How To Arrange Your Life For Dating Success

There's a secret "Law" for dating success that 99% of men have NO CLUE exists... yet it delivers 100% OF THE RESULTS to the few who actually know about it!

But here's the good news for YOU today:

ANY MAN can put this "Secret Law" to work for his success...once he knows about it, that is.

So discover it right here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/77Laws.html

Hey Man,

Funny thing...I recently got an email from one of you guys asking me the best way to meet "lots and lots" of women.

And guess what:

This email immediately made me LAUGH.

But, unfortunately, not in a "funny ha-ha" way.

It was more like... "Damn, here's another poor guy who desperately needs a clue."

Hate it when that happens.

And tragically, this question sums up something that's going on WAY TOO MUCH out there...

99% of you guys are wasting WAY TOO MUCH precious time and money trying to meet "lots and lots" of women -- yet continuing to FAIL MISERABLY despite the cost, hassle, and hard work you put into it.

I mean... guys will basically try ANYTHING to meet more women, right?

They relentlessly email, text, or call women who don't "feel it" for them (and never will).

They blow their paychecks on clothes and colognes they think actually work to "seduce" women.

They get haircuts that look straight out of the "The Breakfast Club" thinking it will get a woman's attention.

They "invest" in gym memberships and home equipment that they'll never use.

And all of this gets them where, exactly?

Let me fill you in...

In the end, it gets them absolutely NOWHERE.

And like I said, this would all be pretty funny...

...if it weren't such a tragic WASTE of TIME AND MONEY.

That's why RIGHT NOW is the PERFECT time to share another one of my "Laws" for success with women and dating with you...one about what it REALLY takes to lay the groundwork for not just meeting "lots and lots" of women...

...but for meeting the *RIGHT* women.

This one's actually my "Law #55", and it goes like this:

YOU MUST *ARRANGE* YOUR LIFE TO GET GREAT RESULTS MEETING WOMEN...

...OR *RE-ARRANGE* IT IF WHAT YOU'VE ALREADY TRIED ISN'T WORKING.

In other words...

Instead of doing all that inconvenient, expensive stuff that NEVER WORKS to bring the right women into your life, try making the few small adjustments that won't cost a thing...

...but that make a HUGE difference when it comes to meeting women.

The key to the whole concept is this:

By rearranging your life in small ways...ways that NATURALLY lead to meeting interesting, available women... you're VASTLY more likely to CONNECT with a GOOD MATCH for you.

And get this:

Do it right (and stick to it), and it'll happen for you without even having to try!

But, of course...what will MOST of you do instead?

You'll keep going places you can't stand being (and that you can't wait to leave) in the hopes of "randomly" coming across a great woman.

You'll keep "chasing" women who aren't interested or available.

You'll keep sifting through personal ads and pinging women who will NEVER respond to you.

Worst of all...

You'll get so damned DISCOURAGED and DEPRESSED by how little success comes from all this, that you'll FINALLY GIVE UP.

Not good.

And definitely NOT what I'm all about.

So listen up...

Even if you could snap your fingers and have a new woman magically show up at your door every ten minutes, guess what:

You'd quickly get tired of it.

Why?

Because having a parade of "random" women flow through your life is NOT the right way to meet the ones you can really "connect" with.

By the same token, constantly aiming for that one-in-a-million "ideal girl" is also a waste of time and money.

She just doesn't exist.

So let's do the math...

If you make a few small "tweaks" to your life that MAXIMIZE the number of "qualified women" who come through it, you're bound to MEET THE RIGHT ONES.

Pretty basic, but let's run through it:

Visualize the difference it would make in YOUR life (and your outlook about dating) if you could meet just ONE *QUALITY* WOMAN a week from now on.

And by "Quality", I'm talking about the kind of woman who's not only attractive, but that you can also CONNECT with...having great conversations about things you have in common...enjoying similar activities...going the same places. Etc.

Make sense?

If not, there's a lot more about the "theory" behind this Law (and my 76 OTHER "Laws" of success with women and dating) right here...

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/77Laws.html

But right now let's cut to the chase on Law #55:

I'm basically saying that rearranging your life just a little will cause the women who are your TRUE PROSPECTS to start flowing through it.

