What If A Woman Doesn't Call Back?

What If A Woman Doesn't Call Back?

>If you have trouble getting women to call you
back, then the problem is probably something very
DIFFERENT from what you might think. Before I
share some ideas for getting women to call you
back, you should take a minute and check THIS out:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication

***QUESTION***

Dave:

I'm sure there are a lot of guys out there that
would like your input on this question.

There is something that I haven't seen addressed
in your mailbag or your e-book and that is what to
do when the woman you've have e-mailed or called
didn't reply to the e-mail or phone call and you
see them again. Two personal examples:

Example one:

I meet this girl at my job. Start doing C&F
routine on her: "Why do you look so serious, are
you trying to scare people away. I know inside of
you there's a nice girl that's just dying to come
out." She laughs and I say "That's more like it,
now you don't look so scary." To make a long story
short I ask this girl Friday to give me her phone
number so that we can get together the next day.
She gave me her number and I called, left a
message on her voice mail and she never got back
to me. Saw her the following Monday (she sits
right across from me) and she didn't say anything.
No reason why she didn't call me back. Nothing. I
ended not talking to her. I thought that if I
asked her about why she flaked she would've given
me a lame excuse anyway. I haven't been giving her
too much attention since.

Example two:

I go to this club on a regular basis. I saw this
one girl and started dancing with her. Did some
C&F routine like "Don't get too close", "I don't
even know you that well". She was enjoying it. I
asked her for her number before I left (she didn't
have e-mail). Found out after I called the number
that she gave me a wrong number. I saw her two
weeks afterwards in the same club and just ignored
her.

Now for my question. What should I do when I come
across situations like these again? Act like it
never happened and ignore them or call them on
their bullshit. Sometimes I think women flake as a
test to see what the men are going to do if they
happen to come across them again. I know some guys
will just tell them off? What have you done in
these situations?

RF NYC

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   First, thanks for this question. I have had
this situation happen to me personally many, many
times, and I'm glad you asked.

   One of the things I've talked about before is
how once a person believes something to be "true"
or believes that they understand how something
works, that they tend to make other information or
new things that they learn, fit that older model,
rather than being open to change.

   For instance, people who become part of a cult
will tend to take the advice from others, evidence
that they're not doing the right thing etc. to
help convince them that they ARE doing the right
thing.

   The reason that I bring this up is because it
sounds to me like you're looking for an answer to
how to solve a problem that you should actually
try to PREVENT in the first place.

   I'm going to talk about how to prevent this
problem first, then tell you a few things you can
do when you run into it again in the future as
well.

   Here are two things to keep in mind:

1) Women give out their numbers to guys A LOT (on
average). A woman can have all kinds of reasons
for giving out her number. She might like the
attention, or it might even be just to get rid of
a guy.

2) Women expect men to call THEM. And if a man
doesn't reach them when he calls, a woman expects
the man to TRY AGAIN. (In the book "The Rules" -
the book for women about how to get a man to marry
you - the authors tell women not to call men and
rarely return a man's call, because it makes him
think about you and want you more).

   If I were you, I'd start thinking about two
approaches:

1) Figure out how to make it so that women WANT to
give you their REAL number and make them WANT to
call you back based on the first meeting.

2) If you got a number instead of email, call her
at least 3 or 4 times before you give up.

   To figure out how to make women WANT to call
you back, you might have to work on improving your
humor, your personality, your appearance, or
whatever. In short, you need to learn how to make
a woman feel ATTRACTION for you when you first
meet her. If you don't, she's not likely to call
you back.

   Don't go too overboard on this one because a
lot of this issue is just the fact that women
don't return calls as often as men do... but think
it through.

   And if you need to learn more about how to
trigger this response called ATTRACTION in women,
then you should probably take a minute and read
through THIS before you read any further:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication

   There are probably a few things you're doing
that make women feel a little strange at first
(this is just a guess, as most guys have things
they could improve).

   Maybe you're acting a little too nervous.

   Maybe you're acting too "nice" or like you're
"awed" by women.

   Maybe you're not making eye contact directly,
and you're giving off a "not-very-confident" vibe.

   Think about it.

   But the best thing you can do is to just call a
woman on the phone 3 or 4 times before you give
up! (That is, when a woman gives you her REAL
number).

