Competition From Other Men - How To Handle It

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***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER***

I am recently divorced and found myself having a hard time making connections with women after being in a 9-year relationship. Before I met my ex-wife I considered myself as a "player" and had little trouble finding girls to go out with. After being out of the scene for so long, I had lots of trouble trying to get back in to the swing of things. Your ebook and emails have instantly put me back in the game and I am now getting dates with very attractive women! It's been amazing!! Thank You!

Now for the question. All these attractive women have brought something into my dates that I am not used to, Men (Cock Blockers)! Currently, I am dating this "bomb-shell" occasionally and when we go out on a date, men will hit on her as soon as they get a chance. If I turn my back for second, some guy will try to make eye contact or say something to her. I don't blame the guys because she is very hot, but how do I deal with this in a way that shows I am 100% confident? Typically, I just laugh and continue to have a good time by ignoring the lame ass attempts to pick up on my date, but there has to be a way that I can turn this around to make me look more confident in her eyes.

You're the man,

B from Colorado

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well then...welcome back!

I've noticed that the period after breaking up with a long-term girlfriend or spouse is often a difficult one.

I think it's easy for men (and women) to become so comfortable and emotionally dependent in a relationship that they experience a lot of FEAR when ending that relationship...

"What's going to happen?"

"Will I ever meet another woman?"

"How do I get started?"

...etc.

I can remember breaking up with long-term girlfriends in years past, and feeling an empty, fearful, LONELY combination of emotions in my gut that was HORRIBLE.

That ALONE feeling is enough to cause a lot of problems.

Add to that, not knowing where to start, what to do, or how to "get your game back" if you had it in the past, and you usually get a bad situation.

I've learned that knowing how to go out anytime and meet women has a couple of MAJOR benefits when it comes to this area:

1) When you know that you can meet women anytime you want, it makes you stop acting so NEEDY and CLINGY in a relationship. Most needy and clingy Wuss behaviors are rooted in the FEAR that you'll never be able to find another woman.

2) When it comes to ENDING a relationship, this skill makes things MUCH easier. Too many guys stay in relationships that are bad for them, and are afraid to END a relationship because of that deeply-rooted insecurity that comes from not knowing how to walk out the door anytime, anywhere and meet women. When you know how to do this, you won't try to hold on like a girly-man, sacrifice your own respect and dignity, pleading and begging, and ultimately make the situation much worse than it would have been if you would have just walked away.

In short, what I'm trying to say is that I think understanding this area called "How to attract women" is KEY to having a good relationship.

When you have that inner confidence and KNOWING, it makes you more attractive...period.

Now let's talk about what to do when there is competition from other guys...

First I want to talk about what I believe is at the ROOT of the problem:

1) INSECURITY.

2) JEALOUSY.

When you are insecure, you're always wondering if some other guy is going to come along and steal your girl.

This often shows up as a combination of feelings that make you worry about losing your girl, and at the same time worrying about not being able to find another one if you DO lose this one.

This is a BAD, BAD thing because it then CLOUDS YOUR THINKING, and creates an illusion that the woman you're with is BETTER than she is, and that you're WORSE than you are.

We're talking about some deep issues here, but this is the stuff that triggers the ULTIMATE WUSS types of behaviors.

Then, as if things weren't bad enough, you go out with your girl, and other guys start hitting on her right in front of you.

This triggers MORE insecurity, and then the REAL problem...JEALOUSY.

Jealousy is an incredibly powerful emotion.

It often leads people to KILL people they love.

One scientist wrote an entire book about Jealousy, and basically claimed that it was the most powerful and important emotion ever! (The book is called "The Dangerous Passion"... referring to jealousy)

When you're out with your girl, you turn around to order a drink, and when you turn BACK around there's some guy talking to her with that "I'd love to take you home and do things that the lord forbids", it can trigger a few emotions...

This is very natural. Animals have this same response in similar situations. I personally believe that we come pre-wired with BOTH of these things:

- We come pre-wired to want women that other men already have (Don't covet thy neighbor's wife).

- We come pre-wired to feel jealousy if we suspect that our spouse is cheating or if we think that someone is going to take them from us.

Again, normal and natural stuff.

If Yoda were here, he'd probably say:

"Jealousy is useless...

...Jealousy leads to anger, anger leads to INSECURE WUSSY BEHAVIOR... and insecure Wussy behavior leads to the DARK SIDE."

Now, jealousy doesn't always lead to insecure WUSSY behavior, sometimes it leads to insecure DUMB ASS behavior, like getting into a fight, or shooting someone.

Some men enjoy fights and violence.

And some women have no problem dating a man who likes to beat other men up (or beat her up).

I personally think that violence and hurting other people is the IGNORANT way to deal with things.

But, I also know that there are a lot of guys out there that don't share my views.

The POINT I'm trying to make is that insecurity and jealousy make people do all kinds of stupid and thoughtless things.

These emotions take over your mind and body, and can trigger some of the most short-sighted behaviors you'll ever experience.

These are complex emotions that have evolved over millions and millions of years...and they're not going away anytime soon. In many cases, they literally take control of your mind and body.

