGIC SECRET Of Getting A Hot
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   Now ask yourself this:

   "What kind of advice about succeeding with
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   Simple question.

   And if you're like 99% of guys who follow my
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   "Dave's going to show me how to come across as
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   But read a little closer...

   Again, here's what that subject line says:

   "The MAGIC SECRET Of Getting A Hot
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   The key word here: GIRLFRIEND.

   Like I always say... it takes something
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   Of course, I personally don't have to
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the emotions of the woman you want, so that you
can create a deep, powerful CONNECTION with her
that's BUILT TO LAST.

   Now... after spending YEARS trying to
understand exactly how men and woman "connect" on
this emotional level (and then go on to form a
"relationship") I stumbled across a fascinating
idea...

   Just look at that word..."relationship".

   It's based on the word "relate."

   What is "relating"?

   After much study and observation, I learned
that when people use the term "connection," what
they're really talking about is how a man and
woman "relate."

   It's the "common ground" they look for as they
get to know each other better. The similar ways
that they see the world.

   For example, I feel like I can "relate" to you
when you see things the same way I do.

   And that makes it possible for us to form a
"relationship."

   Make sense?

   Cool.

   But here's the problem...

   Long before there's even a possibility of a
"relationship" developing between a man and
woman, they usually BLOW UP the whole thing by
failing miserably when they try to "relate".

   And 99.99% of men have NO CLUE how to HELP a
woman relate to them.

   That in mind...

   Want to be successful with a woman for the
long term... as in... getting a GIRLFRIEND and a
RELATIONSHIP?

   Then learn how to "relate"".
   
   In other words, stop focusing on where and why
you don't see things in the same way as a woman,
like so many guys do.

   Instead, focus hard and long on any
"common ground" that you share with her.

   Why?

   Because the whole concept of "disagreement" is
what I call an "ego move."

   It's usually not about having a difference of
opinion... it's usually about taking "power" and
"being right".

   That's why, if you're dating a woman that you
think might be great for a relationship... and
you happen to disagree...

   THIS IS A *HUGE* OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU.

   You should TAKE ADVANTAGE of the situation
immediately to CONNECT WITH HER *EMOTIONALLY*.

   How?

   Simple.

   Ask her to describe in detail how SHE feels.

   Ask her to SHOW you how and why she sees
things like she does.

   Then say something like: "I totally get it.
And maybe I see this from a slightly different
perspective... but we're both right to some
degree. And I bet if we put our views together,
we'll come up with something even better."

   This is POWERFUL.

   Know why?

   Because you're not only showing that you want
to understand and learn more about her
viewpoint... but that you also want to COME
TOGETHER WITH HER.

   To make something BETTER.

   TOGETHER.

   Trust me... that's the FASTEST WAY to create
the feelings inside a woman that will make her
practically start BEGGING to become your
girlfriend before the end of the night.

   GUARANTEED.

   And right now... especially during the fall
season when so many social events are moving
indoors and the holidays are coming... there'll
be TONS of opportunities to CONNECT WITH WOMEN in
this way.

   Want a great girlfriend on your arm come all
those holiday parties and family get-togethers?

   Then it's URGENT that you take advantage of
these opportunities.

   Of course, there's a lot more to it, from
finding out if a woman is a good match for you,
to having the confidence you need to approach a
"girlfriend-worthy" woman in the first place.

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   In the meantime...

   Here's another example of how to become a
"master of emotions" so you can connect with a
woman for the long term...

   Let's say you're walking down the street with
the woman you're dating.

   She breaks her heel.

   She starts crying because she just bought
these shoes. They were expensive, she took all
day picking them out, and she loves them.

   Plus now she's going to either have to walk
funny or go barefoot.

   Now... YOU obviously never broke a heel and
cried about it (unless there's something I need
to know about you right now...)

   But SHE just did.

   So what do YOU do?

   How do YOU "relate"?

   Look at it this way...

   If you were a hot woman watching your man try
to stick the heel back on your shoe without
saying a word, what would you start thinking?

   If you're like the attractive women I've
talked to about this, you'd probably think, "I
guess he doesn't care that I'm crying... or why.
He just wants to 'fix' the damn shoe."

   Then you'd start thinking: "I guess he doesn't
get me. He doesn't want to take the time to
understand me, so I guess it's time to move
on..."

   (FYI: this is even more true of how "TOTAL 10"
women think -- they get empty, thoughtless
gestures thrown at them by men all day long.)

   But guess what...

   Once a woman feels that a man *IS* trying to
understand her... trying to connect with her
feelings just a little... a MAGICAL thing
happens...

   Suddenly, you're looking like a "CATCH".