   Women expect men to keep trying, so they just
don't call back.

   Remember, SHE'S THE WOMAN. She's the one who's
getting approached by interested guys, and who
probably sees you as "just another guy" calling
her.

   You must be persistent, keep it cool and low-
key, and keep calling until you reach her.

   If a woman gives you a fake number, it just
means that she wanted to get rid of you...

   You need to think about how the interaction
went, and TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for the behavior and
communication that made her want to give you a
fake number.

   Again, think about it and make improvements.

   And to answer your question directly of "What
do I do if I see her again afterwards", I'd say
that it all depends.

   If you would consider going out with a woman
who has the ethical standard of giving out fake
numbers, then I'd say you might want to reconsider
your choice of women...

   And if you would like to talk to a woman who
didn't call you back (maybe you left her a
message, etc.), then I'd come up with something
funny. Cocky & Funny, that is.

   Walk over and make fun of her because it's
obvious that she didn't have enough money to pay
her phone bill and when she tried to call you back
she found that her phone was disconnected but that
it's nothing to be ashamed of and you'll take pity
on her and buy her some ramen noodle soup while
she's broke and hungry.

   Just make sure you're lighthearted about it,
and you communicate that you could really care
less that she didn't call you back... but that
you're going to take the opportunity to bust on
her because she's in your presence.

   In the seminars that I teach, we do some
exercises around body language and other non-
verbal communication.

   Your body language says SOOOOO MUCH about you,
and women use body language to decide many, many
things about you.

   If your body language and communications aren't
working together to create ATTRACTION, then you're
going to get a lot more fake numbers and a lot
fewer calls back from women.

   ...And if you're reading this right now and
you'd like to be learning how to read SUBTLE BODY
LANGUAGE and how to make women feel the magical
emotion called SEXUAL ATTRACTION for you by
communicating with them in ways that other men
don't, then I HIGHLY recommend that you check out
my "Body Language For Success With Women And
Dating" DVD/CD program.

   This is the first program of its kind, and it
will TRANSFORM your understanding of how to use
your body language and voice tone to attract
women. Go watch some of the preview video clips
for yourself and you'll get ideas you can start
using RIGHT NOW. Watch them here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage

   And if you're ready for an IN- DEPTH education
on everything from overcoming fear and approaching
women... to getting numbers and dates... and
taking things to a "physical level", then you MUST
get your hands on a copy of my Advanced Dating
Techniques program.

   It's literally jam packed with over 12 full
hours of digitally recorded concepts, strategies,
and specific techniques to DOUBLE YOUR DATING...
and more.

   I get emails all the time from guys who are
listening to the program two, three, and even five
or MORE times because there's just so much
information packed into it. You'll not only hear
me teaching my personal techniques and secrets,
but you'll also hear me interviewing several of my
friends who are some of the best in the world with
women... and getting them to reveal THEIR secrets
as well.

   Go watch the latest preview video clips here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

   And if you haven't read my eBook "Double Your
Dating", then you need to do that NOW. It's my
original manual for success with women and dating,
and it's the place to get started if you want to
take your success with women to the next level.
You can download it right now:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook

   I'll talk to you soon.

      Your Friend,

      David D.

P.S. If you haven't taken a minute to look through
all of the different programs I've created to help
you learn how to meet women, then you should go
and do that now. You can get all the details, plus
watch some great video clips of all my different
program here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/

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How To "Evict" Your Inner Wussy

How To "Evict" Your Inner Wussy

>NOTE: If you're really interested in learning how
to get rid of your "Inner Wussy" for good... and
how to build a rock-solid confidence level that is
NATURALLY attractive to women, then take a minute
and check THIS out:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/DeepInnerGame

HOW TO EVICT YOUR INNER WUSSY...

...OR...

HOW TO STOP DOING THE WRONG THINGS AND START DOING
THE RIGHT THINGS TO ATTRACT MORE WOMEN AND KEEP
THEM ATTRACTED!

   I was talking to a good friend of mine a few
nights ago, and he told me an interesting story.

   He was walking home recently, when he walked by
a couple who were obviously in an emotional
discussion.

   As it turned out, the woman was breaking up
with the man, and he was trying to understand why.

   The interchange went something like this:

Her: "I'm not ATTRACTED to you anymore... I just
don't FEEL IT."