Here's a small homework assignment to get you started (don't worry, it's EASY)...

It involves 3 simple steps:

STEP 1:

I want you to dash off a quick list of the top characteristics you want in the women you meet in life.

Now make them REASONABLE...unless you're George Clooney, there's no way you can rearrange your life so that a supermodel breezes through every 20 minutes.

Now jot down those qualities...

We'll take "Attractive" as a given.

Maybe you'd also like her to be caring... intelligent...outgoing and generous...sensitive ...whatever.

Got them down?

Good. Now on to...

STEP 2:

Once you have these characteristics in hand, I want you to start thinking about your life as it is RIGHT NOW.

Really think about it.

In DETAIL.

In other words, start thinking about all the travel, tasks, errands, and recreation that are part of your day-to-day experience.

This could be the small stuff you do on a regular basis, like grocery shopping or walking Fido at the dog park.

It could be grabbing a kick-ass mocha at the corner cafe every morning, or jogging, or going to the gym.

Again...WHATEVER.

Make a list of these things.

Then make that list MUCH LONGER by adding places and activities you've always wanted to ADD to your life.

These are things you've always wanted to do but have been putting off, like learning how to skydive or snowboard.

Maybe it's stuff you used to do and would like to start doing again, like taking classes or playing a sport.

Then, once you have your full list of "life activities" together, it's time to move on to:

STEP 3:

I now want you to "cross-reference" the 2 lists you just made.

Basically, see where they OVERLAP...where the places that you go in life (or would LIKE to start going) cross paths with the kind of women you'd like to meet.

By doing this, you'll immediately see how your life needs to **CHANGE** if you want to start meeting the kinds of women you'd like to connect with.

You just need to TAKE ACTION...and MAKE IT HAPPEN.

Meaning it's up to you to actually DO something...to start rearranging your life and your routine in ways that will AUTOMATICALLY start CHANGING THINGS for you.

Because, truth is, even making just a small "tweak" can have a HUGE impact on your love life.

And, if you're willing to go even further, the impact can then be even BIGGER... it's up to YOU how far you want to go to start living your dreams.

But no matter what you do, one fact remains:

If you're reading this now, what you're doing at the moment JUST ISN'T WORKING.

Am I right?

More on why that is (and what to do about it) right here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/77Laws.html

But here's the bottom line:

When it comes to my famous Law #55 for success with women and dating, it's all about INCREASING the amount of time you spend in the "right" places...with the the women who are "right" for YOU.

Once you do, I guarantee it...you'll start feeling more IN-CONTROL, COMFORTABLE, and CONFIDENT around these women.

And then, conveniently enough, these very same feelings of new personal power and confidence will begin to TRIGGER ATTRACTION in those women you WANT!

And you know what?

Then you're IN.

Nice!

Now, if Law #55 makes sense to you, stay tuned...as I said above, there are actually 77 LAWS in all!

Now, some of them will be coming straight to you right here over the next few months.

But -- for those of you who can't wait -- I've also got that covered...

A little while back, I recorded a program where I personally delivered ALL 77 of my famous "LAWS OF SUCCESS WITH WOMEN AND DATING" to a live a audience...

And here's what happened:

The response was HUGE!

I instantly started hearing how these 77 simple "Laws" were making a SEISMIC DIFFERENCE in guys' love lives... from turbo charging their CONFIDENCE to just plain GETTING THEM MORE DATES THAN THEY COULD HANDLE.

I can't tell you how proud I was of these results...and if they sound good to YOU, too, here are more examples of what I shared that day:

--How to automatically become "The Man," oozing the confidence that make women know you're their ultimate "catch" within seconds of meeting you.

--My "MAGIC SECRET" for getting women to do all the work... and start chasing YOU! (NOTE: after the guys learned this one, some were SHOCKED how much time they'd wasted NOT getting women.)

--How to make a woman BEG for more... whether it's conversation...or IN BED! (Honestly, this was worth the price of admission alone). Then I went on to share 74 more of my "Laws Of Dating Success"...and it basically rocked the house.

Like I said, luckly we recorded the whole thing!

If you'd like to have a look at it, click here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/77Laws.html

I hope you will.