   Now, this doesn't happen on a conscious level,
but the message is received by her loud and clear
just the same...

   You're that one man out of a thousand who
GETS HER.

   And therefore you could possibly be "Mr.
Right" -- the kind of man EVERY woman wants to
have a RELATIONSHIP with.

   And then the sky's the limit... with ANY woman
you want... no matter how hot, smart, or
in-demand she is.

   But the question remains...

   How do you CONNECT with that woman who's just
broken her heel... or maybe just lost her job...
or feels "ugly and insecure"... or WHATEVER?

   How do you RELATE to her and prove that you
GET IT... unlike 99.99% of other men?

   Most of the time, all it takes is this:

   Think about your own life experiences.

   Dial one up that creates the closest emotion
in you to the one that she's feeling.

   Maybe you wrecked your car. Maybe you got
fired. Maybe your dog died.

   The key is: you must GENUINELY MAKE YOURSELF
FEEL WHAT SHE'S FEELING... then communicate those
feelings to her. Show her that you UNDERSTAND
what she's going through in the moment.

   Show her that you know how to RELATE.

   Because, once you can show a woman that you
can understand her EMOTIONS...

   ...YOU'RE GOLDEN.

   I GUARANTEE it.

   You'll then be able to take things with ANY
woman you want from "dating" to "girlfriend" so
fast you'll probably get whiplash.

   But for now... I know, this all feels like
some VERY advanced stuff.

   Especially for guys who need to get a handle
on the basics of just "getting dates" first.

   But here's why I'm talking about it...

   Up until a few years ago, I swore that I would
NEVER, EVER talk about the "long-term" when it
comes to women and dating.

   I would personally lay the smack down on you
for even asking about this "RELATIONSHIP STUFF".

   But after years of sharing my "magic secrets"
for meeting women and getting tons of dates...
I started to want something more out of MY life.

   I started thinking to myself...

   "How can I do more than just get dates with
great women... How can I find that one perfect,
Total-10 woman who will totally rock my world...
and stick around to rock it again tomorrow?"

   In other words...

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   For better or worse, I discovered it takes
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   You must "BECOME" Mr. Right. The kind of man
that EVERY Total 10 is looking for. The kind of
man who knows how to connect with her
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   So listen...

   If you're one of the TONS of guys who've been
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   ...or even if you've just been THINKING it but
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*** DATING QUESTION FROM A READER ***

Hi David, love your newsletters, always remind me
the great points I read in your book...   You
recently wrote:

"If you buy a woman enough dinners, she may begin
to feel some AFFECTION for you... but food and
gifts will never lead to ATTRACTION. Big
difference."

So what do we do after the first date of tea and
stimulating conversation?   I figure that at some
point, I would like to go to dinner with a new
girl.   Should I just let them pay for theirs?   I
did that last time, since we were just becoming
friends, I wasn't that into the woman and didn't
want to look like I was trying to impress her
(since I wasn't trying to impress her), and she
also has her own business and I could tell she
wasn't struggling. Dinner has been my main date
approach in the past, and I have become the Wuss
in most cases!   I recently came up with a good
line for a girl at the Farmers market who told me
I should eat my greens... I told her she should
come over and cook them for me!   She didn't know
how to respond, but I think she liked it by her
smile.   I'm gonna hit her up next time to be
serious about that request, I think she can
probably cook up some nice greens to go along with
my nice Ahi Tuna dish...

A.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

    I want to share an interesting story about a
conversation I had this evening.

    I was talking with, of all people, my MOM about
the topic of "men paying for things for women" and
it was fascinating to me to hear her perspective.

    Without hesitation, she said that she believes
that men should pay for everything, and if they
really like a woman that they should SUPPORT her
as well.

    Of course, I burst out with, "YOU HAVE TO BE
KIDDING!"

    After we shared a laugh, she said, "No, I'm not
kidding."

    And she wasn't kidding, either.

    My own mother believes that it's just part of
being a "gentleman and good suitor" to pay for
dinners, gifts, and even shelter for the woman he
desires.

    I immediately replied with {paraphrased}:

    "This kind of sounds to me like you believe
that men should pay women to give them attention,
affection and sex."

    At this point I think she remembered that I
write books about this kind of thing and she gave
up. But the thing that really got my attention was
that she REALLY BELIEVES THAT MEN SHOULD PAY FOR
EVERYTHING. IN FACT, SHE BELIEVES IT AT THE "WELL,
OF COURSE! THAT'S JUST THE RIGHT THING TO DO"
LEVEL!

    Heavy man, heavy.

    No wonder I was such a loser before with women.

    OK, I love my mom and mean no disrespect
towards her...

