Hey Man,
Listen, there's no way to sugar-coat this:
When a man has powerful "sexual confidence" with a woman, she can instantly FEEL it. She instinctively knows he's a man who can ignite wild
sexual feelings inside of her.
On the other hand:
When a man acts "inexperienced" or lacks sexual confidence... she can FEEL THAT right away, too.
And it leads to nothing but REJECTION.
The GREAT NEWS TODAY is: *ANY* man can TRANSFORM into the kind of sexually confident, in-control man that women will fight to "be" with!
Here's how to make it happen (no matter how little sexual experience you've had up until now).
I received an AMAZING batch of emails from my readers this time around.
One of these contains a question about something that's probably on YOUR mind right now, so READ ON...
BY THE WAY: a few letters down, I give a CRITICAL ANSWER about how you can easily APPROACH ANY WOMAN... totally without shyness, fear or nervousness... so let's get to it:
***READER SUCCESS STORY***
Dave, You have changed my life forever, after
watching the first part of your advanced set 3-4
times each my entire, ENTIRE perspective on women
has changed. I'm looking back on the past and
SEEing where I've FAILED horribly and more
importantly, WHY!!
AND I see why others succeed where I've failed.
Since I've long given up on religion your program
has become my new bible for life/women.
I've met three beautiful women this week SIMPLY by
be confident, indifferent, and teasing. People I
would have NEVER thought I would EVER even have a
chance with now look like opportunities to me.
Everything you say makes GOOD sense to me and I m
really starting to GET IT after watching the
program over and over.
I swear to god you're a genius, everything you say
in the program comes together like an elegant
puzzle once you watch them about 3-4 times each.
My favorite one I've used so far.
"Hey hun, that's an interesting dress you have on"
"Oh yeah, why is that?" (woman obviously trying to
mature and sexy) "Because if you put your hair up
into two pigtails you'd complete the "innocent
little schoolgirl" look" (I walk off into the bar,
but not before I get a sock in the arm, which
opens up more comments about feeling a breeze
nearby.)
MY GOD I LOVE YOU, If you weren't a man I'd...
well we wont get into that.
It's fun now, not stressful work!
-B Washington
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Guess what B, meeting three beautiful women in one week is called totally ROCKING IT.
And yes, there is a lot of information in my Advanced Series.
I can appreciate what you mean when you say that it all starts to come together after you watch them a few times.
I had one guy, who came to my last L.A. Live Seminar, that had listened to the program 13 times!
The more you practice what you learn, then listen/watch again, then practice, then listen/watch again, the more sense it will all make.
Unlike a lot of "self help" programs that are just the same stuff re-hashed over and over again, I've put a lot of time, effort, energy, research, and planning into that program to make SURE that it was JAM PACKED with good information.
My goal is to have the absolute best materials available for learning how to be successful with women and dating, period.
It's obvious that you're really starting to "get it", so keep reviewing and practicing.
And thanks for the email.
***ANOTHER SUCCESS STORY***
Dave,
Okay... what the heck are you the bomb or what? I
have been getting your emails for about two and a
half months now and it was amusing at first
because it couldn't have come at a better time
(right after a break up).
I have to say that the first few weeks had me and
I went and finally got the book last week. Read it
and tried some of the techniques and man I have to
tell you that this must be some cosmic sh*t
because it actually freaking WORKS IN THE REAL
WORLD.
Not only online, not only in bars, but everywhere
there is a female there can be success!!!
Anyway on to my story, me and a couple of buddies
of mine hang out at a local Wing House during the
week and have done so before I got the book and
your mail bags. Usually we would mess with the
girls that work there with mild success (never any
numbers or anything) and if you are familiar with
Hooters girls think... hotter.
So after reading your mail bags and getting your
book, I started messing and busting on this
particular new girl by doing things that before
reading your emails I thought would surely piss
people off, she would do things like empty the
ashtrays and I would put dirty napkins in them,
she would be all slow at getting me refills and I
would bust on her for not doing her job as good as
other girls there, I would catch her looking at me
occasionally and I would point at my glass like,
"Hello...".
