When It Comes To Women "Flaking", You Must PREVENT It In The First Place
That's why I'm going to talk about how to prevent this problem first, then tell you a few things you can do when you run into it again in the future as well.
Here are two things to keep in mind:
- Women give out their numbers to guys a lot (on average). A woman can have all kinds of reasons for giving out her number. She might like the attention, or it might even be just to get rid of a guy.
- Women expect men to call *them*. And if a man doesn't reach them when he calls, a woman expects the man to TRY AGAIN. (In the book "The Rules" - the book for women about how to get a man to marry you - the authors tell women not to call men and rarely return a man's call, because it makes him think about you and want you more).
This in mind, if I were you, I'd start thinking about two approaches:
Approach #1: Figure out how to make it so that women want to give you their real number and make them want to call you back based on the first meeting.
Approach #2: If you got a number instead of email, call her 3 or 4 times before you give up.
Let's Get Specific...
To figure out how to make women want to call you back, you might have to work on improving your humor, your personality, your appearance, or whatever. In short, you need to learn how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you when you first meet her. If you don't, she's not likely to call you back.
Don't go too overboard on this one because a lot of this issue is just the fact that women don't return calls as often as men do... but think it through.
And if you need to learn more about how to trigger this response called ATTRACTION in women, then you should probably take a minute and READ THIS before we go any further.
Okay... now, from what I can tell from your email, there are also probably a few things you're doing that make women feel a little strange at first (this is just a guess, as most guys have things they could improve). Here are a few of the things you should look at:
- Are you acting a little too nervous?
- Are you acting too "nice" or like you're "awed" by women?
- Are you failing to make eye contact directly?
- Are you giving off a not-very-confident vibe?
Think about all of these possibilities... but for now, the best thing you can do is:
Be Persistent, Keep It Cool And Stay Low-Key
Call a woman on the phone only 3 or 4 times before you give up. Women expect men to keep trying, so they just don't call back. Remember... she's the WOMAN. She's the one who's getting approached by interested guys, and who probably sees you as just another guy calling her.
NOTE: If a woman gives you a fake number, it means that she wanted to get rid of you. You need to think about how the interaction went, and take responsibility for the behavior and communication that made her want to give you a fake number.
Again, think about it and make improvements.
And to answer your question directly of "What do I do if I see her again afterwards," I'd say that it all depends. If you would consider going out with a woman who has the ethical standard of giving out fake numbers, then I'd say you might want to reconsider your choice of women...
And if you would like to talk to a woman who didn't call you back (maybe you left her a message, etc.), then I'd come up with something funny. Cocky & Funny, that is.
Walk over and make fun of her because it's obvious that she didn't have enough money to pay her phone bill and when she tried to call you back she found that her phone was disconnected but that it's nothing to be ashamed of and you'll take pity on her and buy her some ramen noodle soup while she's broke and hungry.
Just make sure you're lighthearted about it, and you communicate that you could really care less that she didn't call you back... but that you're going to take the opportunity to bust on her because she's in your presence.
That brings me to one more thing I need to talk about...
The CRITICAL Importance Of Body Language
I just can't say it enough... Your body language says sooooo much about you, and women use body language to decide many, many things about you.
If your body language and communications aren't working together to create attraction, then you're going to get a lot more fake numbers and a lot fewer calls back from women.
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One Last Thing...
I get emails all the time from guys who are listening to my programs two, three, and even five or more times because there's just so much information packed into them.
But if you haven't read my top-selling eBook that started it all, then you need to do that now. It's called Double Your Dating, and it's my original manual for success with women and dating, and it's the place to get started if you want to take your success with women to the next level.
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your friend,
