Friday, February 4, 2011

If Women Won't "Get Physical" With You, Try THIS...

Tell me something: Do you ever get so nervous when it's time to "make your move" with a woman that you end up totally screwing it up?

Or worse yet... you decide that you won't even TRY?

If so, listen up: there's a simple way to get HER to make THE FIRST MOVE -- all YOU have to do is sit back and let it happen!

Learn my fail-proof "magic trick" for "getting some" every time -- click here:

Hey Man,

This totally SUCKS...

When it comes to "getting physical" with women, a lot of you have been telling me you feel like you're living under some kind of "CURSE" or something.

You've been telling me that when it comes time to "make your move", you get so nervous you don't even try.

Or, if you somehow do get up the nerve, the woman shows ZERO SEXUAL INTEREST in you.

Worst of all... you sometimes feel like you're actually SCARING WOMEN OFF whenever you "go for it".

Like I said... this SUCKS.

And let me tell you, I totally get it.

In fact, I know all too well that this situation is basically a LIVING HELL.

I know how it HURTS every time you meet a great girl who'll never see you as more than "just a friend"...

I know how it hurts every time a woman looks at you like you're about as sexy as a piece of lawn furniture...

I know how it hurts every time you intentionally AVOID an opportunity to "get physical" with a woman because you're too scared to try...

And I know it hurts THE MOST when you wonder if things will ever CHANGE for you... if you'll EVER understand how to "get physical" with a woman.

Sound about right?

If so, like I said, I totally understand.

Because I've BEEN THERE.

And that's why I don't want to waste another moment before revealing the REASON so many men have to endure so much pain (and failure) in this area...

...and what YOU can do IMMEDIATELY to break "THE CURSE" for yourself.

Let's start by making sure you understand just one simple fact:

Good news... it's one that I think you'll find both inspiring and encouraging...

The fact is this:

99.99% of the time, your failure to "get physical" with women is NOT about your looks... or how much money you make... or even being so inexperienced that you "turn women off."

Truth is, 99.99% of the time, "The Curse" is all about just one thing:

What you're NOT DOING to make things happen with a woman!

That's right, you heard me...

Most guys don't blow it with a woman because they're doing something "wrong"...

The real problem is...

THEY'RE NOT DOING ANYTHING *RIGHT*.

But this should actually come as a HUGE RELIEF for you....

After all, it's MUCH easier to start DOING A FEW THINGS RIGHT than... say... to suddenly become Brad Pitt overnight.

Am I right?

That in mind... here's what YOU to can start doing NOW to finally break free of "THE CURSE"...

...and start living the love life of your dreams.

In simplest terms, it's all about getting a handle on one fact:

Women won't even CONSIDER "getting physical" with a man who doesn't show clear signs of SEXUAL CONFIDENCE.

Let me rewind and cue that one up again...

WOMEN WON'T EVEN *CONSIDER* GETTING PHYSICAL WITH A MAN WHO DOESN'T SHOW CLEAR SIGNS OF SEXUAL CONFIDENCE.

Just to be damn sure you got it, let me say it a whole other way...

If you don't "broadcast" certain signals the moment you meet a woman... signals that show her RIGHT AWAY that you're potential "mating material"...

...it's GAME OVER.

She'll move on so fast your head will spin.

Or she'll banish you to "THE FRIEND ZONE" with NO possibility of parole.

Sound familiar?

Now, of course, all of this is a bit of a "Catch 22"...

If you don't have sexual confidence to begin with, then every woman you meet will instantly reject you.

But if you keep getting rejected, how can you get the confidence you need to succeed in the first place?

It's a great question.

And a HUGE problem.

Here's the simple solution:

Studies show that men who do just a FEW SIMPLE THINGS to "hint" at sexual confidence can trigger some very complex emotions in a woman.

They can make her feel an intense, instant excitement and interest.

But more importantly, they can make her feel a pleasurable kind of NERVOUSNESS. Almost a kind of FEAR.

I know, right? It doesn't seem to make logical sense at all...

Approach a woman the right way, and you'll SCARE her?

Well that's the part of all this that I found absolutely fascinating... and that I saw as a HUGE OPPORTUNITY for guys who are "slow starters" with women.