For instance...

Let's say you've just broken up with your girlfriend or wife, and it took you a long time to finally get a date with an attractive woman. Maybe you were feeling insecure and didn't know if you could meet another woman, and let's say that the breakup was hard on you as well.

Let's say you're out at a bar with your new date and you excuse yourself to use the boy's room... and when you get back, there are TWO big, handsome guys talking to your date, and she's laughing hysterically at what they're saying.

What would most guys do in this situation?

THEY'D FREAK. That's what.

All kinds of fear, jealousy, insecurity, etc. would INSTANTLY take over, and there would be thoughts of her wanting to be with these guys, them taking her away, etc.

And what do most guys actually DO in one of these situations?

They walk over, act nervous, and try to take the girl away from the situation. And they make the mistake of making it OBVIOUS that they're all freaked out, intimidated, jealous, and insecure.

This, of course, only makes the other guys feel more powerful, and makes the woman realize that she's with an insecure WUSS.

It becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy, in most cases.

As a side note: I have met and know of guys who actually ENJOY picking up women who are out with other guys. It's a game to them.

And they've found that it's EASY, because most men are insecure, and most women don't want to be with a WUSS...

So what's the answer here?

What's the best thing to do when a guy is making his move on your girl?

Well... let's start from a little BEFORE that.

And before I give you my take, I want to recommend that you ALSO get your hands my "On Being A Man... Who Naturally Attracts Women" program. This program will help you develop a DEEP and important part of yourself... that will help fix some of the issues we're talking about here.

You can get all the details about it here:

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Onward...

The best thing you can do in one of these situations is what you do BEFORE it ever happens... and it's a combination of things:

1) Realize that there's nothing to be insecure and jealous about, and that these things only lead to fear and loss.

2) Get your game in shape with women. Get yourself to the point where you can meet women in ANY situation. This way you always know DEEP DOWN that if any woman you're with ever decides to leave, you can turn around and start meeting women. This eliminates insecurity.

3) Mentally prepare. Take some time to imagine that you're in one of these situations, and notice the feelings you have. Go over it in your mind until you can think about it without having any negative emotions triggered.

And here's what to do when you're actually IN the situation...

1) EXPECT IT. If you start dating hot women, other men will hit on them, GUARANTEED. It's part of life, man. You must expect that it's going to happen and not be surprised when it does.

2) Learn how to have FUN with it. Most guys have no game at all...and it's kind of funny to watch and listen to them. I enjoy watching guys try to meet women, because they FAIL miserably in most cases. I like to wait until a guy is finished trying to pick up on the girl I'm with, and then get her to share the details so I can laugh.

3) Suggest that she date the guy. One of my favorite things to do is say, "Hey, you guys would make a cute couple...I think you should go for him." Of course, this is all said in a light, fun way.

4) If you suspect that the girl you're with is actually TRYING to make you jealous, talk to other women. If you actually think that a woman is deliberately trying to make you jealous, you must do some thinking as well. Some women enjoy making men compete over them and you probably don't want to be with one of these women. They're a pain. But if you think it's just a typical situation and the girl is trying to figure out if you "really" like her (because you'll get jealous if you do), then just turn around and start a conversation with a group of girls...and wait for her to come and find you.

The point I'm making is that you MUST get over that fear/insecurity/jealousy issue, and realize that there is nothing to be afraid of.

The only power that other guys will have with your date is the power that you GIVE them... so don't give them any power by acting like a WUSS. Keep your power for yourself. The main reason that other guys try to hit on your girl is because they don't have one themselves. Remember that.

...and if you're reading this right now and thinking to yourself, "You know, I need to learn this stuff about how to meet and attract women so I can get rid of that insecure and fearful feeling I have" then YOU'RE RIGHT!

I think that every man should invest in himself and learn this skill.

Unfortunately, most guys never take the time and invest in themselves... and they wind up going their whole lives WISHING that they could attract the kinds of women that they want.

Well, I used to be one of the guys who didn't know what he was doing with women. Now I'm one of the guys who can go out anytime, in any situation and attract women.

What's the difference?

I TOOK THE TIME TO LEARN.

And if you'd like to learn then I recommend you learn the things that I learned FIRST.

It's taken me a long time to figure all this stuff out, and it's also taken a lot of time, effort, and energy on my part to put it all down on paper and on video...so that any guy can learn from the things I've discovered.

I'd like to personally invite you to check out my materials. In a matter of hours you can learn things that it took me YEARS to figure out...all from the comfort and privacy of your own home.

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My eBook "Double Your Dating" is the FOUNDATION for everything I teach in these newsletters, and for everything I teach in my Advanced Series. It's a "must read" and you can download it online and be reading it in about 5 minutes...

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I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

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Are You Like This Guy? If so, You’ll Never Get Women!

Time for a little tough love... a little "wake up and smell the coffee"...

HARSH REALITY IS: There's only 1 thing that EVERY great woman wants to know the moment she meets you...

It's simply this:

Is there ANY chance that YOU might be her one-and- only "Mr. Right"?