    But let's talk about the real world for a
second.

    Here are a few things that I believe about how
things work in general when it comes to women and
dating:

1) People in general, MALE OR FEMALE, intuitively
know when they are being "pursued." As soon as we
know that we have something that someone else
wants, the price starts to go up. Economics 101.

2) When the price starts going up (translation:
she realizes that you really like her and she
starts playing hard to get, making you "prove"
yourself, etc.) you start to LOSE CONTROL RAPIDLY.

3) When you lose control, you have a couple of
basic ways you can respond: A) Pursue her harder,
giving her even MORE control OR B) Giving up.
(Neither of these options sounds very good to me.)

4) An alternative is to NEVER START GIVING UP
CONTROL IN THE FIRST PLACE.

5) One way to do that is to stay away from things
that put a woman into the "courting" mode of
thinking and behavior.

6) Asking a woman to dinner and then buying is
probably the absolute most certain way to put a
woman in the state of mind that she is being
"pursued" (with the possible exception of stalking
her, which I strongly discourage).

    By the way, I'm not opposed to the idea of
buying dinner for a woman. I'm opposed to the
mindset that you put her into when you buy it.
Make sense?

    A quick thought: This kind of thing is usually
just a "symptom" of a deeper problem that many men
have... which has to do with problems of healthy
"personal boundaries" and other deeper
psychological concepts. If you are interested in
learning how to fix this "deeper" stuff, then you
should go and take a look at THIS right now:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/DeepInnerGame/

    Before I tell you what to do instead of buying
a woman dinner, let me share what I'm thinking
when I first meet an attractive woman (I like
unusually beautiful women personally, so this
might reflect a bit of a bias):

    "She seems nice, but in my experience you never
know what a person is like until you get to know
them better. I'm willing to take the time to have
a cup of tea with her to find out more."

    Get it?

    I'M GOING TO GIVE HER THE CHANCE TO PROVE TO ME
THAT SHE'S MORE THAN JUST A PRETTY FACE.

    I never think, EVEN FOR A SECOND, that I need
to buy her dinner so she'll sit and talk to me. No
way.

    Incidentally, or not so incidentally, having an
attitude that you need something other than
yourself in order for a woman to like you is
UNATTRACTIVE to women. They can smell this kind of
attitude and lack of self-worth. Bad, bad, bad.

    OK, so you get that I'm not real big on the
idea of starting things off by paying for dinners
and gifts.

    "What should you do instead?"

    I thought you'd never ask...

    Well, first off, if you ABSOLUTELY CAN'T HELP
YOURSELF and you just HAVE to take a woman to
dinner, at least frame it as "I want to go out to
this favorite restaurant of mine, and if you'd
like to go you're welcome to join me." Then if you
decide to pay, it can be something you were doing
for yourself, and you were being POLITE by paying
for hers. If you do this, make it clear that
you're there because you want to go there, and
that it's not to court her!

    A much better idea is to be creative and avoid
all of the things that scream "I'm willing to
spend money to have your attention" (and therefore
driving the price of that attention up).

    Why not a walk in the park? Going to an art
show? Going window shopping in an interesting part
of town? Taking her with you to run errands?
Taking her to a party that friends are throwing?

    Here's a hint: DO SOMETHING THAT HAS
INTERESTING CONVERSATION AND EXCITEMENT BUILT IN.

    Sitting at a dinner table ALONE with someone
that YOU DON'T KNOW is hardly "interesting
conversation built in". Think about it.

    Take a moment right now and think of 10 things
you could do with a woman that cost little or no
money, but have all kinds of interesting
conversation, adventure, and excitement BUILT
RIGHT IN.

    Then, just do some of those things! Don't
advertise the fact that you're not "taking her out
to dinner", just DON'T DO IT.

    Hey, this is great... you get to have fun, not
look like a wuss, not put her in "courting" mode,
and have interesting conversation built right in.

    Added bonus: You save $$. Nice.

    What I'm really trying to say here is don't set
up the idea that you're paying for her attention.
Just don't do it.

    And as for the gal who you met in the market...

    I love the fact that you suggested she should
come over and cook for you. Cocky and funny, very
nice.

    When she got that shocked look and couldn't
respond you might have said, "Oh, I didn't mean to
embarrass you... you can't cook, huh? Well, that's
OK. It's nothing to be ashamed of..."

    These are the best moments to turn up the heat!

    After that, just simply move to the "It was
nice talking to you but I have to get back to my
shopping..." Then, just after turning away, say,
"Hey!... Do you have email?"

    "Yes."

    "Great {pull out pen}. Give it to me."