Until then...

Your friend,

David D.

URGENT PS: Almost forgot to mention... There are basically 4 things that guys do that "tell" a woman INSTANTLY that he's not right for her.

If you've ever had a woman "blow you off" or suddenly lose interest in you... it's probably because you accidentally did one of these 4 things!

Wondering what they are?

You *should* be.

Click here to find out:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/77Laws.html

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How To Meet Women For Free

Why most men fail online - and what you can do to avoid these mistakes - go here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/MeetingWomenOnline.html

In a moment, I'm going to share how you can meet as many women as you want, any time you want, for FREE...

And best of all, you don't have to go out to do it.

But first, a reality check:

You have to be living in a cave not to see that we live in BIZARRE and UNSTABLE economic times.

I'll save you the depressing statistics from Wall Street, the mortgage crisis, etc.

Just turn on your TV if you want the latest.

During times like these, meeting women can get downright EXPENSIVE.

Here's a typical situation:

You want to meet women, so you call up some buddies and you all go out to a club.

You pay more money than you should just to get IN the place.

Then you pay ridiculously high prices for drinks (catalog/I'm talking $10 cocktails here... brutal...)

Cover charges, drinks... it all adds up FAST.

And when the club shuts down at the end of the night, if you don't have at least a few numbers and dates lined up, then all that money... and all that TIME... is a complete WASTE.

Not good.

Luckily, there's a better way - and it's getting even better by the SECOND...

I recently read an article that talked about the fact that during these crazy economic times, there's a certain type of business that is BOOMING...

If you guess online dating sites, nice job...

Apparently, membership is up more than 16% at these sites.

More people than ever are going online to meet up.

(catalog/Looks like those horrific cover charges and over-priced drinks are forcing people to stay home... and sit in front of their computers.)

Hmmm... let's see...

More people online = more WOMEN online.

That's right.

If there's ever been a time to get online to meet women, that time is NOW.

Online dating sites are FLOODED with women who are in the same economic mess we all are in - they don't want to waste money going out to meet men - especially when they get hit on by losers night after night.

Now, I wish I could say all you have to do is go online, send a few emails, and you'll have attractive and intelligent women respond to you.

Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way.

The fact is, most guys who go online work real hard... write a ton of emails to women... and get NO RESULTS.

That's how I was when I first started.

But then I made friends with a guy who had a "system" he used to meet women online, whenever he wanted.

He showed me how he did it - and showed me pictures of the beautiful women he had met online - and I was HOOKED.

I took what he shared, worked with it for several months, and came up with my own hybrid system for meeting as many women online as I wanted to, AT WILL.

A lot of people don't know this, but as of this writing, my last 2 serious girlfriends I met online.

I've met and dated models, actresses, dancers, artists, intellectual women... and everything in between... all ONLINE.

Stop banging your head against the wall - and stop punching a hole in your wallet - by going out in search of women at the typical places (catalog/places that are DESIGNED to separate you from your money).

Instead, save your cash, stay home, and learn how to meet as many women as you like from the comfort of your home computer.

And get this -

Many sites have trials and offers where you can see what kind of women are on a site BEFORE you bust out your credit card.

Some even let you use the site free for 7 days - or even a month...

That's right... FREE.

I want you to take a minute and read how I developed the most COMPREHENSIVE program for learning how to be dangerously successful with meeting women online, right here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/MeetingWomenOnline.html

You'll also see actual video clips of a special live program I did in front of dozens of guys, teaching them how to meet women consistently from the comfort of your own home.

On the following page I'll teach you the 4 keys to "automating" the process of online dating... they are the keys to you meeting more women every single month than most men meet all year.

Go here now:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/MeetingWomenOnline.html

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your friend,

David D.

PS: Once you learn these few closely-guarded secrets, you'll feel confident meeting women online - after all, it's the only rejection-free environment where women will approach YOU - but only if you know the right way to do it. Learn more here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/MeetingWomenOnline.html

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Video Tip: Try This When A Woman (or Anyone Else) Treats You Badly

So. A woman treats you badly... a coworker gets under your skin... a buddy makes you mad.

Tell me: what do YOU usually do about it?