I was being a total annoyance the whole time! At
the end of the night I left her a nice tip and we
ran into each other at the beach about three days
later. She told me that when she met me she
thought I was a smartass but that "it's
attractive".
I thought to myself "HOLY CRAP she just admitted
to me this stuff works!! The Cocky Funny thing is
the shiznit!!!"
Man I can't say enough how easy this stuff was to
implement!!! And it works like a charm.
When me and my group of friends left the beach she
ran up to me (looking all fine in her bikini) and
gave me a big hug and a kiss on the lips... you
have to understand, this chick is a 9 easy!!!! Man
I had a damn "Colgate" smile all the way home that
day and still do to this day.
You is the man, and you have no idea how nice it
is to have this sort of confidence now, well wait,
I guess you do huh? LOL.
Much Gratitude Bro!
A. from Orlando.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Hey A, there's no doubt about it... you suck, and your friends hate you.
Well, wah-wah-wah for them, so be it.
I'll tell you something, I know EXACTLY what you're talking about when you say that this girl told you that you were a smartass, but that "it's attractive."
The things that make women feel ATTRACTION are not exactly "logical" at first glance.
In fact, some of the things that can cause a woman to feel a powerful SEXUAL ATTRACTION for a man are things that most guys wouldn't "accidentally try" in a million years.
I can clearly remember one night I was out with a good friend who was trying to show me a few things about how to meet women...
We were talking to two cute girls... and he was "taking the lead."
I couldn't understand WHAT he was doing.
He was acting arrogant, making fun of them, being difficult, and doing all kinds of things that I would NEVER do.
Of course, he wound up inviting the two girls back to his house... and they came along with us (and as I recall, they actually drove us home).
Again, this made ZERO sense to me.
He wasn't being "nice" at all.
In fact, he was being rather arrogant and
fussy.
But, as I was to learn later, there was SOMETHING ELSE GOING ON... and the WOMEN UNDERSTOOD IT.
There is something very powerful about demonstrating that you're not needy, acting "too comfortable" around women, and even teasing them.
It says all the right things, and it triggers something that you can't trigger with "being nice."
One of my favorite jokes to use with waitresses is to wait until they make a mistake, forget something, or even just say, "I'm sorry, we're out of that tonight."
I shoot right back, "Could we get a new waitress please? I'm afraid you're just not going to work out tonight."
Of course, I have a very serious face when I say this. It's obvious that I'm exaggerating, so it makes her laugh.
It's arrogant, crass, and kind of rude.
But, it's also damn funny, and it says ALL the right things.
Thanks for your email.
And remember... you suck, and your friends hate you now.
***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***
Dear David,
First I would like to say that your writings are
the most interestingly, funny, theories I have
ever read. As being a female reader,... something
has piqued my curiosity to the fullest extent.
Firstly, I have noted that all whom seek advice
and comments from you, address you by your first
name, a very informal approach to addressing
another with any type of degree in the field of
psychology.
Another comment of yours, that actually piqued my
curiosity is that you assist others "to develop
that or their innate or natural part of themselves
that is already there."
My question is if a part of another is "innate"
that means that it is a natural inborn part of
them, so why would anyone need help with being
whom they are??
Secondly,... being a layman,...I don’t understand
how one could give others advice,...on how to do
anything, unless one has walked in their shoes so
to speak.
M.C. New York
>>>MY COMMENTS:
LOL MC, this is good comedy.
OK, let's start by making fun of your first comment...
Look, even if I had 10 Ph.D. degrees, I would still insist that everyone call me by my first name.
Hellllooooooo...
Would you prefer it if I insisted that you refer to me as "Mr. David D. Sir"?
Hey, that doesn't sound half bad.
OK, on to making fun of more of your comments...
Let's just reprint what you wrote, word-for-word:
"Another comment of yours, that actually piqued my curiosity is that you assist others "to develop that or their innate or natural part of themselves
that is already there."
My question is if a part of another is "innate" that means that it is a natural inborn part of them, so why would anyone need help with being whom they are??"
Come on, smarty...
You don't know the difference between "developing an innate or natural part of yourself" and "being who you are"?
Look, if you go to the gym and work out, you will develop a part of yourself (muscles, respiratory system, etc.).