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Hey Man, I received a lot of great emails this week, including one that makes me want to tell you right up front:

DON'T BE LIKE THIS GUY.

I'll tell you WHY in a sec. First, the letter...

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave,

I would of never expected myself to email you but sadly that day has come, where I need help oh yes.

I fell head over heals with this one girl. I went out with her, she'd always have fun, but still I wasn't always at my full potential cause she made me feel all tingly inside.

There was this one occasion where I listened to my friend.. he said "tell her you like her".. but I knew I shouldn't cause you always say never tell a girl you like them.

Well, you guessed it. I told her that.

And everything started going down hill after that.

After that happened I tried to forget about her, but she IMed me once saying she wanted to give me back something I had given her for her birthday, but she didn't want to give it to me personally. Still had fun teasing her, then nothing.

Sure people have told me to move on, and probably you'll say that. But I've tried, but I feel like she's the one. So Dave, is there something you can tell this grasshopper to try get her back or try to do to I don't know.. it's tough though.

Sincerely,

B.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

B., my man, all I can say is THIS IS VERY BAD.

You've done a VERY VERY VERY bad thing with this woman...

YOU TURNED INTO A COMPLETE AND TOTAL WUSSY on her!!!

So now here's your punishment:

Take out an entire blank notebook full of paper and write the following by hand:

"I will not act like a WUSSY. I will not act like a WUSSY. I will not act like a WUSSY."

When you've filled the notebook, you may stop.

See where this is going?

Once again, I find myself unable to say it loud enough or often enough:

WOMEN ARE *NEVER* ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES!!!!

As in, EVER.

And now you've gone and made the situation worse with each move you've made...probably to the point where there's not much you're going to be able to do about it.

The reason why she's blowing you off is because she no longer feels that CRITICAL emotion called ATTRACTION for you... and it's all because of your WUSSY ACTIONS.

And, as I always say... attraction isn't a choice.

When you act like a wuss around a woman, you kill any chance of it.

And you can't re-convince her to feel it by chasing her around and telling her how you "feel" about her.

That's why you need to stop acting like a needy, lovesick puppy RIGHT NOW if you want to salvage any chance of turning this thing around.

And, for all you OTHER guys out there in the same boat, let me make this clear:

If you act like our friend B. here, YOU WILL NEVER, EVER SUCCEED WITH WOMEN.

Okay, B, back to you.

Here's what I want you to do:

1) Start to date other women immediately, and making sure this girl knows about it.

2) Stop calling her all the time and spending any time with her.

3) NEVER again tell her how you "feel about her" (at least until BOTH of you are ready to take things to the next level... also known as a serious RELATIONSHIP).

4) Accept that, at this point, you will probably be just friends with her forever, so start acting that way.

If you do these things exactly as I've described, there's a small chance that you could turn this around.

For now, though, just get on with your life, and let this be a lesson to ALL of you reading this:

NEVER, EVER act like a WUSSY!

Don't tell a woman you "like" her too early on.

Don't call her too often.

Don't act clingy and needy.

JUST STOP IT.

Because, when you act like a Wuss, women AUTOMATICALLY lose their ATTRACTION for you -- and they can't even explain why it's happening.

So again: STOP IT.

And... if you need some HELP stopping it... well, that's what I'm here for.

I'm kind of legendary for doing this VERY thing... taking men who are submissive... insecure... nervous... even outright SCARED with women... and transforming them into CALM, COOL, CONFIDENT, DATING-SUCCESS MACHINES.

If this transformation sounds like something you'd be interested in, here's what to do:

Click this link...

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... then start following the SUCCESS-PROVEN ADVICE you'll find there to START CHANGING YOUR LIFE.

And do yourself a favor... do it SOONER rather than LATER.

***QUESTION***

Dave,

I got your book and I've read it twice. It's helped me to pinpoint areas where I need to improve and basically understand some of why women do what they do. However I have a situation.

Normally I'm a smart ass, I'm always making smart comments, and a general joker. The problem is, when I go to a club or a bar, with gorgeous HBs (Hot Babes), my mind goes blank.

It's almost like my brain locks and all i can do is look without anything to say. Needless to say it frustrates the hell outta me.

Any advice? Should I do some affirmations? How do I overcome this?

Signed,

Pissed off in DC

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Hey PO, I think your problem is really pretty simple.

You are experiencing something that I have been through a bazillion times.

In fact, I think that most guys have been through this cycle at some point in life.

One of the ideas that I teach is "Have one good default thing to do in each common situation".

In other words, it sounds to me like you haven't taken the time to work out a basic system for yourself that will allow you to meet any woman you come across in one of these situations.

So here's YOUR homework:

Take out a piece of paper and write down your one single favorite way to start a conversation with a woman.

Next, plan out EXACTLY how it should go in your mind.

Next, mentally rehearse this scenario over and over and over until you have it clearly in your mind.

Finally, go out tomorrow night and use this one introduction to meet 10 women.

The next day, sit down again for a few minutes and think about how it worked for you.