Do you usually just "take it"... getting "beat up" and coming away feeling like a loser?

If so, guess what: there's a reason you act like this... like a "doormat"... and it usually has something to do with how you feel about yourself on the INSIDE.

This why I want you to know NOW that there are things you can do -- NOW -- to START WINNING in both LIFE and LOVE.

See one powerful example in TODAY'S VIDEO TIP. Click "play" to WATCH IT NOW:

If you can't see the video above, just click here.

Hey Man,

I recently recorded a standing-room-only live seminar for men with painful, crippling "Inner Game" issues.

In other words: it was for men who basically feel HELPLESS (and HOPELESS) and when it comes confronting and handling LIFE'S BIG ISSUES.

Issues like success with women, naturally.

But also, issues like how to TAKE CONTROL in life in GENERAL... in EVERY area... from dealing with friends and family to making career choices.

It was an AMAZING day with mind-blowing breakthroughs all around, and I couldn't be more proud.

But here's the part I want to share with you...

I brought in a VERY SPECIAL GUEST for the live seminar that day.

His name is Dr. Paul, and in case you've been living under a rock somewhere, he's the definition of the words "INNER GAME EXPERT."

He's a world-class psychiatrist who's been profiled on CNN... USA Today... The Wall Street Journal... you name it. Basically the ultimate authority when it comes to mastering your "inner game."

Dr. Paul and I got to talking that day about situations where guys find themselves being mistreated by another person.

It could be a woman they just approached... a boss... a coworker... a buddy or family member.

Again... whatever.

In every case, every man in the room felt like YES... they'd been HURT, USED, or TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF in life... and that they desperately wanted to learn how to START COMING OUT ON TOP in these situations.

That's when Dr. Paul shared his famous, SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN way to take back CONTROL and "win every time" when someone mistreats you.

I mean, this one's literally THE BOMB.

It's guaranteed to work on ANYONE -- in ANY scenario -- to make you feel CONFIDENT, IN- CONTROL, and like a WINNER when someone treats you badly.

You've got to hear what Dr. Paul has to say... it's an EXTREMELY powerful, SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN way for guys with "inner game" issues to start turning things around!

Check it out here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/l/special/videonl_trythiswhentreatedbadly.html

Your friend,

David D.

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Your Questions, My Approaching Women Quiz, And More!

How good are YOU at handling the "BIG MOMENT?"

In other words: when it comes time to "make your move" with a woman, do you SAY and DO everything just right to take things to the next level?

Or... do you find yourself totally "blowing it" by doing something wrong -- or worse, by doing NOTHING AT ALL?

The difference between these drastically different outcomes is just a few SIMPLE SKILLS... skills that *ANY* man can LEARN -- to guarantee success when it comes time to "make his move."

Learn how to get these skills for yourself, quickly and easily, right here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/powersexuality.html

Hey Man,

Today's reader mailbag is about all the ways guys BLOW IT when approaching women...

... and how *you* can do it RIGHT to get killer results instead.

So check out today's reader emails and my responses below (including a powerful "Approaching Women" quiz that EVERY "shy" guy should take right NOW).

Let's dive in:

*** EMAIL FROM A READER ***

Hello David,

I like a girl (20 yrs old) and I am 24. We are all college students.

Recently, she didn't reply to me anymore nor is she seeming online anymore after approaching her. Today, I use a invisibility detector to check if she is online (but invisible).

Then I saw that she is invisible, I jump on and say Hi, I know you are invisible, have a good night.

Then she replied me that "If you know that I am invisible, you should know that I need private time. I try to keep the friendship with you but..."

I wonder what should I do here.

TT

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Listen to me close on this one, TT:

Any time that a woman "blows you off" (also known as doing not-so-subtle things like "hiding" from you online) then I can guarantee you 2 things:

1) It's not some kind of computer glitch -- you said or did something to basically make her want nothing to do with you.

And:

2) At this point, there's almost nothing you can do to fix the situation.

You see, once you come across as "Wuss" or a "loser" when first meeting a woman, it's almost impossible to change her mind.

And again:

It's ALWAYS something that YOU said or did that's caused it to happen!

That in mind, here's what I want you to do...

Stop wondering if there's anything you can do to win her back.