Now, you can also do this while doing an impersonation of Bozo The Clown, which technically, would be developing a part of yourself while NOT "being who you are".
I love confusing explanations like the one I just made up.
OK, let's try another...
Dr. Stephen Pinker of MIT has written a book called "The Language Instinct".
Now, this is a pretty smart dude. Pick up one of his books and read a few pages if you'd like to understand just how sharp he is.
He believes that humans come "pre-wired" with a an "innate" mechanism for SPEECH.
In other words, we have the wiring from birth.
Now, if you grew up in the woods with no other humans around you, and I showed up one day and tried to have a conversation with you in English,
would you be able to talk to me?
Duh, no.
In other words, just because you come "pre-wired" with the ability and instinct to learn and speak a language doesn't mean that every person will do it equally well (or even at all).
Same goes for men and their success with women.
I now believe that "we guys" come PRE-WIRED with the "INNATE" or "NATURAL PART" of us that knows how to be successful with women.
But, guess what?
Most of us grew up in the equivalent of the WOODS when it comes to LEARNING and DEVELOPING this part of ourselves.
For those of us who never learned how to use the natural talents that we were born with, we need to LEARN.
Once we LEARN how to use what we have and we LEARN how to use our body language and communication to attract women, THEN we can "be
ourselves" all we want.
Until then, no amount of "being yourself" is going to work.
I'd go on to make fun of you in a more detailed manner, but time's a wastin', and I've got others lined up to take verbal abuse from me...
Oh, and I HAVE walked a mile in the shoes of "no clue about women".
More like a mile a day for about 27 years of my life, to be exact.
***QUESTION***
Hi David!
I've bought your book only a few months ago so I'm
just a beginner. I can't give you success stories
yet.
I met a bisexual women on a dating site. She lives
nearby (about 5 minute walk!). I started a
conversation and at first she seemed interested!
My strategy was to meet as soon as possible
because of the short distance. I asked her if she
liked to have an ice-cream in the park. She said
no.
I gave it a rest for a few weeks, and then started
writing messages again. I think I became too
personal at some point and she responded: "I don't
know what you mean, I'm totally uninterested,
leave me alone, thank you".
After that I still had a small conversation and
she wrote back a few times. She was not angry, and
as a reason she said she had contacted some other
guys and she wanted to do fun things with them
(but I think it was something else).
My question is...Could she just be saying "give me
some time"? My idea is, that if she says something
like that, I should leave her alone completely.
But would it hurt to send a message, maybe a month
or so later? How would you get attraction going on
after this?
R. from Europe
>>>MY COMMENTS:
OK, well I have a hard time believing that you've read my book... because you obviously need to read it AGAIN.
If I were you, I'd re-read it every few days until something changes in the way you look at these situations.
Ice cream in the park? Huh?
Is that in "Chapter 17: How To Be A Dork"?
Maybe I forgot about that part of the book.
Look, you need to pay closer attention to what I'm saying, and quit trying to improvise with the bisexual babes on the internet.
If a woman doesn't respond to you initially, move on.
Get over it.
Especially on internet dating sites.
There are MILLIONS of women on these sites, so just get on to the next one.
Try a few of the ideas that I mention in my book in your responses. Place an ad of your own, or several. Notice what works, and keep doing it.
And let me do a little translating for you. When a woman says: "I don't know what you mean, I'm totally uninterested, leave me alone, thank you."
...what she REALLY means is:
"I don't know what you mean, I'm totally uninterested, leave me alone, thank you."
Meanwhile, here's a message on the subject I have for EVERY guy reading this:
The power to start meeting TONS of great women is literally right at your fingertips (and ready to start changing your life) through meeting women
online.
Yet the VAST MAJORITY of you will continue to accept your "fate" of not succeeding with women because you're "too shy"... or you get "tongue-
tied"... or you think you need "looks" and "money."
It's TRAGIC.
That's why--if meeting more great women in one night than you could meet at bars and clubs in a month sounds good to you--I've developed a program
that's 100% GUARANTEED to deliver life-changing results with women online like you never dreamed possible.
It's my globally acclaimed "Meeting Women Online" program.
In the meantime, back to the mailbag...