Think about ways you could improve your approach, and if you come up with some good innovations, go ahead and do the same process of mentally rehearsing the new ideas until you have them down.

One thing that really makes me laugh is that MOST GUYS SPEND MORE TIME REHEARSING THEIR VOICEMAIL MESSAGE THAN THEY DO REHEARSING SCENARIOS WITH WOMEN.

You need one good, solid, default thing to do in each common situation with women. So pick one, and refine it until your mind no longer goes blank.

Makes sense?

Cool.

Let me know how it works for you.

***QUESTION***

Dave,

First off, fantastic book! It's the Holy Grail of Manhood!

I have plenty of girls getting a rise out of my C- F attitude--it doesn't make sense at all but, like you say, to them it's magic.

For example, a few weeks ago I approached a really attractive girl (about an 8.5) at a stop walk downtown by busting on her about her platform heels she had on (made some reference to Studio 54), got her digits and told her we should have coffee sometime--she loved the idea.

When we met downtown for coffee, she said there was a particular shop she would like to go to, I firmly said 'No' and took her to another one. It was fantastic Dave!!! The day was beautiful and, yes, there was much more for dessert that day than my Biscotti :)

I've been reluctant to use the CF technique that I use on college girls on older women though as they probably don't play the same 'games' younger ladies do.

What is your advice? Younger girls are great and energetic, but those 35-year old's have something you only get with age... experience.

Thanks Dave!! Can't wait for the next book!!

D, Indianapolis

>>>MY COMMENTS:

D, you're totally off the rails on this one...

Truth is, mature, intelligent women LOVE a Cocky & Funny man.

In fact, I think you're going to find that sophisticated women are FAR MORE receptive to your new charm techniques than their younger counterparts...

But you're right... tread carefully, because older women ARE more experienced, have been through more games, and know what they want and how to get it.

If you'd like to learn more about how to "fine tune" and adjust the unstoppable power of Cocky & Funny to work on ANY woman... in ANY situation... here's where to do it:

http://www.DoubleYourDating.com/catalog/CockyComedy.html

In fact... there's one killer chapter where I go into the best way to think on the fly and "improvise" so that you come across as the funniest, most-confident guy in the room...

...no matter how old or young a woman is.

Go check it out, D.

***QUESTION***

Dear Dave,

First off, props to you on the book. The book is really about how to take control of your life and get what you want from it. That's awesome.

But I am stuck in a difficult situation. Due to the way I look, dress, and talk, girls assume that I am a player. I am very,very inexperienced however.

I have had a few times where I am about to seal the deal, and some girl will ask me, "How many girls have you been with ?" or "You are a player aren't you ?"

I have never sealed the deal and if I tell them this they don't believe me and some will just get mad and leave.

I am not sure what I should say in this situation. Please help me resolve this because armed with my determination and my improving skills.

V-Man

>>>MY COMMENTS:

V-man, you say that you've read my book...

...but did you miss page 92?

That's where I explain EXACTLY how to deal with this kind of situation ("How To Answer Any Question That You Don't Want To Answer").

But here, let me get creative for you on the fly... right here... right now.

So she asks: "Are you a player?"

I suggest you answer: "Why you asking? Are you trying to hide the fact that YOU are?"

(As you can see, I like to turn questions and accusations around and act like that they're trying to hide the fact that what they're asking about is something wrong with THEM.)

Or even say, "Yes, I play sports... what do you like?"

Point is... the key in situations like this is to NEVER give a woman a direct answer.

If you get all defensive and say "Oh, no no no...I'm not a Player at all..." most women won't believe you anyway - even if you're NOT a player.

So use your Cocky & Funny skills to come up with 5 INDIRECT, good answers like these, and then be ready use them on-demand.

Plus I'll say it again, because some of my loyal students seem to be really hurting out there right now when it comes to stuff like this...

If you need to polish up your "Cocky & Funny" skills for SUCCESS in ANY situation, you can do it here:

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***QUESTION***

Dave,

Your material is golden. The c+f routine and tips have done me wonders, but you know they work so ill get to the point.

I have been working on this girl for quite some time (she's a ten and worth it), I built the anticipation, got her to give me her phone number: she has asked me to hang out and repeatedly emailed me asking me what I'm up to.

However! I waited a little while to actually ask her to hang out (to make me look a little busy), but when I did call her and ask her to hang out she said sure, and said she would call me right back and never did!......and to make things worse, she wrote me an email the next day telling me she forgot to call me back!

she's so sorry, bla bla bla etc........I know the girl thinks about me and I know she wants to hang out with me, why would she do that?......calling her repeatedly would be a wussy move: am i right?.....I blew it of and gave her a c+f answer saying do u expect me to believe that, I'm starting to think I make you nervous.

I honestly don't think she forgot, is this a game?......This is the first 10 I've encountered since I've used your techniques so I need some advice. I wanna make this one count.

Thanks Dave PLEASE WRITE BACK!

JR New Jersey

>>>MY COMMENTS:

No worries, JR... you're doing great.

But here's something to remember:

Attractive women are approached ALL THE TIME by men. Some attractive women give out their number several times every night they go out.