Turns out that when a woman senses just a few specific behaviors in a man, she will instantly categorize him (often subconsciously!) as a potential sexual partner.

And that's then she starts to feel that excitement.

And that FEAR.

She feels this way because of the RISK that meeting a potential new mate instantly creates.

It makes a woman imagine a new world of new possibilities about what she might soon get to experience in her life...

...and with HER BODY.

It's called a "sexual threat" -- the kind of man who makes a woman nervous that she might lose control, both physically and emotionally.

And the really AMAZING thing is, coming across as a "sexual threat" is like a SHORT CUT... a DIRECT ROUTE to making a woman feel intense physical desire for the man that's making her feel so "nervous"!

You can learn more about how (and why) YOU need to become a "Sexual Threat" right NOW by clicking here:

But for now, here's what I want you to take away from this:

Once you learn to broadcast a few simple signals of "sexual confidence," you're IN.

You'll immediately start noticing that women are acting VERY DIFFERENTLY toward you.

They'll start acting INTERESTED.

They'll start acting OPEN and RECEPTIVE.

They may even start acting a little NERVOUS.

Get this:

They may even act a little CONFUSED.

And once YOU start getting these reactions from women, you'll know it for sure:

The "curse" is over.

In fact, that's EXACTLY how it happened for me...

After learning the behaviors that signal SEXUAL CONFIDENCE to women, my "love life" started to change in ways I never dreamed possible.

Suddenly a new world of MIND-BLOWING SEXUAL SUCCESS opened up for me.

And you know what?

It was an unbelievable feeling.

It felt like I'd never have to worry again about "blowing it" when it came time to "make my move" with a woman.

It felt like I could get to the "next level" with any woman I wanted, any time I wanted.

Above all, it felt like a HUGE RELIEF, leaving all my fears of failure, humiliation, and rejection behind for good.

Which brings us back to YOUR situation right now...

How do you think YOU'LL feel when you finally leave the "curse" behind?

Even better... how will YOU feel when women suddenly start doing all the WORK to get physical with *YOU*?

Stupidest question ever, right?

Well, because I understand the pain and hopelessness of men afflicted by "the curse" so well, I've dedicated one of my most powerful home- study courses to eliminating the problem forever...

It's a program called "POWER SEXUALITY," and it's my acclaimed multi-DVD series containing EVERYTHING YOU NEED to STOP FAILING when it comes to "getting physical" with women.

Here's just some of what you'll learn, (so quickly and easily it'll blow your mind):

-- What to do in ANY situation to "connect physically" with a woman and move things FORWARD (instead of screwing up and "turning her off").

-- The #1 way to trigger a massive SEXUAL REACTION when you first meet a woman (and subconsciously confirm that you're her perfect "sexual match")

-- How to get a woman so TURNED ON with "innocent" words and touches that you'll have her fantasizing about having full-on sex with you the rest of the day!

Finally, and most importantly:

-- How to "deliver" in the bedroom so she'll keep coming back for more!

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In the meantime, I still need to say this:

"POWER SEXUALITY" includes EVERY fail-proof strategy and technique you'll need to make women see you as irresistible "mating material".

But, that said, there's more to the story...

You see, once women start WANTING you, it's meaningless if you can't "CLOSE THE DEAL."

To be blunt... you can be the most confident, skilled lover on the planet... but if you can't COMMUNICATE those qualities properly to a woman, here's what you'll likely hear:

"I can tell that you're an amazing guy... can I fix you up with one of my friends?"

What? What just happened there?

Not good... yet it happens ALL the time (for reasons most guys will never understand).

Fact is, there's actually a hidden "secret language" that ALL women look for in a man before they'll actually get physical with him.

Now as you can imagine, I've spent YEARS trying to decode this "secret language"... and I'm proud to announce that I've finally SUCCEEDED.

BIG TIME.

Here's what I learned:

Any man who can't speak this language will CONTINUE TO FAIL WITH WOMEN.

And to make matters worse, when it comes to this "secret language", there are only 2 rules:

#1) Attractive women are "fluent" in it.

#2) Almost all men are NOT.

Add them up, and here's what you get:

Women can tell INSTANTLY if you speak the "secret language" of sexual Communication.