And PLEASE... stop thinking about "confessing that you like her" (the NUCLEAR BOMB of Wussdom).

Instead, take this opportunity to take a look at YOURSELF... why it is you're acting in ways that make a woman block you online... and start figuring out how you can STOP getting these kinds of reactions.

I'll get you started, TT:

I want you and every guy reading this to take my quick "Approaching Women" quiz, and try to be brutally honest with your answers.

Okay, here we go:

QUESTION #1: When you first approach a woman, what should both your words and body language be communicating to her?

a) That you couldn't care less how she feels about you, or how things turn out.

b) That you're very interested in her, and that you'd love to have a long conversation.

c) That you're a bit nervous about approaching her, but it's okay. It's "cute" and "charming."

QUESTION #2: What should you be thinking about as you start talking to a woman that you just met?

a) Getting her number and getting out fast.

b) Keeping a fascinating conversation going with her to make her like you.

c) How to control all that stuttering and stammering you're doing.

QUESTION #3: During a first conversation with a woman, do you:

a) Bust on her and make teasing jokes.

b) Behave extremely politely and treat her with total respect, just like your mom taught you.

c) Offer to buy her some drinks and maybe even dinner.

QUESTION #4: After a few minutes of conversation with a woman, do you:

a) Leave suddenly, telling her that there's somewhere else you need to be.

b) Do everything you can to "lock down" that first date.

c) Linger around her for as long as possible to make sure that you stay "on her radar"

Okay, that's it, TT. Let's see how you and everyone else out there did...

If you answered anything but (A) to every question above, we need to talk.

You see, most guys are just plain clueless about what they're really "communicating" to a woman when they first approach her...

... as well as what they're NOT communicating.

Most guys are basically running around like headless chickens, doing things that they're not even aware of to KILL their chances of success.

Or -- if they are aware of what they're doing -- they're not aware of what it makes a woman THINK about them.

Worst of all:

Because most guys feel so "clueless" and "helpless," they default to saying and doing whatever they *think* will please a woman... mentally anticipating what they think she's going to do and trying to "kiss up" to her.

In fact, if most of us guys could get a realistic look at how much we're trying to act in a way that pleases women, we'd slap ourselves.

So here's what I want you to take away from this quiz, TT...

When you first start talking to a woman, your inner attitude, words, AND actions are critical.

Every thought, idea, and preconceived notion you bring with you as you approach a woman changes your body language.

Every word you say reflects those thoughts.

That's why, if you don't feel confident on the INSIDE... knowing how to control your body language... knowing exactly what to say to create attraction... in other words, how to communicate that you're an in-demand, in-control man (even if you're NOT)...

... then you'll probably be mentally discounted (also known as REJECTED) by her within seconds.

Of course, to project confident inner beliefs and attitudes that ARE attractive to women, you can't just "fake" them.

Shocking fact is, I used to try all kinds of self- help "tricks" and "techniques" to make this happen when I first met a great woman.

But when it came down to it, no matter how well these "techniques" claimed to work, women always seemed to lose interest in me as soon as I approached.

And it was all because I just didn't get it:

As I said, there's no way to "fake" this stuff!

So what was the solution?

It involved acquiring the ability to do 2 things like they were second-nature to me:

1) FEELING confident and in-control on the INSIDE whenever I approached a new woman.

2) BEHAVING accordingly, as if I COULDN'T CARE LESS how it turned out.

Once I learned how to do just these 2 things, EVERYTHING CHANGED for me.

I was suddenly communicating very quickly to the women I wanted that I wasn't just another Wussy or desperate loser who just wanted to get in her pants.

And then women began to REACT to my approaches in whole new ways... MIND-BLOWING ways.

Details about how ANY man can learn to do it, too (in 5 easy steps!) right here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/deepinnergame.html

And by the way, TT -- bear in mind that you may STILL get the occasional "blow off" from a woman. You just have to just move on and learn not to take it personally.

Even if she's hiding from you online.

Just get on with working on your "Inner Game"... then getting out and meeting a ton of wonderful NEW women out there...

... women who are desperately hoping to meet a CONFIDENT, IN-CONTROL guy...

... and watch what happens!