    Then follow up with this email:

"Hey, nice bumping into you at the market today.
After carefully considering it, I've decided that
I can live with the fact that you can't cook. I'll
just have to adjust. I'm busy tomorrow, but maybe
the next day we can get together for a cup of tea
and I can teach you a thing or two about this
cooking thing. It's really not that hard, and I'm
sure you'll get the hang of it in no time..."

    By the way, I have no problem with the idea of
having a woman cook for you. Just remember that if
she does YOU NEED TO PLAY HARD TO GET!

    Wait a minute; you need to do that anyway...

    There's only one place in the world I know of
that you can learn all of this information
quickly, easily, and thoroughly...

    And that one place is my Advanced Dating
Techniques CD/DVD program.

    In this program, I'll take you all the way
through all of the things that you need to know in
order to be successful with women... from theory
to practice... from nuts to bolts... from meeting
to dating to "getting physical."

    All of it.

    You can check out some great samples here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/

    And if you haven't downloaded my eBook "Double
Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How
To Be Successful With Women" then you need to do
that now. Just go to:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/

    This book and the three bonuses that come with
it are the FOUNDATION for success with women.
Everything you read in these newsletters will make
more sense once you have read the book.

    I'll talk to you again soon.

         Your Friend,

         David D.
         

P.S. Make sure you take a few minutes and look at
some of the video clips from the other programs
I've created to help you learn how to meet women.
You can see them all in one handy place right
HERE:

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Why Women "Run" From NICE Guys

Why Women "Run" From NICE Guys


NOTE: One of the hidden keys to success with women is
understanding the secret language I call "Sexual
Communication." Learning it will give you the
kind of success with women that most men only
DREAM about. Go here to see what I mean:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication/

    I have a lot of guys write me to say, "I know
this girl who's beautiful and smart and
attractive. She and I are great friends, we have
everything in common, and we get along
perfectly... but she says that she's just not
attracted to me..."

    Have you ever noticed that:

1) The most attractive and interesting women seem
to be attracted to men who don't treat them very
well?

2) That the "nicer" you are to a woman the more
she often seems to act like "just a friend" to
you?

    What's going on here? Didn't mom say to be
"nice" to girls?

    Here's the deal: Women aren't usually
romantically attracted to "nice" guys. Women are
attracted to men who are funny, confident, and
mysterious. Good looks don't hurt, but if you're
not 6'4" tall and model-handsome, then you have to
learn how to attract women with your personality.

    And being "nice" isn't going to do it for you.

    A while back, I mentioned an interesting book
that was written about the band "Motley Crue."
Remember those guys?

    Well, the book is called "The Dirt: Confessions
of the Worlds Most Notorious Rock Band." As I read
through that book, I realized that these guys have
dated more of the world's most attractive women
than anyone (except maybe Hugh Hefner).

    In case you didn't know, the guys in Motley
Crue are not very "nice." They're famous for
taking every drug known to man, beating their
women, fighting, and having a lot of people die
around them.

    Now, the first thing most guys say is, "Yeah,
but they're rich and famous..."

    And this is true, they are rich and famous.
But, and it's a BIG ONE... all of the women that
they have dated, married, and beaten up are ALSO
RICH AND FAMOUS TOO!

    These are supermodels and playmates of the year
and such. These women can date whoever they want.
Tommy Lee was MARRIED to both Heather Locklear AND
Pamela Anderson... remember?

    These women didn't need Tommy Lee for his money
or his fame... they're dating these guys for some
OTHER REASON!

    Are you with me on this?

    So what's going on here? And more importantly,
how can you use this information to be more
successful with women and dating?

    First of all, don't go out and start taking
drugs and beating up your dates. I mean, I know
that an occasional woman will drive a man to
drink, but I don't recommend going "Motley Crue"
on a girl... lol.

    The first chapter of my book "Double Your
Dating" is called "Women Don't Make Sense." Here's
what I mean...

*****Side Note*****

    By the way, if you're just learning about how
to be more successful with women and dating, you
need to go and download a copy of my book NOW. You
can download it here, and be reading it in just a
few minutes:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook/

    Onward...

    I believe:

1) Women make decisions very, very quickly about
whether a man is going to be "just a friend" or if
he has romantic potential, and once her decision
is made, it's probably going to stay made.

2) These decisions are made "subconsciously,"
meaning that women make all of them quickly and at
a "gut level."

3) If you know how, you make her feel attraction
feelings rather than "friend" feelings.

4) The way to do it is to stop acting "nice" and
start acting, well... something else... and I
don't mean "not nice."

    So what DOES attract women? And how do you do
it exactly?

    Good questions...

    At the beginning, I mentioned three qualities:
Funny, Confident, and Mysterious.