If you DON'T, they move on.

Case closed.

But listen, no worries. I've got that covered too...

I've assembled a killer "crash course" on how to speak the language of SEXUAL COMMUNICATION like it's second nature.

It's my MULTI-DVD companion course to "Power Sexuality" called "SEXUAL COMMUNICATION."

Here's what you'll learn in this one:

--How to FLIRT PROPERLY with a woman so she doesn't see you as just another "lame loser" or "total player".

-- A step-by-step process for going from "hand holding" to "hot sex" that NEVER, EVER FAILS! (This alone is worth the entire cost of the program!)

-- How to overcome a woman's "shyness" or "resistance" to getting physical with you. (FACT: Men CREATE their own failure by not doing just one key thing!)

And WAY more... too much to list, so click here for the details:

Meanwhile, the "elephant in the room" remains:

If YOU still feel like you live under a "curse" that makes women treat you like "just a friend" (or worse, a "creep")...

...this is happening to you for a REASON.

So stop feeling helpless and embarrassed... and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

Put just a few of my SIMPLE, PROVEN METHODS to work for you, and you can put "the curse" behind you for good.

I GUARANTEE IT.

Listen. I can't make this any easier...

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After that, let me know how it feels to break free of "the curse" for good...

...and to start "getting physical" with the women of your dreams!

Your friend,

David D.

P.S. Oh, one last thing...

Tell me... do you ever "freeze up" or get tongue- tied when it comes time to "get physical" with a woman?

Well, guess what: there's something you can do when it's time to "make your move" that will DRIVE A WOMAN CRAZY with DESIRE... without saying a word to her!

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Monday, January 31, 2011

Mental "Tricks" For Approaching Women

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You know, it's been too long since we talked about how to get a woman's email address and phone number quickly after meeting her.

I thought it might be time to have another conversation about it, and give you some more great ideas...

THE CHALLENGE...

I can still remember exactly what it was like before I learned some of the secrets of how to meet women.

I have very clear memories of women that I saw literally YEARS ago who I wanted to meet... but I just didn't know what to do or how to do it.

In some of the cases, I was actually talking to the girl, enjoying a conversation... and REALLY wanting to ask her for her number... but I just didn't do it.

But WHY?

Why didn't I just say, "Hey, give me your number?"

The fact is that I was AFRAID.

I was afraid that I'd say the wrong thing, or that the woman I was talking to would say "no," or that I'd offend her... or whatever.

At the time, I always assumed that this was some kind of strange curse that I had. I was afraid of women, and didn't know what to say to them, and I was ALONE.

In other words, I not only felt like I had a SERIOUS insecurity issue and fear, but even WORSE, I didn't feel like I could TELL anyone about it... or get help.

I felt like a dork if I even MENTIONED the topic to other guys... as if even talking about it made it clear that I was a loser who didn't even deserve an answer.

So here I was, over and over again, in situations where I would see women I wanted to meet... but I just didn't know what to do.

And I didn't know what would happen if I DID do something. I was afraid of the unknown.

Eventually, this led me to believe that there was probably something wrong with ME - that I should just accept and deal with it... and that I'd probably wind up either alone or having to settle for a relationship with a woman that I wasn't attracted to.

Ever been there?

THE REALITY OF THE SITUATION...

Well, when I finally made the decision to learn about how to meet women on MY terms, I made it my goal to learn how to get women's phone numbers.

I "naturally" assumed that if I was able to get a woman's number, that would be the key. That was the "hard part" to me. If I could approach women and get their numbers quickly, I thought I would be "The Man."

So I went to work.

Here's what I learned...

To begin with, I learned that most women will respond somewhere between "neutral" and "positive" to being "approached" by a man.

Explained differently, out of the hundreds and hundreds of times that I've started conversations with women and seen my friends start conversations with women, I have VERY, VERY rarely seen a woman respond by getting upset, saying something rude, or acting offended.

The typical worst case scenario is a woman not even stopping and just walking away, or responding coldly.

And like I said, this is a typical WORST case.