Him: "But I would do ANYTHING to make this work...
I'll do anything you want... just tell me what to
do."

Her: "That's the problem. You just don't get it."

   ...and that was all he heard.

   Have you ever been there?

   Have you ever had a girlfriend break up with
you, or just drift away, and the more you tried to
hold on, the further she ran from you? And the
more you tried to be a "good guy" and please her,
the more distant she became?

   Well, me too. I've been there MORE than once in
my life.

   And it ALWAYS SUCKED.

   The worst part about it was NEVER UNDERSTANDING
WHAT THE HECK WAS GOING ON!

   I can remember being that guy I just told you
the story about... and asking "Why? Why are you
confused? What do I have to do to make this work?"

   I was willing to change, act different, or
whatever.

   Little did I know at the time, but it was this
EXACT attitude that led to all the problems in the
first place.

   If you've read my newsletters for awhile now,
you probably know that women don't feel the
emotion called ATTRACTION for guys who act weak,
needy, insecure and "WUSS-LIKE".

   But unless you know this to begin with, then
it's ALL TOO EASY to become a "nice", overly-
accommodating, uninteresting, predictable, boring
guy... and even though it seems logical that a
woman should love to be treated like a queen at
all times, you've probably found out, just like I
have, that this combination usually leads to a
woman either 1) Leaving you... or 2) Becoming
increasingly controlling, domineering, and
neurotic.

   So what's up with that? Why does this happen?
And more importantly, what can we do to avoid
getting into this horrible position of losing a
woman's attention because we're trying to be nice
to her?

   Here's my take, after studying this stuff for
many, many years now...

1. ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE.

   In other words, we humans don't CHOOSE who we
feel attracted to... and, JUST AS IMPORTANT, who
we DON'T feel attracted to.

   ATTRACTION happens for reasons all its own, and
these reasons have evolved inside of us over time.

   While culture, peer pressure, and trends can
shape our natural drives slightly, the
FUNDAMENTALS NEVER CHANGE.

2. MEN ARE ATTRACTED MORE TO LOOKS, WOMEN ARE
ATTRACTED MORE TO PERSONALITY AND CHARACTER.

   Most men can't believe it, but to a woman your
looks just aren't that important.

   Sure, if you don't take care of yourself, don't
bathe, and let two of your front teeth rot out you
might scare away the ladies.

   But for the most part, women will look past
just about ANY physical issue if she feels that
all-important emotion called ATTRACTION.

   And ATTRACTION is created by your PERSONALITY.

   For women, ATTRACTION is triggered by male
qualities like: Dominance, Humor,
Unpredictability, Adventure, Strength, Sexual
Awareness, Indifference, etc.

   I've put an entire program together that's
focused on teaching you JUST the elements of
communication that make women feel ATTRACTION...
and I call it "Sexual Communication". If you want
to learn more about this powerful method of
communicating with women, go check this out:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication

3. WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.

   'Nuff said.

4. WOMEN TEST MEN BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO.

   When a woman begins to feel a romantic
connection with you, she faces an interesting
problem...

   How can she tell for sure if your character and
personality are the way you're expressing them?

   As we all know, men and women BOTH show off and
exaggerate their "good sides" while downplaying
and hiding their negative traits at first. This is
why men suck-in their guts, brag, and show off...
and why women wear makeup, do their hair, and shop
all day for their clothes.

   If you were a woman, and you needed to figure
out if a man was showing you his "true self", how
would you do it?

   What if you had to know FOR SURE?

   The only way is to TEST on an ongoing basis,
and to keep escalating the tests to be sure.

   Put all this together (with a bunch of other
factors that I don't have time to talk about) and
you get an interesting problem that women face...

   A woman responds to a man that stirs her
emotions, and causes her to want him so badly that
she'll put aside all logic and reason to be with
him.

   But what if the man is just pretending? What if
he only SEEMS to be this confident, funny, manly-
man on the outside, but he's actually a push- over
WUSS-BAG that is insecure and makes up for it by
acting like a tough guy?

   Or worse yet, what if he's a WUSS all the time,
and she just happened to settle for him because he
was available and persistent... and she didn't
have anything better going on at the time... but
now she has other options?

   Well, these are the kinds of situations, that
when played out, lead to the story that I started
with... a man begging a woman to stay... pleading
with her to explain what he has to do to keep her.