    Before I talk about each, I first have to
remind you that WOMEN DON'T USUALLY MAKE SENSE.
Remember that.

    Here's a good metaphor: Remember when you
learned to drive? It all made sense... turn the
wheel left and go left, turn it right and go
right...

    But do you remember when you learned to back
up? Backing up was a whole new game. Everything
that used to work now works in a different way. At
first you   feel disoriented. Turn the wheel left
and go right... and you have to learn how to
maneuver with the back wheels staying straight
while the front   wheels turn... all with your head
turned around.

    For most people, this takes some time and
practice. But once you "get it" then you can do it
anytime you want.

    Well, women are very similar. At first it's
very confusing. You have to try things that don't
seem to make sense. But once you get the hang of
it, then you see how it works and can make it
work... just like backing up a car.

    As much as many women would hate to admit it,
there's something very attractive about a man who
is just a little more confident than he should be.
And if you combine this with the right amount of
humor, you have a magic combination that will
charm almost any woman.

    Here are a few ways to use this idea:

1) When you first meet a woman, tease her about
something. It doesn't matter what it is, as long
as you do it early on. For instance, you might
say: "So what's with the big purse? Are you
carrying a gun in there?" or maybe "Those are some
pretty tall shoes, what are you like 4' tall
without them?" If you tease a woman, it shows that
you're not intimidated by her, and that you have a
fun sense of humor. KEY: Make sure you say
something FUNNY. If you don't know how to be
funny, get a book on it. The test: If she's not
laughing, then it wasn't funny!

2) Look around at other things and seem kind of
pre-occupied when you first start talking to her.
Make your funny remarks with a carefree, detached
tone. You want to sound like you're talking to
your best friend. Attractive women are approached
all the time. It's not attractive to a woman when
you look like you've just met Madonna. This "just
a little too confident" attitude is very
attractive to women... especially when it's
combined with humor.

3) Don't answer her questions directly. Women love
to ask questions like: "What do you do?" and
"Where do you live?" and "Tell me about your
family." Answer with funny answers, and don't give
her what she wants. Most guys say, "Oh, I'm an
engineer" or "I'm a stock broker." BORING,BORING.
If she asks what you do... say, "Oh, funny you
should ask. I'm a Calvin Klein Underwear Model...
What do you do?..." (This is especially funny if
it's OBVIOUS that you are NOT a model) Do you get
it? Keep it up and keep her laughing.

    It's important to remember that I'm not telling
you to be mean, or to be a jerk to women. I'm
telling you to start being confident, funny, and
mysterious.

    If this is starting to make sense to you, and
you'd like to learn more about the art of
communicating with a woman on a "sexual" level,
then you might want to go and check out my "Sexual
Communication" program.

    This is an entire educational program that will
teach you how to use your COMMUNICATION to trigger
and build ATTRACTION with women. All the details,
plus some great video clips are here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication/

    Now, if you want to REALLY learn how to get
away from being a "nice guy" who never gets
anywhere with women, I recommend that after you
read my eBook, you get yourself a copy of my
Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.

    This program will give you an in-depth
education on how to think and behave in such a way
that will spark a woman's GUT-LEVEL ATTRACTION for
you... no matter what your looks, height, income,
age, etc.

    You will learn literally HUNDREDS and HUNDREDS
of killer ideas for getting over your fears,
approaching women, getting dates, and taking
things to a physical level.

    The best part? I'll send it to you at MY RISK.

    I'm not kidding around here. You can order it
now and try all the techniques YOURSELF... and if
you aren't THRILLED with this program, just send
it back and pay nothing. No questions, and no
hassles.

    Trust me, I don't get many of them back! But I
DO get back a lot of letters telling me about the
success that guys are having meeting women after
using it... and the complete transformation that
this success leads to in other areas of life. Go
check out the free video preview clips and read
about it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries/

    I'll talk to you again in a couple of days.

         Your Friend,

         David D.

P.S. Don't forget to go and look at all of the
other programs I've created to help you learn how
to meet women. You can see them all here:

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4 EASY STEPS To Getting Your DREAM WOMAN

How many times have you watched OTHER guys go
home with the HOTTEST WOMEN in the room and
wondered...

"What it would take for ME to get a woman like
that, too?"

Well, I'm here to tell you that you *CAN* do
it... and it's MUCH EASIER THAN YOU THINK.

Here's all you need to do:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ManTransformation/

Dear Man:

   Let's be brutally honest here...

   If you're like 99% of guys, you haven't
experienced what it's like to be with your "DREAM
WOMAN" yet.

   In fact, you haven't even come close.

   You've never even TRIED.