Another important lesson that I learned is that when a woman responds in a way that is something other than positive and receptive, it's usually about HER, not about ME. In other words, either she's not a nice person, she's not available, she's in a hurry, she's in a bad mood, or whatever... things that aren't within my control, and that aren't my fault (or problem).

I also realized that I was CAUSING a major problem for myself without even realizing it...

I used to have this idea that it would be better if a woman didn't think that I was "interested" in her. I thought that if I could figure out a way to start a conversation and make her like me because I was a "nice guy," then I could somehow get her to see me in a "more romantic" light later on.

HUGE MISTAKE.

Little did I know that women ASSUME that you're interested in MORE than friendship from the very beginning, no matter WHAT you do or say.

So when you try to act all innocent and friendly, like you just want to be friends, women usually assume that you're HIDING something, or that you're just another major Wuss Boy...

This is a bad thing.

I learned that it is FAR better to make no excuses at all and NEVER try to cover up the fact that you're approaching her.

Later on, as you're talking to her over tea or coffee, and you're teasing her, making fun of her, and busting on her, SHE'LL start to wonder on her own what the hell is going on... which is perfect.

In the beginning, just be damn good at what you're doing... and don't try to cover it up or pretend.

Pretending that you're a nice, friendly guy who's only starting an innocent conversation is a direct express route to an evening of self touching.

>>>Before I get to "the goods," I need to mention something. If you'd like to become a MASTER of approaching women and starting conversations, then make sure you check out my "Approaching Women" DVD/CD program. It's the ULTIMATE education on this topic. If you'd like to see some video clips of the program and get all the details, just go here:

THE GOODS...

OK, so here are a few pointers when approaching:

1) It's OK To Ask Immediately...

It STILL amazes me that a woman will give her phone number and/or email address to a guy after only a minute or two of conversation... but it's true.

If you act cool about it, so will she.

Do this: After talking for a minute or two say, "I'm going to get back to my friends" (Or whatever you were doing), and then turn away from her and begin to leave.

If you're getting ready to actually LEAVE the place where you are (say you're at a bar, and you're getting ready to go home or go somewhere else), it's even BETTER.

In that case say, "We're going to leave... it was nice talking to you"... then turn away.

Now, just after you break eye contact and turn away, TURN BACK and say, "Hey!"

She'll look back up, and be surprised...

2) Start With Something "Low Risk"

...as she looks up ask, "Do you have email?" in a calm, normal tone of voice.

When she says "Yes" - you say, "Great, give it to me, I'd like to talk to you again."

Then pull out a pen, and hand it to her.

As she's writing down her email address, just as she writes the @ symbol (in other words, in the middle), say "...and write your number there too...."

Finally, tell her to write her name down as well.

Why do it this way?

Good question.

- At first you're asking, "Do you HAVE email?"

This is a no-brainer. If she does (and most women do), she'll say, "Yes." You're just treating the "yes" as if she said, "Yes, I'll give it to you..." It's a smooth, easy way to ask a "low risk" question, and have a woman be the one to MOST likely give you her information.

- Email is considered "safe."

I mean, what are you going to do, send her 100 emails a day? Ooooohhh, scary.

- You're waiting until she's actually in the MIDDLE of writing down her email for you to ask her to also write her number down.

This makes it FAR more likely that she'll give you her number. At this point she's already demonstrating to you and her that she's OK with you contacting her again... and since she's ALREADY writing, she's very likely to just KEEP writing... her number.

3) The "Do You Have A Card" Variation

You can also ask, "Do you have a card?" if you choose.

This is a classy, low risk way to ask a woman for her contact information.

Now, a lot of women DO NOT have cards, so you're going to need the follow-up for when she says, "No, I don't have one on me"... such as "Well, invent one for me!"

This is funny, charming, and smooth.

Just take out a pen, and hand it to her.

She'll know what to do.

4) Be Ready

Probably half to two thirds of the time, a woman will just write down her email for you.

It's AMAZING how easily women will give out their email addresses.

But sometimes you'll meet with resistance.

I can't go into all of the millions of possible scenarios, but I will talk about the most COMMON one.

Probably a quarter of the time, a woman will say something like, "I don't give out my email to people I don't know" or "I don't even know you" etc.

This one used to REALLY stump me... until I found a simple solution...