*** READER QUESTION ***

Hi Dave,

I met a girl while she was bartending at the place where I used to bartend. I flirted with her for a couple of her shifts when I was there with my buddies. I asked for her number and got it.

I found out that she has a boyfriend of about 8 months. I find myself thinking of her as my girlfriend, but still knowing that she is still going home to him at night.

Everything about this situation tells me to stay away, but I cant help to think that I would be missing out until I follow it through till the end.

Do I put an ultimatum on the table?

J.S. Milwaukee

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well J.S., there are two ways to look at this:

One way is, you need to use a little common sense and understand an important fact:

SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND.

And , although I admire your confidence that you have a shot at getting her if you try, I really don't recommend it.

It's because, first off... did I mention... SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!!!

Therefore, even if she responds to your "ultimatum" by deciding to drop the other guy, things could get messy for you if this guy's in the vicinity, you know what I mean?

And who needs that?

Second: the fact that she's so willing to flirt with you while she's still with him... even possibly drop him for you... should have you thinking.

Maybe she'd be willing to do the same to you down the road.

So... unless you're just looking for some dates and some dangerous fun... your time and effort would be MUCH better spent on meeting an AVAILABLE, high-quality woman at this point.

You'll be glad you did.

*** READER QUESTION ***

I have a really good friend of mine who I asked out before I began reading your material and she rejected me. I didn't take it personal... but ever since then our friendship has grown stronger, and now its to a point where I like her and she clearly is attracted to me.

I have used the C&F routine on her every time we hang out... she always wants to hangout with me.

She is very flirtatious when she is with me. I don't know if I should move on, or go against your teachings and make a move.

GS

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Hey GS,

Want to know how you can "make a move" at this point and NOT go against my teachings?

Just go ahead and do it!

That's right -- by getting off that hesitating, uncertain, insecure Wussy-fence that you're sitting on... and just TAKING ACTION to see where you stand with this woman... you'll NEVER have to worry about going against my teachings.

In fact, you'll be following my teachings to a T.

Now, of course, if she rejects you again, and instead of finally moving on you hang around... constantly calling her... running errands for her...

... THEN you'll be going against my teachings (and everything that it means to be a REAL MAN) big time.

Then I'm going to have to come over and slap you.

But, until then, here's how I suggest that you proceed with this woman:

When the time feels right, don't "ask" before you make a move.

There's nothing wussier (and more likely to shut down any feelings of attraction a woman may be starting to feel for you) than "asking" for permission.

So just go for it, preferably using my "Kiss Test".

You can learn more about that one here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/ebook.html

But there's also a deeper issue here that we need to talk about.

Here's the thing...

I often say that one of the most powerful ways to amp up attraction before "making your move" with any woman is to leave her wanting more.

So, if when you're getting "mixed" signals from a woman like this, I recommend that you immediately make yourself a bit SCARCE in her life.

This leaves her intrigued and wondering what's up... the best way to ramp-up ATTRACTION.

In the meantime, go out and get another woman's number and email. And then another. And another.

See what's going on here?

You're establishing a whole other mindset.

You're becoming the one who's in control and sets the rules about how things are going to go in your love life.

You have to run the process of meeting and getting dates with great women like a business.

Don't count on one woman for success. Go out on the weekend and get 20 numbers, then call them all on Monday and set up dates for the week.

Once you get into a pattern like this, you'll become much more of a "natural" at creating attraction in "hesitant" women like the one you talk about in your email...

... and in EVERY OTHER woman as well.

In fact, just about every man alive can use a refresher in one way or another on how to attract a woman and make a move, so let's quickly review my main concept:

ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE.

This basically means that a woman doesn't consciously CHOOSE to feel attracted to a man.

Attraction happens for reasons that seem very illogical to most men, the biggest among them being what I mentioned above:

Before you make your move with a woman, she needs to feel like you're not easily accessible, at her beck and call, and always around.

Yet what do MOST guys usually do?

They call a woman three times a day... they run errands for her... they and want to see her all the time.

They basically become predictable, expected, and uninteresting instead of ATTRACTIVE. So they get no reaction... or a BAD reaction... when they try to make their move.

Ugh. It's never pretty.