   You've never dared to start a conversation
with the kind of woman I like to call a
"Total 10"... let alone actually gotten a DATE
with one.

   Now make no mistake... I'm not talking about
"regular" women here.

   I'm talking about the kind of woman who's so
smoking hot, she literally drops jaws and turns
heads when she walks by.

   I'm talking about the kind of woman who's so
in-demand, a dozen guys hit on her EVERY DAY.

   I'm talking about the kind of woman who's the
TOTAL PACKAGE -- also so sweet and intelligent
that you don't just think of her as "dating
material"...

   ...you think of her as RELATIONSHIP MATERIAL.

   So let me say it again...

   If you're like MOST guys...

   YOU HAVEN'T EVEN COME CLOSE TO HAVING SUCCESS
WITH THIS KIND OF WOMAN YET.

   But here's the thing...

   That's cool.

   I totally understand it.

   Just IMAGINING talking to a woman like this
makes most guys so nervous they feel sick.

   Their palms sweat.

   Their hearts race.

   Not a pretty picture.

   And because of it, 99% of men will never get a
woman like this.

   I want you to really THINK about that for a
moment...

   Think about the REAL reason that you've never
even TRIED to get the kind of sexy, in-demand
woman that drops jaws and turns heads every time
she walks by...

   If you're like these other guys who sit home
FANTASIZING about "Total 10" women, odds are,
this is what's going on:

   YOU KEEP MAKING EXCUSES FOR YOURSELF.

   You tell yourself things like, "That kind of
woman only goes for guys with movie-star looks
and money."

   Or...

   "That kind of woman will immediately blow me
off the moment I approach her."

   Or...

   "I'll hem and haw and get tongue-tied if I
even try to start a conversation with her."

   Or best of all...

   "That's the kind of woman who has so many guys
trying to hook up with her all day long that I
don't stand a chance."

   Any of this sound familiar?

   I could go on and on listing the excuses I
hear from guys, and believe me, I've heard them
all.

   But again...

   What's the REAL reason that you've never even
TRIED to get the kind of women you constantly
FANTASIZE about?

   Why do you keep DOING NOTHING...

   ...except watching OTHER guys leave bars and
parties with these amazing women on their arms?

   Before I blow your mind with the REAL
answer... guess what:

   I USED TO BE THE SAME WAY.

   That's right... your old pal Dave used to do
nothing but sit and watch... wish and want...

   But one night, as I sat there wallowing in my
own wussyness... something started to happen...

   The more I watched the success of OTHER MEN,
the more and more AMAZED I became.

   The truth soon became clear, and it was like
a slap to the face.

   The truth was this:

   The guys who were getting these women did NOT
look like Brad-Pitt. And they weren't Donald-
Trump rich, either -- if they were, they wouldn't
be hanging out at the bars and parties that I
could afford.

   So I watched and observed... and the REALITY
of the situation became clear...

   These guys weren't super handsome or filthy
rich -- yet here they were, getting the hottest
women in the room.

   I mean, they made it look so easy.

   Effortless and painless.

   Almost like they had some kind of "magic
power" to make it happen.

   As soon as one of these guys would start a
conversation with one of these hot women, she'd
start to smile at him.

   And I mean SMILE.... that kind of super-sweet,
sexy smile that made me realize it all over again:

   I must be doing something very WRONG in my
life.... because women like that NEVER smile at
me that way.

   But still... there I sat.

   Doing nothing.

   Just watching and wishing.

   And as I did, realizing it:

   Since these guys weren't rich or handsome,
their success with women MUST come from some
other place.

   Logically... if it wasn't coming from the
"outside" (how they looked or what they had in
the bank) then their success must be coming from
somewhere INSIDE them.

   It must be coming from what I call their
"inner game"... the way they THINK, and how
those thoughts and feelings come across in what
they SAY and DO with women.

   And logically...

   ...IF THESE GUYS could master their inner
game so that they naturally knew what to say and
do with women...

   ...THEN SO COULD I.

   And the more I got to thinking about all this,
the more it became clear to me...

   I knew it all along -- and, at some deep
level, YOU probably know it, too...

   You always knew that there were steps you
could take in your life... things that you could
DO RIGHT NOW... that would make it possible to
have success with amazing women.

   Which leads us back to the big question:

   You KNOW there are things you can do to become
MUCH, MUCH MORE SUCCESSFUL with women...

   ...so WHY DON'T YOU DO THEM?

   Either:

1) You don't know what those steps are.

   Or...

2) You think taking those steps will be "too
hard."

   Either way, I wish I could SLAP you right now
via email.

   Because, in REALITY, there's nothing more than
your "inner game" -- THE WAY YOU THINK AND
FEEL -- standing between you and off-the-hook
success with women.