Here it is: Just point to the paper, and say "Write it down."

If she keeps resisting, make a joke.

Say, "It's OK, just write it down. I'll only email you every five minutes for the next month."

The SIMPLE "Write it down" works wonders.

You'll probably overcome HALF of the "I don't give out my email/number" comments with this one simple answer. Use it.

5) Mentally Rehearse

One of the greatest investments you can make in yourself is MENTAL REHEARSAL.

Take some time to imagine exactly what it's going to be like when you ask a woman for her email/number.

Close your eyes, and picture a situation.

Imagine how you're going to be standing, what you're going to say, what she's going to say, how you're going to take out the pen and hand it to her, how you're going to answer any objections that she gives you.

Don't wait until you're in the situation to realize that you don't know how to handle something!

You'll realize all kinds of great stuff when you mentally rehearse.

You'll be vividly imagining a great conversation, then you'll get to the part where you ask, "Do you have email?" and she says, "Yes" and you say, "Great, give it to me, I'd like to talk to you again..." and as you mentally put your hand in your pocket you'll realize that you don't usually carry a pen with you!

Or you'll realize that you don't carry paper with you.

Or you'll realize that your pen is usually in your jacket, which is usually on the back of your chair, and not with you at the bar.

When you mentally rehearse, you program yourself for success. So just DO IT!

6) Don't Sell Too Far In Advance

This is SUCH an important concept. Maybe even the most important thing I'm going to say.

When you're getting a woman's email and number, DO NOT try to convince her to marry you on the spot!

Don't "ask her out."

Don't tell her that your mom is going to love her.

Don't ask typical stupid questions like, "Do you have a boyfriend"... and make it seem like you're qualifying her for marriage.

No, no, nooooo!

As a matter of fact, the ONLY thing you want to do is get her information.

Many guys make the mistake of talking about going out on a date, being interested, etc. or tipping the woman off in some way that he's VERY interested in her.

This creates pressure and resistance. There's ZERO mystery or tension created when you do this stuff.

All you have to say is, "I'd like to talk to you again." That's enough.

And by the way, when you DO talk to her again, make sure you avoid the same mistake! Don't talk future and relationship and marriage then either.

Just take things to the next step, which should be a simple thing like tea and stimulating conversation.

One small step at a time, and don't sell too far in advance... ever. It only creates resistance and nervousness on the part of the woman when you hint that you're "interested" in a big way.

So there you go... you've now learned how to get a woman's email and number within minutes of first meeting her.

Use this stuff, it's taken me YEARS to figure it all out...

And if you'd like to know what to do AFTER you get her email and number, I have some advice for you. Check out my Advanced Dating Techniques Series.

Remember at the beginning of this email when I mentioned that I originally thought to myself that if I could get a woman's number fast, I would be "the man"?

Well, I quickly learned that there is A LOT more to this than just being able to get numbers fast (although being able to get a woman's number in 2 or 3 minutes doesn't exactly suck)...

There are many steps between first meeting a woman and getting her to feel a POWERFUL GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for you... and between her feeling that attraction and the two of you "getting physical".

If you know all the steps, and how this all works it will likely go very smoothly and naturally. If you DON'T know all the steps, it will likely NOT go smoothly AT ALL, and you'll run into more problems than you can imagine.

That's where my Advanced Dating Techniques program comes in...

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You'll learn how to overcome your limiting beliefs about women... how to eliminate your fears of talking to women... how to make women feel ATTRACTION for you, even if you don't have money or looks, etc.

In other words, it's a complete system.

You'll learn everything you need to know in order to start meeting and dating more women IMMEDIATELY.

The best part?

You have ZERO risk.

I'll send the program to you... and you can try it for a month. If you don't like it, just send it back and you don't have to pay anything.

Isn't that the way it SHOULD be?

All the details, and some great audio and video samples are here... check it out:

...and if you STILL haven't downloaded your copy of my original eBook "Double Your Dating," then you need to do that now. It's jam packed with dozens and dozens of my personal techniques for meeting and dating women, and it comes with THREE great bonus booklets that aren't available anywhere else. Go download it here:

I'll talk to you again in a couple of days.

Your Friend,

David D.

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