This is reality.

Often, attractive women will actually give out their number JUST TO GET RID OF YOU. Some women get an "ego hit" of power and self esteem when a lot of guys are calling them.

But this leads to another problem... the problem of not having enough time to see all of these men (or never even intending to from the beginning).

This is why you're going to find that a lot of women "flake out" when you make plans with them.

I will say that the fact that she emailed you the next day to tell you that she forgot to call you is a positive sign. If she just wanted you to go away, she wouldn't have done this.

Now you need to bust her balls, make fun of her for flaking, and tell her that she's on strike one.

You might want to tell her "Well, since you flaked out on me once, now you have to take ME out. Here's my address and the directions to my house. Come pick me up."

You need to let her know that it's NOT OK for her to be flaky, and at the same time use her flaky behavior as material to tease her with.

Be persistent. You'll learn how to deal with this as you date more women.

***QUESTION***

David,

First off, let me say that your newsletters and E- Book are awesome. They satisfied nearly every inquiry I have had in regards to getting started with women.

Needless to say my success rate has gone through the roof! I will be ordering the whole series soon.

Which brings me to my question. Here goes:

How can I win back the affections of a girl I once felt a connection with and would love to get back on the right track?

Our mutual friends have not been of assistance so far. I try calling, but I feel as though if I called as much as I'd like to I'd look like a wuss.

I have had no problem with setting up mystery. I drive a hot car, play semi pro sports, and use these things carefully and only discuss when asked. Don't want to look too arrogant!

What else should I try, or how should I act to achieve the desired result?

I know getting another girl, or even flirting in front of her, while not impossible would kill any chances... While "Cocky and Funny" got my foot in the door, I don't know if it is right for the situation.

Your Thoughts...

E.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Your email is profound, E..

There are many lessons that can be learned from it, but I want to point out one MAJOR thing...

Above all, as I said above, trying to "get her back" is a losing game in most situations...

The act alone suggests that you're needy -- especially when you don't even know a woman very well, and you're trying to "get her back" after one or two dates.

That in mind, the best things you can do to get a woman back are to:

1) Act like you're totally OK with her decision to leave... like you COULDN'T CARE LESS...

2) Start dating other people right away and LET HER KNOW ABOUT IT.

This combination is often enough to make them come back to you... and it's all because JEALOUSY is a POWERFUL tool for creating new attraction.

In fact, It's FAR more powerful than most people suspect.

That's why, as I said above, the best thing you can do is get on with your life, and date other women. And in the future, don't allow a woman to control you AND the situation.

As a side note, I want to thank you for your email, and thank you for the compliments on my eBook.

Most guys think they don't need this material... but as I always say (and YOU should know by now), until you REALLY understand how women and dating "work", then almost nothing can help you.

And by the way...

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Of course... if you've ALREADY read my eBook and want to get a world-class education about how to create AMAZING, LONG-LASTING, LIFE-CHANGING **RELATIONSHIPS** with great women...

Then I recommend that you investigate my legendary home-study course dedicated to teaching ANY man how to become the "Mr. Right" that every great woman is looking for.

My SUCCESS-GUARANTEED "Become Mr. Right" Video Program delivers the most powerful set of tools available to start, build, and sustain a powerful long-term relationship with the woman of your dreams...

... and you can start WATCHING IT INSTANTLY ONLINE right now!

Just click here:

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*** ALERT ****

On that same page you'll also find a CRITICAL FREE VIDEO CLIP from the program, so be sure to watch it, even if you don't want to order the program.

Meantime, I'm digging through a TIDAL WAVE of fascinating, powerful emails from you guys, so I'll talk to you again VERY soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

PS: Guess what...

Even if a man has a PhD in English, he still can't TALK his way into triggering attraction in a woman... if his BODY LANGUAGE is sending her the wrong signals the whole time!

Learn the game-changing secrets of how to use your body to MAKE HER WANT YOU (WITHOUT EVER OPENING YOUR MOUTH) by clicking here:

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PPS: And also, by the way...

Want to know the FASTEST way to learn EVERYTHING about the "secret psychology" of women -- and how to use it to "unfairly" trigger ATTRACTION?

Then go watch my program called "Approaching Women And Starting Conversations"...

You can order it and start watching it INSTANTLY ONLINE within seconds... all at NO RISK to you... so get on it:

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Video Tip: What It Really Takes To Make Women Feel Attraction

URGENT ALERT: I just recorded a personal video message to answer the #1 QUESTION that's baffling almost EVERY GUY that I talk to:

"Why do all the great women I know always seem to go for some OTHER guy?"

Click the video below to GET THE "SHOCKING" ANSWER straight from yours truly:

If you can't see the video above, click here:

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Hey Man,

Feeling frustrated that all the great women you know are attracted to (or even CHASE after) other guys...

... while they won't even give YOU the time of day?

Sorry, dumb question...

Of course you're frustrated.

It's why you're hanging with ME right now.

But it's also why I'm sending you an URGENT VIDEO TIP today...