***QUESTION***
What else can I say but you are the sh#@. I read
your book and it changed my life. I went from
almost never talking to women at all, (and when I
did I would just say wussy remarks) to being the
local mack daddy complete with pimp cane and
feathered hat.
I went to visit my cousin in OH recently and we
went on a double date. Apparently he had been
working on a girl for some time and she just
brought a friend for me. The whole night I was
busting on both of the girls. It got to the point
where the girl my cousin was with started flirting
and touching me a lot along with the girl I was
with.
You just have to look at the situation and find
something to make fun of. Its just like when
you're a kid and you don't really care about what
other people think, you just say whats on your
mind.
Well, anyways we went out to a movie the next day
and I just kept laying the cocky and funny on her.
She started touching me in the movie and stuff and
long story short it ended up with me having sex
with her. And this was a girl I had only met a few
days ago.
The hardest part for me was overcoming the care of
what other people think and situations that would
probably not happen (her getting offended, etc.)
I am a huge fan of your book and newsletters. It
seem like whenever I have a question about
something you do a newsletter on it.
Thanks for everything.
C.P. St. Louis, MO
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, well Pimp Canes and Feather Hats are optional.
They are not absolutely necessary.
Good job with the materials, you obviously GET IT.
And it's true...one of the main things that we guys need to overcome is this whole idea of caring what other people think. It doesn't MATTER what
other people think.
The only thing that matters is what HAPPENS as a result of what you do.
I guarantee that when you watch or listen to this program, it will BLOW YOUR MIND. There is so much in that program that will help you improve...
it's amazing.
Great job, and thanks for the email.
***COMMENTS FROM YET *ANOTHER* WOMAN***
Hi, I just wanted to let you know that I wish more
guys would listen to your advice.
I am a very attractive young lady and have guys
hitting on me all the time.
There is nothing intriguing about the person who
immediately lets you know how happy or surprised
they are that you even talked to them. If they put
the girl up too high on a pedestal, it just makes
the guy completely expendable because obviously
the girl can "do better" (at least in the guy's
mind).
Please keep giving advice and guys, please
listen... It works. M.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Wow, it's like Ladies' Night around here.
Glad so many of you are checking out my materials--it really "validates" what I've been telling so many guys for so long.
I especially like the way you explained this...
"There is nothing intriguing about the person who immediately lets you know how happy or surprised they are that you even talked to them."
Nice.
You know, I should start a "David D. Fan club", and only let women join.
Of course, it would be very expensive...
***QUESTION***
Dave...
I've always been really shy and introverted. And,
obviously, it has not exactly worked to my
advantage with dating.
I've done all sorts of things to get rid of this
shyness - I took a job as a waiter, a salesperson,
taken public speaking classes, read books etc..
and nothing has worked nearly as well as your e-
Book and e-mails!!
Thanks a ton - you've given me superior confidence
and I owe it all to you.
Now, onto the question...
In addition to being a bit shy, I have also always
been a pretty witty, sarcastic guy which really
helped when developing a more CF attitude.
Whenever I'm talking to girls, I ALWAYS get socked
in the arm or get that "Oh no you didn't" look.
However, I can't approach girls for the life of
me. But, once I'm "in there", I just have these
girls on a string, like a marionette. What do you
say?
Ciao!
DF Bloomington, IN
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You know what, DF? I can really appreciate where you're coming from on this one.
Let me mention quickly that I've really put a lot of time and effort into making my materials "shy guy friendly" and I've focused on teaching
things that any guy can use...even if you're "naturally" very shy.
I've been there.
I can remember times in the past where I've sat looking at a girl for HOURS... without being able to work up enough nerve to walk over and start a conversation... and then I'd go home and think about it for DAYS.
In other words, I'm with you.
I'm going to give you an idea for how to overcome your shyness and "kick start" your success with women... and then I'm going to give you a killer recommendation.
First, here's the idea:
GET ONLINE.
As in, RIGHT NOW.
Go download one of the free instant messengers that are available online, and spend an evening starting conversations at random with women online.
I did this quite a bit myself, and it helped me TREMENDOUSLY.
Try different things.
Say, "Hi".
Say, "You sound like you're probably pretty old".
Say, "You spelled a word wrong in your profile".