   In other words... there's nothing but MENTAL
BLOCKS AND OBSTACLES keeping you from escaping
your current life of "wishing" and "wanting"...

   ...and finally GETTING the woman of your
dreams.

   All you really need to do is this:

   BLOW UP your fears and misconceptions for
good.

   Eliminate the FALSE mental blocks and
IMAGINARY obstacles that have stood between you
and success with women for so long.

   Do just that much, and you can CHANGE
EVERYTHING in your life.

   Guaranteed.

   That's why, without further delay, I want to
dig into 4 STEPS you can take RIGHT NOW to
overcome the fears and mental obstacles
preventing you from getting YOUR DREAM WOMAN.

   Buckle in, because here we go...

STEP #1:

ADMIT THAT YOUR REASONS FOR FAILING WITH WOMEN
UP UNTIL NOW WERE TOTAL B.S.

   I want you to look around yourself right now.

   That's right. Do it.

   Right now.

   See any chains holding you to that chair?

   Probably not... unless you're into some very
kinky stuff I don't even want to get into here.

   In other words, the REALITY of your situation
is this:

   The ONLY thing stopping you from getting out
of that chair and TOTALLY CHANGING YOUR LIFE
right now is *YOU*.

   It's your own THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS that are
holding you back. Making you miss out on every
opportunity you SHOULD be having to enjoy life by
now.

   But let's go even deeper. Hope you brought
your scuba gear....

   Specifically: it's your personal "baggage" --
all your past failures and bad experiences --
that have robbed you of the "inner game" you need
to experience REAL SUCCESS with women.

   And that's all there is to it.

   There are no chains.

   There are no force fields.

   There's only you... and everything you're NOT
doing to change your life.

   But here's today's NEWSFLASH:

   A few simple techniques can help you to drop
that loser "baggage" forever and move FORWARD...
get you actually DOING the things you know you
should be doing instead of just "dreaming".

   That in mind, we move on to...

STEP #2:

STOP LETTING YOUR PAST DESTROY YOUR FUTURE

   There's no doubt about it... our past memories
and experiences totally run (and RUIN) our lives.

   They lurk in the dark background of your mind
and CONSTANTLY SABOTAGE you.

   For example...

   Ever been in a situation with a woman where
you really wanted to do or say something to
her...

   ...but you suddenly remembered something bad
that happened in the past in a similar situation?

   Maybe your mind went blank and you couldn't
think of anything to say.

   Maybe you hemmed and hawed and tripped over
your words.

   Maybe you just turned around and walked away
because you couldn't get the courage together to
talk to her in the first place.

   Whatever.

   All you remember NOW is how EMBARRASSING and
PAINFUL the experience was.

   And guess what:

   NOW you're practically PROGRAMMED FOR FAILURE
because of it.

   Just REMEMBERING past experiences like this
cause you to FAIL... or worse, NOT EVEN TRY...
again and again for the rest of your life.

   So... how do you leave that kind of crippling
failure, anxiety, and self-doubt behind?

   Easy.

   You RE-PROGRAM yourself for success.

   How?

   By minimizing -- or even completely ERASING --
all those memories of past pain and failure that
are ruining your "inner game" today.

   In fact, once you can perform just this one
life-changing "trick", you'll be blown away...

   It'll be like you suddenly have SUPER
POWERS... not just with women... but in EVERY
area of your life!

   You'll always feel strong, cool, and calm...
whether you're approaching the hottest woman in
the room or just trying to ace a job interview.

   And like I said, you won't believe it...
before you know it, you won't recognize your old
"loser" self anymore... or YOUR NEW LIFE.

   But like I said, this all gets very deep...

   If you'd like to get more details, encourage
you to drill down about all this right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ManTransformation/

   But in the meantime, here's the short
version...

   Maybe this all sounds too good to be true.

   I once thought so, too.

   But then I put this idea to work for myself...
and totally TRANSFORMED myself.

   I shook off the chains of believing that
people (women in particular) would react to me in
negative ways...

   ...and suddenly I COULD DO ANYTHING.

   Without fear.

   Without doubt.

   And the rest is HISTORY.

   I could suddenly approach mind-blowing "Total
10" women anywhere... any time... and start
conversations with them like it was nothing.

   I could make these women smile at me in that
special way.

   I could make them laugh and twirl their hair
for me... suddenly THEY seemed like the nervous
ones!

   I could get women's numbers FAST without
missing a beat. I could get more dates with them
than I had time for.

   Most amazing of all...

   If I really liked a girl, I could choose to
enter into amazing long-term RELATIONSHIPS with
her... and then keep it going for as long as *I*
wanted.