I want to make sure that you hear me LOUD AND CLEAR when I say this:

What it *really* takes to create feelings of attraction in a woman...

... is TOTALLY DIFFERENT than what YOU probably think it is!

I just can't say it enough:

Making a woman feel attraction does *NOT* depend on your looks.

It does *NOT* depend on how "sweet" and "nice" you are.

It does *NOT* depend how rich you are.

Making a woman "feel it" for you DOES depend on just ONE THING...

Click here, and I'll personally explain the illogical "magic secret" of making women start feeling it for YOU:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/special/videonl_whatitreallytakestomakewomenfeelattraction.asp

Once you get the message, I know it will be the beginning of some VERY big changes in YOUR love life...

Your friend,

David D.

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The Words I Swore I'd Never Say...

Did you know...the BEST WAY to spark INSTANT ATTRACTION in a beautiful woman doesn't rely on "tricks", "techniques" or "pick-up lines"?

The fact is, do just 1 simple thing, and you won't even have to THINK about making it happen...the hottest women on the planet will actually come to YOU.

Ready to discover the #1 secret of mind-blowing success with "Total 10" women? Then go here now:

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Hey Man,

We have to talk. I mean, like, right now.

I recently came to a realization... and it's going to make me say something that I'VE NEVER SAID BEFORE.

In fact, once upon a time, I swore that I'd NEVER say these particular words at all. Ever.

So I have to admit, I'm a little nervous about all this.

So be gentle with me.

Let's ease into it this way...

After talking to so many men who can't get dates with the women they REALLY want (or can't get dates with ANY women at all) the biggest obstacle these men face became obvious.

Time after time, the reason for their failure was EXACTLY the same:

You guessed it...

It's FEAR.

Most men get nervous at just the *thought* of talking to a beautiful woman.

They're afraid they won't know what to say. That they'll hem and haw, or get tongue-tied.

They're afraid they'll be humiliated.

They're afraid they'll be insulted, laughed at and mocked.

Usually, they have so much fear that they never even try to talk to an attractive woman, let alone get a date with one.

So... what DO these guys do instead?

They make excuses for themselves.

They tell themselves that they're not good- looking enough.

That they don't have a cool enough car or job.

That "Total 10" women are only interested in rich, powerful guys.

Listen... I know these excuses well. Because I've BEEN THERE.

I lied to myself the exact same way... for YEARS AND YEARS.

But I'm here to tell you right now...

These excuses for failure with beautiful women are total B.S.

They're a smoke screen.

They're NOT REAL, and it does NOT have to be this way.

How do I know?

Because, like I said, I've been there...

But I finally learned the real truth:

When it comes to approaching and getting dates with highly attractive women, my fear was way out of whack with THE REALITY.

The sad fact was...before I understood what it took to BECOME THE KIND OF MAN THAT THESE WOMEN WANT... my fear was the only REAL obstacle stopping me from getting dates with them!

But, after years of not getting women, I finally got tired of watching other guys go home with the kind of women that I went home alone and... shall we say... fantasized about.

And I finally decided to do something about it.

I decided that the BEST way to overcome my fears was to get all "Nike" on the situation, and "JUST DO IT."

So, like some kind of kamikaze pilot, I started approaching women. All the time. Everywhere.

Of course, always expecting them to turn into monsters before my eyes.

Expecting them to hiss and spit at me.

Expecting them to do everything they could to blow me up or shoot me down.

But guess what?

The more that I approached these women and tried to start conversations, the more I realized something.

Yes, in the beginning, I didn't get any dates (more on the reasons for that in a moment). But here's the thing:

The smoke finally cleared, and I finally could see THE REAL TRUTH about all this. And that was...

There was actually NOTHING TO FEAR about approaching beautiful women.

Nothing at all.

I found that, if you approach these women in a positive, respectful way, they will almost ALWAYS respond positively to you in return.

Like I said, you may not get an actual date right off the bat (at least, not until you learn EXACTLY what you need to do to make it happen...) but these women definitely won't turn into "monsters".

They won't try to humiliate you.

They won't try make you feel bad.

In fact, most of the time if they're not interested, they'll go out of their way NOT to blow you up or shoot you down.

They'll actually bend over backwards NOT to hurt your feelings.

They'll say something like, "That's so nice of you, but I have a boyfriend" or something similar.

They'll probably even smile at you.

Awesome, right?

But why am I telling you this?

I'm telling you because, right now, I can almost guarantee it...

The #1 thing preventing you from getting amazing women...and possibly even keeping you from CHANGING YOUR WHOLE LIFE because of it... is your FEAR.

That's why I need you to understand right now, before you waste any more time being "afraid", that ELIMINATING YOUR FEAR IS EASIER THAN YOU EVER IMAGINED...

...once you have the tools in your "mental arsenal" to do it.

That in mind (and before I get to those WORDS I SWORE I'D NEVER SAY) here are 3 quick tips to help you overcome your fear of being rejected by beautiful women.

These are quick, easy, and you can try them out tonight.

And after you do, I promise...you'll begin to see a new world of possibilities.

Here we go...