Say, "You're exactly what I've been looking for. Let's drive to Vegas and get married. Are you game?"
In other words, just play around and see what kinds of responses you get.
Of course, don't say anything overly bizarre or vulgar... the internet cops might take away your internet connection or something spooky.
But, just learn how to deal with that initial jolt of emotion that you get when you're starting a conversation with a woman that you don't know.
Keep it up until:
1) You can sit down anytime and start a conversation with a woman on the internet without hesitating.
2) You're getting positive responses. (I'm not talking about women saying, "Hey hot stuff, come over now!" I'm talking about women just responding
by talking to you.)
This will help you to understand that your fear of approaching and starting conversations with women is UNFOUNDED.
In other words, you'll SEE WITH YOUR OWN TWO EYES that nothing bad is going to happen to you if a woman doesn't want to talk to you.
You'll also see that some women are busy, some are not nice people, and some are friendly and open.
Said differently, you'll realize that it's not about YOU when a woman doesn't respond to you warmly... and it won't HURT you either.
Next, get out into the real world and start making small talk with women... WITH NO INTENTION OF TAKING THINGS ANY FURTHER THAN THAT
CONVERSATION.
When you start a conversation thinking "I want to get that girl's number", it puts HUGE PRESSURE on you... ESPECIALLY if you're not comfortable
doing things like approaching women.
So chill.
Go to the mall, and walk into EVERY store.
When a sales girl says, "Can I help you with something?" respond by saying, "I don't think you're qualified to give me the kind of help that I need, but thanks for the offer".
If you wind up buying something in one of the stores, ask the girl for a 50% discount.
When she asks why, tell her that it should be obvious... it's because she thinks you're special.
After you've had fun, walk away. Leave.
Don't worry about getting numbers or dates. Just work on starting conversations in "easy" situations (where the women are PAID to talk and
be nice to you).
Do this three or four times over the course of a few weeks, and you'll start to change how you THINK about these types of situations.
You'll SEE how women will respond, and it will change how you FEEL.
Finally, remember that it's not NECESSARY to learn how to approach women that you don't know...if you don't want to.
There are PLENTY of situations that allow you to meet women without ever having to "approach" them.
Go check out some dance classes. Try swing or salsa. Imagine being able to:
1) Learn how to dance (which women think is hot)
AND...
2) Have one conversation after another as you change partners...
Now, there are all kinds of places like this where you can skip the "approaching women" step and just move right into the Cocky & Funny or
getting numbers.
Put your mind to it, and do a little thinking.
Look around. Opportunities like this are everywhere.
Finally, I said that I'd recommend something to you...
Look, let's be blunt...
Starting a conversation with a woman means absolutely NOTHING... unless you also know how to CLOSE THE DEAL.
That's why, once you're comfortable with approaching women, most men are also in need of a SIMPLE, exact, step-by-step process for taking
things from chit-chat... to hand-holding... to the bedroom and beyond... that NEVER, EVER FAILS.
Now listen, I had to fail A LOT to figure this out...but now I can safely say I've got it down to a science.
If you'd like to benefit from my years of hard work and failure to find out what it REALLY takes to GET PHYSICAL WITH A WOMAN FAST, this is the
best place to do it:
My world-famous "Sexual Communication" program.
Why do I recommend this to you?
Because I really feel that the "natural hesitation" that most men experience around women is rooted in not UNDERSTANDING the language of SEXUAL COMMUNICATION very well.
Once you really understand how and why women feel unstoppable PHYSICAL ATTRACTION for some men, and not for others...
... and you understand all the subtle messages and things that trigger it...
... you'll start to FEEL DIFFERENTLY.
The understanding will give you a "different perspective" and change the way you SEE situations with women... as well as how you FEEL in those
situations.
I absolutely guarantee it:
You won't find anything else even close to this program...
And I also guarantee that it will help you to overcome the problem of how to "take things to the next level" with a woman like no other program can. Go check it out.
Oh... and if you're reading this right now and you haven't taken the time to download your copy of my online ebook "Double Your Dating", then you
need to do that now.
It's the foundation of everything I teach in these newsletters, and it will help make sense of all the different things discussed here.
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