More importantly... this then creates a lack of confidence that spills over into other areas of his life as well.

It blows up into a MAJOR insecurity issue that can cause a lot of problems throughout a man's life.

This is a HUGE deal.

Let's face it... just about everything about how a man feels about himself is tied to his success with women!

More of the fascinating, life-altering details on that here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/onbeingaman.html

Hope it helps.

Then again...

If you USE all of this information, I won't have to "hope" that it helps.

I absolutely *know* that it will.

***QUESTION***

Dear Dave,

I recently got out of a casual dating relationship. This particular girl dumped me and said she wants to be "friends."

She wouldn't let me kiss her on any of our five dates, because of reasons like "spontaneity" and "not knowing me well enough."

What's up?

CR

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Hey CR, there seems to be a lot of this going around today.

"What's up," you ask, when a woman won't kiss you after five dates because "she doesn't know you well enough"?

Geez.

What's a girl have to do, hit you over the head with a 9-iron until you get the message?

How about a hockey stick?

Anyway.

Like I just told GS, the key for becoming more than "just friends" with a woman is this:

Creating the magical emotion called ATTRACTION inside her.

It's all that matters.

Period.

And I could end this answer with that.

But I'm hearing these problems so much that I want to go deeper for every guy who keeps doing the wrong things with women... then wonders why he can't even get a kiss.

If you take nothing else away from this mailbag this week, take away this:

Once you know how to make a woman feel attraction for you, there's nothing she can do about it.

She'll becomes helpless with wanting to be with you.

Hell, she'll even do most of the work to make it happen!

Until you totally accept this fact and live by it, you're doomed to remain the kind of "nice", overly accommodating, uninteresting, predictable, boring guy that no woman wants to "be with", if you get my meaning.

Now listen... I know exactly what you're thinking at this point...

It's the same thing that every lifetime, card- carrying "wuss" tells me when I explain this for the first time...

They tell me that women should be treated like queens... that making them "fall in love" is all about being their "knights in shining armor"... being sensitive and catering to their every whim.

To which I say this:

How's that been working out for you?

But we already know the answer, don't we?

It's leading to women telling you that you lack "spontaneity" and they don't "know you well enough" to get physical with you.

Basically, a fate worse than death.

That's why, CR, I hope that some of this hits home and gets you thinking about taking action to change things.

Otherwise, women will just continue to test you to see if you're the kind of "real man" they want to get physical with -- and when you fail that test, it'll be "game over."

I mean... why do you think so many women end up with "jerks" that you can't believe they're with?

It's because, as a woman begins to feel the "real man" vibe that's usually associated with "jerk" behavior, it stirs certain responses in her.

Responses that cause her to put aside logic and reason in the effort to be with him.

Pay attention, now, CR...

This is why, if you can't pass her tests by responding to her in "real man" ways (e.g: by being confident, unpredictable, cocky & funny, in- control, etc.) then you've got no chance with her.

So, to answer your original question, here's "what's up" CR...

I'd bet the farm that you've been acting like an insecure Wussbag around this woman instead of like a "real man."

You need to STOP DOING THIS.

As in, right now.

But I know... easier said than done, right?

Well guess what...

That's what I used to think, too.

But then I made it my mission to start learning WHAT WORKS to make women feel that irresistible "real man" vibe, and I'm not going to lie:

It took a VERY LONG TIME to figure it out.

It took YEARS to discover how making just a few SIMPLE changes in my behavior with women could CHANGE EVERYTHING for me in both love and LIFE.

And I do NOT want you to have to go through what I did -- those YEARS of experimentation, observation, and research -- to get up to speed on this.

That's why I've pulled together EVERYTHING I learned about becoming the kind of "real man" that women FIGHT each other to be with into one place:

It's my legendary "Man Transformation" program.

If you feel like there's something "missing" in how you feel about yourself (and therefore how you interact with women) then I GUARANTEE it:

Watching my "Man Transformation" program is the place that YOU need to be right now.

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Now get on it, then let me know how it goes.

Oh... and a note to all of you:

Keep sending me those emails, and keep checking back here for my next mailbag answers.

The next one may be EXACTLY what YOU need to hear.

Until then...

Your friend,

David D.

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