#1) START BY JUST WATCHING

The first thing I want you to do is go out to a bar or club. Alone. Find a seat at the bar where things are busy.

In fact, make sure you visit a place that is REALLY busy, so you can see a lot of people interacting.

And just WATCH other men.

Observe exactly how, when, and where they approach the most beautiful women in the room.

And pay close attention.

You'll begin to pick out the guys who approach a lot of women, asking them to dance, buying them drinks, etc.

Watch what happens. Note what works and what doesn't, right there in front of your own eyes.

Soon enough, you'll be able to see for yourself that most of the time, even if the woman isn't interested, nothing bad happens.

And seeing the reality of these interactions will start to reprogram your mind IMMEDIATELY.

You'll realize that women don't usually "reject" a guy.

Even in the most intense situations, even after they're "worn out" by being approached all night long...most women are kind, gentle, and work hard to let a guy down VERY easy.

#2) PRACTICE WITH A "SURE THING"

Next, practice approaching women who are actually PAID to talk to you.

Let me repeat and be clear...These are women who are paid to TALK to you. Just TALK.

Got it?

Good.

So who are these magical women whose job it is to talk to you? And more importantly... where can you find them?

Well, you'll find them everywhere. Especially in one my favorite places...

The mall.

Stores in malls mostly hire attractive young saleswomen.

Walk into any store and you'll find one fast.

I want you to start a conversation with one of these women.

Ask about the ties or cologne or whatever. Then take advantage of that free "face time" with a beautiful, friendly woman.

Practice making eye contact with her.

Come up with a few jokes.

Ask her for samples and ask her to give you her opinion.

The more you do all of this, I guarantee it...

Once you get used to starting conversations with women you don't know, and staying comfortable while you're talking to them, you've already won half the battle.

#3) HAVE A PLAN

It amazes me how many guys don't plan ahead.

It's the best investment in success, yet almost no one does it.

As the old saying goes... "Fail to plan, and you plan to fail".

But most guys have no idea what they're going to say or do in advance, so they get even more nervous and afraid as they approach a woman.

And then it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

After all, fear is NOT KNOWING what's going to happen in a given situation. So...mentally rehearse what you will do and say to handle every possible situation when you approach a woman.

When you plan out how to respond EXACTLY RIGHT to a woman no matter what she says or does, you'll magically start to RELAX.

You'll start to be more "in the moment" instead of constantly searching for words and struggling to come up with the next thing to say.

You'll come across as cool and confident.

And once you can do THAT, you can spark attraction in any high-quality woman you want... NATURALLY...without even having to THINK about it.

And then these women will actually start coming after YOU.

To get the specific details about what you need to say and do to make it happen, go here now:

http://www.DoubleYourDating.com/catalog/BecomeMrRight.html

In the meantime, let's look at the big picture...

Overcoming your fear is just the first step toward getting the kind of women you've always dreamed about.

After that... it's REALLY game on.

Next: you must learn how to be DIFFERENT than the 99.99% of guys that beautiful women "reject" immediately.

In other words...YOU MUST BECOME THE KIND OF MAN THAT THESE WOMEN REALLY **WANT**

Duh. Makes sense, right?

Well buckle in, because it's leading to those WORDS THAT I SWORE I'D NEVER SAY...

They're words inspired by the fact that high- quality women are looking for men to behave in a very particular way...and these women will INSTANTLY REJECT a man right off the bat if he doesn't act that way.

I know...sounds incredibly unfair, right?

You've finally overcome your fear...but these women are immediately classifying you as a "reject" anyway...without giving you a chance to prove otherwise!

But here's the truth about what they're REALLY doing...

These woman are putting you to "THE TEST."

They're instinctively evaluating you.

But for what?

Well, here's the news:

It's NOT to see if you're rich or handsome enough.

What these woman are REALLY looking for -- whether they're conscious of it or not -- is the possibility that you're (drum roll please...)

"RELATIONSHIP MATERIAL"

I know.

What a buzz-kill, right?

It couldn't be less fair... or further away from the way that us guys think.

But lucky for you, I'm here to translate.

Here's what it all means...

Either consciously or subconsciously, attractive women test every man who approaches them to see if there's any chance at all he's "Mr. Right"... the kind of man she can see herself with for the long term.

And the even-more-brutal fact is: a beautiful woman will reject 99.99% of the men who approach her because they instantly act in a way that proves they're NOT "the one."

They'll act like either JERKS or WUSSIES.

They'll act too rude, or too nice.

They'll act "needy."

They'll ooze insecurity and weakness.

They'll seem out of control, over the top, or under confident.

In other words, they'll act like the TOTAL OPPOSITE of what an attractive woman REALLY wants.

And like I said...a beautiful woman will use this "test" every time, even if she really has no intention of looking for "relationship".

But here's how this is GREAT news for you...

If you can be that one guy in a thousand who knows how to pass her tests and comes across as "Mr. Right"...

...you'll suddenly seem to have the "magical powers" you need to GET ANY WOMAN YOU WANT.

You'll start making the most amazing women on the planet start to feel an instant, irresistible attraction to you -- no matter how "hot" or "unattainable" they used to seem.