   But I'm getting ahead of myself...

   Let's reel it in a bit, and get back to the 4
STEPS...

   Once you've reprogrammed your thinking and
broken the chains that have been holding you
back... it's time to move on to:

STEP #3:

MASTER YOUR "REAL-WORLD" INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN

   You see, everything I told you about in steps
#1 and #2 is about that "inner game"... rewiring
your brain so that it stops sabotaging you before
you even get started.

   But Step #3 is about putting all that stuff to
work for you in the real, "exterior" world.

   And the truth is, once you've eliminated the
fears and failures that you carry with you
because of your past...

   ...it's EASIER THAN YOU EVER IMAGINED to say
and do EXACTLY the right things (without even
THINKING about it) to succeed with amazing women.

   Why?

   Because you won't feel "nervous" or "wuss-
like" with women anymore.

   You'll think and act in a calm, clear way that
shows women you don't need to beg them to like
you or seek their approval.

   Your body language will suddenly reflect new
confidence and control, INSTANTLY making ANY
woman respond to you (...even if they don't know
why!)

   You'll know EXACTLY what to say and do in
EVERY SITUATION to ramp up sexual tension and
take things to a PHYSICAL level FAST.

   In other words, once you have NO FEAR, you
have what it takes to make the woman of your
dreams feel **ATTRACTION** for you.

   And once you can make a woman feel
ATTRACTION... she literally can't help herself.
No matter how "smoking-hot" or "super-smart" she
is.

   Which takes us to...

STEP #4:

CREATE A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR DREAM
WOMAN

   Gasp... I know.

   Hardly sounds like me, right?

   But here's the thing:

   Once you've met a woman that you REALLY like,
if you want to keep it going with her, you must
know how to change your behavior as your
interactions progress.

   You see, it's a long journey from "clueless
wussbag" to the kind of man who can get his dream
woman... and KEEP HER... for as long as he wants.

   Yet even guys who have it all "dialed in" when
it comes to getting dates run into SERIOUS
trouble when they go for something more
substantial for the longer term.

   They have no clue how to graduate from the
"approaching women" phase... to the "getting
laid" phase... to the "casual dating" phase...
to the "relationship" phase.

   Why?

   Because, truth is, there's a LOT MORE you need
to know about CREATING INTIMACY before it can
happen for you...

   ...but this email is getting pretty damn long
itself.

   Since I've hardly scratched the surface,
here's what I want to do:

   If you're serious about all this... from
admitting you need to take action... to learning
the "real world" techniques that will make it
happen... to having the kind of LONG-TERM success
with women you've always dreamed of...

   ...then you probably feel like you've already
wasted enough time.

   That's why I decided to pull out all the stops
on this one... and create an epic, 20-DVD
home-study course designed SPECIFICALLY to help
YOU.

   And help you **ASAP**.

   I've named this emergency, step-by-step home-
training "Man Transformation", and I have to tell
you, I'm incredibly proud of this program.

   The fact is, it teaches you 100% OF WHAT YOU
NEED TO KNOW to turn around your WHOLE LIFE,
from success with women and beyond, including:

-- How to redesign your entire life so that the
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-- How to kick ALL your bad habits for good so
they never come back to sabotage you again.

-- The #1 way to make hot women want to be with
you and get PHYSICAL FAST (FULL DISCLOSURE:
Master this, and they'll actually start CHASING
YOU to make it happen!)

-- How to avoid EVERY BIG MISTAKE guys make to
ruin their chances with "Total 10" women... and
what YOU *MUST* START DOING INSTEAD.

   And much, much more.

   Basically, this power-house course is what I
like to call TOTAL IMMERSION -- a wall-to-wall
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NEED TO KNOW, jam-packed into 20 DVDs.

   I'm talking about my most powerful and
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personal "reprogramming" that's 100%-guaranteed
to change your life.

   So make no mistake...

   I'll be with you every step of the way as you
learn EXACTLY what it takes to become the kind of
man who sees what he wants in life...

   ...and GETS IT EVERY TIME.

   Like I said, I'm VERY excited about all this,
so click here now to begin YOUR transformation:

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      Your friend,

      David DeAngelo

PS: Ever wonder if there was a "magic" way to
make sure you NEVER GET REJECTED BY A WOMAN
AGAIN?

I did... until a friend who's a "natural" with
women shared a mind-blowing secret with me.

It's called the "The Rejection Reversal," and
it's an amazing technique my friend perfected to
not only turn the situation around when you get
rejected by a woman... but to actually "switch
on" her ATTRACTION for you!

This one's a real game-changer, so I want you to
learn more about it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ManTransformation/

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