   Of course, this is all WUSSY behavior, and it
only serves to put the final nail in the coffin,
convincing the object of your desire that you are
ABSOLUTELY, beyond the shadow of any doubt, a
Wuss.

   So what's the answer?

   The answer is to NEVER BE THOUGHT OF AS A WUSSY
AGAIN!

   If you want to make your dating life a whole
lot better and easier, then stop and think about
your behavior... and resolve right now to stop
acting like a WUSS for the rest of your life.

   Being "nice" and "accommodating" and
"understanding" is great for friendships and
social relationships, but it's HORRIBLE for
ATTRACTION.

   An interesting, attractive woman doesn't want a
guy that she can push around. She doesn't want a
guy who does what she wants him to do. She doesn't
want a little boy that she can train and raise.

   An interesting, attractive woman wants a MAN.

   This doesn't make LOGICAL sense, I know. But
it's the truth. These submissive qualities will
only work in attracting a woman IF SHE LIKES
DRESSING UP IN LEATHER AND WHIPPING HER MAN... AND
CHARGING $400.00 AN HOUR!

   And my guess is that this isn't the kind of
woman that you're looking for.

   I've explained some of the important qualities
that you need to cultivate in yourself if you want
to attract women... and keep them attracted.

   If you'd like to get an extensive education, a
DEEP UNDERSTANDING, and a full set of tools and
techniques that you can use, you need to check out
my "Advanced Dating Techniques" CD/DVD Program. In
this program, I share literally hundreds of ideas,
concepts, techniques, and strategies for meeting
and attracting women... stuff you'll never find
anywhere else.

   How do I know you won't find it anywhere else?

   Because I personally TRIED everything else.

   I spent YEARS learning, testing, and refining
all of the best techniques... and I've only
included what WORKS.

   During my own "learning phase", I watched,
interviewed, and learned from guys who were
UNBELIEVABLE with women.

   I also read literally HUNDREDS of books... went
to seminars... and listened to audio programs...

   I really tried it ALL.

   Most of it didn't work.

   Some of it worked a little.

   And a very FEW things worked so well that I
couldn't BELIEVE it.

   In my Advanced Series, I ONLY include the stuff
that REALLY works. I'm serious.

   Go check out some of the preview video clips
that I have on the website. I think you'll see
IMMEDIATELY that this program is PACKED with tips
and techniques that will help you meet more women
NOW. You can watch the video clips here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

   Here's a question for you:

   How can a woman tell whether or not you've
gotten rid of your "Inner Wussy" INSTANTLY?

   If you guessed "from your BODY LANGUAGE" then
you're RIGHT ON.

   What's the most IMPORTANT aspect of
communication with women?

   If you guessed "BODY LANGUAGE", then you're
RIGHT AGAIN.

   What's the one place you can get a complete
education on how to use your Body Language to
project a powerful, masculine presence to women...
that instantly triggers ATTRACTION?

   If you guessed "David DeAngelo's Body Language
For Success With Women And Dating Program", then
you're right yet again... and you win.

   Go check out the preview video clips of this
program here... you'll be glad you did:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage

   And if you haven't taken the opportunity to
download your copy of my online eBook "Double Your
Dating", then go and do that right now. It is the
foundation for everything I teach. You can
download it and be reading it within a few minutes
from right now. Just go here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook

   I'll talk to you again in a couple of days.

      Your Friend,

      David D.

P.S. Don't forget to check out all of the programs
I've created to help you learn how to attract and
meet women. My programs cover ALL aspects... from
"Inner Game" stuff like how to overcome fear and a
limiting self-image, to specific techniques like
how to approach women, how to meet women online,
and how to make sure that your conversation
creates ATTRACTION. You can check them all out
here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/

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Copyright 2008 David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. David
DeAngelo and Double Your Dating are trademarks. By
reading and accepting this newsletter you agree to
all of the following: You understand that this is
simply a set of opinions (and not advice). This is
to be used for entertainment, and not considered
as "professional advice". You are responsible for
any use of the information in this email, and hold
David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. and all members and
affiliates harmless in any claim or event. If you
are under 18 years old, please click the
link at the end, and remove yourself, or to take
yourself off of our list, you can send mail to
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