You'll suddenly have the confidence you need to stop making embarrassing mistakes on approach -- and start having your pick of the crop.

You'll suddenly have the air of a "natural" -- the kind of man who attracts top-notch women without having to use any pick-up lines or techniques at all!

In fact, all of this is what reminded me of something recently...

I was asked a great question in one of my advanced seminars that went to the heart of what we're talking about.

It went something like this:

"Dave, once I know how to spark attraction and get dates with beautiful women, how do I keep them coming back for more?"

Like I said, it was a great question.

And I'll tell you what...because I'm in such a daring mood, I'm going to take things even a step further.

Get ready, because here it comes...

As I've said, once you know how to become "Mr. Right", you can use that knowledge to attract and get dates with any woman you want.

Now hold on to something...

This is where I'm going to say words I once swore that I'd NEVER, EVER say...

Here goes...

You can use that same knowledge to CREATE AN AMAZING EXCITING, LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP WITH A "TOTAL-10" WOMAN!

Whoa, steady...hope you didn't spill your Red Bull.

I know... If you've been learning from me for awhile, you know I swore I would NEVER, EVER talk about relationships.

So what's changed?

This did...

I've heard so many men who've mastered my dating techniques (and arrived at a certain point in life) say that they now want MORE.

They want to take things to the "next level" in their lives.

They want to create the foundation for a long, exciting, fulfilling relationship with their "perfect woman"...

...and they challenged me to help them do it.

Well you know me...I can't walk away from a challenge.

And the really fascinating thing to me about all this is, when it comes to turning dates with great women into amazing long-term relationships...

THE WHOLE GAME CHANGES.

In fact, if you try to use my techniques for meeting women and getting dates to keep a "Total 10" woman around, it'll totally backfire.

And I mean BADLY.

The reason is: it takes something TOTALLY DIFFERENT to keep a woman "addicted" to you than it does to get her attention in the first place.

And that "something" is revealed in the descriptions a woman uses for the man she wants to be with for the long-term.

As I told you earlier, one of those descriptions is "Relationship Material."

Another description is "The One."

Another is "Mr. Right."

See the pattern here?

If you want to attract and KEEP the kind of spectacular woman you've always dreamed about... then you MUST become the kind of "Mr. Right" that this kind of woman is looking for.

And the truth is -- 99.99% of guys have no clue how to do it.

But when YOU'RE ready, I can help you do it...

...and it's easier than you ever imagined.

In fact, I've brought the secrets together in my acclaimed "Become Mr. Right" Video Program, so I suggest that you check it out ASAP.

It's really the ultimate training for men who want to stop fantasizing about a mind-blowing love life and finally start living one, whether that means experiencing multiple "Total 10's" at the same time...

...or finding long-term happiness with that one perfect girl.

There I go...I said it again. Think I need to go lay down...

But seriously, here's why I couldn't be more excited right now...

This in-depth, video training program will teach you EVERYTHING you need to know make your hottest dreams come true.

It includes the most powerful set of tools available ANYWHERE for starting, building, and sustaining a powerful relationship with a "Total 10" woman, including:

--The #1 way to get a "Total 10" hooked on you in the first place (hint: if you don't do this, forget having any chance with her.)

--How to get beautiful women without using any "techniques" at all (or even having to think about it)!

--How to create red-hot intimacy with a "Total 10" woman (while avoiding every obstacle that stops other guys from succeeding with her).

--The "secret checklist" that beautiful women use to decide if you're a "reject" or "Mr. Right" (I love this one -- it's like having the answers before you take a test).

--How to avoid the #1 MISTAKE that guys make to FAIL EVEN WORSE with a woman than before they started trying! (If you've never gotten results in your life, it's probably because you are making THIS hard to spot but easy to fix mistake)

And much, much more.

Let's face it: if you haven't figured out how to get and KEEP an attractive woman by now... odds are that you're NEVER going to figure it out on your own.

But the thing is: the clock's ticking... and I want YOU to start making your dreams come true.

And I mean RIGHT NOW.

That's why I'm also making my "Become Mr. Right" Program available to you 100% RISK-FREE. You have absolutely nothing to lose...but a WHOLE NEW LIFE to gain... so click here to get started:

http://www.DoubleYourDating.com/catalog/BecomeMrRight.html

And when you start getting the women of your dreams, feel free to thank me all you want.

It's what I live for.

Talk again soon...

Your friend,

David D.

PS - If you haven't had a "Total 10" woman yet, needless to say, you're missing out and I feel SORRY for you.

But the thing is, there are probably just a few common "mental barriers" standing between you and making your dreams come true.

But the GREAT NEWS is: It's SIMPLE to knock down these barriers... once you know what they are.

(Hint: one of them is so obvious -- and easy to fix -- that you won't believe you've let it stop you for this long.)

Find out the SHOCKING TRUTH about what's standing between you and mind-blowing SUCCESS with super-hot women. Click here NOW:

http://www.DoubleYourDating.com/catalog/BecomeMrRight.html

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